Men Are Forged

Cartwright Morris

MEN ARE FORGED equips young professional men to own the story God has for them—building identity, character, and meaningful success. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! Find out more about the Young Professional Development Program: https://forms.gle/KqS2YVwemNGd7DtNA

  1. 6d ago

    Why the Name You're Building Won't Last (Babel's Warning) | The FORGE I - Week 6 | S7 E6

    Bo and Cartwright unpack Genesis 11 and trace one of Scripture’s biggest recurring themes: human beings trying to build identity through effort, achievement, and control. The conversation connects Babel to modern performance mindset, church culture, ambition, and the way God consistently moves toward people rather than waiting for them to climb up to him.In this episode, they also connect the tower story to the first command to fill the earth, the Hebrew audience’s history of slave labor in Egypt, and the New Testament reversal in Philippians 2, where Jesus comes down instead of humanity climbing up. Genesis 11, Babel, and the danger of building a name for yourself Key topics Babel is about identity, not architectureThe tower is less about engineering and more about the desire to “make a name” for themselves.Cartwright and Bo point out that the real issue is selfish ambition disguised as spiritual purpose.The first command in Genesis still mattersThey contrast Babel’s gathered upward movement with God’s command to be fruitful, multiply, and fill the earth.Babel is read as a refusal to scatter, grow, and trust God’s design.Performance mindset shows up in GenesisBo names the core struggle directly: constantly trying to prove worth through doing more.The episode ties that mindset to modern Christian life, work, ministry, and masculinity.God’s posture is movement toward peopleThey revisit Adam, Eve, Cain, and Noah to show that God initiates relationship first.The discussion emphasizes that God questions to engage the heart, not to extract information.Religion can become self-justificationCartwright and Bo describe how people can convince themselves they are “doing it for God” while actually doing it to secure approval for themselves.The tower becomes a picture of humanity trying to earn access, status, and security.The Hebrew audience would have recognized the patternThey connect Babel to Israel’s history in Egypt, where slaves built monuments for powerful men.That makes Babel a warning that oppressive “build for my name” systems did not begin with Pharaoh.Language, difference, and humility matterThe confusion of languages is discussed as both judgment and mercy.They reflect on how diversity can force people into humility, cooperation, and deeper love.Power without character becomes dangerousCartwright and Bo note that giftedness can outgrow character.They connect this to pride, influence, and the temptation to use success as proof of significance.Jesus reverses BabelThe episode closes by contrasting human effort upward with Christ’s descent in Philippians 2.Babel grasps upward for a name; Jesus humbles himself and is given the name above every name.Timestamps 01:26 - Week six reflection and why Genesis keeps revealing God’s character  03:18 - Babel or Babylon? Why the translation detail caught their attention  04:28 - “A name you build for yourself is fragile”  04:56 - Reading Genesis 11:1-4 and the move toward Shinar  05:46 - Making bricks, building up, and making a name for themselves  06:51 - The first command: be fruitful, multiply, and fill the earth  07:47 - Why building up instead of scattering is rebellion in disguise  08:28 - Human religion as an attempt to work upward to God  10:31 - Why man’s effort is often really self-made religion  11:28 - God coming down in Genesis and throughout Scripture  12:43 - What God is really asking when he questions Adam and Cain  13:44 - Sin, shame, and the instinct to hide from God  14:50 - Relationship first, work second  15:49 - The performance mindset in real time  17:07 - Wearing usefulness as armor and confusing productivity with worth  18:23 - Church culture, men’s groups, and the pressure to do more  19:56 - Why “Our Father” changes the whole frame  20:55 - The slave audience and the connection to Egypt’s building projects  22:40 - Babel, Babylon, and the confusing of languages  23:00 - Reading Genesis 11:5-9 and God coming down to see the city  24:20 - Diversity, humility, and why sameness is not the goal  26:02 - Why unchecked human power always turns corruptible  27:26 - Empathy for powerful people and the temptation to beat your chest  28:05 - Gifting outgrowing character  28:52 - The prayer for enough, not too much and not too little  30:34 - Being thankful when your own plans fail  31:46 - Bo names performance as the root issue  33:09 - The toddler-in-the-driver-seat analogy  34:32 - Babel’s name explained and the scattering across the earth  35:16 - The commentary’s warning about monuments to ourselves  36:38 - Do I want a life I can conjure or one God can give?  37:33 - Diversity of language humbles us and forces shared creation  38:02 - Babel builds up, the gospel comes down  38:34 - Philippians 2 as the New Testament mirror of Babel  39:28 - If the tower had been finished, they would have built another one  40:57 - Why enough is never enough for human ambition  41:17 - Reflective questions on building a name, scattering, and receiving identity  43:23 - Contentment, peace, and becoming reactive instead of reactive-driven Notable quotes “A name you build for yourself is fragile, a name God gives you cannot be taken.” “Babel builds up, the gospel comes down.” “What is that environment where you feel you gotta defend yourself, you gotta protect your name?” Action items Ask yourself whether what you are building is meant to make a name for you.Notice where staying safe feels easier than going where God may be sending you.Identify the places where you defend your identity most aggressively.Pray honestly about ambition, especially if success would outpace your character.Reframe work as response to relationship, not a way to earn it.Transform your health routine with Bravenly Hydrate and enjoy the benefits of peak hydration! Hydrate with Bravenly Support the show MEN ARE FORGED develops young professional men to pursue God's calling — so they can grow, lead, and maximize influence in the world around them. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! For more on what we do, go to menareforged.com.

