Love On Command

Shay Levister
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Helping professionals end chronic single-itist & manifest love on command with proven scientific techniques without uncertainty and disappointment!❤

  1. 1d ago

    Porch Conversation with CJ: You're Not Broken—You're Blocked

    Have you been protecting your heart from pain without realizing that the same wall may also be blocking love? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ, CJ and I explore spiritual identity, personal healing, energy, manifestation, and what it means to reconnect with the powerful version of yourself beneath your wounds. We discuss why life's challenges may be opportunities for growth and why the journey—not simply the desired result—is essential to your transformation. The lesson is simple but powerful: The heart does not have two doors. You cannot close your heart to pain without also limiting your ability to receive love. You are not broken—you are blocked. When I help you identify and clear those blocks, you can return to the whole, powerful, and loving woman you were always meant to be. You do not need to become someone new to receive healthy love. You need to release the fear, pain, and conditioning preventing you from returning to the truth of who you have always been. — Shay Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™ 🔗 Ready to heal your love blocks? Start at BondingBiology.com. If CJ's message has touched you, don't just watch it—live it. Awaken the light within yourself and your family at CJsLight.com.

  2. Sep 6

    Porch Conversation with CJ: Every Child Has a Gift: How Parents Help Unlock It

    What if your child already carries a unique gift—and your own healing determines whether they feel safe enough to express it? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ, CJ and I explore past-life memories, spiritual gifts, intuitive energy, parenting, self-belief, and the power every child carries within them. CJ shares why certain technology felt instantly familiar to him and what he believes happens when he receives spiritual information. The lesson is simple but powerful: Every child has their own form of genius, but parents must first heal the fear and emotional wounds they may unknowingly pass down. When you raise your child from wholeness instead of fear, you create a safer space for their confidence, gifts, and authentic identity to emerge. Your child does not need to become another CJ. Your child needs the safety, encouragement, and freedom to discover the unique light already living within them. — Shay Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™ 🔗 Ready to heal the love blocks affecting you and your family? Start at BondingBiology.com. Give your child the foundation most adults are still trying to heal from. Start CJ's course today at CJsLight.com.

  3. Aug 30

    Porch Conversation with CJ: Do Children Choose Their Mothers? Love, Fear, and the Soul's Journey

    What if fear, love blocks, and even the family you were born into are all part of your soul's journey toward growth? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ, CJ and I explore what it takes to change your life, why love and money blocks may be connected, and how fear can keep you trapped inside an illusion. We also have a deeply spiritual conversation about God, divine protection, death, motherhood, and CJ's belief that children choose their mothers before birth. The lesson is simple but powerful: You cannot create a different life by giving up your power or waiting for change to happen. You must align your beliefs with your actions, seek the right support, heal the wounds keeping you stuck, and focus your energy on the life and love you want to receive. You do not have to live in fear or remain trapped by the beliefs that shaped your past. You can reclaim your power, heal your internal blocks, and trust that the light within you is greater than anything outside of you. — Shay Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™ 🔗 Ready to heal your love blocks? Start at BondingBiology.com. If CJ's message has touched you, don't just watch it—live it. Awaken the light within yourself and your family at CJsLight.com.

  4. Aug 23

    Porch Conversation with CJ: How Your Thoughts Shape Love, Success, and Reality

    Are the people, thoughts, and beliefs surrounding you shaping the love and life you are creating without you even realizing it? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ, CJ and I explore the connection between your thoughts, energy, relationships, personal growth, and spiritual beliefs. We discuss how the voices you listen to can influence your expectations, why "I am" statements are powerful, and how painful experiences can sometimes awaken the greatness within you. The lesson is simple but powerful: Where your thoughts go, your energy flows. Affirmations alone are not enough—you must also heal the internal patterns, beliefs, and love blocks keeping you from moving forward. When I help you realign your love blueprint, you can stop choosing from fear and become prepared to receive healthy love. You are not defined by what happened to you or by the beliefs other people gave you. You can heal, change your focus, and use everything you have experienced to become more aligned with the love and life you truly desire. — Shay Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™ 🔗 Ready to heal your love blocks? Start at BondingBiology.com. If CJ's message has touched you, don't just watch it—live it. Awaken the light within yourself and your family at CJsLight.com.

  5. Aug 16

    Porch Conversation with CJ: Can Healing Reach Beyond This Life?

    Have you ever wondered whether the pain we carry in life can affect our families—and even our spiritual journey after death? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ, CJ and I explore chakra alignment, healthy love, God, grief, the afterlife, and generational healing. We discuss how each chakra may influence your ability to feel safe, stand in your power, speak your truth, trust your intuition, and give and receive love. The lesson is simple but powerful: Spiritual practices cannot create lasting change when you continue avoiding the internal wounds keeping you stuck. When I help you uncover and heal the origins of your love blocks, you can reconnect with your authentic self, transform painful family patterns, and become aligned with the healthy love you deserve. You do not have to continue carrying pain that began before you. You can heal, reconnect with your truth, and create a new legacy rooted in love. — Shay Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™ 🔗 Ready to heal your love blocks? Start at BondingBiology.com. If CJ's message has touched you, don't just watch it—live it. Awaken the light within yourself and your family at CJsLight.com.

