Men Are Forged

Cartwright Morris

MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to build the foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, identity, single life, leadership, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be. If you are a man in your 20s and 30s who wants to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.my.canva.site/ or message Cartwright on LinkedIn.

  1. 2D AGO

    Life Ain't About the Next Thing | Episode 149

    Embracing Present and Purpose in Your 20s and 30s: Insights on Growth, Gratitude, and Control In this episode, Bo and Cartwright explore how men in their twenties and thirties grapple with control, purpose, and contentment. We uncover practical ways to stay present, shift perspectives, and embrace God's timing amid life's uncertainties. Key Topics The importance of being present over chasing the next milestoneHow historical and biblical context inform our understanding of work and purposeOvercoming anxiety related to control and future expectationsDeveloping gratitude as a discipline to foster fulfillmentRecognizing the false promise that more success or possessions bring peaceBuilding meaningful friendship through vulnerability and humilityPractical tools like journaling and brain dumps to process emotionsThe role of community and mentorship in growthTimestamps 00:00 - Setting the stage: Why focus on purpose, control, and presence  02:10 - Introducing the podcast and the conversation's heart  03:06 - Lessons from older generations: Success, failure, and wisdom  04:26 - Comparing past and present distractions and wisdom gained  05:26 - The myth that getting the next thing will bring peace  06:17 - Cultural and biblical insights on history and purpose  07:48 - How early American immigrant mindset shaped our work ethic  09:39 - The danger of future-focused living that misses the present  10:56 - Addressing the desire for achievement in singleness and marriage  12:19 - Practical steps: Practicing gratitude daily  13:16 - The benefit of being fully present and adding value  14:23 - The biblical example of Jesus’ presence amid chaos  15:56 - The regional scope of Christianity and its global implications  16:09 - Where these mindsets most show up today (career, family)  16:38 - The freeing reality: Control is limited, trusting God is key  17:34 - The importance of leaving results to God and practicing patience  19:01 - The pitfalls of success stories like Zuckerberg and Musk  20:06 - Common mistakes in dating: Focusing on image over character  21:27 - The enduring value of shared values and interests in relationships  22:22 - Simple actions for men to break free from cycle of dissatisfaction  23:47 - Embracing a holistic view of success and life balance  24:13 - Learning to stop, reflect, and be present with those around us  25:31 - Shifting from drive to adding value and practicing gratitude  26:10 - One major takeaway: Recognize the interconnectedness of your journey  27:19 - Refle Send in a question for Bo & Cartwright Transform your health and wellbeing by taking Bravenly products! Hydrate with BravenlyTransform your health routine with Bravenly Hydrate and enjoy the benefits of peak hydration!Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s and 30s into great men. Discussing topics and addressing challenges that equip men to lead humbly and courageously. Through reflection and boldness, men will grow in life and leadership and ultimately, add value to others in their business, community, and family. If you are an emerging leader in your organization who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com or schedule a time to meet.

    37 min
  2. FEB 4

    Navigating Sacrifice as High Performing Men with Bo and Cartwright | Episode 148

    In this episode, Bo and Cartwright delve into the complexities of sacrifice in the lives of Christian men in their 20s and 30s. They explore the tension between personal ambitions and family responsibilities, the importance of humility, and the need for self-reflection. Through biblical examples and personal anecdotes, they emphasize the significance of understanding what sacrifices are truly beneficial and which may lead to self-destruction. The conversation encourages listeners to evaluate their lives, seek wise counsel, and prioritize their relationships with God, family, and community. Takeaways Sacrifice is a law that everyone must navigate. Understanding the difference between good and bad sacrifices is crucial. Men often sacrifice family time for career ambitions. Ego can hinder personal growth and relationships. Being present for family is more important than professional success. Sacrificing time for self-reflection is essential for growth. Biblical figures exemplify the importance of sacrifice. Single men also face sacrifices in their journey. Community support is vital for personal development. Identifying what to sacrifice can lead to a more fulfilling life. Sound bites "Sacrifice your ego for humility." "You have to be a safe place to fail." "Good sacrifice vs. self-destruction." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Its Purpose 02:09 Understanding Sacrifice in Christian Life 08:02 Good vs. Bad Sacrifices: The Tension of Choices 13:51 The Impact of Sacrifice on Family and Relationships 20:00 Navigating Ego and Humility in Sacrifice 26:03 The Role of Sacrifice in Personal Growth 31:54 Sacrifice in the Context of Fatherhood 37:53 Biblical Examples of Sacrifice 44:03 Reflecting on Personal Sacrifices 50:05 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Keywords sacrifice, Christian men, family, relationships, personal growth, ego, humility, biblical examples, fatherhood, self-reflection Send in a question for Bo & Cartwright Transform your health and wellbeing by taking Bravenly products! Support the show MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s and 30s into great men. Discussing topics and addressing challenges that equip men to lead humbly and courageously. Through reflection and boldness, men will grow in life and leadership and ultimately, add value to others in their business, community, and family. If you are an emerging leader in your organization who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com or schedule a time to meet.

