Love Lab Live

Michelle Larkin & Edward Fairley

Love Lab Live is where real conversations about love, dating, relationships, and personal growth meet practical relationship practice. Hosted by Michelle Larkin of Queens Moves Coaching and Edward Fairley of Know Love Inc., this podcast creates a warm, honest, and emotionally safe space to unpack what it really takes to build the relationship your future deserves. Each episode blends meaningful conversation, real-life relationship scenarios, mindset shifts, and “lab moments” that help listeners move from patterns to practice. Expect thoughtful dialogue, laughter, truth-telling, and practical tools for singles, couples, and anyone ready to love with more clarity, confidence, and intention. Whether you are healing, dating, rebuilding, or preparing for lasting love, Love Lab Live invites you to stop guessing and start practicing the skills that make healthy love possible.

Episodes

  1. Jul 5

    Come With A Solution

    Building a truly fulfilling relationship isn’t about checking boxes or following societal scripts—it’s about understanding yourself deeply first. If you’re tired of superficial lists, endless dating fatigue, and feeling like you’re chasing love rather than letting it unfold naturally, this episode is your game-changer. Edward and Michelle peel back the layers of what it truly means to build a relationship that lasts, starting from the foundation of self-awareness and authenticity. Discover why most “lists” are built on shaky, superficial ground and learn how to craft your own core values that truly reflect who you are—values that won’t shift with time or trends. Edward emphasizes that the secret to avoiding burnout isn’t hunting for the perfect partner but cultivating organic connections based on shared morals, principles, and mutual respect. Michelle shares insights on how children, family dynamics, and personal growth impact your relationship blueprint, challenging you to reflect on what you really need versus what society expects. You’ll break down: The pitfalls of superficial “non-negotiables” and how to anchor your list in core character traitsHow love and connection grow effortlessly when rooted in authenticity, not performanceThe importance of self-love and fulfillment before entering a relationship to avoid desperation and burnoutPractical strategies for observing true compatibility during dates without putting on a performanceWhy building a relationship should feel natural, like crossing paths rather than chasing a prizeThis episode will shift your perspective from the hustle of dating to the art of creating meaningful, organic connections. Whether you’re single, dating, or looking to deepen a current relationship, understanding these principles will help you avoid wasting time and start building the future you truly deserve. If you’re ready to stop chasing and start cultivating love from within—this episode is essential listening.

    1h 4m
  2. Jul 5

    Chemistry vs Compatibility

    Most people overlook the critical gap between chemistry and compatibility—and it costs them everything. In this eye-opening conversation, Edward Fairley and Michelle Larkin break down how understanding these nuanced elements can transform your relationships. They reveal why relying solely on surface attraction is a fast track to heartbreak, and how shifting focus to deeper values and self-love creates lasting connection and fulfillment. You'll discover: The real meaning of chemistry versus compatibility—and why one can sabotage your love life.How to identify and cultivate emotional safety, so trust and honesty flourish.Practical ways to strengthen your relationship “lab,” from handling external stressors to reading your partner like a pro.The powerful role self-love plays in attracting and maintaining a partner who truly aligns with you.Why superficial “non-negotiables” undermine your future and how to craft a vision of love rooted in depth and intention. This episode isn't just about dating tips—it's a blueprint for building relationships that endure. If you're tired of repeating the same patterns and ready to upgrade your love game, this conversation is your playbook. Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term partnership, understanding the subtle dance between chemistry and compatibility can save you time, heartache, and endless frustration. Perfect for those seeking clarity in love, eager to see love as a reflection of self-respect, and committed to playing the long game of relationship mastery. Your best relationships start with knowing yourself—and this episode guides you there.

    1h 6m
  3. Jul 5

    Love Without Conditions

    Get ready to see love from a new perspective and start building the relationship and life you truly deserve. Most people underestimate how deeply childhood programming influences adult love and conflict. In this eye-opening episode, relationship experts Michelle and Edward expose the unconscious patterns we carry — from distorted communication to norms like tolerating abuse or settling into unfulfilling routines. Their candid dialogue unpacks how assumptions about love, love languages, and normalcy are often rooted in childhood experiences, and how these beliefs shape every argument, expectation, and moment of vulnerability. You'll discover: Why unexamined childhood trauma can turn into relationship triggers and how to spot themThe three core barriers to effective communication, including vocabulary gaps and assumptions about common senseHow perceptions of love as give-and-take often mask manipulation and unreciprocated givingThe importance of defining love for yourself to break free from unhealthy cyclesPractical tools, like simulations and reflection questions, that help identify and uproot hidden baggageThis episode is a must-listen for anyone tired of repeating relationship patterns or feeling stuck in unfulfilling cycles. Without awareness, unresolved issues will continue to sabotage your happiness. But with the right insights, you can begin transforming your relationships into authentic expressions of love and self-awareness. If you're ready to challenge limiting beliefs, decode your emotional triggers, and learn how childhood habits shape your adult love life — this episode delivers the clarity you need. Perfect for singles, couples, and anyone seeking healthier, more meaningful connection.

    59 min

About

Love Lab Live is where real conversations about love, dating, relationships, and personal growth meet practical relationship practice. Hosted by Michelle Larkin of Queens Moves Coaching and Edward Fairley of Know Love Inc., this podcast creates a warm, honest, and emotionally safe space to unpack what it really takes to build the relationship your future deserves. Each episode blends meaningful conversation, real-life relationship scenarios, mindset shifts, and “lab moments” that help listeners move from patterns to practice. Expect thoughtful dialogue, laughter, truth-telling, and practical tools for singles, couples, and anyone ready to love with more clarity, confidence, and intention. Whether you are healing, dating, rebuilding, or preparing for lasting love, Love Lab Live invites you to stop guessing and start practicing the skills that make healthy love possible.