  6. Aug 10

    Porch Conversation with CJ: Feminine Energy, Love Blocks & Seeing Yourself Through Your Own Eyes

    Have you spent your life seeing yourself through other people's judgments instead of recognizing your true worth? In this episode of Porch Conversation with CJ, CJ and I explore how masculine and feminine energy influence dating, attraction, and emotional well-being. We discuss why successful women often overperform in relationships, how childhood conditioning shapes the way you see yourself, and why trying to prove your value can prevent you from receiving the love you deserve. The lesson is simple but powerful: You do not have to perform, pursue, or minimize yourself to be loved. When I help you heal the subconscious patterns controlling your choices, you can reconnect with your authentic self and begin creating the love story you truly desire. CJ and I discuss: Why God represents both masculine and feminine energy How women unintentionally give away their power in dating The emotional cost of carrying the masculine role Why your energy speaks before you say a word How childhood pain creates a "borrowed observer" The difference between receiving love and performing for love Why trying to impress a man can push you out of alignment How emotional blocks affect love and connection Breaking painful cycles after rejection or heartbreak Rewiring the subconscious patterns keeping you stuck You were never meant to prove that you are worthy of love. You were meant to heal, receive, and stand confidently in the truth of who you are. — Shay Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™ 🔗 Ready to heal your love blocks? Start at BondingBiology.com. If CJ's message has touched you, don't just watch it—live it. Awaken the light within yourself and your family at CJsLight.com.

  7. Aug 2

    Porch Conversation with CJ: Pain Is the Portal—Why Heartbreak Leads You to the Love You Were Meant For

    What if the very heartbreak you've been trying to avoid is actually the doorway to the life and love you've been praying for? In this deeply thought-provoking conversation, CJ and I explore one of the greatest paradoxes of life: sometimes the greatest blessings are born from our greatest pain. We discuss why reaching the moment of saying, "I'm done," can become the turning point that shifts your entire timeline and opens the door to something far better. We also dive into powerful spiritual concepts surrounding intention, prayer, surrender, free will, and why trying to force someone to love you can keep you from the love that was always meant for you. Using lessons from a recent movie, personal stories, and CJ's unique perspective, we unpack why God never violates free will—and why surrendering often creates the greatest miracles. In this episode you'll discover: Why heartbreak creates clarity. How pain can become your greatest teacher. The danger of chasing one specific person. Why surrender attracts better than control. The spiritual importance of honoring free will. How loneliness can become the beginning of transformation. Why gratitude creates momentum out of emotional darkness. What "Amen" and "And so it is" symbolize in prayer and intention. Why you are already enough, exactly as you are. How opening yourself to receive allows love to finally find you. If you've been feeling stuck, lonely, heartbroken, or wondering why love hasn't happened yet, this conversation is an invitation to stop fighting your journey and begin trusting where it's leading you. Sometimes the timeline you're desperate to leave is the very thing preparing you for the one you've been praying for. ❤️ Heal Your Love Patterns https://www.bondingbiology.com ✨ Learn More from CJ https://www.cjslight.com 📲 Follow Shay Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shayyourlovediva Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shayyourlovediva TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@shayyourlovediva 📺 Subscribe for More Conversations https://www.youtube.com/@ShayYourLoveDiva If this episode inspired you, please like, subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear this message. Thank you for being part of our community! Shay, Your Love Diva Founder, Bonding Biology Institute™

  8. Jul 27

    Porch Conversation with CJ: The Hidden Love Blocks Keeping You Stuck

    In this episode of Love on Command: Porch Conversation with CJ, I sit down with CJ for one of our deepest conversations yet about why some people keep attracting painful relationships while others experience healthy, lasting love. Together, we explore the connection between the way you treat yourself and the relationships you attract. We talk about how childhood experiences shape your subconscious beliefs, why high-achieving women can be incredibly successful yet still struggle in love, and how unresolved emotional pain can become both a gift and a barrier. CJ also shares a simple manifestation practice using two trees as a symbolic portal to help you intentionally focus on the life, love, and future you want to create. We discuss the importance of clarity, emotion, gratitude, and aligning your inner world before expecting your outer world to change. If you've ever wondered why the same relationship patterns keep repeating—or how to finally step into a healthier timeline for your life and relationships—this conversation will give you a new perspective. Whether you're healing from heartbreak, looking for lasting love, or simply seeking greater peace and alignment, this Porch Conversation offers powerful spiritual insight and practical wisdom to help you move forward. Learn more at: https://bondingbiology.com If you'd like to explore more of CJ's teachings, including his course Awakening the God Within, visit https://CJsLight.com

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Helping professionals end chronic single-itist & manifest love on command with proven scientific techniques without uncertainty and disappointment!❤

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  • Creator
    Shay Levister
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    99
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    Copyright© 2019, Shay Better, LLC, ALL RIGHT RESERVED
  • Show Website
    Love On Command