Love Under Construction

Love Under Construction
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Love Isn't Perfect—It's Under Construction! Melanie Bonk and Alex Hanson are two real-life moms navigating love, intimacy, and the chaos of everyday life. Melanie is a somatic sex therapist helping couples reignite the spark and deepen intimacy, while Alex is a real estate agent and design expert bringing her lens of home, space, and renovation into the conversation. Love Under Construction is a podcast for couples who want to reconnect, reignite desire, and build a relationship that actually feels good inside and outside the bedroom.

Episodes

  1. 1d ago

    Discussing Your Needs in Relationship

    Most relationships do not lose connection in one dramatic moment. More often, we slowly drift. The kids need something. Work gets busy. The laundry keeps multiplying. Stress, schedules, hormones, and the mental load take up so much space that deeper conversations keep getting pushed to another day. It is not always that the love is gone. Sometimes, the loudness of life has simply started drowning out the desire. In Episode 12 of Love Under Construction, Mel and Alex talk about the systems that help us stay connected, including our nervous systems, communication patterns, and the physical spaces where vulnerable conversations happen. They also share a simple practice that helps us move beyond talking only about what is wrong and begin naming what we truly want, what feels vulnerable, and what we still appreciate about one another. “People aren’t broken. It’s the systems.” In This Episode, We Explore: • Why disconnection often happens as a slow, subtle drift • How stress and survival mode can bury desire • Why loving each other is not always enough to keep us feeling connected • How our nervous systems influence communication and intimacy • Why many of us can easily name what we do not want but struggle to name what we desire • How the Desires, Fears, and Loves practice creates space for vulnerability • Why the environment matters when we are having intimate conversations A Practice to Try Together Desires, Fears, and Loves Choose a quiet moment when neither of you is rushing or distracted. Take turns completing these three sentences: “I desire…” “I fear…” “I love…” The person listening does not need to fix, defend, or immediately respond. The goal is to receive what your partner is sharing with curiosity and care. Create the Right Container The kids screaming, the dog barking, and two phones lighting up beside you probably will not create the safest space for vulnerability. Choose a room that feels calm and private. Lower the lights, put the phones away, and give the conversation your full attention. Sometimes the first step toward deeper intimacy is simply creating a space where honesty can land. Reflection Question “What have I been hoping my partner would understand without me having to say it out loud?” Meet Your Hosts Melanie Bonk Certified Somatic Sexuality & Relationship Coach helping individuals and couples reconnect to intimacy, pleasure, emotional safety, and deeper connection through somatic and pleasure-based practices. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bonkbetter/ Website: https://melaniebonk.com Alex Hanson Real estate agent and interior design expert who believes our homes can support deeper connection, nervous system regulation, beauty, and intimacy. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pressescstudio/ Website: https://www.pressesc.co Want More Love Under Construction? Follow the podcast on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveunderconstruction.podcast/ Share this episode with your partner or a friend who wants to have more honest conversations about connection, desire, and intimacy. Screenshot and tag us so we can see you listening. Subscribe and leave a review so we can reach more people who are ready to rebuild their love lives.

  2. Jul 23

    Get Out of Your Head and Back Into Your Body.

    What if the answer to intimacy is not to think harder about the solution? What if the next step is to come back to the body? In this episode of Love Under Construction, Alex comes into the conversation holding anxiety around a home closing, an upcoming move, family logistics, and the exhaustion of being “on” for several days. Instead of trying to talk her way out of the anxiety, Mel guides us through a grounding somatic practice using breath, body awareness, visualization, and radical acceptance. This episode is an invitation to pause, notice what is already happening inside the body, and stop judging ourselves for what we feel or do not feel. We touch on: How anxiety, uncertainty, and exhaustion can pull us out of our bodiesWhat the felt sense is and why it mattersHow breath and grounding can help the mind restWhy tension, numbness, or disconnection do not mean we are doing it wrongThe difference between forcing a feeling and noticing what is already thereHow nervous system safety supports vulnerable conversations, connection, and pleasureWhy practices work best when they respect our current capacity Plus, Mel guides us through a practice listeners can follow along with in real time. This episode also explores why feeling safe inside the body matters for relationships. Meet Your Hosts Melanie Bonk Certified Somatic Sexuality & Relationship Coach helping individuals and couples reconnect to intimacy, pleasure, emotional safety, and deeper connection through somatic and pleasure-based practices. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bonkbetter/ Website: https://melaniebonk.com Alex Hanson Real estate agent and interior design expert who believes our homes can support deeper connection, nervous system regulation, beauty, and intimacy. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pressescstudio/ Website: https://www.pressesc.co

