Message In The Middle

Marianne DeMello-Smith

This podcast is a safe and supportive space for listeners to explore life's challenging lessons and gain inspiration for their personal development journey. Through a variety of engaging formats, including interviews, book clubs, master classes, and discussions, the podcast delves into topics related to perseverance, self-empowerment, and self-discovery. With a focus on sharing expertise, inspiring stories and insights from a diverse range of voices, the podcast aims to help listeners navigate difficult experiences, provide hope and inspiration, and develop the resilience and strength needed to overcome obstacles and achieve their goals.At its core, this podcast is a platform for personal growth and development. It provides a welcoming space for listeners to explore life's toughest lessons and learn from others who have overcome similar challenges. Through a variety of formats, including interviews with experts and everyday people, book clubs featuring thought-provoking works, and discussions focused on specific topics, listeners are exposed to a range of perspectives and ideas that can help them on their own personal journeys. One of the key themes of this podcast is perseverance. Many of the stories shared on the show highlight the importance of pushing through difficult times and not giving up, even when the odds seem insurmountable. Whether it's overcoming eating disorders, grief, addiction, navigating a health crisis, or dealing with the aftermath of a traumatic experience, the podcast emphasizes the resilience and strength of the human spirit. Another important theme of the podcast is self-empowerment. Listeners are encouraged to take control of their own lives and pursue their goals with confidence and determination. By sharing stories of individuals who have transformed their lives through hard work and self-discovery, the podcast inspires listeners to believe in their own potential and take steps to create the life they want and to recognize that we are all capable of rewiring our thoughts and behaviors.  Finally, the podcast is focused on self-discovery. Through discussions and interviews, listeners are encouraged to explore their own values, beliefs, and desires, and to gain a deeper understanding of themselves. By reflecting on their own experiences and learning from the stories of others, listeners can gain valuable insights that can help them navigate life's challenges and live more fulfilling lives. Overall, this podcast is a powerful resource for anyone seeking inspiration, guidance, and support on their personal development journey. By exploring life's difficult lessons through inspiring stories, interviews, book clubs, and discussions, listeners can gain the tools they need to persevere through tough times, empower themselves to achieve their goals, and discover their true selves.

  1. Slip, Recovery, and the Messy Middle with Mallary Tenore Tarpley

    20H AGO

    Slip, Recovery, and the Messy Middle with Mallary Tenore Tarpley

    Healing our relationship with food, our body, and ourselves is rarely a straight line. In this eye-opening episode of Message in the Middle, Marianne sits down with journalist, author, and educator Mallary Tenore Tarpley to explore the often-overlooked “messy middle” of eating disorder recovery. Mallary’s new book, Slip, blends personal memoir with investigative reporting to reveal why recovery is rarely a straight path and how neurobiology, genetics, and lived experience all play a role. If you’ve ever wondered why old patterns tug at you even as you build new ones, or how to hold compassion for yourself while still in the process, this conversation will remind you that slipping doesn’t mean failing. Listen to learn more about: • What the “middle place” of recovery really looks like • How science is reshaping the narrative around eating disorders • Food noise and self-criticism • Why self-compassion matters more than perfection Whether you’re personally navigating recovery or supporting someone who is, Mallary’s insights will give you hope, understanding, and a fresh perspective on what healing truly means. Connect with Mallary: mallary.substack.commallarytenoretarpley.comhttps://www.instagram.com/mallarytenoretarpley/ Connect with Marianne: Website: Message In The Middle with Marianne Message In the Middle Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/422430469323847/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MessageInTheMiddle/playlists LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marianne-demello-smith-678b9966 Email: Contact | Message In The Middle with Marianne Subscribe to Message In the Middle: Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Leave Us a Review: If you enjoyed today’s episode, please leave a review and share your favorite takeaway. Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and bring you even more valuable content. Keep the conversation going - Join us for more insightful conversations in the Message in the Middle Private Facebook Community & subscribe to Message in th...

