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Why do I attract emotionally unavailable people? Why are the “nice ones” boring to me? I’ve read all the books and even been to therapy, why isn’t my love life changing? Why am I still stuck? Is it just me? Am I cursed in love?

These are the questions that relationship expert and love coach Veronica Grant digs into here on the Love Life Connection. Don’t worry, this podcast isn’t about fixing up your profile for the millionth time or upping your texting game.

Instead, you’ll learn the deeper reasons you attract who you attract so you can heal old wounds, shift limiting beliefs and attract the deep love you desire and deserve.

Each week, you’ll hear Veronica coach callers on how to do the deep work so they can find deep love. She also candidly shares many of her own relationship experiences (*cough nightmares*) so that you can learn from her in a way that feels authentic and genuine, with a healthy dose of humor and tough love.

Listen and subscribe to the show and never feel broken or like you’re the only one ever again.

Love Life Connection Veronica Grant

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    • 4.8 • 195 Ratings

Why do I attract emotionally unavailable people? Why are the “nice ones” boring to me? I’ve read all the books and even been to therapy, why isn’t my love life changing? Why am I still stuck? Is it just me? Am I cursed in love?

These are the questions that relationship expert and love coach Veronica Grant digs into here on the Love Life Connection. Don’t worry, this podcast isn’t about fixing up your profile for the millionth time or upping your texting game.

Instead, you’ll learn the deeper reasons you attract who you attract so you can heal old wounds, shift limiting beliefs and attract the deep love you desire and deserve.

Each week, you’ll hear Veronica coach callers on how to do the deep work so they can find deep love. She also candidly shares many of her own relationship experiences (*cough nightmares*) so that you can learn from her in a way that feels authentic and genuine, with a healthy dose of humor and tough love.

Listen and subscribe to the show and never feel broken or like you’re the only one ever again.

    Your Big Three Astro Signs and How to Know if Someone is Astrologically Compatible with Veronica Perretti

    Your Big Three Astro Signs and How to Know if Someone is Astrologically Compatible with Veronica Perretti

    Choosing dating partners based on compatible zodiac signs is a thing. You’ve probably tried it yourself or seen others with dating profiles specifically requesting partners of certain signs. But contrary to what’s often depicted in the media, astrology isn’t about controlling your fate. It’s not about saying, for example, that you as a Gemini need to date an Aries.
    In today’s show, I’ve invited my friend and astrology expert Veronica Perretti back to the show to talk about astrology! This time we discuss the real truth behind astrology, how the main three signs form the basis of who we are, and how best to use it to figure out romantic compatibility.
    9:48 - Using astrology, for this reason, keeps some people trapped in cycles
    14:14 - How checking your astrology resembles keeping tabs on the weather
    21:04 - Why astrology actually can be a little predictive sometimes
    26:35 - How the big three signs in astrology (sun, moon, and rising) help form your personality
    37:17 - How to know if you’re romantically compatible with another person
    46:31 - Simplifying astrological compatibility to the most basic level
    53:49 - What you need to know about the coming Mars retrograde if you’re a Gemini
    I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!
    Mentioned In This Episode:
    Listen to episode 309 with Sierra. Visit Veronica’s website to get a reading, join her online yoga club or moon membership, and listen to her podcast. You can also follow her on Instagram and download her Astro Cheat Sheet. Get the TimePassages app on mobile to follow your astrology. Join me for the on-demand workshop, The 5-Step Strategy to Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life. If you have it all but love, you can attract a fulfilling partnership and live a life of purpose. Sign up here. Are you done with where you are right now? With my impactful introductory coaching session, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what’s blocking you in love. Learn more about working with me 1 on 1 and schedule your session here. Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

    • 1 hr 5 min
    How to Let Go of Someone Who Isn't Right for You (Even Though It Feels Impossible)

    How to Let Go of Someone Who Isn't Right for You (Even Though It Feels Impossible)

    Are you in a situation where you can’t seem to let go of someone, whether they’re an ex or a potential partner? Or do you treat your love life like the thing that excites you (at all) and a respite from the blah you feel is the rest of your life? Then listen up!
    In today’s episode, I speak with one of my clients, Amy, who’s in what you might call a “situationship.” But as you listen to this conversation, you’ll see how her situation isn’t actually the problem. It’s just a manifestation of the real problem.  
    1:50​ - Something you might notice coming up as you listen to my conversation with Amy
    5:31 - Getting the facts about Amy’s situationship with Drew on the table
    9:00 - Amy describes the part of her that wants to hold on to the situation (and why her attachment to Drew isn’t about him)
    17:32 - My recommendation for Michelle the next time she feels the need to talk to Drew
    20:03 - Something I learned in my health coaching days that can help your inner child
    22:02 - Incorporating excitement in other ways outside of dating and relationships
    32:39 - Reiterating the two real issues I see coming up for Amy regarding her situationship
     
