Marriage Monthly

Westside Community Church

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Marriage Monthly is a monthly boost for your marriage, intended to give guidance, point out landmines, provide tips and encourage community as you navigate your most important relationships.

2D AGO

Selfless Love: Put WE First and End the Fight in Marriage

Romance is great, but it’s not what keeps a marriage strong. In this Love Month episode, we’re shifting the focus from “be romantic” to “be selfless”—because most marriages don’t fall apart from incompatibility… they fall apart from selfishness. If you’ve felt off-track lately, overwhelmed, or stuck in tension, this episode is a jolt back on track. Discover Why “me over we” creates constant friction in marriageHow conflict is often about unmet desires, not the surface issueThe simple shift that makes love feel real again: you first = we firstWhat we learned from hosting a Love Challenge Date Night (10 fun challenges!)Why love is a verb and how your heart follows your actionsHow to build a “competition of honor” that makes marriage fun againPractical ways to say yes more often and short-circuit selfishnessA weekly Love Dare: one intentional act of selflessness every day Key Points Discussed “Real love is not me first—it’s you first.”“Marriage becomes fun again when it becomes a competition of honor.”“Love doesn’t insist on its own way—so we interrupt selfishness on purpose.” Bible Verses Mentioned James 4:1Philippians 2:3Romans 12:10Ephesians 5:251 Corinthians 13:5 Question for you Where have you been putting me over we, and what’s one small way you can put your spouse first this week? Call to Action If this encouraged you, like, subscribe, and share this episode with a couple who needs a reset. And drop a comment: What’s your one act of selflessness this week? #MarriageMonthly #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #BiblicalMarriage #MarriageHelp #HealthyMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #SelflessLove #MarriageGoals #FaithAndMarriage

28 min
JAN 23

Staying United in a Divided World

Division is everywhere—politics, social media, opinions, and constant noise competing for our attention. And if we’re not careful, that division doesn’t just stay “out there”… it finds its way into our marriages. In this January 2026 episode of Marriage Monthly, we talk honestly about how couples can stay united in a divided world. We explore why so many marriages are being discipled more by headlines than Scripture—and how refocusing on shared values, respect, and intentional connection can bring strength, peace, and unity back into your relationship. This conversation is practical, faith-filled, and deeply encouraging for couples navigating today’s cultural tension together. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why division outside your marriage often creates division inside itHow shared values matter more than shared preferencesPractical ways to respect differences without letting them divide youGround rules for healthy conflict that protect unityWhy bonding memories are one of the most powerful tools for marriageHow to be proactive instead of reactive in strengthening your relationship What is one step you and your spouse can take this week to focus more on what unites you than what divides you? If this episode encouraged you, take a moment to like, subscribe, and share it with another couple who could use it. And let us know in the comments—what helps your marriage stay united in a divided world? #MarriageMonthly #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #FaithBasedMarriage #MarriageUnity #HealthyMarriage #BiblicalMarriage #StrongMarriages #MarriagePodcast

30 min
JAN 23

Help! I Need to Change (Marriage Growth Part 2)

What happens when you are the one who needs to change in your marriage? In part two of this Marriage Monthly mini-series, we shift the conversation to the spouse who knows something needs to change—and isn’t sure where to start. This episode offers encouragement, clarity, and practical next steps rooted in biblical truth, personal responsibility, and hope for the future. Marriage is one of God’s greatest tools for growth, and even the hardest seasons can lead to restoration, deeper connection, and renewed trust. In this episode, you’ll discover: Why daily recommitment is the foundation of real changeHow to stop fixating on the problem and start seeing the futureWhat it looks like to move from good intentions to real actionWhy accountability matters—and how to choose it wiselyHow celebrating small wins can rebuild trust and joy over time Bible Verses Mentioned: James 1:2–4Luke 9:23Song of Solomon 8:6–7James 1:22Genesis 2:24Ecclesiastes 9:9 If you’re feeling discouraged, ashamed, or overwhelmed by the work ahead, this episode is a reminder that change is possible—and worth it. God is not finished with you or your marriage. 💬 Question for you: What is one small step you can take this week to move toward change? 👉 Call to Action: Like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs encouragement today. Leave a comment and tell us what step you’re committing to next. #MarriageMonthly #ChristianMarriage #MarriageGrowth #FaithBasedMarriage #BiblicalMarriage #MarriageHelp #MarriageAdvice #HealthyMarriage #Commitment #ChristmasReflection

21 min
11/22/2025

When Your Spouse Won’t Change (Part 1)