    41 min
  2. Mindset Matters: Finding Confidence and Clarity in Midlife with Cheryl Fischer

    OCT 11

    Mindset Matters: Finding Confidence and Clarity in Midlife with Cheryl Fischer

    Midlife often brings big transitions, changes in identity, priorities, relationships, and even our own sense of self. But what if the biggest challenge isn’t the circumstances around us, but the stories we tell ourselves about them? In this episode of Message in the Middle, I sit down with Cheryl Fischer, speaker, trainer, event moderator, host of the Mind Your Midlife podcast, and certified Life and Mindset Coach. Cheryl works with women to shift the inner narrative from “I’m stuck” or “I’m not enough” to one of possibility, self-belief, and success. We talk about:  ✨ How midlife reinvention often begins with the stories we carry about who we are  ✨ Why your inner critic feels so loud in this season of life, and how to quiet it  ✨ Simple strategies to build awareness and reframe your self-talk  ✨ Rediscovering what truly lights you up when life feels centered on everyone else ✨ Learning to appreciate your body and care for yourself with compassion ✨ The memory “blips” of midlife and why they’re more common than we think This isn’t about quick fixes—it’s about understanding how much power your inner voice holds and learning to shift the narrative so you can move forward with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Connect with Cheryl:   Free quiz: https://www.cherylpfischer.com/innervoicequizPodcast: https://www.mindyourmidlifepodcast.comIf you like this episode you might want to listen to this one also: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1938384/episodes/17710620 Connect with Marianne: Website: Message In The Middle with Marianne Message In the Middle Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/422430469323847/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MessageInTheMiddle/playlists LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marianne-demello-smith-678b9966 Email: Contact | Message In The Middle with Marianne Subscribe to Message In the Middle: Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Leave Us a Review: If you enjoyed today’s episode, please leave a review and share your favorite takeaway. Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and bring you even more valuable content. Keep the conversation going - Join us for more insightful conversations in the Message in the Middle Private Facebook Community & subscribe to Message in th...

    39 min
  3. Healing Through Grief, Change, and Midlife Transitions

    OCT 4

    Healing Through Grief, Change, and Midlife Transitions

    Midlife brings so many shifts—children leaving home, aging parents, career changes, identity shifts, and layered on top of it all, grief in its many forms. Sometimes it’s the loss of a loved one, and other times it’s the ache of realizing life looks different than we imagined. In this episode of Message in the Middle, I’m joined by Jane Dye, a registered nurse, board-certified holistic health coach, and certified grief educator. With more than 30 years of nursing practice, much of it in psychiatric settings, Jane brings a unique perspective to midlife healing. She blends clinical expertise with holistic health, grief education, and spiritual connection to help women navigate transitions with compassion and hope.  Together, Jane and I explore:  ✨ Why you never get over loss—you learn to build a life around it  ✨ Why all loss matters and there is no “grief Olympics”  ✨ How grief can keep us looking backward, and what it takes to move forward  ✨ How to support someone who is grieving  ✨ What not to do when you’re trying to support someone through grief  If you’ve ever felt stuck in the in-between or uncertain about how to move through loss and change, this conversation is a reminder that healing is possible, but everyone must do it in their own way and on their own timeline.  Connect with Jane: https://janekdye.com Connect with Marianne: Website: Message In The Middle with Marianne Message In the Middle Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/422430469323847/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MessageInTheMiddle/playlists LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marianne-demello-smith-678b9966 Email: Contact | Message In The Middle with Marianne Subscribe to Message In the Middle: Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Leave Us a Review: If you enjoyed today’s episode, please leave a review and share your favorite takeaway. Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and bring you even more valuable content. Keep the conversation going - Join us for more insightful conversations in the Message in the Middle Private Facebook Community & subscribe to Message in th...

