Manhood Tribes

Don Ross

Become the man God created you to be. Manhood Tribes is all about becoming an extraordinary man by building a life-changing group of men around you. Join host Don Ross as we discuss how to tackle the major challenges in men's lives and be the best man you can be.

  1. FEB 24

    The Real Reason Every Man Needs a Mentor (and How to Find One)

    Every man needs a mentor — someone who’s walked farther down the path and can help you see where you’re headed. But finding the right mentor can feel impossible. Where do you start? How do you ask? And what if you don’t even know what kind of guidance you need? In this episode, Don unpacks the truth about mentorship — how to find one, how to build trust, and how to use those relationships to become the man you actually want to be. You’ll discover:  • The 3 types of mentors every man needs  • How to overcome pride and fear when asking for help  • Why humility and curiosity are the secret ingredients to growth 📘 Want to go deeper in becoming a man of strength, skill, and purpose?  Grab Don’s book How to Be a Man — your guide to the 5 Marks of Manhood and the path to true masculine growth.  👉 https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q Follow & Connect  💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1  🧭 Get the Pathway to Freedom guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S  📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q  📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes  📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes  🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo  🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362 Question for You  What’s one area of your work or life where you wish you had a mentor? Drop it in the comments — your honesty might inspire another man to seek guidance too. ⏰ TIMECODES  00:00 Why Mentorship Matters  02:15 The Pressure and Myths Around Mentoring  03:10 The “Multiple Mentor” Mindset  05:15 How to Find the Right Kind of Mentor  06:20 My Experience Being Mentored by Older Men  08:00 Overcoming Pride and Fear  10:05 How Mentorship Builds the 5 Marks of Manhood  11:45 Why It Strengthens Skill, Courage, and Allegiance  14:30 Benefits of Mentorship and Next Steps HASHTAGS  #ManhoodTribes #MensGrowth #MentorshipForMen #FaithForMen #MensLeadership ABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES  In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you.  Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com 💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

    16 min
  2. FEB 17

    How to Make a Mid-Career Change (Without Blowing Up Your Life) w/ Jake Kennington

    Every man hits a moment in his career when he wonders: Is this really what I’m meant to do? In this episode, Don sits down with Jake Kennington, a structural engineer turned coach, to talk about how men can recognize when it’s time for a career change — and how to make that pivot wisely. You’ll learn:  • How to know the difference between a rough season and a wrong path  • Why success on paper can still leave you empty  • How to redefine success and build a life that fits your values Guest Resources  🎯 Jake Kennington — Actively Human  Website: https://activelyhuman.com  Free “Own Your Life” Playbook: https://activelyhuman.com/#playbook  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jakekennington Follow & Connect  💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1  🧭 Get the Pathway to Freedom guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S  📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q  📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes  📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes  🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo  🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362 Question for You  What’s one area of your career or life that you’ve felt restless about lately? Drop it in the comments — your story might help another man find the courage to make his next move. ⏰ TIMECODES  00:00 Introduction to Jake Kennington  01:12 Jake's Career Journey and Realization  04:20 Navigating Mid-Career Transitions  12:03 Redefining Success and Personal Growth  18:34 The Role of Creativity and Experimentation  28:58 Building Connections and Coaching  40:59 Conclusion and Contact Information HASHTAGS  #ManhoodTribes #MensGrowth #CareerChange #MensLeadership #PurposeDrivenWork #FaithForMen ABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES  In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you.  Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com. 💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

    44 min
  3. FEB 10

    The Secret to Showing Weakness at Work (And Maintaining Respect)

    Most men are terrified to show weakness at work. We think if we admit struggle, we’ll lose credibility or respect. But the truth is, learning how to be vulnerable the right way actually earns you more trust — and frees you from the pressure to fake strength. In this episode, Don shares how men can open up at work without losing respect. You’ll learn:  • Why courage and skill are both required to show vulnerability well  • How to identify the right person and setting to share honestly  • Why vulnerability builds stronger teams and better leaders 💼 Feeling like your life and work are starting to unravel?  If you’re stuck, burned out, or just tired of pretending you’re okay, Don’s Victorious Man Coaching can help you rebuild from the inside out.  📩 Email info@manhoodtribes.com to find out if it’s right for you. Follow & Connect  💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1  🧭 Get the Pathway to Freedom guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S  📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q  📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes  📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes  🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo  🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362 Question for You  What’s one weakness you need to open up about at work? Drop it in the comments — your honesty might give another man the courage to do the same. ⏰ TIMECODES  00:00 The Struggle of Showing Weakness at Work  01:05 The Importance of Addressing Weaknesses  05:13 Understanding the Five Marks of Manhood  05:54 Combining Courage and Skill  07:20 Practical Steps to Open Up at Work  15:27 The Benefits of Vulnerability in the Workplace  19:00 Conclusion and Call to Action HASHTAGS  #ManhoodTribes #MensGrowth #WorkplaceCourage #FaithForMen #MensLeadership #Vulnerability ABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES  In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you.  Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com 💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