Does it feel like you’re waiting… and waiting… for your spouse to make a change? Maybe it’s a job decision, a health issue, an addiction, or something you’ve talked about a hundred times. This month’s episode is all about your side of that frustration—what to do, how to stay grounded, and how to walk through this season with faith, patience, and strength. In Part 1, we speak directly to the spouse who is watching, waiting, and hurting… but still wants to honor God, love their spouse well, and approach this season with wisdom. What You’ll Learn in This Episode How to recommit your heart and remember your marriage vowsWhy praying until your heart softens is essentialHow to reassure your spouse without enabling unhealthy patternsHow to have the hard conversation the right way (not the angry way)Why you should champion your spouse, not control themThe role boundaries and consequences must play in real changeHow spiritual growth can create a gap—and how God bridges it Key Scriptures Mentioned Ephesians 4:2 – Be humble, gentle, patient, bearing with one another in loveEcclesiastes 5:4–5 – Fulfill the vows you’ve made before GodMatthew 19:6 – What God has joined together, let no one separate1 John 4:18 – Perfect love drives out fearSong of Solomon 8:6 – Love is as strong as deathPhilippians 4:6–7 – Present your requests to God with thanksgivingEphesians 4:15 – Speak the truth in loveProverbs 27:6 – Wounds from a friend can be trustedJames 1:19 – Quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to angerGalatians 6:1 – Restore gentlyPhilippians 2:3–4 – Value others above yourselvesProverbs 4:23 – Guard your heart Discussion Question for You What’s one step you can take this week to champion—not control—your spouse as they work through something difficult? Share your thoughts in the comments below—we’d love to hear from you! Call to Action 👍 Like this episode 💬 Comment below with how this encouraged you 🔔 Subscribe for next month’s Part 2 ❤️ Share this with another couple who could use the encouragement #MarriageMonthly #ChristianMarriage #FaithBasedMarriage #MarriageAdvice #MarriageHelp #SpiritualGrowth #HealthyMarriage #ChristianPodcast #MarriageTips #RelationshipWisdom #WaitingOnSpouse #MarriageStruggles

36 min
10/17/2025

Rebuild Spiritual Connection: Make Your Marriage Thrive

How do you rebuild spiritual connection in your relationship? In this month’s Marriage Monthly, we unpack why spiritual intimacy is foundational for a thriving marriage—and how to rekindle it when you’ve drifted. From the Bible’s vision of “one flesh” to practical rhythms like prayer, worship, serving, fasting, and forgiveness, this episode gives you a hopeful path back to unity. Discover: Why spiritual oneness is part of God’s original design for marriageThe “bank account” effect of daily deposits (humility, grace, forgiveness)What usually breaks spiritual connection (distraction, division, different priorities, discouragement)Research-backed benefits of spiritual intimacy (less conflict, more warmth, humor, and cooperation)Gentle ways to invite a hesitant spouse (influence without pressure)Simple, weekly practices to grow closer: pray, attend church, read Scripture, serve, fast, walk in gratitudeHow to personalize your spiritual rhythms (no one-size-fits-all) Key Points Discussed: •Sexy is serving Jesus”—why consistent service builds safety and trust“Leave and cleave” = covenantal, spiritual, emotional, and relational unityDrifting is usually slow: spiritual neglect precedes relational distanceInvitation beats pressure—lead with example, prayer, and patienceFive next steps: pray before leaving the house, attend church together, ask “Where is God stretching us?”, read Scripture before bed, serve together this week Bible Verses Mentioned: Genesis 2:24; Mark’s reiteration of “one flesh”Ecclesiastes 4:12 (cord of three strands)Psalm 34:5Colossians 3:14–151 Peter 3; 1 Corinthians 7 (unequally yoked guidance)1 Corinthians 13; Song of Solomon When was the last time you felt spiritually in sync as a couple—and what small step could you take this week to rebuild that connection? Like & subscribe for more faith-centered marriage talks. Comment your one step for this week. Share this with a couple who needs encouragement today. #MarriageMonthly #ChristianMarriage #SpiritualIntimacy #FaithAndMarriage #OneFlesh #BiblicalMarriage #PrayTogether #ServeTogether #MarriageHelp #HealthyMarriage

29 min
09/20/2025

Is Your Marriage in the Red?

