Men Are Forged

Cartwright Morris

MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to embrace the struggles of life and work and build unshakeable foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! If you are a young professional man who struggles balancing faith, work, and life...Go to cartwrightmorris.com.

  1. MAR 4

    Embrace Being A Good Man Over A Great One | Episode 152

    In this episode, Cartwright Morris and Bo Morgan discuss the intersection of social media, politics, and personal growth, particularly focusing on the distinction between being a good man and a great man. They explore how societal pressures and political discourse can create anxiety and division, emphasizing the importance of humility, kindness, and personal influence in everyday life. The conversation highlights the need for men to focus on their immediate relationships and responsibilities rather than getting lost in the chaos of political debates and social media. SEND IN A QUESTION to be answered on our monthly Q&A Takeaways The importance of personal updates in life transitions. Navigating the complexities of social media and politics. The distinction between good men and great men. Influence should be focused on immediate relationships. Everyday acts of kindness are crucial for personal growth. Politics often creates anxiety and division among people. Embracing the tension of life is essential for growth. Caring for our immediate circle is a priority. The ends do not justify the means in moral discussions. Choosing good is fundamental to combating evil. Titles Navigating Life's Changes: Personal Updates and Reflections The Intersection of Social Media and Politics  sound bites "Politics creates anxiety and division." "Good men hold up a mirror for us." "The ends do not justify the means." Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates 03:36 Navigating Social Media and Politics 06:33 The Good Man vs. Great Man Debate 09:00 The Role of Influence and Responsibility 11:54 Everyday Acts of Kindness vs. Greatness 14:39 The Impact of Politics on Personal Lives 17:25 The Burden of Social Media Expectations 20:19 Finding Balance in Political Engagement 23:47 Manipulation in Politics and Relationships 30:06 The Politics of Self-Promotion 32:07 Influence vs. Strong Opinions 34:25 Navigating Core Values and Government Overreach 36:29 The Role of Christians in Politics 39:15 Balancing Family and Political Engagement 41:41 The Importance of Presence 43:58 Real Leverage in Personal Relationships 45:57 The Shift in Political Commentary 49:25 Maturity in Political Convictions 52:25 The Impact of Political Actions 56:01 Choosing Good Over Political Ends Support the show MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to embrace the struggles of life and work and build unshakeable foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! If you are a young professional man who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com.

    1h 2m
  2. MONDAY Q&A | Navigating Life's Challenges with Faith

    MAR 2

    MONDAY Q&A | Navigating Life's Challenges with Faith

    In the First Q&A session, Bo and Cartwright tackle pressing questions from young professional men about balancing life, faith, leadership, and anxiety. They emphasize the importance of prioritizing faith in daily life, the necessity of self-awareness in leadership, and the challenges of managing anxiety. The conversation also explores effective ways to share one's faith with others, highlighting the significance of personal stories over theological debates. Throughout the discussion, the hosts encourage listeners to seek support and not navigate their struggles alone. Questions asked... 1. How can us as young adults live a balanced life that meets the goals and demands we have, while also prioritizing our faith above everything else? 2. What does leadership shaped by Christ look like in the workplace as a younger person?  3. Does most anxiety come from inability to release control of things out of our control?  4. Tips from bringing friends/others to Christ  Takeaways Prioritizing faith involves aligning your daily actions with your relationship with Jesus. Living a balanced life requires defining your goals and understanding your limitations. Self-awareness is crucial for effective leadership and personal growth. Anxiety often stems from the desire to control outcomes that are beyond our control. Sharing your faith is more about your personal story than theological arguments. Building trust with others is essential before sharing your beliefs. It's important to invite Jesus into your decision-making process. Saying no to commitments can be a powerful act of self-care. Engaging in open conversations about anxiety can lead to clarity and understanding. Don't navigate life's challenges alone; seek support from others. Keywords faith, balance, leadership, anxiety, sharing faith, self-awareness, life challenges, Christian life, personal growth, Q&A  sound bites "Don't do it alone." "What is anxiety telling you?" "You can't control everything." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Q&A Session 02:42 Balancing Life and Faith 17:35 Leadership and Ego in the Workplace 30:26 Understanding Anxiety and Control 35:40 The Role of Communication in Relationships 41:12 Navigating Anxiety in Marriage 48:19 Sharing Faith with Friends and Coworkers Hydrate with BravenlyTransform your health routine with Bravenly Hydrate and enjoy the benefits of peak hydration!Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to embrace the struggles of life and work and build unshakeable foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! If you are a young professional man who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com.