  2. Aug 28

    How to Keep Going When You See No Results (Noah's Secret) | The FORGE I - Week 5 | S7 E5

    Bo and Cartwright walk through the arc from Genesis 5 to 9, focusing on why the Noah story matters more than the genealogies and side questions around the Nephilim. The conversation centers on what it means to trust God when the details are incomplete, the work is slow, and obedience looks foolish from the outside.They also highlight a repeated biblical pattern: judgment, mercy, and a way out. Noah becomes the key example of someone who walked with God, kept showing up for decades, and acted on what he knew even without seeing the outcome. Genesis 5 to 9: Noah, faith in the waiting, and trusting God through the unknown. menareforged.com/theforge Key topics In this episode, Bo and Cartwright skip Genesis 5’s genealogy to get to the bigger narrative move from Seth to Noah.They discuss the Nephilim in Genesis 6:4 and outline three major interpretations: fallen angelic beings and human womenthe godly line of Seth intermarrying with the line of Cainancient kings or tyrants claiming divine status(Jump to 8:05) They spend time on Genesis 6:5 to 8, where God sees human wickedness, grieves over it, and yet Noah finds favor.A major theme is that God is not passive in chaos. He engages, asks questions, and invites response rather than forcing obedience.The Noah story is framed as a picture of faith in the waiting: building for years without visible proofobeying without knowing when rain would comecontinuing forward even when it looked irrationalCartwright emphasizes that most faith is built in the waiting, not the instant the call is given.They note how God gives enough information to obey, but not so much that the relationship is removed.The conversation compares Noah’s perseverance to other biblical moments like Cain, the Exodus, and John the Baptist’s doubts in Matthew 11.They also point out the chiasm in Genesis 6 to 9, with the center of the story highlighting God remembering Noah.The episode closes with reflection questions about obedience no one applauds and what favor people may already have that they are still trying to earn.Timestamps (00:00) Starting the episode and skipping Genesis 5  (00:51) Methuselah’s age and the strange reality of the early genealogies  (02:07) Genesis 5 as the line from Seth to Noah  (03:20) The Nephilim and the three major interpretations  (06:36) Why the Nephilim discussion can become a distraction  (08:05) Human wickedness, God’s grief, and Noah finding favor  (11:55) God in the middle of chaos, not waiting on it  (12:46) Accepted, lifted up, and the fruit of choosing right or wrong  (14:36) Noah walked with God, and favor came before the work  (15:17) Faith built in the waiting, not in visible results  (16:54) The ark’s size and the likely century-long build  (18:57) Faith that looks crazy from the outside  (20:09) Personal parallels about patience, dating, and timing  (22:21) A boat cannot be steered unless it is moving  (23:13) God remembered Noah and what that phrase means  (25:10) God is the subject of the story, not human effort  (26:24) What it must have been like to build for decades  (27:07) God always offers a way out in Scripture  (28:50) John the Baptist’s doubts in Matthew 11  (29:41) Circumstances, intellect, and morals are not ultimate  (30:11) The sheer repetition and repair work Noah likely faced  (32:08) Walking with God as relationship, not ritual  (33:24) Staying current with God’s direction and seasonal calling  (34:41) The desire for specific measurements in life  (35:49) God gives enough information to keep us dependent  (37:47) Faith means not having the answer manual  (38:58) The chiasm in Genesis 6 to 9 and the center point of remembrance  (40:59) Questions about unnoticed obedience and hidden faithfulness  (43:43) What are you still trying to earn that God has already given? Notable quotes “Most faith is built in the waiting.” “You don’t have to see the whole story to trust the one writing it.” “He already had favor with God and then he didn’t build the ark to earn favor with God.” Action items Identify one act of obedience you are doing that nobody will applaud.Ask where you are tempted to quit because you cannot see results yet.Consider what favor or calling you may already have that you are still trying to earn.Reflect on whether you are seeking a relationship with God or just the instruction manual.Transform your health routine with Bravenly Hydrate and enjoy the benefits of peak hydration! Hydrate with Bravenly Support the show MEN ARE FORGED develops young professional men to pursue God's calling — so they can grow, lead, and maximize influence in the world around them. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! For more on what we do, go to menareforged.com.