    57 min
  3. JAN 28

    How Bo Knows Coaching...and Cartwright | Episode 147

    Bo and Cartwright delve into the dynamics of coaching and mentorship, exploring the impact of having a coach on personal and professional growth. They discuss the importance of humility, self-reflection, and the value of being in a supportive community. The conversation touches on the challenges faced by men in their 20s and 30s, including career struggles, addiction, and the quest for identity and purpose. Through personal anecdotes and insights, the hosts emphasize the transformative power of coaching and the significance of seeking guidance and support. Keywords coaching, mentorship, personal growth, professional development, humility, self-reflection, community support, career struggles, addiction, identity, purpose Takeaways Coaching provides a supportive environment for personal growth.Humility and self-reflection are key to personal development.Community support is crucial for overcoming challenges.Career struggles are common among men in their 20s and 30s.Addiction often stems from a lack of purpose and direction.Identity and purpose are central themes in personal development.Coaching helps in balancing personal and professional life.Seeking guidance is a sign of strength, not weakness.Transformative change requires openness to feedback.Building a supportive network is essential for success.Sound bites Coaching provides a supportive environment. Humility is key to personal growth. Community support is crucial. Career struggles are common. Addiction stems from lack of purpose. Identity is central to development. Coaching balances personal and professional life. Guidance is a sign of strength. Transformative change needs feedback. Supportive networks are essential. Chapters 00:00:03 Introduction to Coaching00:01:55 The Role of Humility and Self-Reflection00:03:15 Career Struggles and Identity00:05:57 Addiction and Purpose00:10:45 Building a Supportive Community00:16:48 Transformative Power of Coaching Send in a question for Bo & Cartwright Transform your health and wellbeing by taking Bravenly products! Support the show MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s and 30s into great men. Discussing topics and addressing challenges that equip men to lead humbly and courageously. Through reflection and boldness, men will grow in life and leadership and ultimately, add value to others in their business, community, and family. If you are an emerging leader in your organization who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com or schedule a time to meet.

    49 min
  4. JAN 23

    FRIDAY SPORTS TALK | Build Culture before Talent (Reaction to Cole Cubelic Rant)

    In this episode, Bo and Cartwright dive into a passionate discussion about the current state of college football, particularly focusing on Auburn's recent player departures and the mindset surrounding them. They reference a notable rant by Cole Cubelic, emphasizing the flawed obsession with individual players who have not significantly impacted the team's success. They highlight the changing landscape of college football, where success is increasingly tied to the maturity and cohesion of the team rather than just star recruits. The conversation also touches on the cultural issues within Auburn's football program, suggesting that the university has historically struggled to maintain a winning mentality. Bo and Cartwright advocate for a shift in mindset among fans and the program itself, urging them to trust the current coaching staff and their approach to building a competitive team. They conclude by stressing the importance of prioritizing culture over talent, arguing that a strong foundation will ultimately lead to better performance on the field. Listen to the Cole Cubelic rant on X: https://x.com/macandcube/status/2011090485155086384?s=20 Watch to the Full Episode of McElroy and Cubelic in the Morning: https://www.youtube.com/live/fofV_5Zm_yA?si=8QyexnvHCr9L8GOT Auburn football, Cole Cubelic, college football culture, player mindset, team building, NIL impact, recruiting strategy, sports commentary, college football analysis Takeaways No player cripples a program when they leave. We need to stop obsessing over individual players. It's about building a culture, not just recruiting talent. The landscape of college football has changed significantly. Trust the coaching staff's vision for the program. Sound bites "That is a loser mindset to think, oh, he's leaving." "It's about getting the most grown men and experience." "We need to stop trying to be like them." Chapters 00:00 The Cole Cubelic Rant: A Wake-Up Call for Auburn Fans 02:54 Shifting Mindsets: Moving Beyond Individual Players 06:07 The Changing Landscape of College Football 09:07 Building a Winning Culture vs. Relying on Talent 12:10 The Role of Coaching in Player Development 14:53 Auburn's Cultural Challenges and Future Directions 17:33 Conclusion: Embracing Change and Trusting the Process Send in a question for Bo & Cartwright Transform your health and wellbeing by taking Bravenly products! Support the show MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s and 30s into great men. Discussing topics and addressing challenges that equip men to lead humbly and courageously. Through reflection and boldness, men will grow in life and leadership and ultimately, add value to others in their business, community, and family. If you are an emerging leader in your organization who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com or schedule a time to meet.