    1 hr
  3. FEB 25

    Identity Forged in Adversity: Lessons from the Movie, Gladiator | Episode 151

    In this episode, we explore the profound questions of identity, especially when stripped away of external accomplishments or roles. Using cinematic examples like Gladiator and real-life leadership stories, we examine how adversity reveals who we truly are and how our faith anchors our sense of self. Key topics: How adversity impacts a man's sense of identity, using Gladiator as a metaphor for when all external roles are taken away.The peril of attaching self-worth to success, failure, or external validation.The example of reluctant leaders, like George Washington, illustrating humility as a mark of true strength.The significance of community, failure, and humility in shaping authentic masculinity.Practical ways men in their 20s and 30s can prepare for authority by cultivating humility and self-awareness.The dangers of false humility versus genuine confidence rooted in identity in Christ.How life's hard moments—parenting, career setbacks, or failure—are the tools that shape resilient, grounded men.Timestamps: 00:00 - Building identity through adversity with Gladiator 02:00 - The role of men’s desire for a battlefield and sanctuary 03:15 - Contrast between Maximus and Commodus—power and manipulation 04:41 - The significance of loss and the Problem of identity in its absence 05:39 - Resurrection and identity: becoming who we are when stripped of everything 06:39 - Biblical perspective: Matthew 3:17 - our worth as sons of God 07:47 - The moment of standing with nothing to prove—what it reveals about integrity 08:28 - Living from acceptance, not for validation in faith and life 09:09 - The temptation of the hero’s journey and mastering humility 10:24 - Reluctant leaders—George Washington and others’ humility 12:20 - Power’s corrupting influence and the importance of rooted virtue 13:58 - The danger of authority abuse and the importance of knowing oneself 16:23 - Preparing young men for leadership: humility, failure, and self-awareness 19:11 - Balancing ambition and humility—living in tension 20:38 - The ongoing process of self-awareness in decision making 22:28 - Responding to social pressure and authenticity under scrutiny 27:44 - The importance of humility in team and success recognition 28:44 - True affirmation from identity in Christ vs. false humility 32:23 - Living from acceptance daily, not for approval 35:55 - Creating healthy cultures by embracing failure and transparency 37:54 - The role of family and career identity, especially in early fatherhood 40:15 - The impact of hard choices and parenthood on longevity and character 43:11 - When does identity start to be questioned? Early 20s, especially post-college 45:16 - The tension between success and relational health in coaching and sports 48:44 - How to distinguish a calling from identity in our work 50:14 - The significance of knowing we're more than our jobs 52:06 - The core of building character: the ongoing tension between purpose and humility Support the show MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to embrace the struggles of life and work and build unshakeable foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! If you are a young professional man who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com.

    54 min
  4. FRIDAY SPORTS TALK | Navigating the Chaos of NIL in College Football

    FEB 20

    FRIDAY SPORTS TALK | Navigating the Chaos of NIL in College Football

    In this episode of the 2nd installment of "Friday Sports Talk", Cartwright and Bo dive deep into the evolving landscape of college football, particularly focusing on the impact of the transfer portal and NIL (Name, Image, Likeness) deals. They discuss how the transfer portal has changed the dynamics of college sports, with over 10,000 players entering it, and highlights the challenges many face in finding new opportunities. They reflect on the implications of this shift, noting a sense of disillusionment and entitlement among young athletes, and how the influx of money from NIL deals complicates the situation further. They emphasize the need for a balance between financial opportunities and the development of character and discipline in young athletes. Send in a Question for our QnA Segment on the First Monday of the Month Keywords: college football, transfer portal, NIL deals, sports culture, athlete development Takeaways The transfer portal has seen over 10,000 players enter, with many still searching for teams. There's a growing sense of entitlement among young athletes regarding their opportunities. The influx of money in college sports complicates the development of young athletes' character. Sound bites "The game is completely changed." "It's nuts." "We're teaching them that, one. And then two, we're flooding them with all this cash." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Friday Sports Talk 01:04 The Transfer Portal Landscape 03:18 Disillusionment and Entitlement in Young Athletes 06:16 The Impact of NIL on Player Dynamics 10:32 Discipline and Culture in College Football 13:41 The Future of College Football and Its Challenges 19:34 Setting Athletes Up for Success or Failure 24:08 The Need for Change in College Sports Support the show MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to embrace the struggles of life and work and build unshakeable foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! If you are a young professional man who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com.