  3. Aug 21

    The Anger You Won't Deal With Will Eventually Rule You | The FORGE I - Week 4 | S7 E4

    This episode, Cartwright and Bo walk through Genesis 4 and shows how the Cain and Abel story builds on the creation, design, and fracture themes from Genesis 1 through 3. Cartwright focuses on how anger, comparison, and isolation can distort a man’s life, while also showing how God keeps engaging Cain in relationship instead of abandonment.We discuss the first 12 verses of Genesis 4, with special attention to the meaning of “knew” in verse 1, the difference between Cain and Abel’s offerings, and the warning that sin is crouching at the door. The episode also connects the brother language in Genesis to the prodigal son and to Jesus as the ultimate keeper. Key topics In this episode: Genesis 4 continues the larger arc from creation, design, fracture, and now the consequences of sin through Cain and Abel.Cartwright Morris highlights the value of reading the text slowly, observing what stands out, and bringing hard questions to a mentor or teacher.He unpacks “Adam knew Eve” as a word of intimacy, not just knowledge, and connects it to the biblical theme of relational knowing.The episode contrasts Cain’s offering of “fruit of the ground” with Abel’s “firstborn of his flock and their fat portions,” emphasizing heart intent and giving God the best.The core theme is unexamined anger: anger itself is not necessarily sin, but what a person does with it can quickly lead to sin.God’s questions to Cain are presented as relational invitations, not just rebukes, with a warning that sin is crouching at the door and desires to rule.Cain’s violence toward Abel is framed as deflection, isolation, and misdirected anger that often shows up in men’s lives.The phrase “Am I my brother’s keeper?” is explored as a major biblical theme tied to responsibility, family, and protection.The episode connects Cain and Abel to the prodigal son, showing how resentment and entitlement often show up in older-brother dynamics.Jesus is presented as the ultimate brother and keeper, the one who fully answers Cain’s question with sacrificial love.Timestamps 00:00 - Setting up week four in Genesis and the Cain and Abel passage  00:36 - Genesis 1 through 3 recap: creation, design, and fracture  01:29 - Why the first 12 verses of Genesis 4 matter  02:27 - Reading the Bible with curiosity and humility  02:54 - “Adam knew Eve” and the meaning of intimacy  04:50 - Creation, Trinity, and the beauty of relational love  06:35 - Cain and Abel’s roles and the start of the offering story  07:24 - The difference between Cain’s offering and Abel’s best  08:00 - Heart intent, reluctance, and generous giving  10:30 - Cain’s anger and the danger of unexamined emotion  11:51 - God’s question: why are you angry and why has your face fallen?  14:35 - Anger as energy and the warning that sin is crouching  15:56 - What it means to not do well and how sin gains ground  17:57 - Cain kills Abel and the move from anger to violence  20:20 - “Am I my brother’s keeper?” and responsibility toward others  21:35 - The curse, wandering, and isolation after violence  23:13 - Men, usefulness, identity, and the pressure to perform  24:48 - Why identity built on usefulness leads to vulnerability problems  27:44 - Personal reflections on feeling useless and comparison  28:51 - The temptation to make work and provision your whole identity  30:17 - Businesses, success, and the danger of becoming consumed  31:39 - Work, bitterness, entitlement, and the cost to home life  34:17 - The brother theme across Scripture and family as kingdom language  36:52 - Cain, the older brother, and the prodigal son connection  37:50 - Jesus as the ultimate keeper and the blood that speaks better things  39:00 - Closing thoughts and a preview of future Genesis studies Quotes “Anger is energy. You can use anger towards energy.” "Genesis 4 is about Cain and his Unexamined Anger." “Sin is crouching at the door.” “Jesus emphatically said, Yes, I am your keeper.” Transform your health routine with Bravenly Hydrate and enjoy the benefits of peak hydration! Hydrate with Bravenly Support the show MEN ARE FORGED develops young professional men to pursue God's calling — so they can grow, lead, and maximize influence in the world around them. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! For more on what we do, go to menareforged.com.

