Manhood Tribes

Don Ross

Become the man God created you to be. Manhood Tribes is all about becoming an extraordinary man by building a life-changing group of men around you. Join host Don Ross as we discuss how to tackle the major challenges in men's lives and be the best man you can be.

  1. 17H AGO

    When People Don't Follow You, Do These 3 Things

    Men often feel frustrated when their leadership isn't valued in the workplace or family. We discuss how to gain respect and how to earn respect, emphasizing the importance of effective communication skills. Learn how to be a leader that inspires trust and follow-through, navigating masculinity and leadership with strength and purpose. 💪 If you’ve ever stayed silent, avoided conflict, or wondered if your leadership even matters, this episode will help you take the next step. We walk through three powerful shifts that can help you lead with clarity, confidence, and impact: - Why passivity is the biggest enemy of male leadership - The difference between blaming others and taking responsibility - Why staying silent often makes things worse - How to step into leadership even when it’s uncomfortable - The three shifts that make people actually want to follow you ------------------------------ 📝 Take the Quiz: How Manly Are You? https://bit.ly/3Pfx7SA Find out how manly you really are and see where you stand compared to other men 📖 Get the Book: How To Be a Man https://amzn.to/4cm2epl Discover the 5 Marks of Manhood and start leading with strength and purpose ----------------------------- #ManhoodTribes #Leadership #ChristianMen #MensGrowth #Masculinity ----------------------------- Episode 072: Lead Like a Man: 3 Shifts for Greater Impact Timestamps 00:00 Introduction 01:00 Why leadership doesn’t always land 03:00 The real problem: passivity 06:00 Why men avoid stepping up 08:00 Story: leading in finances and family 10:00 Shift 1: Don’t be passive, take action 12:00 Shift 2: Don’t be a victim, take responsibility 15:00 Shift 3: Don’t be silent, take a stand 18:00 Why courage matters in leadership 19:30 How leadership actually brings peace 21:00 Wrap up and comment prompt 💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

    22 min
  2. APR 28

    Christian Men Are Getting This Wrong About Faith

    Most men admit their faith isn't as strong as they'd like, and this video explores why. We dive into the challenges men face in prioritizing spiritual growth, offering biblical wisdom to help trust God. Discover practical ways to navigate these 'hard times' and strengthen your connection. A tribe of men can challenge you, support you, and help you grow spiritually in ways that isolated faith never will. In this episode we cover: - Why many men’s faith becomes private and starts to fade - The difference between routine spiritual habits and real spiritual life - How brotherhood strengthens your faith like a shield wall in battle - Why spiritual disciplines are actually preparation to fight for other men - How a tribe helps you develop a vibrant, active relationship with Jesus --------------------------- 📝 Take the Quiz: How Manly Are You? https://bit.ly/3Pfx7SA Find out how manly you really are and see where you stand compared to other men 📖 Get the Book: How To Be a Man https://amzn.to/4cm2epl Discover the 5 Marks of Manhood and start living with purpose today --------------------------- #ManhoodTribes #ChristianMen #MensFaith #Brotherhood #BuildYourTribe --------------------------- Episode 071: Christian Men Are Getting This Wrong About Faith Timestamps 00:00 Introduction 01:00 Why men struggle to prioritize their faith 03:00 How faith becomes private and starts to fade 06:00 Why routine spiritual habits often feel lifeless 09:00 Why men grow through action and challenge 11:00 The “shield wall” analogy for brotherhood 15:00 Spiritual disciplines as training for battle 16:00 Connecting to Jesus vs. religious routines 18:30 Why most men’s groups fail 19:00 Build Your Own Tribe program 20:00 Wrap up and comment prompt 💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