    31 min
  5. FEB 18

    Your Humbling Moments Will Shape You...If You Let Them | Episode 150

    This episode dives into the critical role that life's reflection moments—often painful or humbling—play in shaping who we are. By understanding and embracing these inflection points, men can grow into better versions of themselves, both personally and spiritually. We explore the subtle but powerful lessons these moments offer and how to respond intentionally when faced with them. Send a question that we will answer on the pod!  In this episode: The concept of forging moments and their importance in personal growthHow men typically react to painful reflections and the third, healthier optionRecognizing life's mirror moments, especially from loved onesThe significance of receiving feedback eighty percent correctly and the dangers of distractionSpecific stories from leadership and relationships that highlight humility’s rolePractical ways to stay present and gather lessons when feeling embarrassed or challengedThe hero's journey and the importance of failing forward in lifeHow vulnerability and humility increase respect and influenceBalancing growth, humility, and high standards in leadershipAvoiding the trap of narcissism and constant blame in modern menTimestamps: 00:00 – The importance of inflection points in a man's life02:22 – How adversity molds character and the peace in trusting that process03:54 – Responding to humility moments: blame, deflect, or learn07:03 – Recognizing the impact of loved ones' feedback10:08 – Building human connection beyond performance14:54 – Real-life leadership lessons from humility and connection20:21 – The importance of self-reflection in growth and leadership25:20 – Developing people with both performance and character32:23 – Recognizing and managing fight/flight responses during feedback37:47 – Humility in everyday life: a story from Dax Shepard44:21 – humility’s role in leadership and legacyResources & Links: The Hero’s Journey by Joseph CampbellStephen Covey's 7 Habits of Highly Effective PeopleDax Shepard’s PodcastDax's Story at a Nashville Restaurant Connect with Cartwright: LinkedInTwitterSupport the show MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to embrace the struggles of life and work and build unshakeable foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! If you are a young professional man who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com.

    58 min
  6. FEB 11

    Life Ain't About the Next Thing | Episode 149

    Embracing Present and Purpose in Your 20s and 30s: Insights on Growth, Gratitude, and Control In this episode, Bo and Cartwright explore how men in their twenties and thirties grapple with control, purpose, and contentment. We uncover practical ways to stay present, shift perspectives, and embrace God's timing amid life's uncertainties. Key Topics The importance of being present over chasing the next milestoneHow historical and biblical context inform our understanding of work and purposeOvercoming anxiety related to control and future expectationsDeveloping gratitude as a discipline to foster fulfillmentRecognizing the false promise that more success or possessions bring peaceBuilding meaningful friendship through vulnerability and humilityPractical tools like journaling and brain dumps to process emotionsThe role of community and mentorship in growthTimestamps 00:00 - Setting the stage: Why focus on purpose, control, and presence  02:10 - Introducing the podcast and the conversation's heart  03:06 - Lessons from older generations: Success, failure, and wisdom  04:26 - Comparing past and present distractions and wisdom gained  05:26 - The myth that getting the next thing will bring peace  06:17 - Cultural and biblical insights on history and purpose  07:48 - How early American immigrant mindset shaped our work ethic  09:39 - The danger of future-focused living that misses the present  10:56 - Addressing the desire for achievement in singleness and marriage  12:19 - Practical steps: Practicing gratitude daily  13:16 - The benefit of being fully present and adding value  14:23 - The biblical example of Jesus’ presence amid chaos  15:56 - The regional scope of Christianity and its global implications  16:09 - Where these mindsets most show up today (career, family)  16:38 - The freeing reality: Control is limited, trusting God is key  17:34 - The importance of leaving results to God and practicing patience  19:01 - The pitfalls of success stories like Zuckerberg and Musk  20:06 - Common mistakes in dating: Focusing on image over character  21:27 - The enduring value of shared values and interests in relationships  22:22 - Simple actions for men to break free from cycle of dissatisfaction  23:47 - Embracing a holistic view of success and life balance  24:13 - Learning to stop, reflect, and be present with those around us  25:31 - Shifting from drive to adding value and practicing gratitude  26:10 - One major takeaway: Recognize the interconnectedness of your journey  27:19 - Reflection and thankfulness: Allowing time for God to direct your steps  28:39 - The power of journaling and brain dumping for clarity  29:40 - Gratitude in adversity: Recognizing God's hand in the prese Hydrate with BravenlyTransform your health routine with Bravenly Hydrate and enjoy the benefits of peak hydration!Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to embrace the struggles of life and work and build unshakeable foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! If you are a young professional man who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com.