    20 min
  4. FEB 3

    What No One Tells You About “Having It All” as a Man

    Every man wants to “have it all” — the perfect career, family, fitness, faith, and freedom. But the truth? You can’t. And chasing that dream will only leave you burned out and empty. In this episode, Don exposes the myth of “having it all” and shows how to build a life of meaning by choosing what truly matters. You’ll learn:  • Why the online version of success is a trap  • How to live with honor and make intentional sacrifices  • Why a tribe of men helps you define and protect what matters most 📘 Want to go deeper into the 5 Marks of Manhood — including Honor?  Grab Don’s book How To Be A Man and learn how to live them out in your own tribe: https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q Follow & Connect  💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1  🧭 Get the Pathway to Freedom guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S  📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q  📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes  📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes  🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo  🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362 Question for You  What’s one value you want to uphold — and what’s one thing you’ll need to sacrifice to honor it? Comment below and share your example. ⏰ TIMECODES  00:00 The Myth of Having It All  01:18 The Reality Check  03:32 The Importance of Honor  04:54 The Illusion of Internet Perfection  08:03 Personal Experience with Overcommitment  10:46 Building a Tribe and Setting Priorities  13:34 Conclusion HASHTAGS  #ManhoodTribes #MensGrowth #WorkLifeBalance #FaithForMen #MensTribe #Masculinity ABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES  In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you.  Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com 💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

    16 min
  5. JAN 27

    How to Live Out Your Faith at Work (Without Getting Weird About It) w/ Brian Gray

    Most men don’t know what it really means to live out their faith at work. Is it just about being ethical, or is there something more? In this conversation, Don sits down with Brian Gray, VP of Formation at the Denver Institute for Faith and Work, to unpack what it looks like to integrate faith into your career, find meaning in everyday work, and lead with integrity and excellence. If you’ve ever wondered how to bring your faith to work without being “that guy,” this episode will give you a deeper, more practical vision for what faith at work really means. 🙏 Brian mentioned a free devotional called “God Loves Work.”  👉 Download it here: https://www.denverinstitute.org/god-loves-work/ Follow & Connect 💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1  🧭 Get the Pathway to Freedom guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S  📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q  📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes  📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes  🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo  🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362 Question for You  What’s one way you’ve found to live out your faith in the workplace? Drop it in the comments — your example might give another man the courage to do the same. ⏰ TIMECODES  00:00 Exploring Faith in the Workplace  00:57 Brian Gray’s Role and Work  03:06 Challenges of Faith and Work Integration  06:35 Historical and Cultural Context of Faith at Work  12:58 The Bigger Vision of Faithful Christian Living  16:42 Finding Meaning and Purpose in Work  22:16 The Value of Work in God’s Design  23:20 The Divine Purpose of Work  24:12 Finding Meaning in Everyday Tasks  26:53 Integrating Faith into Work  27:19 Practical Exercises for Faith at Work  32:25 Sharing Faith in the Workplace  38:53 Resources and Community for Faith and Work  43:10 Final Thoughts HASHTAGS  #ManhoodTribes #FaithAtWork #MensLeadership #ChristianMen #WorkAndFaith ABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES  In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you.  Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com 💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

    45 min
  6. JAN 20

    The Truth About Saying No at Work (And Still Succeeding)