    I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!
    After you listen to How to Let Go of Someone Who Isn't Right for You (Even Though It Feels Impossible), here are your next steps: Check out the Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert and The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron. If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for the waitlist here. Are you done with where you are right now? With my impactful introductory coaching session, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what’s blocking you in love. Learn more about working with me 1 on 1 and schedule your session here. If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

    • 40 min
    How to Let Go of Control and Trust More In Your Love Life

    How to Let Go of Control and Trust More In Your Love Life

    Are you a bit of a control freak? By that, I mean do you try to control everything in your love life (and beyond)? I’m incredibly passionate about letting go of the need to control everything. I consider it a vital part of healing and being on this love journey.
    In this episode, I define what it means to truly surrender, the benefits you derive from it, why people try to control things, what controlling behavior can look like in your love life, and how to overcome it. Along the way, you’ll hear about what I’ve noticed in my own life as well as those of my clients.
    5:00 - What it really means to let go of control
    9:15 - Why the path of letting go is more important than the outcome
    11:42 - Examples of how you might try to inadvertently control things in the dating space
    18:17 - Something to reassure you if you see yourself as overly controlling in your life
    20:51 - Examples illustrating where the need to control things comes from
    24:15 - How to figure out where your need to control comes from
    25:29 - Ways you can overcome control issues and learn to let go
    32:23 - A caveat for the common reaction of “it’s happening for a reason” and other mantras
    38:45 - Why letting go of control is really about getting out of your own way
    I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!
    After you listen to How to Let Go of Control and Trust More In Your Love Life, here are your next steps: Listen to a few previous episodes on inner child work: 197, 234, and 239. Join me for the on-demand workshop, The 5-Step Strategy to Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life. If you have it all but love, you can attract a fulfilling partnership and live a life of purpose. Sign up here. Are you done with where you are right now? With my impactful introductory coaching session, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what’s blocking you in love. Learn more about working with me 1 on 1 and schedule your session here. Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

    • 45 min
    How to Use Tarot, Oracle Cards and Astrology Responsibly to Help You Find Love

    How to Use Tarot, Oracle Cards and Astrology Responsibly to Help You Find Love

    An old client of mine recently got into tarot. We’d worked together a couple of years ago, and she reached out to me for feedback after drawing some cards to help her answer a question about her love life.
    While I’m not a tarot expert, those of you who’ve listened to me for a while (or even just last week’s episode) know I love me some woo-woo, too! So I saw this as the perfect opportunity for a podcast episode.
    In today’s show, Sierra and I discuss her question and what the cards revealed, along with tips and caveats for how to use tarot (or any other spiritual modality you choose) more intuitively and responsibly.
    3:03​ - Beware of this when using spiritual tools
    5:32 - Four questions to keep in mind as you listen
    8:04 - Sierra’s question about the tarot and how she felt about the cards that came up in response
    15:18 - Very helpful tip when interpreting meanings behind cards that come up for you
    18:07 - The response Sierra gets back when she asks her question of her higher self instead
    23:05 - Taking spiritual information and turning it into tangible solutions
    31:08 - The process of how I might use a spiritual tool
    34:55 - How my work with clients resembles working with spiritual modalities
     
    I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!
    After you listen to How to Use Tarot, Oracle Cards and Astrology Responsibly to Help You Find Love, here are your next steps: If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for the waitlist here. Are you done with where you are right now? With my impactful introductory coaching session, you’ll walk away knowing exactly what’s blocking you in love. Learn more about working with me 1 on 1 and schedule your session here. If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

    • 40 min
    Women Supporting Women and Making Long-Term Relationships Work with Rachael McKee

    Women Supporting Women and Making Long-Term Relationships Work with Rachael McKee

