Messy Minutes

Becs and Mel
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Because life is messy, friendship is essential, and the best conversations are unfiltered.

  1. 6d ago

    The Becs & Mel Friendship Lore

    We’ve been friends for a LONG time, but our friendship hasn’t always looked the way it does now. In this episode, we’re telling the full story of Becs & Mel — early years of friendship, drifting apart, reconnecting, and how our friendship became stronger than ever. It’s a little nostalgic, a little messy, and very us. 🫶🏼

  2. Aug 19

    Don’t say the D word…

    In this episode, we’re getting real about what marriage looks like—from how we met our husbands, to conflict and communication, the arguments that come with sharing a life, and those seasons when you start feeling more like roommates than a couple. We’re sharing the marriage advice that’s actually helped us, what we’ve learned from our own mistakes, and how to bring the connection, fun, and friendship back when life starts getting in the way. If you’re married, engaged, dating, or just curious about what happens after the “I do,” this one is for you. 💍🤍

  3. Aug 12

    Motherhood Unfiltered

    You asked, so we’re diving into motherhood! From postpartum to mom guilt, balancing marriage, funny kid stories, and everything in between—we’re sharing the parts we love, the parts that have been hard, and the things we wish someone would’ve told us before becoming moms.

    Motherhood Unfiltered

  4. Aug 5

    Our Biggest Fan Turned Into Our Biggest Nightmare

    In this episode of Messy Minutes, we’re opening up about one of the most difficult experiences we’ve had as creators. What started as a supportive follower slowly turned into a relationship filled with blurred boundaries, manipulation, and life threats. As things escalated, we made the difficult decision to step away—but it didn’t end there. The situation eventually involved another member of our community who was a minor, making it even more concerning. We’re sharing what happened, how it affected us behind the scenes, what we learned about setting boundaries online, and why it’s so important to recognize when a parasocial relationship has become unhealthy. Trigger warning: This episode discusses emotional manipulation and suicidal threats. Our goal isn’t to shame anyone, but to share our experience honestly and encourage healthier boundaries between creators and their communities.

  5. Jul 29

    The Embarrassing Stories Episode

    We laughed so hard in this episode. From fun games to anonymous embarrassing stories (plus a couple of our own 👀), this episode is packed with hilarious moments and lots of bestie banter. Grab a snack and come hang out with us!

    The Embarrassing Stories Episode

  6. Jul 22

    The Relationship I Wish I’d Left Sooner

    In this episode of Messy Minutes, Mel shares one of the hardest chapters of her life. She opens up about being in an abusive relationship, discovering infidelity, and the emotional toll it took on her. We talk about the warning signs she ignored, what it was like to face the truth, how she healed, and the lessons she’s carried into healthier relationships. If you’ve ever questioned your worth, ignored red flags, or wondered if things could get better after heartbreak, this conversation is for you. We hope Mel’s story reminds you that healing is possible, and that you deserve to be loved with kindness, respect, and honesty. Content note: This episode discusses emotional abuse and infidelity, which may be difficult for some listeners.

  7. Jul 15

    Losing My Dad Before He Was Gone

    Becs shares the deeply personal story of her relationship with her dad - from his time in prison, to years of estrangement, and the grief of losing him before they could fully reconcile. We also talk about forgiveness, healing, and finding peace without closure.

  8. Jul 8

    Our Birth Stories: The Good, The Traumatic & The Unexpected

    Today’s episode is all about birth. We share our labor and delivery stories, talk about C-sections, traumatic births, postpartum recovery, and the things no one really prepares you for. Plus, we test our knowledge with a game of “Labor or Lie?” and read some amazing birth stories from our listeners.

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Because life is messy, friendship is essential, and the best conversations are unfiltered.

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  • Creator
    Becs and Mel
  • Episodes
    13
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Becs and Mel
  • Show Website
    Messy Minutes