  3. Jul 16

    Netflix Is Not a Date: Why Dead Date Nights Lead to Dead Bedrooms

    What if your “date night” is not actually helping you reconnect? In this episode of Love Under Construction, Mel and Alex talk about one of the most common relationship routines so many of us fall into: calling Netflix a date night. And listen, we love a good show! We love snacks on the couch. We love getting wrapped up in a series together. We definitely understand the betrayal of someone watching the next episode without us. But when Netflix becomes the only version of date night we have, connection can slowly start to fade. Because sitting next to each other and watching something else is not the same thing as turning toward each other. “Dead date nights, dead bedrooms.” Why Netflix is not really a date How couples can confuse routine with connection Why facing the same screen is different from facing each other How passive stimulation can replace real engagement Why nervous system safety grows through interaction How dead date nights can contribute to dead bedrooms The difference between resting together and truly reconnecting Plus, we talk about why cozy routines are not the problem. The problem is when they become the only way we spend intentional time together. This episode is not about shaming anyone for watching TV with their partner. A Wednesday night show can be perfect. The issue is when “Netflix and chill” becomes the main way we try to meet the need for connection. When all of our energy is facing the screen, we may not actually be creating the kind of engagement that helps the body soften and feel safe with each other. Real connection usually asks for some level of interaction. Eye contact.Conversation.Touch.Play.Curiosity.Presence. Those moments tell the nervous system, “This is my safe person. I can unwind here.” That is what opens the door to more pleasure, intimacy, and closeness. “When was the last time we had a date night where our energy was facing each other instead of a screen?” Certified Somatic Sexuality & Relationship Coach helping individuals and couples reconnect to intimacy, pleasure, emotional safety, and deeper connection through somatic and pleasure-based practices. Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/bonkbetter/ Website:https://melaniebonk.com Real estate agent and interior design expert who believes our homes can support deeper connection, nervous system regulation, beauty, and intimacy. Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/pressescstudio/ Website:https://www.pressesc.co Follow the podcast on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/loveunderconstruction.podcast/ Share this episode with your partner or a friend who's over Netflix "date nights." Subscribe and leave a review so we can reach more people who are ready to rebuild their love life.

  4. Jul 9

    The Bathroom Effect — Why Couples Who Groom Together Stay Together.

    What if one of the most intimate rooms in your home is not the bedroom? What if it is the bathroom? In this episode of Love Under Construction, Mel and Alex talk about the surprising relationship power of shared space, especially the everyday moments that happen while brushing teeth, reaching for towels, doing skincare, getting ready for the day, or winding down at night. Connection is not only built through grand romantic gestures. Sometimes, it's built while standing next to each other at the sink when you brush your teeth. In this episode, we explore how design can either bring couples closer or quietly create more separation. We also talk about why grooming, proximity, scent, touch, and shared rituals matter more than we may realize. “Connection isn’t built in grand romantic gestures. It’s built while brushing your teeth together.” In This Episode, We Explore: Why shared bathroom space can create more everyday intimacyHow design choices can either invite connection or create separationWhy grooming is a bonding behavior in both humans and animalsHow small bathroom moments become micro-moments of connectionWhy real intimacy is not always glamorousHow shared space helps couples stay connected in long-term relationshipsWhy luxury does not always have to mean more separationPlus, we talk about simple design shifts that can make your bathroom feel more connected, comfortable, and usable for two people. Meet Your Hosts Melanie Bonk Certified Somatic Sexuality & Relationship Coach helping individuals and couples reconnect to intimacy, pleasure, emotional safety, and deeper connection through somatic and pleasure-based practices. Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/bonkbetter/ Website:https://melaniebonk.com Alex Hanson Real estate agent and interior design expert who believes our homes can support deeper connection, nervous system regulation, beauty, and intimacy. Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/pressescstudio/ Website:https://www.pressesc.co Want More Love Under Construction? Follow the podcast on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/loveunderconstruction.podcast/ Share this episode with your partner or a friend who loves real conversations about relationships and home. Screenshot and tag us so we can see you listening. Subscribe and leave a review so we can reach more people who are ready to rebuild their love life.

