Yes I am a wife and a women, but I am searching for an outlet for my husband to learn from. And this constantly what we are seeing in men’s groups like this. That all men are lusting after sex. What about the men who have been hurt by the Catholic church in their childhood and are overly carful around sex and ended up disregarding his needs. And now that he is in a marriage, we are both struggling with the fact that he doesn’t yearn for me in that way. Or allows himself to very rarely. We need help and guidance for men who have been hurt by the church and how to strengthen your sex life in your marriage.