Married and Love It

Greg and Linda Smith
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On our weekly podcast, we will be sharing with you covering anything that has to do with marriage including the hot topics of love, sex, and communication. We'll be sharing from our own experiences from 48 plus years of marriage and what we have learned along the way through research and helping other couples to MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE GREAT. We want to provide preventive maintenance and strengthen the good marriages, freshen up stale or boring marriages, heal hurting or dying marriages, prepare people for marriage and stop divorce. Our goal is to hear you say that YOU are MARRIED AND LOVE IT!

  1. 3D AGO

    EP 64. Dressing for Success in Your Marriage PT 1; What NOT to Wear

    It's about who you are and how you act around and towards your spouse. This episode delves deeply into the metaphor of dressing for success within marriage, a concept that transcends mere clothing choices to encompass the very essence of how partners present themselves to one another. Greg and Linda Smith articulate the profound impact that both outward appearances and internal dispositions have on the dynamics of a marital relationship. They reflect on their own experiences, illustrating how the initial excitement of dating can often fade into complacency, leading couples to neglect the importance of maintaining a vibrant and appealing presence for one another. The conversation transitions from discussing external dress to the internal qualities that couples should strive to embody—attributes such as kindness, patience, and attentiveness. The hosts encourage listeners to engage in self-assessment and to communicate openly with their spouses about their desires and perceptions regarding each other's appearances and behaviors. By intertwining scriptural references with practical advice, they provide a holistic approach to nurturing a marriage that thrives on mutual respect and love. The episode concludes with a challenge for couples to reflect on their internal and external presentations, pushing them towards intentional actions that can rejuvenate their relationships and enhance their marital satisfaction. This enriching dialogue offers valuable insights into the conscious efforts needed to sustain love and connection in marriage. Links referenced in this episode: www.marriedandloveit.com Proverbs 21:9, Proverbs 31:26, Proverbs 25:19, Colossians 3:5-9, Galatians 5:19-21, 2 Corinthians 5:17, Galatians 5:14-16, Psalms 139:23-24 Use this link for email sign up: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11 Website: www.marriedandloveit.com E-mail address is marriedandloveit1977@gmail.com phone 984-270-6062

    29 min

  2. APR 7

    EP 63. Practical Tips on How to Love Your Husband God's Way. PT 3

    The central theme of this podcast episode revolves around the profound impact a wife's attitude and actions can have on her husband, particularly in the context of love and support. We, Greg and Linda Smith, delve into the intricate dynamics of marriage, emphasizing the importance of treating one's spouse with reverence and attentiveness. Drawing from both scripture and our extensive experience, we explore practical strategies that wives can employ to uplift their husbands, thereby fostering a nurturing and harmonious relationship. This episode continues our series on loving your husband in alignment with divine principles, offering insights that are not only applicable but also transformative. Join us as we navigate these essential topics, aiming to equip you with the tools to cultivate a flourishing marriage. Takeaways: Investing time in understanding your husband fosters a deeper connection and love.A wife's role in honoring her husband is fundamental to a thriving marriage.Communication is essential; express your needs clearly to avoid misunderstandings.Forgiveness is a crucial aspect of a loving relationship; be quick to apologize. Use this link for email sign up: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11 Website: www.marriedandloveit.com E-mail address is marriedandloveit1977@gmail.com phone 984-270-6062

    40 min

  3. MAR 25

    EP 62. Practical Tips on How to Love Your Husband God's Way. PT 2

    Takeaways: Engaging in daily reflections on how to honor and ease your husband's life can significantly strengthen marital bonds.Asking for your husband's opinions on minor decisions fosters involvement and reinforces his value within the relationship.Remembering small details that matter to your husband, such as his favorite meals or activities, can greatly enhance his sense of being loved and appreciated.Creating a shared decision-making process about family schedules can alleviate stress and promote teamwork in marriage.Encouraging open communication by allowing your husband to decompress before discussing daily events is crucial for a harmonious home environment.Involving your husband in discussions about your schedule can improve both your prioritization and mutual understanding of responsibilities. referred episodes: EP 40-44--Ten steps to Treasuring your Wife (click on the following link) www.marriedandloveit.com/40 Links referenced in this episode: www.marriedandloveit.com Use this link for email sign up: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11 Website: www.marriedandloveit.com E-mail address is marriedandloveit1977@gmail.com phone 984-270-6062

