Love Like Hell

Rainier Wylde and Kristi Born
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A couple investigates the landscape of modern relationships, exploring their own issues as they reveal how connections are often born, solidify, and at times unravel. Rainier Wylde and Kristi Born (both highly trained as clinical psychotherapists) take an intimate and probing look at the mysteries of committed connections, monogamy, infidelity, marriage, eroticism, forgivingness, attachment and trust. Their story offers a vision of real people taking extraordinary risks, caring courageously and loving like hell.

  1. 07/11/2022

    1. Cultivating Friendship Within Romance

    We can often get so wrapped up in maintaining the longevity of a romantic relationship that we become rigid and fixed in our viewpoints. We create rules and boundaries that get in the way of growth and expansion. When the relationship can truly be based in friendship, there is so much more room for new opportunities and new experiences. Today Kristi and Rainer talk about how important it is to keep that friendship alive for a relationship that’s on fire. In this episode of Love Like Hell: Celebrating our partner’s opportunities in lifeWhat it’s like to put friendship first in a romantic relationshipWhy love can’t be lazyReshaping how we evaluate a successful relationshipCommunicating truthfully to both ourselves and our partners Follow Rainier: Instagram: @rainierwyldeNewsletter Follow Kristi: Instagram: @kristimarieborn Work with Rainer and Kristi This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

  2. 20/06/2022

    16. It Was Good Until it Wasn’t: Remembering Rightly

    Everything in life has an ending. When major parts of our lives end or change, it’s easy to look back and only remember the good or only remember the bad. Remembering rightly takes a conscious effort of looking at multiple points of data and recognizing the perspective and feelings of everyone involved. From that place of remembering rightly, we can move forward in truth. This episode takes a look into the steps to do that. In this episode of Love Like Hell: Why we only remember the bad times Not trusting the past based on present events Differentiating objective vs subjective reality A look into how we create memories Validating another’s perspective  Follow Rainier: Instagram: @rainierwyldeNewsletter Follow Kristi: Instagram: @kristimarieborn Check out Indulgence This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

  3. 13/06/2022

    15. Let’s Talk About Sex

    Sex is the originating source of life. It is such a potency and such a power….and so many of us are so afraid to talk about it. Why is that? This episode dives into the topic of sex. Where did we learn about it, what shapes our perception of it, and why is it such a heavy topic of conversations? Everything gets laid out here. In this episode of Love Like Hell: The first time we talk about sex in relationshipsWhere and how we learn about sex How culture shifts our perception of sex The fear of sexuality Learning to suppress and repress Follow Rainier: Instagram: @rainierwyldeNewsletter Follow Kristi: Instagram: @kristimarieborn This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

  4. 06/06/2022

    14. What is Marriage? Pt 2

    Love is expansive and cannot be placed in a box. Marriage is more nuanced than a simple piece of paper or agreement. There’s depth in the journey and how do we navigate that journey, how do we move forward together. What is the real meaning of marriage? What is the real meaning of love? In this episode, Kristi and Rainier open up about their experiences and everything they learned in this journey. In this episode of Love Like Hell: Uncovering where our beliefs about marriage beganThe societal construct we put around marriage Marriage is dynamic, not staticWanting the best for the relationship even if that means ending itRedefinining the meaning of “commitment” Follow Rainier: Instagram: @rainierwyldeNewsletter Follow Kristi: Instagram: @kristimarieborn This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

  5. 31/05/2022

    13. What is Marriage? Pt 1

    Love is expansive and cannot be placed in a box. Marriage is more nuanced than a simple piece of paper or agreement. There’s depth in the journey and how do we navigate that journey, how do we move forward together. What is the real meaning of marriage? What is the real meaning of love? In this two part episode, Kristi and Rainier open up about their experiences and everything they learned in this journey. In this episode of Love Like Hell: We’re married, now what? The history of marriage: Where did it start?The modern origins of marriage Reflecting on the past to inform future direction Follow Rainier: Instagram: @rainierwyldeNewsletter Follow Kristi: Instagram: @kristimarieborn This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

  6. 12/05/2022

    12. Self-Betrayal

    How often do we find ourselves losing “our self” in relationships? We have a tendency to self sacrifice and betray our own wants and desires for the perceived needs of another. That tendency is a road to self betrayal. It is profoundly important to both mutually and independently trust ourselves and create an atmosphere where our partner can trust themself. Then we can both accept the whole of ourselves and the self in the other. This episode dives into the personal experiences of this type of self betrayal in Kristi and Rainier’s own relationship. In this episode of Love Like Hell: The shadow side of taking responsibilitySelf betrayal as an opportunity for self remembrance Finding the “self” in relationshipEntering relationship to see a reflection of ourselves and not an appreciation for another   Follow Rainier: Instagram: @rainierwyldeNewsletter Follow Kristi: Instagram: @kristimarieborn This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

  7. 03/05/2022

    11. The Real Cost of Resentment

    Resentment can be like an infection. Once it starts, it can grow and worsen over time. The only way to heal it is to look at the issue, clean out the poison that’s crept in, and then start the process of healing. Without looking at our resentment in a relationship, there is no way to begin to even think about forgiveness. So how do we do it? How do we look our partner in the eyes and say “I resent you for this…..you hurt my feelings in this way?” Learn more in today’s episode. In this episode of Love Like Hell: How resentment can compound on itself The relationship between resentment and forgivenessWhere is the line of being too transparentHow unexpressed feelings can create unconscious door stops in relationships The way to addressing resentment Follow Rainier: Instagram: @rainierwyldeNewsletter Follow Kristi: Instagram: @kristimariebornWebsite: kristiborn.com This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

  8. 25/04/2022

    10. When to Forgive

    Forgiveness is a multifaceted process. Anything can be forgivable and there can also be times when forgiveness is not an option, at least in the moment. True forgiveness requires responsibility taking and reverence. Forgiveness is a freedom for all parties involved. This episode dives into the nuances of what it means to forgive and be forgiven. In this episode of Love Like Hell: Redefining the unforgivable sin Redemptive vs. punitive justice The forgiveness process & when is the right time to forgive?True forgiveness requires responsibility takingWhen forgiveness is not the right choice Follow Rainier: Instagram: @rainierwyldeNewsletter Follow Kristi: Instagram: @kristimariebornWebsite: kristiborn.com The Book of Forgiving by ​​Desmond Tutu This show is produced by Soulfire Productions

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A couple investigates the landscape of modern relationships, exploring their own issues as they reveal how connections are often born, solidify, and at times unravel. Rainier Wylde and Kristi Born (both highly trained as clinical psychotherapists) take an intimate and probing look at the mysteries of committed connections, monogamy, infidelity, marriage, eroticism, forgivingness, attachment and trust. Their story offers a vision of real people taking extraordinary risks, caring courageously and loving like hell.

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  • Criado por
    Rainier Wylde and Kristi Born
  • Anos de atividade
    2022
  • Episódios
    18
  • Classificação
    Explícito
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  • Site do podcast
    Love Like Hell