💛 “Have you been making more withdrawals than deposits lately?” - SEPTEMBER 2025 Marriage Monthly In this month’s episode of Marriage Monthly, we’re unpacking a powerful truth: your marriage is like a bank account. Every word, action, and attitude is either a deposit that builds connection—or a withdrawal that creates distance. Whether you’re feeling drained or full of love, this episode will help you become more intentional about the way you invest in your spouse. Through laughs, vulnerable stories, and practical encouragement, we’ll explore how to reset the balance and love generously, just as Christ has loved us. 🧠 Discover: What counts as a relational “deposit” or “withdrawal”How unmet expectations can silently erode intimacyThe biblical connection between forgiveness and fullnessWhy speaking the truth in love mattersHow your love language shapes your emotional “balance”Why the source of your deposits must be the LordWhat to do when you feel like you’re giving more than you’re getting 📖 Bible Verses Mentioned: Ephesians 4:2–3Ephesians 4:15Ephesians 4:26–27Ephesians 4:29Ephesians 4:32 💬 Question: What’s one deposit you can intentionally make into your marriage this week? 📣 Call to Action: 👉 Like & subscribe for more real-talk about love, faith, and commitment. 📝 Leave a comment with how you’ll apply today’s message! #MarriageMonthly #FaithBasedMarriage #ChristianMarriagePodcast #Ephesians4 #MarriageAdvice #LoveAndRespect #MarriageDeposits #BiblicalMarriage #RelationshipsGodsWay

23 min
08/16/2025

Building a Life Together: 42 Years of Faith, Forgiveness & Love

🎙️ 42 Years Strong — The Secrets to Building a Marriage That Lasts What does it take to build a marriage that stands the test of time — through addiction, recovery, dreams, disappointments, and God’s redemption? In this powerful Marriage Monthly episode, Gabe and Alyssa sit down with Steve and Julia Jordan, who share their 42-year journey of building a life together. From meeting at age 8, to surviving deep valleys of bitterness and alcoholism, to seeing God restore their relationship and bless them with a dream home they now use for ministry — this conversation is filled with real, hard-earned wisdom for couples in every season. Discover: Why keeping Jesus at the center changes everythingHow to survive and heal after deep wounds in marriageThe role of forgiveness — for your spouse and yourselfHow your greatest trials can become your greatest ministryThe story of building a dream home as a couple and using it for God’s purposesPractical encouragement for couples in dark seasonsSteve and Julia’s testimony is living proof that surrender, humility, and faith can turn the hardest chapters into the most beautiful stories. 📖 Bible Verses Mentioned: Proverbs 3:5–6Psalm 127:1Jeremiah 29:11 💬 Question for you: What’s one step you can take this week to strengthen the foundation of your marriage? ✅ Call to Action: Like & subscribe for more faith-based marriage encouragement! Leave a comment sharing how you’ve seen God restore something broken in your marriage. #MarriageMonthly #ChristianMarriage #MarriagePodcast #FaithBasedMarriage #MarriageEncouragement #ChristianCouples #MarriageAdvice #ForgivenessInMarriage #FaithAndMarriage #BuildingALifeTogether

39 min
07/19/2025

Why Celebration Keeps Marriages Strong

🎉 30 years of marriage! In this special anniversary episode, we’re recording from the King George Hotel in San Francisco, where it all began. From sweaty wedding dresses to surprise flowers, we’re diving deep into why celebration is essential in every season of marriage. If you’ve ever felt stuck in routine, discouraged in your relationship, or just needed a reminder to smile more together—this episode is for you. Let’s talk about why celebrating your spouse might just be the missing piece to a joyful, long-lasting marriage. 💛 Marriage started with a celebration—let’s keep it going. Discover: Why celebration strengthens your connectionThe power of cheering each other onHow to support your spouse’s passionsCreating traditions of gratitude in your homeResetting the tone of your relationship with simple momentsWhat research says about celebrating wins in marriageThe spiritual side of honoring your spouse 📖 Bible Verses Mentioned: Romans 12:15 – “Rejoice with those who rejoice.”Romans 12:10 – “Love each other with genuine affection and take delight in honoring each other.”1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 – “Be joyful always…”Galatians 5:13 – “Serve one another humbly in love.”Proverbs 17:22 – “A cheerful heart is good medicine.”John 10:10 – “The thief comes to steal, kill and destroy…” 💬 Question for You: What’s one small way you can celebrate your spouse this week? ✨ Call to Action: Like 👍, comment 💬, and subscribe 🔔 for more faith-filled encouragement to strengthen your marriage! Tag your spouse or share this episode with a couple who inspires you. #MarriageMatters #CelebrateLove #MarriageMonthlyPodcast

22 min

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Welcome to Marriage Monthly

Welcome to Marriage Monthly - a monthly boost for your marriage intended to give guidance, point out landmines, provide tips and encourage community as you navigate your most important relationships.

09/17/2020

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Marriage Monthly is a monthly boost for your marriage, intended to give guidance, point out landmines, provide tips and encourage community as you navigate your most important relationships.

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Westside Community Church
Years Active

2020 - 2026
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64
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