    36 min

  4. MAR 18

    EP 61. Practical Tips on How to Love Your Husband God's Way. PT 1

    In this engaging episode of the Married and Love It podcast; Greg and Linda Smith explore the foundational principles of loving one's husband in a manner that aligns with Christian values. The dialogue initiates a new series that promises to deliver practical wisdom and insights derived from the couple's extensive experience in marriage and ministry. The duo addresses the importance of truly knowing one's husband, highlighting the various facets that contribute to a man's emotional and psychological makeup. By discussing the significance of understanding each other's backgrounds, personality types, and love languages, they provide listeners with a roadmap to navigate the complexities of marital relationships. Linda's emphasis on the need for women to be proactive in learning about their husbands fosters an environment of mutual respect and understanding, ultimately paving the way for greater intimacy and connection. The episode is not only informative but also serves as a call to action for couples to invest time and effort into nurturing their marriages, thereby enhancing the quality of their shared lives. Takeaways: Investing time in marriage through resources like our podcast can lead to profound improvements in relationships.Understanding one's spouse is crucial to fostering love, joy, and harmony in marriage, especially during challenging times.Learning your husband's love language is essential for effective communication and emotional connection within the marriage.Implementing practical tips from this podcast can enhance marital satisfaction and help couples thrive together in their journey. Links referenced in this episode: www.marriedandloveit.com Use this link for email sign up: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11 Website: www.marriedandloveit.com Referred episodes: For understanding your spouse - EP 20 & 21. www.marriedandloveit.com/20 Sex in marriage - fizzle or sizzle - EP 34-38. www.marriedandloveit.com/34 The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman E-mail address is marriedandloveit1977@gmail.com phone 984-270-6062

    32 min

  5. MAR 11

    EP 60. Communication in Marriage; 3 Essential Habits for Better Communication; Final Thoughts to this Series

    In the latest installment of the Married and Love It Podcast, the hosts, Greg and Linda Smith, explore the intricacies of marital communication, particularly as they wrap up their series on this pivotal theme. They offer a structured approach to improving communication through three fundamental habits: establishing ground rules for conflict, engaging in love confessions, and enhancing communication with God. The dialogue is infused with a blend of humor and sincerity, reflective of their fun-loving approach to marriage while remaining deeply rooted in Christian principles. The discussion highlights the necessity of ground rules during conflicts, which can serve as a guide for couples to navigate disagreements without resorting to destructive behaviors. The hosts emphasize that effective communication is not simply about exchanging words but involves a deeper understanding and respect for one another. They illustrate this through engaging anecdotes, including a humorous tale about the consequences of the silent treatment, which serves to underscore the futility of such tactics. Through their candid exchanges, Greg and Linda provide listeners with relatable scenarios that many couples may encounter, thereby fostering a sense of connection with their audience. Moreover, the episode reinforces the significance of integrating spiritual practices into marital communication. The hosts advocate for couples to pray together, thus inviting God into their relationship as a source of strength and unity. This spiritual component is framed as essential for fostering a loving and supportive environment, which is critical for overcoming the inevitable challenges that arise in marriage. As the episode draws to a close, listeners are encouraged to actively apply the discussed principles in their own relationships, thereby reinforcing the podcast's overarching message of intentionality in marriage and the pursuit of a fulfilling partnership. Takeaways: Investing time in your marriage by listening to our podcast is crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship.Establishing ground rules for communication and conflict resolution is essential for a strong marriage.Communication issues are among the top reasons that can threaten the stability of a marriage.Reinforcing love and respect through daily affirmations can significantly enhance marital harmony. Links referenced in this episode: marriedandloveit.com Links referenced in this episode: www.marriedandloveit.com Links referenced in this episode: Use this link for email sign up. https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11 Website: www.marriedandloveit.com Previous communication episodes: EP 4, 5; EP 29, 30; EP 47-50; EP 56; EP 57; EP 58; EP 59 Reference scriptures: Galatians 5:14-15; Proverbs 16:23-24; Proverbs 15:28; Ephesians 4:26 & 31 & 32; Colossians 3:12-15; Proverbs 15:1; Ecclesiastes 9:9-10 E-mail address is marriedandloveit1977@gmail.com phone 984-270-6062 Develop ground rules for conflict These are suggested ground rules you can use; however, you can customize them. No yelling.No name calling or character attacks.No bringing up the past for ammunition.No storming out without saying I need a break or a pause.No following the person who called for a break or pause.No slamming things.No physical attacks.No pointing your finger or tapping the other person’s chest.Even if your partner doesn't do their part, you still do your part.Agree on the ground rules. “Love Confession” I Corinthians 13:4-8 God is Love And the Love of God is in me. Therefore: I endure long and am patient and kind. I’m never envious or jealous. I’m not boastful or proud. I’m never haughty, selfish or rude. I am never irritable or touchy. I’m never resentful and I don’t hold grudges. I hardly even notice when others may do wrong. I expect and believe the best of every person And will defend them no matter what anyone else may say. The love of God in me never fails, therefore, I never fail. Love is my greatest aim.

