Married and Love It

Greg and Linda Smith
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On our weekly podcast, we will be sharing with you covering anything that has to do with marriage including the hot topics of love, sex, and communication. We'll be sharing from our own experiences from 48 plus years of marriage and what we have learned along the way through research and helping other couples to MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE GREAT. We want to provide preventive maintenance and strengthen the good marriages, freshen up stale or boring marriages, heal hurting or dying marriages, prepare people for marriage and stop divorce. Our goal is to hear you say that YOU are MARRIED AND LOVE IT!

  1. 5d ago

    EP 70. Genuine Love in Marriage; 6 Vital Ways of Loving Your Spouse. PT 2

    What does it mean when you say "I love you" to your spouse? In this insightful episode of the Married and Love It podcast, hosts Greg and Linda Smith delve into the profound topic of genuine love within the context of marriage. Building upon the foundations laid in previous discussions, they share critical insights into the six pivotal ways to love one's spouse effectively. The Smiths emphasize that love is an intentional act, requiring both partners to actively engage in nurturing their relationship. They draw from their own extensive experience in marriage and ministry to underscore the importance of approaching love not merely as an emotion but as a commitment that necessitates continuous effort and dedication. The episode underscores the significance of enjoying life with one’s spouse, referencing Ecclesiastes 9:9-10, which articulates the divine intention for couples to find joy and fulfillment in their union. The Smiths explore various dimensions of love, including the emotional, spiritual, and physical aspects that contribute to a thriving marital relationship. They advocate for a holistic approach to love that encompasses care, commitment, and intentional actions aimed at fostering a deep and meaningful connection between partners. As they unpack the intricacies of romantic love, the hosts encourage couples to transcend the routine of daily life and actively cultivate a love affair that is vibrant and enriching. Towards the conclusion of the episode, the Smiths challenge listeners to reflect on their own expressions of love and consider how they can enhance their relationships through intentional, loving actions. The practical advice offered serves as a roadmap for couples seeking to deepen their emotional bonds and elevate their marital experiences. This episode is not merely a discussion; it is an invitation to embark on a transformative journey towards a more fulfilling and joyful marriage, with the promise of further exploration of love's multifaceted nature in upcoming episodes. Takeaways: Investing time into your marriage is essential for creating a fulfilling relationship.Love in marriage requires intentional actions and daily habits to truly flourish.Understanding the biblical principles of love can enhance the joy and satisfaction in your marriage.A successful marriage is built on mutual commitment, care, and the excitement of a love affair with each other. Definition of Ahavah -The Hebrew word is “Ahavah” which means “to love”. It’s the Hebrew counterpart of the New Testament word “Agape” love. It can be interpreted as God's love for his people. Or having a love for God, love for friends, and between family members. It’s also the love expressed between a husband and wife; which we will be focusing on this episode. Definition - It is more than just a feeling. It can be commitment---devotion---affection---care---self-giving---concern for another. In marriage it can be deep affection---loyalty and faithfulness---caring for your spouse's needs. Putting your spouse’s best interest first---building emotional and spiritual connection---sharing and enjoying everyday life---companionship---commitment---delighting in one’s spouse. A good definition would be love expressed through commitment--- care---and genuine affection. It's more than romantic feelings. It's cherishing and valuing your spouse and enjoying life committed to each other. It is actively and intentionally being on purpose putting on love. It’s taking action to demonstrate your love and not just romantic feelings of love. "Honey Do's" Read through the definition of Ahavah love.In what ways can you be lovable towards your spouse with your words and actions?What are one or two love habits that you can start adding daily?10-second kiss Scripture references - Ecclesiastes. 9: 9-10; Proverbs 5:18-19 Episodes referred to: EP 34-38 Use this link for email sign up: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11 Website: www.marriedandloveit.com E-mail address is marriedandloveit1977@gmail.com phone 984-270-6062