  4. Aug 14

    The Real Reason Men Hide (And Why It's Killing You) | The FORGE I - Week 3 | S7 E3

    Cartwright and Bo walk through Genesis 3 with a focus on how to observe the text closely instead of rushing past it. The conversation centers on the fall, the serpent’s strategy of questioning God’s word, and how that same pattern shows up again in Matthew 4 with Jesus’ temptation.The episode also digs into Adam’s passivity, the formation and protection of family, and the difference between guilt and shame. It becomes both a Bible study and a challenge to men to lead, stay engaged, and trust God’s story rather than the lies that twist it. Key topics In this episode: why Bible reading should start with curiosity and observation, not fear of “getting it wrong”The phrase “naked and unashamed” is explored as more than clothing language, pointing to vulnerability, innocence, and the absence of shame before sinThe serpent’s first move is not a direct command to sin, but a question that attacks God’s word: “Did God really say?”Cartwright Morris connects Genesis 3 to Matthew 4, showing the same temptation pattern in Satan’s question to Jesus: “If you are the Son of God”The discussion highlights how the enemy twists truth rather than inventing something brand newAdam’s failure is framed as passivity - he was with Eve the whole time and did not step inThe episode applies that passivity to modern life, especially in marriage, parenting, church life, and spiritual leadershipFamily is treated as central to God’s design, with a strong emphasis on the value of marriage, raising children, and protecting the homeThe difference between guilt and shame is clarified - guilt says “I did wrong,” while shame says “I am wrong”Genesis 3:15 is presented as an early gospel promise, pointing to the coming Messiah who will crush the serpent’s headTimestamps 00:00 - Why this study is about observing Genesis, not rushing through it  02:03 - “Naked and unashamed” and what shame did not exist yet  04:21 - Nakedness, vulnerability, and why the word carries more than one layer  05:11 - The serpent enters and the danger of freedom without trust  07:59 - The real temptation: questioning whether God actually said it  08:52 - Satan uses the same tactic with Jesus in Matthew 4  11:06 - Fear, mistrust, and the choice between God’s story and self-protection  13:42 - Why the enemy twists Scripture instead of rejecting it outright  15:00 - Family as a target and why culture often works against it  18:18 - Why the fruit looked good, and how temptation makes lies appear beneficial  19:37 - Adam was with Eve the whole time, and his passivity matters  21:28 - A challenge to men to stop taking a passive role at home  22:43 - Personal conviction about leading a family spiritually and practically  24:20 - Men and women as equal, but distinct in role and responsibility  26:43 - The cultural pressure that makes family life harder than work identity  27:42 - Why civilization itself is meant to protect mothers and children  30:47 - Work, entitlement, and the temptation to justify selfishness  31:43 - What men will actually be accountable for in the end  33:20 - How the enemy aims at the family to disrupt values being passed down  35:59 - The eyes open, shame enters, and the lie starts unraveling  38:26 - God asks, “Where are you?” as an invitation back into relationship  40:27 - “Who told you you were naked?” and the source of shame  41:41 - Shame versus guilt and how identity gets attached to failure  42:38 - Genesis 3:15 and the promise that the serpent’s head will be crushed  45:26 - Consequences, clothing, and the transition out of Eden  47:14 - Being clothed by God and the connection to righteousness in Christ Notable quotes “Did God really say?” “Who told you you were naked?” “Shame says I am bad. Guilt says I did bad.” Action items Read Genesis 2 and 3 slowly and ask, “What stands out to me?”Pay attention to where the text shows passivity, not just obvious sinAsk what God is saying about shame, identity, and trustReflect on where you may be hearing a voice louder than God’s wordFor men, examine whether leadership at home is being deferred or avoidedTransform your health routine with Bravenly Hydrate and enjoy the benefits of peak hydration! Hydrate with Bravenly Support the show MEN ARE FORGED develops young professional men to pursue God's calling — so they can grow, lead, and maximize influence in the world around them. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! For more on what we do, go to menareforged.com.

