Send a text Join Dr. Sandy To and her glamorous friend Rosita, a confident, successful Chinese-Canadian woman in her early 40s, as they dive deep into what it really means to be single, thriving, and still open to love. Rosita shares her empowering journey: why she’s never used dating apps, how she maintains an active social life despite working from home, the mindset shift that keeps her hopeful (happiness first, love as a bonus), and the realistic challenges of dating in your 40s in Hong Kong and beyond. Discover her top 3 must-haves in a partner (shared values, financial compatibility, ambition & mutual support), non-negotiable deal breakers, why kindness and maturity matter most, and how being a Scorpio influences the depth of connection she craves. From career pivots in finance/real estate to public sector work, art collecting (Nara fans!), sports like pickleball and snowboarding, to her dream of learning DJing—this episode is full of inspiration for women who want to live fully while staying open to the right relationship. Whether you're single in your 30s, 40s, or beyond, this honest, uplifting conversation proves it’s never too late to find love. True love starts with self-love and the right attitude. 💪❤️ Don’t give up—your perfect match could be closer than you think. #DatingInYour40s #SingleWomenOver40 #DatingOver40 #ConfidentSingle #FindingLoveAfter40 #SingleIn40s #WomenOver40 #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #HongKongDating #SuccessfulWomen #MindsetMatters #TrueLove #LawOfAttraction #DatingWithoutApps #Love&LifeSorted 🔑 Key Topics · Confident single life in early 40s: successful career, never married, no regrets from past relationships · Rosita’s background: Hong Kong-born, raised in Canada, postgraduate in London, finance/real estate experience, now in Canadian public sector (business development focus) · Why working from home doesn’t stop meeting people: outgoing personality, networking through work & social events · No online dating apps: prefers organic, in-person connections over random online chats · Core mindset: Enjoy life fully first—love and a partner are a bonus, not the source of happiness (law of attraction + positive attitude) · Dating realities in your 40s: challenges finding never-married men ready to settle, preference for mature/older men (divorcés welcome) · Practical advice for single women over 40: be realistic, drop long checklists, focus on top priorities, be proactive (go out, expand network), don’t blame yourself or life · Final message: Stay open, enjoy the moment, keep hope alive—good things come when you live authentically and positively ✨Let’s sort life, one chat at a time! Wanna chat more? SUBSCRIBE to my FREE NEWSLETTER 👉🏻 https://www.sandyto.com/subscribe Hit the SUBSCRIBE button for this podcast🔔 so you don't miss an episode of Love & Life, Sorted - for your weekly dose of no-BS chats on relationships, family life, self-growth, and modern dating. Follow @drsandyto.podcast on Instagram for more tips and fun stuff! 🤩 New episodes on Tuesdays or Wednesdays! Subscribe to my FREE NEWSLETTER for more tips, advice and insider stuff: https://www.sandyto.com/subscribe Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsandyto.podcast/ Find out your type: https://www.sandyto.com/types-quiz Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@drsandyto.podcast?si=zBhv0QwBnOLkJm2l Love the show? Give it your 5 stars! 😘⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️