    29 min

  2. Jun 27

    EP 69. Genuine Love; 6 Vital Ways of Loving Your Spouse. PT 1

    What does it mean when you say "I love you" to your spouse? Join Greg and Linda for an exploration of the multifaceted nature of love within the context of marriage is presented through the engaging dialogue of Greg and Linda Smith, who share their vast knowledge rooted in over 48 years of marital experience. They embark on a journey to define genuine love, emphasizing its role as both a commitment and an action that couples must consciously cultivate. The episode serves as an introduction to a broader series that will dissect six essential ways to express love towards one’s spouse, providing listeners with a roadmap to enhance their relationships. The conversation begins with a heartfelt reflection on the importance of enjoying life with one’s spouse, as articulated in Ecclesiastes 9:9, which highlights the divine desire for couples to experience happiness together. This foundational principle sets the tone for the discussion, transitioning into a deeper examination of what it truly means to articulate the phrase 'I love you.' The Smiths argue that love should not be understood as a mere sentiment but rather as a profound commitment characterized by actions that prioritize the well-being of one’s partner. As the episode unfolds, the hosts address the potential pitfalls of complacency within marriages, urging couples to remain proactive in their expressions of love. They introduce the concept of 'love habits,' practical actions that couples can incorporate into their daily lives to reinforce their connection and commitment. By emphasizing the necessity of intentionality in love, the Smiths encourage listeners to reflect on their own practices and to consider how they might enhance their marital dynamics. This episode serves as a robust foundation for the series, promising further exploration into the dimensions of love that can transform relationships and instill a deeper sense of connection between spouses. Takeaways: Investing time in your marriage by listening to insights is crucial for growth.Understanding the meaning of love is essential to avoiding the roommate syndrome in marriage.Genuine love encompasses commitment, care, and selflessness towards your spouse.Creating daily habits of love fosters a fulfilling and enjoyable marriage experience.The importance of blending different types of love is key to a successful marriage.Make the decision to be a peak performer in your love walk with your spouse. Definition of Ahavah -The Hebrew word is “Ahavah” which means “to love”. It’s the Hebrew counterpart of the New Testament word “Agape” love. It can be interpreted as God's love for his people. Or having a love for God, love for friends, and between family members. It’s also the love expressed between a husband and wife; which we will be focusing on this episode. Definition - It is more than just a feeling. It can be commitment---devotion---affection---care---self-giving---concern for another. In marriage it can be deep affection---loyalty and faithfulness---caring for your spouse's needs. Putting your spouse’s best interest first---building emotional and spiritual connection---sharing and enjoying everyday life---companionship---commitment---delighting in one’s spouse. A good definition would be love expressed through commitment--- care---and genuine affection. It's more than romantic feelings. It's cherishing and valuing your spouse and enjoying life committed to each other. It is actively and intentionally being on purpose putting on love. It’s taking action to demonstrate your love and not just romantic feelings of love. "Honey Do's" What does the phrase “I love you” mean to you when you say it to your spouse?In what ways can you be a peak performer in your love walk with your spouse?Create daily habits from what love means to you in your marriage.10-second kiss Scripture references - Ecclesiastes. 9: 9-10; Colossians 3:14 Song - Artist Wayne Newton - 1972 - "Daddy, don't you walk so fast" Use this link for email sign up: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11 Website: www.marriedandloveit.com E-mail address is marriedandloveit1977@gmail.com phone 984-270-6062

    34 min

  3. Jun 5

    EP 68. The Power of Holding Hands in Marriage; Nine Reasons Holding Hands Strengthens Your Marriage

    The theme of this podcast episode revolves around the profound significance of holding hands in marriage, delving into nine distinct benefits that emerge from this seemingly simple yet impactful gesture. We, Greg and Linda Smith, discuss how holding hands serves as a silent yet potent form of communication, fostering intimacy and reassuring connection between spouses. Drawing from our extensive experience and Christian principles, we explore how this act can enhance physical affection, alleviate stress, and reinforce a sense of unity and togetherness. Furthermore, we highlight the romantic ambiance created through this shared gesture, which not only enriches daily interactions but also serves as a reminder of the vows exchanged during marriage. As we navigate this discussion, we invite our listeners to reflect on their own relationships, encouraging them to incorporate holding hands into their daily lives as a means of nurturing marital love and connection. Takeaways: In our podcast, we emphasize the significance of holding hands as a simple yet profound gesture that fosters emotional connection between spouses.We explore the various benefits of holding hands, including the release of feel-good hormones that enhance bonding and well-being in marriage.Holding hands serves as a communication tool, expressing love and reassurance without the need for words, thus reinforcing unity in the relationship.The act of holding hands can significantly reduce stress and anxiety, providing comfort during challenging times and promoting a sense of safety in the marriage. www.marriedandloveit.com/12 "The Power of the Kiss" Songs referred to: "I Want to Hold Your Hand" by the Beatles; "Spooky" by Atlanta Rhythm Section; "Nothing's Going to Stop Us Now" by Starship; "Feel Like Making Love" by Roberta Flack; "This is the Day-A Wedding Song" by Scott Wesley Brown Use this link for email sign up: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11 Website: www.marriedandloveit.com E-mail address is marriedandloveit1977@gmail.com phone 984-270-6062