  5. Aug 7

    The Job You Were Actually Built For (It's Not What You Think) | The FORGE I - Week 2 | S7 E2

    This episode explores the foundational design of man according to Genesis 2, emphasizing the importance of relationships, work, and rest. It's a deep dive into how these core elements shape our purpose and fulfillment. Key Topics: God's original design for humanity centered around relationship with Him, others, and workThe significance of Genesis 2:7 in understanding our created intimacy with God through His breathThe balance between work and rest, and how true peace comes from trusting God's completed workThe symbolism behind the creation of woman from man's side, emphasizing partnership and equalityThe roles of cultivating (avad) and guarding (shamar) in fulfilling our divine purposeThe importance of rest as a sign of trust and surrender to God's sovereigntyHow the Genesis model influences modern relationships, marriage, and work-life balanceThe significance of our identity not in our work but in His creation and relationship with usTimestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to core human needs: relationship with God, others, and work 02:14 - Reflection on Genesis 2 and the significance of rest after creation 03:38 - The importance of being content and trusting God's completed work 04:51 - Building the identity that comes from relationship, not work 07:00 - The intimate act of God breathing into man and its symbolism 09:09 - The creative craftsmanship of humanity and our being His workmanship 11:08 - The image of God inhaling breath and the ongoing acknowledgment of His existence 12:44 - The divine mandate to both cultivate and protect in our work 15:14 - The analogy of managing and creating in our responsibilities 17:02 - The importance of family, marriage, and protecting relationships 18:39 - The roles of equality and distinctiveness in biblical relationships 21:26 - Balancing work, rest, and trust at different life stages 24:32 - The significance of rest as surrender and trusting God's provision 28:54 - The fallacy of "I think, therefore I am," and our identity in God's thoughts 32:06 - The creation of woman from man's side as a symbol of divine equality and partnership 34:45 - The role of women as helpers and defenders, highlighting the partnership model 37:00 - The ongoing relevance of biblical principles in today's relationships and roles 39:52 - The harmony of God's complexity and simplicity in His design 41:07 - Returning to fundamentals for growth and flourishing in life 43:10 - Practical questions for applying biblical truths to personal growth and relationships Resources & Links: The Masculine Mandate by Richard PhillipsGenesis 2 CommentaryTHE FORGE | YOUNG PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT PROGRAMConnect with the Host: TwitterInstagramWebsiteTransform your health routine with Bravenly Hydrate and enjoy the benefits of peak hydration! Hydrate with Bravenly Support the show MEN ARE FORGED develops young professional men to pursue God's calling — so they can grow, lead, and maximize influence in the world around them. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! For more on what we do, go to menareforged.com.

  6. Jul 31

    Why You'll Never Feel Like Enough (Until You Understand This) | The FORGE I - Week 1 | S7 E1