    21 min
  3. APR 21

    Marriages Don't Explode, They Fade—Here's What to Do

    Your marriage isn't likely to end in a dramatic explosion; instead, it could slowly erode over time. What starts as love and passion can gradually shift into boredom and disinterest, leading to faded love. Understanding why most marriages fail often comes down to recognizing this subtle process, offering crucial relationship advice for those looking to build lasting connections. - Why most marriages fade through distance and routine rather than crisis - How a tribe of men helps you face hard truths about yourself - Why listening to God together can bring wisdom and direction for your marriage ----------------------------- 📝 Take the Quiz: How Manly Are You? https://bit.ly/3Pfx7SA See how manly you really are and discover where you stand compared to other men 📖 Get the Book: How To Be a Man https://amzn.to/4cm2epl Discover the 5 Marks of Manhood and start living with purpose and integrity today ----------------------------- #ManhoodTribes #MensGroups #ChristianMen #Marriage #BuildYourTribe ----------------------------- Episode 070: How a Tribe Can Save Your Marriage Timestamps 00:00 Introduction 01:00 Why marriages usually fade instead of exploding 03:00 Autopilot, routine, and slow marital drift 05:00 Why men cannot fix marriage problems alone 07:00 Two real stories from a tribe 10:00 Getting brutally honest with your brothers 12:00 Focusing on yourself instead of controlling your wife 15:00 Listening to God together for wisdom 18:00 Build Your Own Tribe program 19:30 Why restoration is possible 💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

    22 min
  4. APR 14

    Stop Trying to Quit P*rn (Do This Instead)

    Are you a Christian man struggling to break free from porn? This episode dives into the unique challenges men face with sexual temptation, why willpower alone often fails, and how a tribe of trusted brothers can help you gain real freedom and build integrity: - Why trying to quit porn on your own often fails - How shame and secrecy keep men stuck - How a tribe of men can provide accountability, challenge, and sustainable freedom ------------------------------- 📝 Take the Quiz: How Manly Are You? https://bit.ly/3Pfx7SA See how manly you really are and discover where you stand compared to other men ------------------------------- 📖 Get the Book: How To Be a Man https://amzn.to/4cm2epl Learn the 5 Marks of Manhood and start living a life of freedom and integrity today ------------------------------- #ManhoodTribes #MensGroups #ChristianMen #Brotherhood #BuildYourTribe ------------------------------- Timestamps 00:00 Introduction 01:00 Why willpower alone won't free you from porn 03:00 How porn gains power through secrecy and shame 06:00 The risks and benefits of sharing your struggle 09:00 Living openly in the context of community 12:00 How a tribe helps men find freedom and build integrity 16:00 Turning progress into a sustainable lifestyle 17:30 Comment challenge: share what hasn't worked for you 💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

    18 min
  5. APR 7

    The Brotherhood Breakthrough Men Are Desperate For

    Are you a Christian man who's tired of disappointing men's groups? This video addresses the common challenge many Christian men face with unfulfilling mens ministry experiences and strained relationships. We discuss why many find these groups lacking and offer insights into fostering true spiritual growth and community: - Why Christian men's groups are often built for women, not men - The three ways men connect and grow together - How to turn a simple group into a powerful experience of trust, challenge, and growth ------------------------------- 📝 Take the Quiz: How Manly Are You? https://bit.ly/3Pfx7SA Find out how manly you really are and see where you stand compared to other men ------------------------------- 📖 Get the Book: How To Be a Man https://amzn.to/4cm2epl Discover the 5 Marks of Manhood and start living with purpose today ------------------------------- #ManhoodTribes #MensGroups #ChristianMen #Brotherhood #BuildYourTribe ------------------------------- Timestamps 00:00 Introduction 01:00 Why men's groups often disappoint 03:00 The content trap and surface-level conversation 07:00 How men connect differently than women 12:00 Action, challenge, and trust in men's groups 15:00 Example of a high-impact men's group 18:00 Build Your Own Tribe program 20:00 Wrap up and comment prompt 💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

    21 min
  6. FEB 24

    The Real Reason Every Man Needs a Mentor (and How to Find One)