    43 min
  4. The New Old: Erika Andersen on Crafting Your Best Later Life

    SEP 27

    The New Old: Erika Andersen on Crafting Your Best Later Life

    What if aging wasn’t about decline, but about becoming more fully yourself? In this episode of Message in the Middle, I sit down with bestselling author and leadership coach Erika Andersen to talk about what it really means to age well—and how we can begin preparing for a vibrant “third act” of life long before we get there. Erika has spent more than 30 years guiding senior leaders at companies like Spotify, Amazon, and Charter through deep transformation. Now, in her seventies, she’s turning that wisdom inward with her newest book, The New Old: Crafting Your Best Later Life, a #1 Amazon bestseller. She shares how we can approach aging with curiosity and intention, unlearn the limiting stories that hold us back, and create a later life rich with joy, discovery, and purpose. This isn’t just a conversation for someone in their seventies. If you’re in your forties, fifties, or anywhere in midlife, now is the time to think about how you want to shape the years ahead. Because your third act has the potential to be your best act and it starts with the choices you make today. Join us as we talk about: How to define your “third act” and start shaping it with intentionThe power of curiosity, courage, and creativity in aging wellWhy reinvention isn’t about being “too late,” but about being ready nowHow to hold both grief and grace as we grow olderHow to Be the Boss of Your Life: Create a compelling vision for your future and build a plan to help you achieve itIf you’re craving a hopeful, thoughtful perspective on what it means to grow older on your own terms, this conversation is for you. Connect with Erika:  Website: https://erikaandersen.comSubstack:  https://erikaandersen1.substack.com Connect with Marianne: Website: Message In The Middle with Marianne Message In the Middle Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/422430469323847/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MessageInTheMiddle/playlists LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marianne-demello-smith-678b9966 Email: Contact | Message In The Middle with Marianne Subscribe to Message In the Middle: Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Leave Us a Review: If you enjoyed today’s episode, please leave a review and share your favorite takeaway. Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and bring you even more valuable content. Keep the conversation going - Join us for more insightful conversations in the Message in the Middle Private Facebook Community & subscribe to Message in th...

    44 min
  5. MindShifting with Mitch Weisburgh: How to Rewire Your Brain for Resilience, Resourcefulness, and Collaboration

    SEP 20

    MindShifting with Mitch Weisburgh: How to Rewire Your Brain for Resilience, Resourcefulness, and Collaboration

    Have you ever felt like your own mind is working against you? That no matter how much you want to change, old patterns and doubts keep pulling you back? In this episode of Message in the Middle, I sit down with educator, entrepreneur, and author Mitch Weisburgh to talk about his new book MindShifting: Stop Your Brain from Sabotaging Your Happiness and Success. Mitch has spent decades helping people and organizations learn, grow, and adapt and now he’s sharing practical tools to help us do the same in our everyday lives. Together, we explore the three powerful pillars of MindShifting: Resourcefulness: How to transform setbacks into learning opportunities that move you forward.Resilience: Why bouncing back isn’t about pushing harder, but about finding strength and meaning in challenges.Collaboration: How to navigate differences and build connections that lead to collective growth.Mitch’s hopeful, practical approach shows us that transformation doesn’t require perfection, it just requires a shift in how we think. If you’ve been feeling stuck or searching for new ways to move forward, this episode will give you tools, perspective, and a reminder that your brain is not your enemy, in fact, it can become your greatest ally. Other Episodes mentioned: https://www.messageinthemiddle.com/resetting-the-chemistry-of-stress-science-backed-strategies-for-resilience-with-jenny-evans/ https://www.buzzsprout.com/1938384/episodes/17589489 Connect with Mitch:  Website: https://www.mindshiftingwithmitch.com/LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/mweisburgh/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/weisburghm/ Connect with Marianne: Website: Message In The Middle with Marianne Message In the Middle Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/422430469323847/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MessageInTheMiddle/playlists LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marianne-demello-smith-678b9966 Email: Contact | Message In The Middle with Marianne Subscribe to Message In the Middle: Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Leave Us a Review: If you enjoyed today’s episode, please leave a review and share your favorite takeaway. Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and bring you even more valuable content. Keep the conversation going - Join us for more insightful conversations in the Message in the Middle Private Facebook Community & subscribe to Message in th...