  5. Jun 25

    Bringing Pleasure Back to a Dead Bedroom

    What if the first step to bringing pleasure back into your relationship is not asking your partner to do something different? What if it starts with coming back to your own body? In this episode of Love Under Construction, we talk about what happens when pleasure starts to feel distant, awkward, or unavailable. Because when we feel disconnected from our own bodies, it can be really hard for partnered pleasure to feel alive. We also explore the old stories many of us inherited about pleasure, especially women’s pleasure, and how those stories can create shame, pressure, and disconnection. Pleasure is not something someone else has to unlock for us. It is something we get to remember, reclaim, and build from within. “Pleasure is sourced from within.” Why partnered pleasure can feel hard when we feel disconnected from our own bodies What it means to think of pleasure as a self-resource How shame and old conditioning can impact intimacy Why discomfort can be part of reconnecting to pleasure The connection between body awareness and desire How design and intimacy both begin with knowing how we want to feel Why we cannot rebuild pleasure without first understanding what we want to experience Plus, a powerful reminder that pleasure does not have to be placed entirely in someone else’s hands. One of the biggest takeaways from this episode is that we cannot expect partnered pleasure to feel alive if we are disconnected from ourselves. That does not mean anything is wrong with us. It means our bodies may be asking us to slow down, listen, and rebuild our relationship with sensation, desire, and self-trust. So many of us were taught that pleasure was too much, inappropriate, selfish, or only acceptable in certain circumstances. This episode invites us to question those stories. Alex brings in a beautiful design parallel: Before we redesign a home, we have to understand how we want to live in it. The same is true with pleasure. Before we try to “fix” a dead bedroom, we have to ask: How do we actually want to feel? Safe? Playful? Desired? Relaxed? Powerful? Open? That feeling becomes the foundation. “What would pleasure feel like if it started with my own body instead of waiting for someone else to create it for me?” Meet Your Hosts Melanie Bonk Certified Somatic Sexuality & Relationship Coach helping individuals and couples reconnect to pleasure, intimacy, emotional safety, and deeper connection through somatic and pleasure-based practices. Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/bonkbetter/ Website:https://melaniebonk.com Alex Hanson Interior design expert and real estate agent passionate about creating spaces that support beauty, nervous system regulation, intimacy, and connection. Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/pressescstudio/ Website:https://www.pressesc.co Want More Love Under Construction? Follow the podcast on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/loveunderconstruction.podcast/ Share this episode with your partner or a friend who is ready to reconnect with pleasure. Screenshot and tag us so we can see you listening. Subscribe and leave a review so we can reach more people who are ready to rebuild their love life.

  6. Jun 18

    Under Construction: Getting to Know Your Hosts

    Have you ever realized you’re showing up for everyone else’s growth while still figuring things out yourself? That’s exactly what happened in this episode. After spending the first several episodes talking about relationships, intimacy, connection, and home life, we realized something funny: we hadn’t really introduced ourselves. So this week, we’re turning the microphones on each other and sharing the stories, experiences, beliefs, and relationship lessons that shaped who we are today.   This conversation is honest, personal, and full of the little moments that make us human. Because Love Under Construction includes us, too. “Love isn’t something you find once… it’s something you keep building.”   In This Episode, We Explore: How Melanie’s own marriage and life experiences led her into intimacy and relationship coaching Why Alex believes our homes impact our relationships more than we realize What safety, connection, and belonging mean to each of us The relationship myths we grew up believing What tends to shut us down emotionally The personal growth work we’re still navigating ourselves A rapid-fire round that reveals a few things you might not expect about us   One of the themes that emerged throughout this conversation was trust. Many of us feel safest when words and actions match. Consistency builds emotional safety in a way grand gestures never can.   Meet Your Hosts Melanie Bonk Certified Somatic Sexuality & Relationship Coach helping individuals and couples reconnect to their bodies, their desire, and each other through somatic, pleasure-based practices and soulful communication. Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/bonkbetter/ Bonk Better Date Night Membership:https://melaniebonk.com/date-night-subscription/ Alex Hanson Real estate agent and interior design expert who believes our homes can support deeper connection, nervous system regulation, beauty, and intimacy. Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/pressescstudio/ Shop Press ESC:https://www.pressesc.co

  7. Jun 11

    Your relationship is a home! Is it time to patch some cracks or add a whole new wing?

