Me in the Making Podcast

Melissa Clay
  • 5.0 (21)
  • Self-Improvement
  • Updated Weekly

The Me in the Making podcast is about self-discovery and encouraging personal introspection. I believe that in order to grow, you have to keep evolving after you've learned new information and I'm curious how that manifests in others' lives.

  1. 2d ago

    What Is Generative AI Actually Costing Your Creativity and Relationships?

    What would it cost you to fully be yourself unapologetically, without hiding behind AI? Watch the video episode here: https://youtu.be/LefIowmxAZ0  I explore the personal and social costs of relying on generative AI in this solo episode. I make a case that we should actively avoid AI in creative and personal spaces so we can protect human connection and creative autonomy. I get into why leaning into the "cringe" of being fully yourself is far more valuable than leaning into who you think you should be. I talk about how choosing creative authenticity over automated output can build your confidence, protect genuine collaboration, and grow real connection in your everyday life. New here? Check out seasons 1-3 in this feed for audio, and watch season 3 on my YouTube channel. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season. Follow my newsletter:  https://substack.com/@makingmepod/posts   Follow me on social media: https://www.tiktok.com/@makingmepod https://www.instagram.com/makingmepod/   Check out my website: https://makingmepod.com/   Email me: meli@makingmepod.com

    What Is Generative AI Actually Costing Your Creativity and Relationships?

  2. 6d ago ·  Bonus

    BONUS - In the Running

    Fun news!! Me in the Making podcast is in the running for a nomination for a 2026 Black Podcasting Award in the Best Episode of the Year category! I need your help. Please cast your vote for Me in the Making on of before Monday, 9/7/2026. Vote here: http://blackpod.awardsplatform.com/  The steps are simple! Create an account, click on 2026 Public Voting Booth, select the Best Episode of the Year category, scroll down and vote for Me in the Making. You can only vote once per category, so please make it count. Your vote will be counted immediately when you click on the heart icon.  DM me on Tiktok or IG if you have any questions! https://www.tiktok.com/@makingmepod https://www.instagram.com/makingmepod/

    BONUS - In the Running

  3. Sep 1

    Living Beyond Societal Expectations & Reframing Success

    Why do we spend so much time stressing over milestones we might not even want? Watch the video episode here: https://youtu.be/Mp6r67ZESEU  I talk through the concepts of life milestones, aging, and self-definition in my solo episode. Do you think you're living the life you actually want, or the one you feel like you should be living? The lifespan in America is roughly 80 years and 80 years is both a blip in history but it's a long time to live so why not live it authentically. I unpack the trap of social comparison, the value of mental health support, and the peace that comes with realizing 80 years leaves plenty of time to reinvent yourself. New here? Check out seasons 1-3 in this feed for audio, and watch season 3 on my YouTube channel. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season. Follow my newsletter:  https://substack.com/@makingmepod/posts   Follow me on social media: https://www.tiktok.com/@makingmepod https://www.instagram.com/makingmepod/   Check out my website: https://makingmepod.com/   Email me: meli@makingmepod.com

    Living Beyond Societal Expectations & Reframing Success

  4. Aug 25

    Finding Your Voice: How Pop Culture & Media Shape Our Creative Journey feat. Eteng Ettah

    What does your favorite TV show say about society, and how do you use your own story to make a real cultural impact? I connect with Eteng Ettah, host of Consider This for Comfort podcast, to unpack media commentary, creative self-expression, and personal growth . Watch the episode here: https://youtu.be/Mp6r67ZESEU Eteng shares her origin story, from watching pop culture shows as a kid to studying social influence and launching her own podcast and newsletter. We explore the loss of media monoculture, the importance of surrounding yourself with people who see your vision, and how to stop letting your ideas live only in your head. Packed with humor, inspiration, and actionable advice, this episode is a guide for anyone stepping into their purpose. Follow Eteng:  https://www.instagram.com/considercomfortpod/  https://www.instagram.com/etenggg  https://www.etengettah.com/    New here? Check out seasons 1-3 in this feed for audio, and watch season 3 on my YouTube channel. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season. Follow my newsletter:  https://substack.com/@makingmepod/posts   Follow me on social media: https://www.tiktok.com/@makingmepod https://www.instagram.com/makingmepod/   Check out my website: https://makingmepod.com/   Email me: meli@makingmepod.com

    Finding Your Voice: How Pop Culture & Media Shape Our Creative Journey feat. Eteng Ettah

  5. Aug 18

    How to Pivot Your Career, Leverage LinkedIn, & Navigate Infertility feat. Dr. Tajuana Lordeus