    46 min
  6. Body Image, Self-Trust, and Food Freedom: What Midlife Can Teach Us

    SEP 13

    Body Image, Self-Trust, and Food Freedom: What Midlife Can Teach Us

    If you’ve spent years counting calories, restricting foods, or shaming yourself for not having the “perfect” body, you’re not alone. For so many women, especially in midlife, the relationship with food and body image can feel like an exhausting tug-of-war. But what if the way out isn’t about more willpower or stricter rules? What if it’s about relearning how to trust yourself? In this episode of Message in the Middle, I sit down with Joanne Edinberg, Certified Eating Psychology Coach and founder of Body Wisdom Nutrition. Joanne helps women transform their relationship with food and body, moving from stress, guilt, and shame to curiosity, compassion, and joy. With a background in psychology, social work, yoga, and trauma-informed coaching, Joanne offers a refreshing, deeply compassionate perspective: our struggles with food and body image aren’t problems to fix, they’re powerful teachers. We talk about: How to rebuild trust in your body, even if you’ve felt disconnected for yearsWhy midlife can be the best time to find food freedomSmall, doable shifts to move from body shame to body confidenceHow curiosity can become your most powerful healing toolRethinking what “health” really means, on your own termsWhether you’re navigating emotional eating, midlife weight changes, or years of body dissatisfaction, this conversation will help you take the first steps toward peace with food and yourself. Connect with Marianne: Website: Message In The Middle with Marianne Message In the Middle Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/422430469323847/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MessageInTheMiddle/playlists LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marianne-demello-smith-678b9966 Email: Contact | Message In The Middle with Marianne Subscribe to Message In the Middle: Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Leave Us a Review: If you enjoyed today’s episode, please leave a review and share your favorite takeaway. Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and bring you even more valuable content. Keep the conversation going - Join us for more insightful conversations in the Message in the Middle Private Facebook Community & subscribe to Message in th...

    45 min
  7. America in Therapy: Healing Ourselves to Heal Our Nation with Phyllis Leavitt

    SEP 6

    America in Therapy: Healing Ourselves to Heal Our Nation with Phyllis Leavitt

    If you’ve been feeling the weight of the world lately, wondering how we got here, why everything feels so divided, or how to reconnect to yourself in a culture that seems more disconnected than ever, this episode offers a thoughtful, healing perspective. In this soulful and timely conversation, Marianne sits down with Phyllis Leavitt, a seasoned psychotherapist, spiritual seeker, and author of America in Therapy: A New Approach to Hope and Healing for a Nation in Crisis. Drawing from more than 30 years of clinical experience and her own healing journey, Phyllis explores the idea that the emotional repair work we do in our personal lives might be more than just personal, it might be the very key to healing our communities, and maybe even our country. Together, they discuss: What collective trauma looks like and how it mirrors family dynamicsThe emotional toll of being the “emotional glue” and how and why we need to make sure we prioritize selfWhat spirituality really meansThe surprising role of spiritual connection in lasting changeThe biggest problem facing our nation todayWhat it really takes to heal, personally, relationally, and as a societyThis episode is an invitation to pause, reflect, and remember that healing ripples outward and the work you’re doing matters more than you may know. Connect with Phyllis and her work:  https://www.facebook.com/phyllis.leavitthttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOdxqvDK9N421AZ5TTxqUgQhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/phyllis-leavitt-630179255/https://www.instagram.com/phyllis_e_leavitt/https://twitter.com/PhyllisLeavitt2https://substack.com/@phyllisleavitt1 Connect with Marianne: Website: Message In The Middle with Marianne Message In the Middle Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/422430469323847/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MessageInTheMiddle/playlists LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marianne-demello-smith-678b9966 Email: Contact | Message In The Middle with Marianne Subscribe to Message In the Middle: Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Leave Us a Review: If you enjoyed today’s episode, please leave a review and share your favorite takeaway. Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and bring you even more valuable content. Keep the conversation going - Join us for more insightful conversations in the Message in the Middle Private Facebook Community & subscribe to Message in th...