    Have you ever looked at the person you love and wondered when the connection started to fade? Disconnection rarely happens overnight. It often begins with small, almost invisible leaks:' Feelings we don’t express. Appreciation left unsaid. Conversations reduced to logistics. The pleasure pushed aside. Then one day, we realize we haven’t truly felt each other in a while. In this episode of Love Under Construction, we explore the emotional, logistical, and erotic patterns that quietly drain intimacy. We discuss how emotional conditioning affects men, what happens when couples become household managers instead of lovers, and why pleasure, movement, and creativity help keep connection alive. Because relationships don’t always need a complete rebuild. Sometimes we just need to find the leak. Why emotional expression strengthens long-term intimacy How men are often taught to suppress emotions What happens when conversations focus only on tasks and responsibilities How small leaks can lead to resentment and disconnection Why pleasure, movement, and somatic connection matter How creativity and sensuality support erotic energy Simple practices you can try with your partner tonight. Instead of asking, “What’s wrong with us?” ask: “Where are we leaking energy right now?” This shifts the conversation from blame to curiosity. The leak might be emotional, logistical, or rooted in a lack of play, pleasure, or touch. Once you identify it, you can start addressing it. When life gets busy, conversations often revolve around schedules, errands, and responsibilities. But when every conversation feels like a meeting, the relationship can start to feel like a business partnership. Set aside 10 minutes with one rule: No logistics. Ask questions like: “What have you been feeling lately?” “What do you miss about us?” “What would feel good this week?” "Where are we leaking energy right now, and what would help us feel more connected this week?" Meet Your Hosts Melanie Bonk - Certified Somatic Sexuality & Relationship CoachInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/bonkbetter/Website: https://melaniebonk.com Alex Hanson - Interior design expert passionate about creating spaces that support intimacy and connection.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pressescstudio/Website: https://www.pressesc.co

  8. Jun 4

    The Mama Mojo Episode — When You’re Touched Out and Desire Feels Far Away

    Have you ever spent the entire day being touched, needed, interrupted, and asked for one more thing… only to wonder why your body doesn’t want one more touch at night? This episode is not a “What’s wrong with me?” episode. It’s a “Nothing is wrong with you” episode. In this episode of Love Under Construction, Mel and Alex talk honestly about what it feels like to be touched out, overstimulated, overworked, and under-cared for as a parent. Sometimes, your libido is not gone. Your body is simply asking for enough space to feel like your own again. “Your mojo isn’t gone. It’s just waiting for space.” What touch fatigue can feel like in the body Why desire does not always work on demand How nervous system overwhelm affects libido, confidence, and connection Why feeling sexy requires spaciousness instead of pressure The difference between sexual touch and nourishing touch How small acts of care can become foreplay Why asking for help does not make us weak or less capable How self-love rituals help us come home to ourselves Plus, practical shifts we can try before expecting ourselves to move into intimacy. When we have spent the day inside our heads, managing schedules, solving problems, and responding to everyone else’s needs, it can be difficult to suddenly drop into our bodies. A somatic reset can be as simple as: Shaking out the hands and arms Tapping the body Dancing to one song Taking a slow breath and exhaling with a sigh Placing one hand on the heart and one hand on the lower belly Naming what we physically feel without trying to change it The goal is not performance. The goal is presence. Self-love does not have to be sexual. It can look like taking a shower, drinking coffee in silence, wrapping up in a soft blanket, rolling out sore muscles, moving the body, or claiming five uninterrupted minutes alone. These small moments help us remember that our bodies are not only here to care for everyone else. Sometimes the sexiest question is not: “Do you want to have sex?” It is: “How can I support you?” When we feel seen, cared for, and witnessed in the reality of our day, connection has more room to emerge naturally. Certified Somatic Sexuality & Relationship Coach helping individuals and couples reconnect to their bodies, their desire, and each other through somatic, pleasure-based practices and soulful communication. Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/bonkbetter/ Bonk Better Date Night Membership:https://melaniebonk.com/date-night-subscription/ Real estate agent and interior design expert who believes our homes can support deeper connection, nervous system regulation, beauty, and intimacy. Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/pressescstudio/ Shop Press ESC:https://www.pressesc.co Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveunderconstruction.podcast/ Share this episode with a partner, parent, or friend who needs the reminder Screenshot and tag us so we can see you listening Subscribe so you don't miss future episodes