    I love oracle cards! I love the many themes, the inspirational meanings, or the self-reflective questions behind them. And today features an interview of someone who’s created her own oracle card deck of which I’m a big fan.
    I don’t even quite remember how I came across Rachael McKee and her Kickstarter campaign, but in this episode, we discuss her deck, the inspiration behind it, and how it emphasizes women supporting women. As a bonus, she also gets into some of the things that made her long-term relationship blossom during a pretty trying time.
    6:15 - A quick story to illustrate the beauty of (and history) behind Rachel’s deck
    12:02 - A preview of next week’s podcast that ties into this episode
    15:16 - Rachael talks about her work, describes her deck, and reveals what inspired the idea
    19:46 - Rachael’s personal experience relating to women and how her deck can help women heal
    23:22 - One unconventional woman’s story you’ve never heard of and her huge impact on social services
    26:22 - How Rachael made her relationship thrive and grow during the pandemic
    30:09 - One of the most important things I’ve learned about maintaining long-term relationships
    31:39 - A connection between business and relationships (and why you might actually be avoiding one for the other)
    33:25 - How Rachael learned to balance her work and her relationship
     
    I hope you enjoyed this episode! Find me on Instagram or email me with your feedback. I look forward to hearing from you!
    After you listen to Women Supporting Women and Making Long-Term Relationships, here are your next steps: Final call to join Love Incubator in 2022! If you want in, email me so we can get on the phone ASAP and see if it’s the right fit. Purchase Rachael’s deck from her Messages From Her website and follow on Instagram @her_messages. Join me for the on-demand workshop, The 5-Step Strategy to Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life. If you have it all but love, you can attract a fulfilling partnership and live a life of purpose. Sign up here. If you are interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection, sign up for my wait list ​here​. Finally, If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

    • 38 min
    How to Set Boundaries, Manage Anxiety, and Not Sabotage a Finally Healthy Relationship

    How to Set Boundaries, Manage Anxiety, and Not Sabotage a Finally Healthy Relationship

    This episode starts off with a common fear I hear from many women in the community: I finally met someone great, how do I not mess it up?  I discuss this very issue today with my caller, Abby. But like usual on the show, there’s a hindrance to her feeling more secure in the relationship. In this case with Abby, it’s rooted in her relationship with her mom.  It’s not that she needs to heal her relationship with her mom, but she needs to set boundaries because it’s bringing out her core wounds.  This is the equivalent of picking off scabs when you’re trying to heal a physical wound.
    Setting boundaries will give Abby the space she needs to have an even better relationship with her mom.  It will also help Abby do the inner child work she needs to do to feel less anxious in her romantic relationship.
    1:19 - An example of something I have been experiencing lately where I need to set a boundary
    5:09 - An introduction to my caller today who’s in a healthy relationship, and is scared she’s sabotaging it
    6:16 - Abby presents her fear
    9:35 - Abby describes her childhood with her mother
    16:30 - My advice to Abby on how to heal her core wound by setting some boundaries
    21:05 - The one place Abby wants to set a boundary with her mother
    26:18 - A tool Abby uses to help ease her anxiety 
    27:23 - My suggestion to help Abby curb her anxiety
    33:10 - A recap of my call with Abby
     
    After you listen to this episode, here are your next steps: Check out my free workshop The 5-Step Strategy To Banish Anxiety and Overwhelm in Your Love Life Ready to explore what working with me is like?  Learn more here. If you are interested in my two-week course, Crappy to Happy to help you quickly discover your love blocks so that you can clear them and find love, without having to spend years in therapy sign up here If you would like more information on my free zoom calls, follow me on Instagram or sign up to my email list on my website Interested in being coached on the Love Live Connection? Learn more here. Are we connected on Instagram? Come tell me WHO you are here! If you get value from the Love Life Connection, please rate & review it on Apple Podcasts. It only takes a sec to impact our ranking + it’ll help other women find our community!

    • 50 min

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195 Ratings

195 Ratings

Carla, MD ,

Brilliant!

I love every episode of the show and can’t wait for the next one to arrive! The topics are so beautifully covered and I always learn so much - thank you So much! 💕

Sasha Pepper ,

Life Changing

I love listening to Veronica. She speaks so much wisdom and truth effortlessly. Everything she says resonates and I walk away with a more clear understanding of myself and the world around me. And her voice is so soothing I legit fall asleep listening to her. Thank you Veronica for the beautiful work that you do ♥️

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Your podcasts always give me inspiration

Thank you for such relatable topics on your podcasts they are extremely important and very much needed - appreciate you!!!!

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