    33 min

  6. MAR 5

    EP 59. Communication in Marriage; Practical Tips to Handling Conflict Peacefully. PT 2

    In this enlightening episode of the Married and Love it podcast, the hosts Greg and Linda Smith delve into the critical topic of managing conflict within a marriage, outlining actionable steps that couples can take to resolve disagreements with grace. Drawing from their extensive experience, they offer insights into the necessity of fostering a culture of respect and honesty in communication. The discussion navigates through various conflict management techniques, such as refraining from public disputes and ensuring that both partners feel heard and valued in their interactions. The couple also emphasizes the importance of maintaining a sense of humor and joy even in the face of disagreements, suggesting that a lighthearted approach can disarm tensions. By intertwining scriptural references with practical advice, they illuminate the path to a loving and fulfilling marriage that endures through trials, positioning themselves as guides for listeners seeking to enrich their marital journey. Takeaways: Investing time into your marriage through communication and understanding can greatly enhance your relationship.Conflict resolution is essential, and effective communication plays a pivotal role in maintaining marital harmony.The importance of mutual respect and honesty cannot be overstated when navigating disagreements with your spouse.Being intentional about love and communication is crucial for fostering a thriving and enjoyable marriage. Links referenced in this episode: www.marriedandloveit.com Links referenced in this episode: Use this link for email sign up. https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11 Website: www.marriedandloveit.com Previous communication episodes: EP 4, 5; EP 29, 30; EP 47-50; EP 56; EP 57; EP 58 Teamwork/balance your busy life - EP 7 & 8 www.marriedandloveit.com/7 www.marriedandloveit.com/8 Reference scriptures: Galatians 5:14-15; Proverbs 16:23-24; Proverbs 15:28; Ephesians 4:26 & 31 & 32; Colossians 3:12-15; Proverbs 15:1; Ecclesiastes 9:9-10 E-mail address is marriedandloveit1977@gmail.com phone 984-270-6062

    34 min

  7. FEB 27

    EP 58. Communication in Marriage; Practical Tips to Handling Conflict Peacefully PT 1