    Every man knows the pressure to overwork. We feel like if we don’t push harder, someone else will — and we’ll fall behind. But what if saying no to overwork could actually make you a better man? In this episode of the Manhood Tribe Show, Don explores why men feel trapped in the cycle of overwork and how to break free — without tanking your career. You’ll learn how to:  • Set boundaries that earn respect, not punishment  • Develop the courage to say no at the right time  • Trust God as your ultimate provider — not your paycheck Follow & Connect  💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1  🧭 Get the “Pathway to Freedom” guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S  📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q  📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes  📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes  🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo  🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362 Question for You  Where do you need to say “no” to overwork in your life right now? Comment below — your courage might help another man draw his own boundary. ⏰ TIMECODES  00:00 The Pressure to Overwork  01:08 Introduction to the Manhood Tribe Show  02:51 The Impact of Overwork on Personal Life  06:51 Setting Boundaries at Work  10:50 Developing the Courage to Say No  14:28 Trusting God as Your Provider  18:57 Conclusion and Call to Action HASHTAGS  #ManhoodTribes #MenAndWork #FaithForMen #Overworking #CourageForMen #Masculinity ABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES  In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you.  Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com 💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

    20 min
  7. JAN 13

    How to Find Purpose in a Job That Feels Pointless

    Do you ever wake up, go to work, grind through the day, and wonder… what’s the point of all this?  You’re not alone. Every man eventually wrestles with how to find purpose in work that feels meaningless or lifeless. In this episode of the Manhood Tribe Show, Don unpacks why so many men lose a sense of calling in their jobs — and how to rediscover purpose even in the most ordinary work. You’ll learn how to:  • Reframe your daily grind for deeper purpose  • Apply the Five Marks of Manhood in your career  • Shift your attitude toward strength, courage, skill, honor, and allegiance — even when the job itself doesn’t change Follow & Connect  💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1  🧭 Get the “Pathway to Freedom” guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S  📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q  📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes  📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes  🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo  🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362 Question for You  What’s one way you bring purpose into your work, even when it feels lifeless? Drop your thoughts in the comments — your insight could help another man find meaning again. ⏰ TIMECODES  00:00 The Daily Grind: Finding Meaning in Work  01:37 The Importance of Work in Men's Lives  02:50 The Consequences of Meaningless Work  04:18 Identifying the Problems in Your Job  11:16 Reframing Your Work for Greater Purpose  14:01 Applying the Five Marks of Manhood at Work  22:01 When Attitude Shifts Aren’t Enough  23:14 Becoming a Man of Purpose HASHTAGS  #ManhoodTribes #MensPurpose #FaithAndWork #Masculinity #ManhoodJourney ABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES  In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you.  Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com 💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

    27 min
  8. JAN 6

    Can Men Find Balance Between Work and Family?

    Every man wrestles with the same question: How do I succeed at work without losing my soul — or my family? In this first episode of the Men and Work series, Don tackles the tension between career ambition and being fully present at home. You’ll learn how your allegiance — what or who you ultimately serve — determines whether your life stays in balance or spirals into burnout. Follow & Connect 💪 Take the “How Manly Are You?” Quiz → https://bit.ly/3Leh2L1  🧭 Get the Pathway to Freedom guide for men → https://bit.ly/4olGz3S  📘 Read How To Be A Man → https://bit.ly/43Fh30Q 📘 Facebook: https://facebook.com/manhoodtribes  📸 Instagram: https://instagram.com/manhoodtribes  🎙️ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7HrM8c2cbFvwCSTjyWRlWo  🍎 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/manhood-tribes/id1723837362 Question for You Where does your allegiance get pulled off track the most — work or family?  Comment below — your story might help another man find his balance. ⏰ TIMECODES 00:00 Introduction: The Struggle of Balancing Work and Home Life  00:35 New Series: Men and Work  04:19 The Importance of Allegiance  06:55 Influence of Childhood on Work-Family Balance  12:21 Setting Boundaries for Work and Family  17:28 The Benefits of Proper Allegiance  20:33 Conclusion: Aligning Ambition with Allegiance HASHTAGS #ManhoodTribes #MenAndWork #FaithForMen #WorkLifeBalance #MensLeadership ABOUT MANHOOD TRIBES In our culture today, many men don’t feel like they know what it means to be a man, and they lack male friendships. Manhood Tribes guides you to becoming an extraordinary man by pursuing strong, healthy masculinity and building a life-changing group of men around you.  Get started at https://manhoodtribes.com 💪 Want to know how you measure up as a man? Take our free quiz, called How Manly Are You? and learn how you can get better at being a man. Download for free at manhoodtribes.com/manly. 💪

    22 min

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Become the man God created you to be. Manhood Tribes is all about becoming an extraordinary man by building a life-changing group of men around you. Join host Don Ross as we discuss how to tackle the major challenges in men's lives and be the best man you can be.