    THE FORGE starts August 11 at 6:45 AM.  In this insightful episode, Cartwright Morris and Bo Morgan explore the profound spiritual and cultural lessons embedded in Genesis 1. They uncover how understanding the original audience, cultural context, and repeated phrases can transform your view of God's creation, His character, and your identity in Him. The significance of Genesis 1's poetic structure and its rhythmic repetition ("And it was good" and "Evening and morning")How Genesis was originally written for the Israelites emerging from Egyptian slavery, shaping their understanding of worth, identity, and creationThe importance of viewing Genesis through an Eastern, Hebrew lens versus Western interpretationsHow God's act of creation demonstrates intentional order from chaos, reflecting His natureThe deep connection between rest at the start of each day and our identity, worth, and performanceUnderstanding the Spirit's hovering over the waters as God's power to bring order out of chaosThe concept that human value is rooted in being created in God's image, not in what we produce or accomplishHow Jesus' teaching confirms the Old Testament’s unified message of God's love, purpose, and pursuit of usPractical advice for studying Genesis, including finding mentors and engaging with Messianic Jewish scholarsTimestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to Genesis 1’s depth and purpose 00:32 - Recognizing Genesis as ancient poetry for an ancient audience 01:02 - Origins of the biblical story: from slavery to liberation 02:23 - The importance of understanding Hebrew culture and Eastern thought 03:24 - Repeated phrases: "It is good" and "Evening and morning"  04:43 - The significance of God's order from chaos in creation 06:02 - Rest as the foundation of identity and performance 07:14 - The story of Moses, the Israelites, and God's identity message 08:37 - Seeing ourselves in God's image, not in the works we do 10:03 - The harmony of the Old and New Testaments through Jesus’ teaching 11:12 - How Jesus interprets Scripture and the importance of studying Hebrew texts 12:52 - The power of discovering God's story through deeper study 14:43 - Practical steps: mentorship, commentaries, Messianic scholars 15:48 - Embracing mystery and appreciating the Hebrew poetic structure 17:42 - God's initiative: trusting in His story and rest in His sovereignty 19:36 - The gospel woven from Genesis 1 onward and its implications for our lives 22:42 - Living out our identity rooted in God's creation, not in performance 25:10 - The purpose of Genesis as a story of creation, rest, and trust 28:09 - The danger of working to earn God's love versus resting in His grace 30:44 - Chaos to order: God's work in our lives and the broader universe 34:20 - Jesus’ affirmation of Scripture as His foundation 36:23 - Encouragement to approach Scripture with humility and curiosity 38:25 - The ongoing journey of understanding God's deep, unified story 39:07 - Closing thoughts: preparation for studying Genesis deeper and beyond Resources & Links: The Bible Project — For visual Bible summaries and deep dives into Hebrew cultureTwelve Rules for Life by Jordan Peterson — Influences on understanding chaos and orderGenesis in Hebrew — Original text and translationsCommentaries on Genesis — For detailed biblical insightsConnect with Cartwright Morris:  LinkedInTwitterTransform your health routine with Bravenly Hydrate and enjoy the benefits of peak hydration! Hydrate with Bravenly Support the show MEN ARE FORGED develops young professional men to pursue God's calling — so they can grow, lead, and maximize influence in the world around them. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! For more on what we do, go to menareforged.com.

  7. Jul 29

    New Season and Program Coming This Friday - The Men of Genesis | The Forge God Uses to Shape You

    In this episode, Cartwright Morris unveils his new professional development program, The Forge, a 16-week journey through Genesis designed to shape men into the leaders they are meant to be. Discover how biblical stories, community support, and personal reflection forge a resilient and purposeful life. We discuss:  The inspiration behind The Forge and why Genesis was chosen as the foundational textHow God uses life's "furnace of affliction" to shape men into who they are meant to be (Isaiah 48:10)The structure of the 16-week program: weekly storytelling, reflection, and community engagementThe importance of community, challenge, and clarity as pillars of growthHow Genesis reveals our identity beyond productivity and successThe role of personal mentorship and accountability in transformationPractical details: group formats, costs, and how to join or lead a local groupThe significance of showing up intentionally to be molded by life's heatTimestamps:  00:00 - Introduction to the Forge program and its purpose  00:37 - Why Genesis? The biblical journey from Adam to Joseph  01:19 - The personal why behind creating The Forge  02:09 - Viewing life as God's furnace shaping us into men  02:44 - Embracing the forge versus being victim or denier of life's trials  03:02 - Who this program is for and what men will discover  03:34 - Program outline: 16 weeks exploring Genesis with real community  04:00 - Weekly rhythm: story, tension, reflection, and growth  04:29 - Genesis as ongoing surgical tool in personal transformation  05:16 - Genesis 1 and the true worth of men before productivity  05:45 - The original value God assigns before work begins  06:08 - What's unique about The Forge experience  06:22 - Power of community in shaping men  06:41 - The three pillars: community, challenge, and clarity  07:05 - The weekly group: honest questions and real growth  07:30 - The podcast as a challenge extending beyond meetings  08:00 - Maintaining tension and momentum with ongoing content  08:29 - Monthly one-on-one mentoring, prayer, and personal follow-up  08:51 - The importance of transparency and confronting the real work inside  09:20 - Personal stories of growth and God’s refining process  09:37 - Practical details: ongoing engagement and accountability  10:07 - Cost and commitment: $50/month and the importance of investment  10:35 - How the podcast and workbook reinforce growth  11:09 - Opportunities for men to lead and multiply the impact  12:04 - Introducing a new workbook to facilitate local groups  12:36 - Advice for men on the fence—trusting God’s work in the heat of life  13:06 - Program start dates and logistics: August 11th and 13th  13:56 - Call to action: visit Menareforged.com for more info and to schedule  14:49 - Closing encouragement: you’re being forged for purpose and relationship Resources & Links:  The Forge ProgramConnect with Cartwright Morris: LinkedInInstagram Transform your health routine with Bravenly Hydrate and enjoy the benefits of peak hydration! Hydrate with Bravenly Support the show MEN ARE FORGED develops young professional men to pursue God's calling — so they can grow, lead, and maximize influence in the world around them. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! For more on what we do, go to menareforged.com.