    31 min

  4. May 21

    The Ultimate Springtime Fling Checklist: 8 Tips to Refresh Your Marriage Heading into the Summer Season

    The holidays have passed, the new year routines have settled in, Valentine's Day is a distant memory and it's easy for love and romance to fall into a routine and the monotony of daily life resumes. This can lead to marital drift, and your marriage can lead to the roommate syndrome. This is why in March we did a series called "Have a Spring Fling with Your Spouse". Because as spring approaches it is a great opportunity to add spark to your marriage. As springtime is winding down and heading into summertime, in this episode we are going to review a checklist drawn from our recent newsletters and podcasts, for a few of the spring fling actions you may have taken in your marriage. As we transition from the routines of daily life into the vibrant energy of summer; our discussion presents eight essential tips aimed at fostering intimacy and connection. Drawing upon our extensive experience and Christian principles, we emphasize the importance of intentionality in nurturing love and affection, thereby preventing the drift into mere cohabitation. This episode serves as a practical checklist to assess and enhance the romantic dynamics within your marriage, encouraging both partners to engage actively in creating a loving atmosphere. Takeaways: The importance of intentional communication in marriage cannot be overstated, as it fosters deeper emotional connections and understanding between partners.Engaging in spontaneous acts of kindness and love serves to rejuvenate the romance in a long-term relationship, breaking the monotony of daily routines.Practicing regular expressions of affection, such as the ten-second kiss, significantly enhances emotional intimacy and strengthens the marital bond.Incorporating small, thoughtful surprises into everyday life can reignite the spark in a marriage, nurturing a sense of excitement and adventure between spouses.Consistent prayer for one another, both individually and together, is vital for nurturing a spiritually connected marriage and fosters a supportive partnership.Understanding and practicing kindness in all interactions with one's spouse promotes a loving atmosphere, encouraging patience and forgiveness during challenging times. www.marriedandloveit.com/12 "The Power of the Kiss" www.marriedandloveit.com/15 (EP 15-18) "Having a Lifestyle of Romance and Passion" www.marriedandloveit.com/64 "Dressing for Success in Your Marriage; What NOT to Wear" www.marriedandloveit.com/65 "Dressing for Success in Your Marriage; What TO Wear" www.marriedandloveit.com/2 "The God Factor; Putting Your Marriage in God's Hands" Use this link for email sign up: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11 Website: www.marriedandloveit.com E-mail address is marriedandloveit1977@gmail.com phone 984-270-6062

    34 min

  5. May 4

    EP 65. Dressing For Success in Your Marriage PT 2; What TO Wear

    It's about who you are and act around and towards your spouse. The latest installment of the Married and Love It podcast delves into the intricate subject of dressing for success within the context of marriage, a theme that encompasses not only the physical attire one chooses to wear but also the metaphorical garments that reflect one’s character and attitude. Greg and Linda Smith, the hosts, draw upon their extensive experience from over four decades of marriage and ministry to underscore the significance of both external appearances and internal dispositions. They articulate that while outer clothing can influence perceptions and interactions, it is the inner clothing—qualities such as kindness, patience, and forgiveness—that truly shape the dynamics of a marital relationship. By exploring the concept of 'dressing for success,' they invite listeners to consider how their personal attributes and behaviors contribute to the overall atmosphere and health of their marriage. Moreover, they emphasize the importance of intentionality in adopting these positive traits, suggesting that just as one carefully selects an outfit for the day, one must also consciously choose to embody virtues that enhance marital harmony. Takeaways: Investing time in one's marriage is paramount, as it fosters a deeper understanding and connection between partners.The concept of 'dressing for success' applies equally to one's internal disposition as it does to external appearance, emphasizing character and behavior.Embracing kindness and compassion towards one's spouse creates a nurturing environment that significantly enhances marital satisfaction.Forgiveness and humility are essential components of a healthy marriage, allowing both partners to grow and flourish together. Links referenced in this episode: marriedandlovet.com Proverbs 21:9, Proverbs 31:26, Proverbs 25:19, Colossians 3:5-9, Galatians 5:19-21, 2 Corinthians 5:17, Galatians 5:14-16, Psalms 139:23-24; Phil.2:2-4 Use this link for email sign up: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11 Website: www.marriedandloveit.com E-mail address is marriedandloveit1977@gmail.com phone 984-270-6062

