Men Who Pause

Borderlands

Men Who Pause is a Borderlands podcast for men in midlife—when old maps no longer serve and a new path must be felt, not followed. The warrior between battles. We explore and experiment with ancient and emergent practices from the fringes of culture, bringing what’s real and relevant to this moment of becoming. No self-help fluff. No guru speak. Just honest reflections and tools for deeper connection. Ready to walk the inner frontier?

Episodes

  1. 04/22/2025

    Ep. 02 | When the Mask Falls: Ambition, Surrender & the Midlife Crisis with Gurcharan Das 🎭

    In this episode of Men Who Pause, Gurcharan Das—a man who has spent a lifetime at the crossroads of power and philosophy—joins us to explore the masks we wear, the reckoning of midlife, and what it means to live wisely and adventurously. From Harvard to the helm of Procter & Gamble India, Gurcharan was at the peak of his corporate career when he walked away. What followed was a journey inward—toward meaning, freedom, and truth. This conversation moves through ambition, surrender, ego, legacy, and the quiet courage it takes to reimagine success—not as accumulation, but as alignment. 👤 GUEST: Gurcharan Das is a former CEO of Procter & Gamble India who went on to lead global strategy for P&G Worldwide. A Harvard graduate, he lived and worked across four continents before walking away from the corporate world to write, reflect, and seek deeper meaning. He is the author of nine books, including the acclaimed trilogy on Dharma (duty), Artha (wealth), and Kama (desire). His memoir, Another Sort of Freedom, explores his own midlife reckoning with success and selfhood. He has contributed to The New York Times, Financial Times, and Harvard Business Review, and was a longtime columnist for The Times of India. 🌐 Website: https://gurcharandas.org 🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gurcharan-das-a7b7375/ 📝 SHOW NOTES: The corporate mask and the quiet absurdity of “success”Making a living vs. making a life—and how early influences shape that choiceMidlife as a reckoning: when achievement no longer fills the voidWhy real fulfillment often begins in the second half of lifeWeekend passions, second careers, and the courage to pivotEgo, humility, and the art of not taking yourself too seriouslyKamble’s rise—from night watchman to director—and what it means to love your workThe calculus of “enough” and trading status for freedomMarriage, meaning, and what happiness really looks like at 82Midlife transitions, mortality, and the freedom to write your own script 🧭 LEARN MORE: inborderlands.com Request an invite to our next retreat: https://inborderlands.com/booking-form 🔗 CONNECT WITH US: https://linktr.ee/inborderlands 🎧 Subscribe and follow for more conversations on men, midlife, and meaningful change

    56 min
  2. 04/01/2025

    Ep. 01 | Spinal Juiciness with Rohan Kapur 🌀

    In this episode of Men Who Pause, Rohan Kapur—a non-dual yogi and guide in the Kundalini process—joins us to explore the subtle power of presence, the awakening of energy through the spine, and why ancient modalities like Kundalini are deeply relevant to men in midlife. This conversation moves through stillness, structure, vitality, and transformation—offering an intimate look at what happens when we stop thinking our way through life and start aligning the head, heart, and gut through lived energy. 👤 GUEST: Rohan Kapur is a non-dual yogi who works with the Kundalini process. He leads Advaitashram.org, where he works as an initiator, teacher, and guide. He currently holds workshops and retreats around India, Europe, and Japan. Instagram: instagram.com/vedic.vortex 📝 SHOW NOTES: – How inner presence can be cultivated and projected—like adjusting an opacity slider – Why Kundalini isn’t mystical fluff, but a biological and energetic reality – The spine as a living axis—your juicy core and channel for transformation – How being stuck in lower chakras can create the experience of midlife crisis – Demystifying Kundalini, vitality, and the integration of head, heart, and gut – When structure helps you grow—and when it starts to hold you back – The internal combustion engine of awakening: energy meets intention – Casting light on the shadow aspects of self – Why ancient practices remain relevant for modern men navigating midlife 🧭 LEARN MORE: inborderlands.com Request an invite to our next retreat: inborderlands.com/booking-form 🔗 CONNECT WITH US: linktr.ee/inborderlands 🎧 Subscribe and follow for more conversations on men, midlife, and meaningful change.

    39 min

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Men Who Pause is a Borderlands podcast for men in midlife—when old maps no longer serve and a new path must be felt, not followed. The warrior between battles. We explore and experiment with ancient and emergent practices from the fringes of culture, bringing what’s real and relevant to this moment of becoming. No self-help fluff. No guru speak. Just honest reflections and tools for deeper connection. Ready to walk the inner frontier?