    In this episode, the hosts Greg and Linda Smith articulate the significance of effective communication in marital relationships, particularly when addressing conflicts. They frame the discussion around the vital principle that successful communication is not simply about exchanging words but involves a deeper understanding of each partner's feelings and perspectives. The couple elucidates that many marital disputes stem from misunderstandings and lack of clarity, urging listeners to approach conflicts with a mindset geared towards resolution rather than confrontation. The hosts reference Galatians 5:14-15, which serves as a poignant reminder of the biblical foundation of love and respect within marriage. They emphasize that when couples engage in disputes, it is crucial to focus on the issue at hand rather than resorting to personal attacks. This theme of attacking the problem rather than the person is explored in depth, as the Smiths provide tangible examples of how to navigate disagreements without escalating tensions. Listeners are encouraged to practice self-evaluation, recognizing their own communication styles and the impact they have on their spouse. The episode emphasizes the necessity of vulnerability in communication, advocating for honesty and openness, even when the truth may be uncomfortable. Greg and Linda encourage couples to create a safe space for dialogue, where both partners feel secure in expressing their thoughts and emotions. They also discuss the importance of timing, suggesting that approaching sensitive topics when both partners are receptive can significantly enhance the effectiveness of communication. By blending personal anecdotes with scriptural insights, the hosts provide a comprehensive framework for couples looking to improve their communication skills, ultimately guiding them towards a deeper, more loving connection. The podcast wraps up with actionable homework for listeners, urging them to evaluate their communication habits and to engage in constructive conversations with their spouse. The Smiths reiterate that the journey towards better communication is ongoing and requires continuous effort and dedication from both partners, reinforcing their commitment to helping others cultivate thriving marriages. Takeaways: Investing time in your marriage through communication and conflict resolution is crucial for relationship health.Proper communication involves expressing thoughts and feelings clearly, fostering understanding and connection between partners.Daily practice of love and communication skills is essential for a thriving marriage, highlighting the importance of intentionality.Attacking the problem rather than the person during conflicts promotes constructive dialogue and prevents escalation of disputes.Recognizing and respecting your spouse's feelings is vital in maintaining a supportive and loving marital environment.Self-evaluation of communication habits can lead to significant improvements, enhancing both marital satisfaction and mutual respect. Links referenced in this episode: Use this link for email sign up. https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11 Website: www.marriedandloveit.com Previous communication episodes: EP 4, 5; EP 29, 30; EP 47-50; EP 56; EP 57 Reference scriptures: Galatians 5:14-15; Proverbs 12:18; Proverbs 16:23-24; Galatians 5:16; Galatians 5:20 and 22; Proverbs 15:1; Ephesians 4:29-42; John 15:5; Proverbs 15:8; Colossians 3:8; Colossians 3:12-15; Philippians 2:2-4; Galatians 6:9-10; Luke 6:31

    37 min

  8. FEB 18

    EP 57: Communication in Marriage; Keys to Handling Conflict Peacefully. PT 2

    Greg and Linda Smith's insights are enriched by over four decades of marital and ministerial experience, positioning them as credible voices in the realm of relationship guidance. A significant theme throughout this episode is the inevitability of conflict in any marital relationship. The Smiths stress that while disagreements are natural, the manner in which couples engage during these disputes is crucial. They introduce the concept of the 'God factor,' encouraging couples to invite divine presence into their conversations to foster a spirit of love and understanding. Scriptural references, such as Galatians 5:14-15, are utilized to illustrate the importance of loving one's spouse and to caution against behaviors that can lead to relational discord. Listeners are encouraged to actively practice their communication skills, emphasizing the need for intentionality and emotional awareness. The Smiths provide tangible strategies that can be implemented in daily interactions, aiming to cultivate a nurturing and supportive environment within the marriage. Ultimately, the episode serves as a vital resource for couples seeking to deepen their connection and enhance their ability to communicate effectively and lovingly. Takeaways: The podcast emphasizes the necessity of investing time into one’s marriage through consistent teachings and discussions.Listeners are encouraged to view their marriage as a continuous journey of growth, akin to ongoing education and maintenance of a vehicle.Communication, especially when navigating conflicts, is highlighted as a crucial skill that can be improved with intention and love.The hosts draw upon Christian principles and years of experience to provide listeners with practical tools to enhance their marital relationships. Links referenced in this episode: Use this link for email sign up. https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11 Website: www.marriedandloveit.com Previous communication episodes: EP 4, 5; EP 29, 30; EP 47-50; EP 56 Reference scriptures: Galatians 5:14-15; Proverbs 12:18; Proverbs 16:23-24; Galatians 5:16; Galatians 5:20 and 22; Proverbs 15:1; Ephesians 4:29-42; John 15:5; Proverbs 15:8; Colossians 3:8; Colossians 3:12-15; Philippians 2:2-4; Galatians 6:9-10; Luke 6:31

    44 min
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On our weekly podcast, we will be sharing with you covering anything that has to do with marriage including the hot topics of love, sex, and communication. We'll be sharing from our own experiences from 48 plus years of marriage and what we have learned along the way through research and helping other couples to MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE GREAT. We want to provide preventive maintenance and strengthen the good marriages, freshen up stale or boring marriages, heal hurting or dying marriages, prepare people for marriage and stop divorce. Our goal is to hear you say that YOU are MARRIED AND LOVE IT!

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  • Creator
    Greg and Linda Smith
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    65
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2026 Greg and Linda Smith
  • Show Website
    Married and Love It

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