    Every man needs a mentor — someone who’s walked farther down the path and can help you see where you’re headed. But finding the right mentor can feel impossible. Where do you start? How do you ask? And what if you don’t even know what kind of guidance you need? In this episode, Don unpacks the truth about mentorship — how to find one, how to build trust, and how to use those relationships to become the man you actually want to be. You’ll discover:  • The 3 types of mentors every man needs  • How to overcome pride and fear when asking for help  • Why humility and curiosity are the secret ingredients to growth 📘 Want to go deeper in becoming a man of strength, skill, and purpose?  Grab Don’s book How to Be a Man — your guide to the 5 Marks of Manhood and the path to true masculine growth.  👉 https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q Follow & Connect  💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1  🧭 Get the Pathway to Freedom guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S  📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q  📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes  📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes  🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo  🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362 Question for You  What’s one area of your work or life where you wish you had a mentor? Drop it in the comments — your honesty might inspire another man to seek guidance too. ⏰ TIMECODES  00:00 Why Mentorship Matters  02:15 The Pressure and Myths Around Mentoring  03:10 The “Multiple Mentor” Mindset  05:15 How to Find the Right Kind of Mentor  06:20 My Experience Being Mentored by Older Men  08:00 Overcoming Pride and Fear  10:05 How Mentorship Builds the 5 Marks of Manhood  11:45 Why It Strengthens Skill, Courage, and Allegiance  14:30 Benefits of Mentorship and Next Steps HASHTAGS  #ManhoodTribes #MensGrowth #MentorshipForMen #FaithForMen #MensLeadership ABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES  In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you.  Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com 💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

    16 min
  7. FEB 17

    How to Make a Mid-Career Change (Without Blowing Up Your Life) w/ Jake Kennington

    Every man hits a moment in his career when he wonders: Is this really what I’m meant to do? In this episode, Don sits down with Jake Kennington, a structural engineer turned coach, to talk about how men can recognize when it’s time for a career change — and how to make that pivot wisely. You’ll learn:  • How to know the difference between a rough season and a wrong path  • Why success on paper can still leave you empty  • How to redefine success and build a life that fits your values Guest Resources  🎯 Jake Kennington — Actively Human  Website: https://activelyhuman.com  Free “Own Your Life” Playbook: https://activelyhuman.com/#playbook  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jakekennington Follow & Connect  💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1  🧭 Get the Pathway to Freedom guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S  📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q  📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes  📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes  🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo  🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362 Question for You  What’s one area of your career or life that you’ve felt restless about lately? Drop it in the comments — your story might help another man find the courage to make his next move. ⏰ TIMECODES  00:00 Introduction to Jake Kennington  01:12 Jake's Career Journey and Realization  04:20 Navigating Mid-Career Transitions  12:03 Redefining Success and Personal Growth  18:34 The Role of Creativity and Experimentation  28:58 Building Connections and Coaching  40:59 Conclusion and Contact Information HASHTAGS  #ManhoodTribes #MensGrowth #CareerChange #MensLeadership #PurposeDrivenWork #FaithForMen ABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES  In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you.  Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com. 💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

    44 min
  8. FEB 10

    The Secret to Showing Weakness at Work (And Maintaining Respect)

    Most men are terrified to show weakness at work. We think if we admit struggle, we’ll lose credibility or respect. But the truth is, learning how to be vulnerable the right way actually earns you more trust — and frees you from the pressure to fake strength. In this episode, Don shares how men can open up at work without losing respect. You’ll learn:  • Why courage and skill are both required to show vulnerability well  • How to identify the right person and setting to share honestly  • Why vulnerability builds stronger teams and better leaders 💼 Feeling like your life and work are starting to unravel?  If you’re stuck, burned out, or just tired of pretending you’re okay, Don’s Victorious Man Coaching can help you rebuild from the inside out.  📩 Email info@manhoodtribes.com to find out if it’s right for you. Follow & Connect  💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1  🧭 Get the Pathway to Freedom guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S  📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q  📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes  📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes  🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo  🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362 Question for You  What’s one weakness you need to open up about at work? Drop it in the comments — your honesty might give another man the courage to do the same. ⏰ TIMECODES  00:00 The Struggle of Showing Weakness at Work  01:05 The Importance of Addressing Weaknesses  05:13 Understanding the Five Marks of Manhood  05:54 Combining Courage and Skill  07:20 Practical Steps to Open Up at Work  15:27 The Benefits of Vulnerability in the Workplace  19:00 Conclusion and Call to Action HASHTAGS  #ManhoodTribes #MensGrowth #WorkplaceCourage #FaithForMen #MensLeadership #Vulnerability ABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES  In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you.  Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com 💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

    20 min

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Become the man God created you to be. Manhood Tribes is all about becoming an extraordinary man by building a life-changing group of men around you. Join host Don Ross as we discuss how to tackle the major challenges in men's lives and be the best man you can be.