  8. Jul 17

    The Powerful Choice of Growth Before Purpose | Ep 166

    This episode dives into a transformative shift in how men should view their 20s—moving focus from finding a singular purpose to embracing growth and development. Hosted by Cartwright Morris, it challenges common notions about purpose, career, and fulfillment and offers practical insights on navigating the early stages of adulthood with intention and clarity.  In this episode:  Why making your twenties about growth rather than purpose leads to more fulfillmentThe misconception of purpose as a career or occupation, and how to redefine itTim Keller's purpose framework: affinity, ability, opportunity, and its application to your lifeThe importance of being active in waiting, not passive—learning through hardship and discomfort How to identify pain points as indicators of purposeThe dangers of tying purpose solely to vocation, and why outward value mattersThe significance of presence, confidence, and now in building success, inspired by Michael Jordan’s mindsetPractical advice for young men on how to approach their first jobs, career shifts, and learning from failureThe role of responsibility, sacrifice, and trusting God's timing in your journeyTimestamps:  00:00 - Why your twenties should be about growth, not just purpose 02:00 - Rethinking purpose beyond occupation and emotional fulfillment 03:29 - Tim Keller's framework: passion, ability, opportunity 04:30 - Embracing hardship and difficult situations as growth opportunities 05:45 - Learning about yourself through experience and environment 07:05 - Defining purpose: beyond job titles and passions 08:35 - Starting with pain points to discover purpose 09:37 - How hardship reveals what you’re called to do 10:39 - The importance of outward value in finding purpose 11:49 - Shifting focus from occupation to contribution and growth 13:12 - The role of performance and showing your value at work 15:11 - The importance of contribution over entitlement in employment 17:23 - Putting yourself in uncomfortable situations for growth 18:49 - Should you chase passion or accept necessary responsibilities? 22:23 - The significance of presence and being in the moment, inspired by Michael Jordan 25:16 - Balancing waiting and responsibility: active engagement in God's timing 28:55 - Learning from failure and hardship as preparation for future purpose 36:29 - The myth of perfect passion and the value of work as a form of service 45:32 - Moving from purpose as self-fulfillment to discovery and relational alignment 48:52 - Trusting God's process and focusing on relationship over achievement Resources & Links:  Tim Keller - The Reason for GodJim Collins - The Hedgehog ConceptMichael Jordan - The Last DanceConnect with Cartwright Morris: LinkedInXJoin THE FORGENote: The primary message is that purpose is a process of discovery rooted in growth, responsibility, and outward contribution, rather than a one-time revelation or occupation. Embrace discomfort, serve others, and seek to understand God's overarching plan through steady, active engagement in your journey. Transform your health routine with Bravenly Hydrate and enjoy the benefits of peak hydration! Hydrate with Bravenly Support the show MEN ARE FORGED develops young professional men to pursue God's calling — so they can grow, lead, and maximize influence in the world around them. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! For more on what we do, go to menareforged.com.

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MEN ARE FORGED equips young professional men to own the story God has for them—building identity, character, and meaningful success. Co-hosts Bo and Cartwright discuss real challenges — chaos at work, fatherhood, single life, identity, and spiritual growth — to help you become the man you are called to be. Send in a question to be answered on the pod! Find out more about the Young Professional Development Program: https://forms.gle/KqS2YVwemNGd7DtNA

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