Marriage Monthly

Westside Community Church

Marriage Monthly is a monthly boost for your marriage, intended to give guidance, point out landmines, provide tips and encourage community as you navigate your most important relationships.

  1. When Your Spouse Won’t Change (Part 1)

    11/22/2025

    When Your Spouse Won’t Change (Part 1)

    Does it feel like you’re waiting… and waiting… for your spouse to make a change? Maybe it’s a job decision, a health issue, an addiction, or something you’ve talked about a hundred times. This month’s episode is all about your side of that frustration—what to do, how to stay grounded, and how to walk through this season with faith, patience, and strength. In Part 1, we speak directly to the spouse who is watching, waiting, and hurting… but still wants to honor God, love their spouse well, and approach this season with wisdom. What You’ll Learn in This Episode How to recommit your heart and remember your marriage vowsWhy praying until your heart softens is essentialHow to reassure your spouse without enabling unhealthy patternsHow to have the hard conversation the right way (not the angry way)Why you should champion your spouse, not control themThe role boundaries and consequences must play in real changeHow spiritual growth can create a gap—and how God bridges it Key Scriptures Mentioned Ephesians 4:2 – Be humble, gentle, patient, bearing with one another in loveEcclesiastes 5:4–5 – Fulfill the vows you’ve made before GodMatthew 19:6 – What God has joined together, let no one separate1 John 4:18 – Perfect love drives out fearSong of Solomon 8:6 – Love is as strong as deathPhilippians 4:6–7 – Present your requests to God with thanksgivingEphesians 4:15 – Speak the truth in loveProverbs 27:6 – Wounds from a friend can be trustedJames 1:19 – Quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to angerGalatians 6:1 – Restore gentlyPhilippians 2:3–4 – Value others above yourselvesProverbs 4:23 – Guard your heart Discussion Question for You What’s one step you can take this week to champion—not control—your spouse as they work through something difficult? Share your thoughts in the comments below—we’d love to hear from you! Call to Action 👍 Like this episode 💬 Comment below with how this encouraged you 🔔 Subscribe for next month’s Part 2 ❤️ Share this with another couple who could use the encouragement #MarriageMonthly #ChristianMarriage #FaithBasedMarriage #MarriageAdvice #MarriageHelp #SpiritualGrowth #HealthyMarriage #ChristianPodcast #MarriageTips #RelationshipWisdom #WaitingOnSpouse #MarriageStruggles

    36 min
  2. Rebuild Spiritual Connection: Make Your Marriage Thrive

    10/17/2025

    Rebuild Spiritual Connection: Make Your Marriage Thrive

    How do you rebuild spiritual connection in your relationship? In this month’s Marriage Monthly, we unpack why spiritual intimacy is foundational for a thriving marriage—and how to rekindle it when you’ve drifted. From the Bible’s vision of “one flesh” to practical rhythms like prayer, worship, serving, fasting, and forgiveness, this episode gives you a hopeful path back to unity. Discover: Why spiritual oneness is part of God’s original design for marriageThe “bank account” effect of daily deposits (humility, grace, forgiveness)What usually breaks spiritual connection (distraction, division, different priorities, discouragement)Research-backed benefits of spiritual intimacy (less conflict, more warmth, humor, and cooperation)Gentle ways to invite a hesitant spouse (influence without pressure)Simple, weekly practices to grow closer: pray, attend church, read Scripture, serve, fast, walk in gratitudeHow to personalize your spiritual rhythms (no one-size-fits-all) Key Points Discussed: •Sexy is serving Jesus”—why consistent service builds safety and trust“Leave and cleave” = covenantal, spiritual, emotional, and relational unityDrifting is usually slow: spiritual neglect precedes relational distanceInvitation beats pressure—lead with example, prayer, and patienceFive next steps: pray before leaving the house, attend church together, ask “Where is God stretching us?”, read Scripture before bed, serve together this week Bible Verses Mentioned: Genesis 2:24; Mark’s reiteration of “one flesh”Ecclesiastes 4:12 (cord of three strands)Psalm 34:5Colossians 3:14–151 Peter 3; 1 Corinthians 7 (unequally yoked guidance)1 Corinthians 13; Song of Solomon When was the last time you felt spiritually in sync as a couple—and what small step could you take this week to rebuild that connection? Like & subscribe for more faith-centered marriage talks. Comment your one step for this week. Share this with a couple who needs encouragement today. #MarriageMonthly #ChristianMarriage #SpiritualIntimacy #FaithAndMarriage #OneFlesh #BiblicalMarriage #PrayTogether #ServeTogether #MarriageHelp #HealthyMarriage

    29 min
  3. Is Your Marriage in the Red?

    09/20/2025

    Is Your Marriage in the Red?