  9. May 28

    Bedroom Bootcamp: Sexy Design Hacks for More Connection

    What if better intimacy doesn’t require more time… What if it just requires more presence? In this episode of Love Under Construction, we unpack why quickies get such a bad reputation — and why fast love can still be deeply connected love. Because most of us are busy.We’re working, parenting, cleaning, building businesses, and trying to survive everyday life. And somewhere along the way, many of us started believing intimacy only “counts” if it’s long, elaborate, perfectly timed, and ends in orgasm. But connection doesn’t have to look perfect to matter. “Arrival matters more than duration.” In this episode, we explore: Why quickies often feel rushed or disconnected How nervous system safety impacts pleasure Why pressure kills intimacy The difference between rushing and intentional presence How environment and design affect connection Simple rituals that help the body relax faster Plus, practical shifts you can try tonight. Melanie shares a simple connection practice: Make eye contact Take one deep breath together Each answer:“What I’m craving right now is…”“What I can offer right now is…” That’s it. A tiny moment that helps the nervous system shift back into connection. Alex shares a quick design reset: Toss clutter off the bed Turn off harsh overhead lights Turn on one warm lamp or candle Pull back the covers with intention Because your body notices cues before your mind does. “What helps us feel chosen by each other during busy seasons of life?” MEET YOUR HOSTS Melanie Bonk Certified Somatic Sexuality & Relationship Coach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bonkbetter/ Website: https://melaniebonk.com Alex Hanson Interior design expert passionate about creating spaces that support intimacy and connection. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pressescstudio/ Website: https://www.pressesc.co

  10. May 21

    Your Bedroom is Killing Your Sex Life!

    What if the biggest intimacy killer in your relationship isn’t your partner… What if it’s your environment? In this episode of Love Under Construction, Mel and Alex unpack the surprising connection between our bedrooms, nervous systems, emotional safety, and desire. Because most of us are trying to create connection inside spaces filled with stress cues, unfinished tasks, harsh lighting, clutter, and constant reminders to stay productive. And our bodies feel all of it. “Pleasure doesn’t come from effort. It comes from cues.” In this episode, we explore: Why clutter kills desire How our nervous systems respond to our environment The emotional impact of overstimulating spaces Why bedrooms often become work zones instead of intimacy zones How lighting, texture, scent, and softness affect connection The relationship between emotional safety and pleasure Why intentional spaces help create intentional intimacy Plus, practical shifts we can try tonight. This episode explores how our environments constantly communicate messages to our body.Warm lighting, clean sheets, calming scents, soft textures, and intentional design help create cues for: Relaxation Safety Connection Playfulness Rest Mel also introduces the concept of creating intentional emotional safety through communication and mutual care. When both partners feel emotionally seen, appreciated, safe, and supported, intimacy becomes easier to access. Not forced.Not pressured.Designed together. “What would help our bedroom feel more like a sanctuary and less like a stress zone?” Meet Your Hosts Melanie Bonk Certified Somatic Sexuality & Relationship Coach helping individuals and couples reconnect to intimacy, pleasure, and emotional connection through somatic and pleasure-based practices. Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/bonkbetter/ Website:https://melaniebonk.com Alex Hanson Interior design expert and real estate agent passionate about creating environments that support intimacy, nervous system regulation, and connection. Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/pressescstudio/ Website:https://www.pressesc.co Want More Love Under Construction? Follow the podcast on Instagram Share this episode with our partner or bestieScreenshot + tag us so we can see you listening Subscribe so we don’t miss future episodes Our relationships may be under construction…But connection is still possible. Let’s rebuild it together.