    You don't have to fit into a single box to succeed and my guest Dr. Tajuana Lordeus is living proof. We have an inspiring conversation on career pivots, overcoming self-doubt, and creating a life filled with purpose. Watch the episode here: https://youtu.be/Oz7SXyoCz9A  Tajuana reflects on her path as a Black woman in medicine, from finding her calling as a Physician Associate to advocating for diversity in healthcare. She drops practical career advice on cold-messaging on LinkedIn and stepping into public speaking despite stage fright.  Beyond her career, Tajuana opens up about finding love in her 30s, navigating infertility and fibroids, rethinking motherhood, and publishing children's books to uplift Black youth . Whether you are exploring healthcare careers, looking to expand your professional network, or navigating personal life transitions, this episode offers rich wisdom on resilience, self-advocacy, and growth . Follow Tajuana and check out her books!  Facebook LinkedIn Email The Little Brown Boy - Premier The Little Brown Boy with the Red Scarf goes to Chicago   New here? Check out seasons 1-3 in this feed for audio, and watch season 3 on my YouTube channel. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season. Follow my newsletter:  https://substack.com/@makingmepod/posts   Follow me on social media: https://www.tiktok.com/@makingmepod https://www.instagram.com/makingmepod/   Check out my website: https://makingmepod.com/   Email me: meli@makingmepod.com

    How to Pivot Your Career, Leverage LinkedIn, & Navigate Infertility feat. Dr. Tajuana Lordeus

  6. Aug 11

    Finding Love Later in Life: Reconnecting & Marriage After Divorce feat. Camille

    Is it ever too late to rewrite your story, find love later in life, and start completely fresh ? I welcome my guest Camille for an empowering discussion on second chances, marriage after divorce, and finding joy through every season of life . Watch the episode here: https://youtu.be/dIyq18JD_3o  From her career life, navigating major family losses, and reconnecting with a longtime friend, Camille shares how every pivot led her to where she is today . She offers a fresh, honest look at what makes second marriages thrive, how to keep relationships exciting, and why getting older is something to celebrate rather than fear . Whether you are navigating midlife transitions, looking for hope after divorce, or seeking inspiration for your own journey of self-discovery, this episode offers a warm and uplifting perspective on love, friendship, and starting fresh .   New here? Check out seasons 1-3 in this feed for audio, and watch season 3 on my YouTube channel. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season. Follow my newsletter:  https://substack.com/@makingmepod/posts   Follow me on social media: https://www.tiktok.com/@makingmepod https://www.instagram.com/makingmepod/   Check out my website: https://makingmepod.com/   Email me: meli@makingmepod.com

    Finding Love Later in Life: Reconnecting & Marriage After Divorce feat. Camille

  7. Aug 4

    Why I Stopped Chasing the Algorithm & Reclaimed My Life feat. Leo Ra'Chel

    Are you feeling burnt out by the constant pressure to produce, perform, and stay visible online ? I welcome Leo Ra'Chel (founder of The Phat Girl Chronicles and PGC Media) for an inspiring conversation on personal development, introspection, and emotional wellness . Watch the episode here: https://youtu.be/QkBtS_F2hlw  Leo shares her raw journey through grief after experiencing a profound personal loss. She discusses re-evaluating who she was outside of other people's expectations . She shares how therapy helped her navigate depression and anxiety and how shedding people-pleasing tendencies led her into a bold new chapter of life . We dive into the reality of burnout in the digital age, why rest is non-negotiable, and how genuine connection always beats algorithm-driven content . Follow Leo on social media- https://www.instagram.com/iamleorachel/  https://www.tiktok.com/@iamleorachel  https://www.facebook.com/iamleorachel/  https://www.facebook.com/pgcmediaco/  https://www.youtube.com/c/ThePhatGirlChronicles     New here? Check out seasons 1-3 in this feed for audio, and watch season 3 on my YouTube channel. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season. Follow my newsletter:  https://substack.com/@makingmepod/posts   Follow me on social media: https://www.tiktok.com/@makingmepod https://www.instagram.com/makingmepod/   Check out my website: https://makingmepod.com/   Email me: meli@makingmepod.com

    Why I Stopped Chasing the Algorithm & Reclaimed My Life feat. Leo Ra'Chel

  8. Jul 28

    The Hard Truth I Learned About Friendship & Finding Where You Belong

    Have you ever looked around at the spaces you occupy and realized you don't actually belong there? In this solo episode, I reflect on the power of self-discovery and what happens when you finally decide to choose yourself . Watch the episode here: https://youtu.be/rOG1sY-Mkfo  I share about walking away from unsupportive spaces to self-publishing my short story When the Lights Come Up, and I discuss how this podcast became a manifestation of my personal growth . This book explores universal themes of identity, belonging, and building community that genuinely pours back into you . Whether you're on your own healing journey, looking for encouragement, or interested in the self-publishing path of an independent author, tune in for an uplifting discussion on community, intentionality, and taking control of your own narrative. New here? Check out seasons 1-3 in this feed for audio, and watch season 3 on my YouTube channel. If you've been here and a subscriber, thank you for sticking with me! It means so much to me and I hope we can connect this season. Follow my newsletter:  https://substack.com/@makingmepod/posts   Follow me on social media: https://www.tiktok.com/@makingmepod https://www.instagram.com/makingmepod/   Check out my website: https://makingmepod.com/   Email me: meli@makingmepod.com

    The Hard Truth I Learned About Friendship & Finding Where You Belong
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The Me in the Making podcast is about self-discovery and encouraging personal introspection. I believe that in order to grow, you have to keep evolving after you've learned new information and I'm curious how that manifests in others' lives.

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  • Creator
    Melissa Clay
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    74
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2022
  • Show Website
    Me in the Making Podcast