    💛 “Have you been making more withdrawals than deposits lately?” - SEPTEMBER 2025 Marriage Monthly In this month’s episode of Marriage Monthly, we’re unpacking a powerful truth: your marriage is like a bank account. Every word, action, and attitude is either a deposit that builds connection—or a withdrawal that creates distance. Whether you’re feeling drained or full of love, this episode will help you become more intentional about the way you invest in your spouse. Through laughs, vulnerable stories, and practical encouragement, we’ll explore how to reset the balance and love generously, just as Christ has loved us. 🧠 Discover: What counts as a relational “deposit” or “withdrawal”How unmet expectations can silently erode intimacyThe biblical connection between forgiveness and fullnessWhy speaking the truth in love mattersHow your love language shapes your emotional “balance”Why the source of your deposits must be the LordWhat to do when you feel like you’re giving more than you’re getting 📖 Bible Verses Mentioned: Ephesians 4:2–3Ephesians 4:15Ephesians 4:26–27Ephesians 4:29Ephesians 4:32 💬 Question: What’s one deposit you can intentionally make into your marriage this week? 📣 Call to Action: 👉 Like & subscribe for more real-talk about love, faith, and commitment. 📝 Leave a comment with how you’ll apply today’s message! #MarriageMonthly #FaithBasedMarriage #ChristianMarriagePodcast #Ephesians4 #MarriageAdvice #LoveAndRespect #MarriageDeposits #BiblicalMarriage #RelationshipsGodsWay

    23 min
  4. Building a Life Together: 42 Years of Faith, Forgiveness & Love

    08/16/2025

    Building a Life Together: 42 Years of Faith, Forgiveness & Love

    🎙️ 42 Years Strong — The Secrets to Building a Marriage That Lasts What does it take to build a marriage that stands the test of time — through addiction, recovery, dreams, disappointments, and God’s redemption? In this powerful Marriage Monthly episode, Gabe and Alyssa sit down with Steve and Julia Jordan, who share their 42-year journey of building a life together. From meeting at age 8, to surviving deep valleys of bitterness and alcoholism, to seeing God restore their relationship and bless them with a dream home they now use for ministry — this conversation is filled with real, hard-earned wisdom for couples in every season. Discover: Why keeping Jesus at the center changes everythingHow to survive and heal after deep wounds in marriageThe role of forgiveness — for your spouse and yourselfHow your greatest trials can become your greatest ministryThe story of building a dream home as a couple and using it for God’s purposesPractical encouragement for couples in dark seasonsSteve and Julia’s testimony is living proof that surrender, humility, and faith can turn the hardest chapters into the most beautiful stories. 📖 Bible Verses Mentioned: Proverbs 3:5–6Psalm 127:1Jeremiah 29:11 💬 Question for you: What’s one step you can take this week to strengthen the foundation of your marriage? ✅ Call to Action: Like & subscribe for more faith-based marriage encouragement! Leave a comment sharing how you’ve seen God restore something broken in your marriage. #MarriageMonthly #ChristianMarriage #MarriagePodcast #FaithBasedMarriage #MarriageEncouragement #ChristianCouples #MarriageAdvice #ForgivenessInMarriage #FaithAndMarriage #BuildingALifeTogether

    39 min
  5. Why Celebration Keeps Marriages Strong

    07/19/2025

    Why Celebration Keeps Marriages Strong

    🎉 30 years of marriage! In this special anniversary episode, we’re recording from the King George Hotel in San Francisco, where it all began. From sweaty wedding dresses to surprise flowers, we’re diving deep into why celebration is essential in every season of marriage. If you’ve ever felt stuck in routine, discouraged in your relationship, or just needed a reminder to smile more together—this episode is for you. Let’s talk about why celebrating your spouse might just be the missing piece to a joyful, long-lasting marriage. 💛 Marriage started with a celebration—let’s keep it going. Discover: Why celebration strengthens your connectionThe power of cheering each other onHow to support your spouse’s passionsCreating traditions of gratitude in your homeResetting the tone of your relationship with simple momentsWhat research says about celebrating wins in marriageThe spiritual side of honoring your spouse 📖 Bible Verses Mentioned: Romans 12:15 – “Rejoice with those who rejoice.”Romans 12:10 – “Love each other with genuine affection and take delight in honoring each other.”1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 – “Be joyful always…”Galatians 5:13 – “Serve one another humbly in love.”Proverbs 17:22 – “A cheerful heart is good medicine.”John 10:10 – “The thief comes to steal, kill and destroy…” 💬 Question for You: What’s one small way you can celebrate your spouse this week? ✨ Call to Action: Like 👍, comment 💬, and subscribe 🔔 for more faith-filled encouragement to strengthen your marriage! Tag your spouse or share this episode with a couple who inspires you. #MarriageMatters #CelebrateLove #MarriageMonthlyPodcast