  11. May 14

    You’re Not Falling Out of Love, You’re Just Drowning in Laundry

    Why do so many couples feel disconnected even when they still deeply love each other? In this episode of Love Under Construction, Melanie and Alex unpack the slow drift that happens in long-term relationships when stress, schedules, parenting, hormones, mental load, and yes… laundry start taking over everyday life. Because the truth is: Most couples don’t disconnect because they stopped loving each other. They disconnect because survival mode gets louder than desire. When your nervous system is overwhelmed, intimacy often becomes one more thing on the to-do list instead of a place of connection, softness, and repair. “People aren’t broken. The systems are.” In this episode, we explore: Why stress is one of the biggest killers of desire How nervous system overwhelm impacts intimacy The “maintenance” relationships actually need Why couples slowly drift instead of suddenly disconnecting The shift from dopamine-driven passion to oxytocin bonding Why communication creates emotional and physical intimacy The powerful Desires, Fears & Loves practice Plus, practical shifts you can try with your partner tonight. Melanie shares one of her favorite relationship tools inspired by her mentor, Tantra and Intimacy Caoch Leila Martin. Instead of only focusing on stress, frustration, or what’s not working, couples learn how to reconnect through honest conversations around: What they desire What they fear What they love Because many couples spend so much time surviving that they lose touch with what they actually want. This episode also explores how survival mode impacts communication, intimacy, and connection. When your nervous system feels overwhelmed: Desire decreases Communication shortens Emotional connection weakens Intimacy becomes harder to access Learning how to create safety, softness, and intentional connection matters more than perfection. “What would help us feel more connected right now… emotionally, physically, and inside our home?” Your Show Hosts Melanie Bonk Certified Somatic Sexuality & Relationship Coach helping individuals and couples reconnect to their bodies, desire, intimacy, and emotional connection through somatic and pleasure-based practices. Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/bonkbetter/ Website:https://melaniebonk.com Alex Hanson Real estate agent and interior design expert who believes your home environment directly impacts your nervous system, connection, and intimacy. Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/pressescstudio/ Website:https://www.pressesc.co Want More Love Under Construction? Follow the podcast on InstagramShare this episode with your partner or bestieScreenshot + tag us so we can see you listeningSubscribe so you don’t miss future episodes Your relationship may be under construction…But connection is still possible. Let’s rebuild it — together 💛

  12. May 5

    Why Your Bedroom Feels “Dead”, and How to Bring It Back to Life!

    Why does your bedroom feel more like a laundry room than a love nest? In this first episode of Love Under Construction, Melanie and Alex get real about what’s actually happening in modern relationships and why intimacy often takes a back seat to laundry piles, to-do lists, kids, and everyday chaos. Because let’s be honest… When your bedroom is filled with clutter, stress, and unfinished tasks, it’s hard to feel sexy, present, or, most importantly, connected! “It’s not that desire disappears… it just gets buried under the pile of things to do.” In this episode, we explore: How everyday life (laundry, clutter, mental load) quietly kills desire Why your environment directly impacts your ability to feel pleasure The connection between a cluttered space and a cluttered mind How “sex” slowly becomes just another item on the to-do list The difference between mom mode and lover mode — and why they need separation Why creating a sensual environment isn’t a luxury… It’s necessary Plus, practical shifts you can try with your partner tonight like... A 5-Minute Reset practice that will have you shocked at how quickly the energy in your bedroom shifts The 5 senses upgrade you didn’t know your bedroom needed that incorporates sight, smell, taste, touch, and sound.  The Bedroom Reframe that will take your bedroom from just a place to sleep to a space where you can be lovers again — not just parents, coworkers, or roommates. Listen Now for all of the juicy insights! Meet Your Hosts Melanie Bonk Certified Somatic Sexuality & Relationship Coach helping individuals and couples reconnect to their bodies, their desire, and each other through somatic, pleasure-based practices and soulful communication. Follow Melanie on  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bonkbetter/ Join the signature Bonk Better Date Night Membership Program at https://melaniebonk.com/date-night-subscription/ Alex Hanson  Real estate agent and Interior design expert who believes your home isn’t just where you live — it’s where your relationship either thrives or slowly disconnects. Alex brings a powerful lens on how environment shapes connection, mood, and intimacy. Follow Alex on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pressescstudio/ Shop all of your DIY design needs at  www.pressesc.co Want more Love Under Construction? • Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveunderconstruction.podcast/ • Share this episode with your partner or bestie • Screenshot + tag us to let us know you’re a listener — we LOVE seeing you here Your bedroom may be under construction… But your love doesn’t have to be. Let’s rebuild it — together!

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Love Isn't Perfect—It's Under Construction! Melanie Bonk and Alex Hanson are two real-life moms navigating love, intimacy, and the chaos of everyday life. Melanie is a somatic sex therapist helping couples reignite the spark and deepen intimacy, while Alex is a real estate agent and design expert bringing her lens of home, space, and renovation into the conversation. Love Under Construction is a podcast for couples who want to reconnect, reignite desire, and build a relationship that actually feels good inside and outside the bedroom.

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    Love Under Construction
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
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