    44 min
  8. Never Quit on a Bad Day: Phebe Trotman on Resilience, Language, and Creating a Life You Love

    AUG 30

    Never Quit on a Bad Day: Phebe Trotman on Resilience, Language, and Creating a Life You Love

    What if the words you speak could shape your reality and what if the key to moving forward was simply refusing to quit on your hardest days? In this empowering episode of Message in the Middle, I’m joined by Hall of Fame athlete, award-winning entrepreneur, and bestselling author Phebe Trotman. As the powerhouse behind the Never Quit on a Bad Day book series, Phebe shares her deeply personal philosophy on resilience, the transformative power of intentional language, and what it really means to build a life you love, no matter where you’re starting from. We dive into the stories that shaped her path, from championship wins and business accolades to the quiet, pivotal moments where choosing her words, and her mindset, changed everything. Whether you’re feeling stuck, questioning your direction, or just looking for a spark of hope, this conversation will remind you that you’re not alone… and you’re not done. We explore: 🔹 The real meaning behind “Never Quit on a Bad Day” 🔹 What to do when your inner voice becomes your biggest obstacle 🔹 How to spot and shift limiting language into “success language” 🔹 The connection between words, confidence, and forward momentum 🔹 Why being an “impact player” starts with self-leadership 🔹 How to balance hustle with healing 🔹 And the message Phebe wants every midlife woman to hear This one’s for the woman who’s strong but tired, driven but questioning, and ready to start speaking success into existence. You’ll walk away with both practical tools and a full heart. Connect with Marianne: Website: Message In The Middle with Marianne Message In the Middle Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/422430469323847/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MessageInTheMiddle/playlists LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marianne-demello-smith-678b9966 Email: Contact | Message In The Middle with Marianne Subscribe to Message In the Middle: Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Leave Us a Review: If you enjoyed today’s episode, please leave a review and share your favorite takeaway. Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and bring you even more valuable content. Keep the conversation going - Join us for more insightful conversations in the Message in the Middle Private Facebook Community & subscribe to Message in th...

    39 min
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This podcast is a safe and supportive space for listeners to explore life's challenging lessons and gain inspiration for their personal development journey. Through a variety of engaging formats, including interviews, book clubs, master classes, and discussions, the podcast delves into topics related to perseverance, self-empowerment, and self-discovery. With a focus on sharing expertise, inspiring stories and insights from a diverse range of voices, the podcast aims to help listeners navigate difficult experiences, provide hope and inspiration, and develop the resilience and strength needed to overcome obstacles and achieve their goals.At its core, this podcast is a platform for personal growth and development. It provides a welcoming space for listeners to explore life's toughest lessons and learn from others who have overcome similar challenges. Through a variety of formats, including interviews with experts and everyday people, book clubs featuring thought-provoking works, and discussions focused on specific topics, listeners are exposed to a range of perspectives and ideas that can help them on their own personal journeys. One of the key themes of this podcast is perseverance. Many of the stories shared on the show highlight the importance of pushing through difficult times and not giving up, even when the odds seem insurmountable. Whether it's overcoming eating disorders, grief, addiction, navigating a health crisis, or dealing with the aftermath of a traumatic experience, the podcast emphasizes the resilience and strength of the human spirit. Another important theme of the podcast is self-empowerment. Listeners are encouraged to take control of their own lives and pursue their goals with confidence and determination. By sharing stories of individuals who have transformed their lives through hard work and self-discovery, the podcast inspires listeners to believe in their own potential and take steps to create the life they want and to recognize that we are all capable of rewiring our thoughts and behaviors.  Finally, the podcast is focused on self-discovery. Through discussions and interviews, listeners are encouraged to explore their own values, beliefs, and desires, and to gain a deeper understanding of themselves. By reflecting on their own experiences and learning from the stories of others, listeners can gain valuable insights that can help them navigate life's challenges and live more fulfilling lives. Overall, this podcast is a powerful resource for anyone seeking inspiration, guidance, and support on their personal development journey. By exploring life's difficult lessons through inspiring stories, interviews, book clubs, and discussions, listeners can gain the tools they need to persevere through tough times, empower themselves to achieve their goals, and discover their true selves.

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