    37 min
  7. FEB 4

    Navigating Sacrifice as High Performing Men with Bo and Cartwright | Episode 148

    In this episode, Bo and Cartwright delve into the complexities of sacrifice in the lives of Christian men in their 20s and 30s. They explore the tension between personal ambitions and family responsibilities, the importance of humility, and the need for self-reflection. Through biblical examples and personal anecdotes, they emphasize the significance of understanding what sacrifices are truly beneficial and which may lead to self-destruction. The conversation encourages listeners to evaluate their lives, seek wise counsel, and prioritize their relationships with God, family, and community. Takeaways Sacrifice is a law that everyone must navigate. Understanding the difference between good and bad sacrifices is crucial. Men often sacrifice family time for career ambitions. Ego can hinder personal growth and relationships. Being present for family is more important than professional success. Sacrificing time for self-reflection is essential for growth. Biblical figures exemplify the importance of sacrifice. Single men also face sacrifices in their journey. Community support is vital for personal development. Identifying what to sacrifice can lead to a more fulfilling life. Sound bites "Sacrifice your ego for humility." "You have to be a safe place to fail." "Good sacrifice vs. self-destruction." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Its Purpose 02:09 Understanding Sacrifice in Christian Life 08:02 Good vs. Bad Sacrifices: The Tension of Choices 13:51 The Impact of Sacrifice on Family and Relationships 20:00 Navigating Ego and Humility in Sacrifice 26:03 The Role of Sacrifice in Personal Growth 31:54 Sacrifice in the Context of Fatherhood 37:53 Biblical Examples of Sacrifice 44:03 Reflecting on Personal Sacrifices 50:05 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Keywords sacrifice, Christian men, family, relationships, personal growth, ego, humility, biblical examples, fatherhood, self-reflection Support the show MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to embrace the struggles of life and work and build unshakeable foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! If you are a young professional man who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com.

    56 min
  8. JAN 28

    How Bo Knows Coaching...and Cartwright | Episode 147

    Bo and Cartwright delve into the dynamics of coaching and mentorship, exploring the impact of having a coach on personal and professional growth. They discuss the importance of humility, self-reflection, and the value of being in a supportive community. The conversation touches on the challenges faced by men in their 20s and 30s, including career struggles, addiction, and the quest for identity and purpose. Through personal anecdotes and insights, the hosts emphasize the transformative power of coaching and the significance of seeking guidance and support. Keywords coaching, mentorship, personal growth, professional development, humility, self-reflection, community support, career struggles, addiction, identity, purpose Takeaways Coaching provides a supportive environment for personal growth.Humility and self-reflection are key to personal development.Community support is crucial for overcoming challenges.Career struggles are common among men in their 20s and 30s.Addiction often stems from a lack of purpose and direction.Identity and purpose are central themes in personal development.Coaching helps in balancing personal and professional life.Seeking guidance is a sign of strength, not weakness.Transformative change requires openness to feedback.Building a supportive network is essential for success.Sound bites Coaching provides a supportive environment. Humility is key to personal growth. Community support is crucial. Career struggles are common. Addiction stems from lack of purpose. Identity is central to development. Coaching balances personal and professional life. Guidance is a sign of strength. Transformative change needs feedback. Supportive networks are essential. Chapters 00:00:03 Introduction to Coaching00:01:55 The Role of Humility and Self-Reflection00:03:15 Career Struggles and Identity00:05:57 Addiction and Purpose00:10:45 Building a Supportive Community00:16:48 Transformative Power of Coaching Support the show MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to embrace the struggles of life and work and build unshakeable foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! If you are a young professional man who needs to build a foundation for faith and leadership...Go to cartwrightmorris.com.

    49 min
4.9
out of 5
35 Ratings

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MEN ARE FORGED is forging men in their 20s to embrace the struggles of life and work and build unshakeable foundations of faith, leadership, and purpose. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! If you are a young professional man who struggles balancing faith, work, and life...Go to cartwrightmorris.com.