    25 min
  5. JAN 21

    Know What Motivates You with Bo and Cartwright | Ep 146

    In this episode, Bo and Cartwright explore the motivations of young Christian men, discussing the complexities of identity, ambition, and the quest for happiness. They delve into the four primary motivations—money, power, pleasure, and fame—and reflect on personal experiences that shape these motivations. The conversation emphasizes the importance of being present, the role of community, and the need for grace in navigating life's challenges. Ultimately, the hosts encourage listeners to evaluate their motivations and seek fulfillment beyond external validation. Takeaways Understanding what truly motivates us can lead to clarity. Money, power, pleasure, and fame are common motivators. External motivations often lead to emptiness. Recognizing the influence of culture on our motivations is crucial. Fatherhood brings new challenges to identity and motivation. Happiness is often tied to our relationship with the Creator. Being present in the moment is essential for fulfillment. Ambition should not overshadow the importance of relationships. Living in the tension of faith and life is a continuous journey. Community and grace are vital for personal growth. Sound bites "Money, power, pleasure, and fame." "What motivates you?" "We all seek the same things." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Journey of Young Christian Men 02:59 Understanding Core Motivations: Money, Power, Pleasure, and Fame 05:48 Personal Stories and Reflections on Motivation 09:12 The Role of Recognition and Identity in Motivation 12:07 Navigating the Challenges of Fatherhood and Identity 15:07 The Quest for Happiness and the Role of the Creator 17:55 The Importance of Being Present in Life 20:56 Finding the Right Motivations in Your 20s and 30s 23:57 The Tension Between Ambition and Contentment 27:07 Living in the Tension of Faith and Life 29:54 The Importance of Community and Grace 33:04 Conclusion: Embracing the Journey with Grace Keywords Christianity, motivation, young men, identity, happiness, fatherhood, community, grace, ambition, presence Send in a question for Bo & Cartwright Transform your health and wellbeing by taking Bravenly products! Support the show MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s and 30s into great men. Discussing topics and addressing challenges that equip men to lead humbly and courageously. Through reflection and boldness, men will grow in life and leadership and ultimately, add value to others in their business, community, and family. If you are an emerging leader in your organization who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com or schedule a time to meet.

    44 min
  6. JAN 7

    The Tension of Work and Rest with NEW Co-host Bo Morgan | Ep 144

    In this episode of MEN ARE FORGED, Bo and Cartwright tackle the balance of work and rest—a tension every driven man feels but few manage well. We talk about the pressure to grind, the guilt that comes with slowing down, and how burnout quietly erodes leadership, faith, and family. This conversation reframes rest not as weakness or laziness, but as discipline, obedience, and wisdom. If you’re a man in your 20s or 30s trying to build something meaningful without losing yourself in the process, this episode will challenge how you think about productivity, purpose, and sustainable leadership. Send in a question for Bo & Cartwright Transform your health and wellbeing by taking Bravenly products! Hydrate with BravenlyTransform your health routine with Bravenly Hydrate and enjoy the benefits of peak hydration!Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s and 30s into great men. Discussing topics and addressing challenges that equip men to lead humbly and courageously. Through reflection and boldness, men will grow in life and leadership and ultimately, add value to others in their business, community, and family. If you are an emerging leader in your organization who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com or schedule a time to meet.

    28 min
4.9
out of 5
35 Ratings

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MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to build the foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, identity, single life, leadership, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be. If you are a man in your 20s and 30s who wants to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.my.canva.site/ or message Cartwright on LinkedIn.