    33 min

  6. Apr 23

    EP 64. Dressing for Success in Your Marriage PT 1; What NOT to Wear

    It's about who you are and how you act around and towards your spouse. This episode delves deeply into the metaphor of dressing for success within marriage, a concept that transcends mere clothing choices to encompass the very essence of how partners present themselves to one another. Greg and Linda Smith articulate the profound impact that both outward appearances and internal dispositions have on the dynamics of a marital relationship. They reflect on their own experiences, illustrating how the initial excitement of dating can often fade into complacency, leading couples to neglect the importance of maintaining a vibrant and appealing presence for one another. The conversation transitions from discussing external dress to the internal qualities that couples should strive to embody—attributes such as kindness, patience, and attentiveness. The hosts encourage listeners to engage in self-assessment and to communicate openly with their spouses about their desires and perceptions regarding each other's appearances and behaviors. By intertwining scriptural references with practical advice, they provide a holistic approach to nurturing a marriage that thrives on mutual respect and love. The episode concludes with a challenge for couples to reflect on their internal and external presentations, pushing them towards intentional actions that can rejuvenate their relationships and enhance their marital satisfaction. This enriching dialogue offers valuable insights into the conscious efforts needed to sustain love and connection in marriage. Links referenced in this episode: www.marriedandloveit.com Proverbs 21:9, Proverbs 31:26, Proverbs 25:19, Colossians 3:5-9, Galatians 5:19-21, 2 Corinthians 5:17, Galatians 5:14-16, Psalms 139:23-24 Use this link for email sign up: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11 Website: www.marriedandloveit.com E-mail address is marriedandloveit1977@gmail.com phone 984-270-6062

    29 min

  7. Apr 7

    EP 63. Practical Tips on How to Love Your Husband God's Way. PT 3

    The central theme of this podcast episode revolves around the profound impact a wife's attitude and actions can have on her husband, particularly in the context of love and support. We, Greg and Linda Smith, delve into the intricate dynamics of marriage, emphasizing the importance of treating one's spouse with reverence and attentiveness. Drawing from both scripture and our extensive experience, we explore practical strategies that wives can employ to uplift their husbands, thereby fostering a nurturing and harmonious relationship. This episode continues our series on loving your husband in alignment with divine principles, offering insights that are not only applicable but also transformative. Join us as we navigate these essential topics, aiming to equip you with the tools to cultivate a flourishing marriage. Takeaways: Investing time in understanding your husband fosters a deeper connection and love.A wife's role in honoring her husband is fundamental to a thriving marriage.Communication is essential; express your needs clearly to avoid misunderstandings.Forgiveness is a crucial aspect of a loving relationship; be quick to apologize. Use this link for email sign up: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11 Website: www.marriedandloveit.com E-mail address is marriedandloveit1977@gmail.com phone 984-270-6062

    40 min

  8. Mar 25

    EP 62. Practical Tips on How to Love Your Husband God's Way. PT 2

    Takeaways: Engaging in daily reflections on how to honor and ease your husband's life can significantly strengthen marital bonds.Asking for your husband's opinions on minor decisions fosters involvement and reinforces his value within the relationship.Remembering small details that matter to your husband, such as his favorite meals or activities, can greatly enhance his sense of being loved and appreciated.Creating a shared decision-making process about family schedules can alleviate stress and promote teamwork in marriage.Encouraging open communication by allowing your husband to decompress before discussing daily events is crucial for a harmonious home environment.Involving your husband in discussions about your schedule can improve both your prioritization and mutual understanding of responsibilities. referred episodes: EP 40-44--Ten steps to Treasuring your Wife (click on the following link) www.marriedandloveit.com/40 Links referenced in this episode: www.marriedandloveit.com Use this link for email sign up: https://lp.constantcontactpages.com/sl/LFxOu11 Website: www.marriedandloveit.com E-mail address is marriedandloveit1977@gmail.com phone 984-270-6062

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On our weekly podcast, we will be sharing with you covering anything that has to do with marriage including the hot topics of love, sex, and communication. We'll be sharing from our own experiences from 48 plus years of marriage and what we have learned along the way through research and helping other couples to MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE GREAT. We want to provide preventive maintenance and strengthen the good marriages, freshen up stale or boring marriages, heal hurting or dying marriages, prepare people for marriage and stop divorce. Our goal is to hear you say that YOU are MARRIED AND LOVE IT!

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  • Creator
    Greg and Linda Smith
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    70
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2026 Greg and Linda Smith
  • Show Website
    Married and Love It