    22 min
  6. Break the Cycle: Ending Toxic Patterns in Marriage

    06/21/2025

    Break the Cycle: Ending Toxic Patterns in Marriage

    “Why do we keep doing this?” That question might be the key to unlocking a whole new season in your marriage. In this month’s episode, we dive deep into the unseen cycles that shape our relationships—many of which we inherited, others we’ve accidentally created. From generational trauma and addiction to criticism, over-scheduling, and emotional disconnection, we unpack the spiritual and practical steps it takes to recognize and break these toxic patterns. 💬 Drawing from personal stories, biblical truth, and hard-earned lessons from nearly 30 years of marriage, we explore how couples can rewrite their story—together. 📖 Key Scripture: Romans 12:2 — “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind…” 💡 Discover: How to recognize patterns that are holding your marriage backBreaking generational cycles of addiction, dysfunction, and traumaThe link between emotional safety and long-term satisfactionPractical tools for spiritual connection and mental renewalThe power of one bold step toward changeKing Josiah’s legacy of transformation and how it applies today 🎯 Key Takeaways: Every couple inherits patterns—some helpful, some harmfulDefining your vision for your marriage is the first stepBreaking a cycle takes awareness, agreement, and aligned actionCommunity and spiritual connection are essential in the processOne decision can start a ripple of healing for future generations 🙋‍♂️ Question for you: What’s one cycle in your marriage or family history that needs to end—and what’s one small step you can take this week? 👉 Like & subscribe for more faith-filled marriage conversations! 💬 Leave a comment: What’s one cycle you’re breaking in your marriage? 🔗 Share this with a friend who needs encouragement today. #MarriageMonthly #FaithBasedMarriage #BreakTheCycle #ChristianMarriage #BiblicalMarriage #MarriagePodcast #MarriageAdvice #GenerationalHealing #RenewYourMind #RelationshipGrowth #ChristianCouples

    21 min
  7. Will We Last? The #1 Predictor of Marriage Success

    05/30/2025

    Will We Last? The #1 Predictor of Marriage Success

    Will our marriage really last? That’s the question most couples ask—whether they say it out loud or not. In this powerful episode, we unpack the top predictor of marital success based on brand-new research shared by Les Parrott at a recent marriage conference: perceived partner commitment. What does that mean, and how do you build it? We break down the difference between commitment busters and commitment builders—everything from separate bank accounts and secrets to road trips and red lipstick moments. We share insights from 30 years of marriage, including personal stories, scriptures, and the hard lessons we’ve learned the long way. Whether you’re just starting out or decades in, this episode will encourage you to build the kind of marriage that lasts—one built on intentional, everyday commitment. 💡 Discover: What “perceived partner commitment” actually meansThe marriage triangle: passion, intimacy, and commitment6 commitment busters to watch out for8 commitment builders that create lasting loveHow to protect your marriage from separation, secrets, and criticismHow shared memories, empathy, and sacrifice keep couples close 📖 Bible Verses Mentioned: Mark 10:7–9 – “Let no one split them apart.” Philippians 2:3–5 – “Be humble…have the same attitude as Christ.” 💭 Question for You: What’s one way you can show your spouse your commitment this week? ❤️ Call to Action: Leave a comment and let us know how you’re building commitment in your marriage. Like & subscribe for more episodes to help your marriage grow strong! #ChristianMarriage #MarriageMonthly #FaithBasedMarriage #MarriageAdvice #CommitmentMatters #MarriagePodcast #MarriageHelp #MarriageGoals #BiblicalMarriage #MarriageTips #CouplesThatLast

    24 min
  8. Balancing Marriage and a Busy Life: Parenting, Careers, and Prioritizing with Steve and Lori Barker

    04/18/2025

    Balancing Marriage and a Busy Life: Parenting, Careers, and Prioritizing with Steve and Lori Barker

    In this episode, we’re joined by our friends, Steve and Lori Barker, to talk about the challenges of balancing a busy marriage and life filled with parenting, careers, and everything in between. From juggling schedules, prioritizing each other, to how they make time for their dreams and personal growth, Steve and Lori share their insights and experiences on maintaining a strong relationship through life’s busiest seasons. We also dive into how they integrate their faith and stay connected through it all, offering practical advice on how to stay grounded and emotionally healthy while managing a hectic life. Whether you’re parenting, in a busy season, or just trying to figure out how to prioritize your spouse while managing the chaos, this episode is packed with wisdom and relatable stories. Key Points: Strategies for balancing marriage, kids, and busy careersHow to keep your marriage strong in the midst of life’s demandsThe importance of being a cheerleader for your spouse’s dreamsHow setting boundaries, like family schedules and tech-free time, can bring peacePractical ways to stay emotionally connected while parenting and workingThe value of prayer and supporting each other through challenges#MarriageGoals #Parenting #BusyLifeBalance #StrongMarriage #FamilyTime #FaithInMarriage #MarriageTips #ParentingInTheBusySeasons #CoupleGoals #LoveAndSupport #ParentingBalance

    33 min

Ratings & Reviews

5
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Marriage Monthly is a monthly boost for your marriage, intended to give guidance, point out landmines, provide tips and encourage community as you navigate your most important relationships.