Missed Connections

The Elizabeths

Missed Connections is a podcast that explores our longing to connect and the circumstances that stand in our way. Each episode, we share a missed connection story and unpack it with the person who lived it. 

  1. "To the Tattooed Artist Who Was Always in My Orbit" with Myisha Battle

    Jun 23

    "To the Tattooed Artist Who Was Always in My Orbit" with Myisha Battle

    In this episode, we’re thrilled to welcome the brilliant, fun, and always insightful Myisha Battle back to Missed Connections. This time, she’s sharing the story of a very modern missed connection: her former situationship-turned-Instagram-follower whose sudden disappearance from social media took the last remnants of their past relationship with him. Before we get to what happened next, we dive into the increasingly blurry line between our digital and real-world relationships. From social media and dating apps to the quiet ways technology shapes how we stay connected (or don’t), Myisha helps us unpack what it means to build, maintain, and lose connections in an online world. About Myisha Battle ✨ Myisha Battle is a sex and dating coach, educator and author. She is the host of KCRW’s How’s Your Sex Life? podcast and writes the Real Love column for TIME. She is the author of This Is Supposed To Be Fun: How To Find Joy in Hooking Up, Settling Down, and Everything In Between. She also writes a weekly newsletter called The Pleasure Dispatch, which explores modern relationships. Her new book Sexual Pleasure For Dummies is now available to order. 💞 Follow Myisha on Instagram  💫 Order Sexual Pleasure For Dummies Links from the episode ✨ “Technology is Taking Over Our Love Lives” by Myisha in TIME "We Locked Eyes at Choir Practice" with Myisha Battle on Missed Connections Season One Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    52 min
  2. “To the Man With the Soft Eyes I’ve Yet to Meet” with Chiffon Lark

    May 26

    “To the Man With the Soft Eyes I’ve Yet to Meet” with Chiffon Lark

    In this episode, we have the honor of speaking with the incredibly thoughtful and wise Chiffon Lark, who tells us a story of romantic longing rooted in personal purpose. Together, we explore whether the desire for a romantic relationship can coexist with an intentional, independent life. We then dive into today’s dating discourse, why many women are rejecting traditional relationship models, and what we can learn about alternative relationship models through the teachings of Chiffon’s Indigenous culture. About Chiffon Lark✨ Chiffon Lark is a full-time artist and children’s book author based in San Diego, California. She is an Indigenous advocate for environmental sovereignty for Native peoples and wildlife, and is of White Mountain Apache, Mescalero Apache, and Coahuiltecan descent. Her work is rooted in ancestral relationships with land, food systems, and non-human relatives. 💫 Follow Chiffon on Instagram @chiffonlark 🖼️ Check out Chiffon’s art including her new children’s book, “I Am” Links from the episode ✨ “I Am” by Chiffon Lark “My Story Asking if Boyfriends Were Embarrassing Went Viral. Here’s What That Says About the State of Heterosexual Dating” by Chante Joseph ”What Does It Really Mean to Decenter Men From Your Life? And can you still date them while you do it?” By Kayla Kibbe “2025 was the year single women chose themselves. Will they continue in 2026?” By Chante Joseph Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    35 min
  3. "To the Queen Bee Who Made Me Feel Safe to Be Seen" with Jason Rhee

    May 12

    "To the Queen Bee Who Made Me Feel Safe to Be Seen" with Jason Rhee

    In this episode we have the privilege of speaking with the incredibly charming and thoughtful Jason Rhee who tells us a story that takes us back to the early 2000’s–digital cameras in the club and a connection that paved the way for Jason to become who he is today… but ultimately faded over time. Before we get to what happened next, we explore the context surrounding the different chapters of this friendship, deconstruct friendship roles, and examine the millennials’ early adulthood communication toolkit. About Jason Rhee ✨ Jason Rhee is a luxury wedding planner, designer, and founder of Rheefined Company, a Los Angeles based creative studio specializing in high touch weddings, events, and experiences. With nearly two decades in the industry, Jason is recognized for his thoughtful approach to storytelling, inclusivity, and emotional authenticity. A sought after speaker and self described edutainer, he brings humor and real talk to conversations about creativity, resilience, and redefining success in hospitality and life. Beyond events, Jason is expanding his creative work into television and film, including developing an original romantic comedy inspired by the wedding industry. 💞 Follow Jason on Instagram and TikTok @jasonroars 💐 Check out Jason’s stunning work at Rheefined Company Links from the episode ✨ The Gay Bestie: Pop Culture’s Most Reliable Archetype Deserves a Break The Sad Moms Podcast (Apple, Spotify) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    39 min
  4. "To the Local DJ Who Had a Gravitational Pull" with Amber Abundance

    Apr 28

    "To the Local DJ Who Had a Gravitational Pull" with Amber Abundance

    We’re so back! In our season two premiere, we have the absolute pleasure of sitting down with the delightful and ridiculously charismatic Amber Abundance who tells us about how a series of almost-meet-cutes in the LA queer arts scene fueled an unrequited crush… Or was it? 👀 Before we get to what happened next, we dive into the context leading up to Amber’s story, taking notes on her approach to going “low and slow” in dating, and how she pursues connection as a full, real-life human outside of dating apps. About Amber Abundance ✨ Amber Abundance is a storyteller, writer, and creative director. Amber is devoted to using radical Black queer imagination to create stories, art, culture, and community. Amber is the founder of Ample World and writes a bi-monthly newsletter called “Toxic Femininity” on Substack.  Check out Amber’s new live show, Toxic Femininity LIVE: An evening of folklore, fallacies, and fairytales is a monthly comedic storytelling show featuring Amber herself and 3 other storytellers at Petty Cash Studios in West Hollywood, Los Angeles.  🎟️ Follow Amber on Instagram @amberabundance for the latest show info and links to get tickets. 📺 Can’t make it to the show? Watch full episodes on YouTube! Links from the episode ✨ Mickalene Thomas: All About Love at The Broad Olivia Dean’s The Art of Loving All About Love by Bell Hooks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    40 min
  5. “Surviving together was the only way we knew how to be close.” with Ludine Pierre

    06/18/2024

    “Surviving together was the only way we knew how to be close.” with Ludine Pierre

    Did you miss us? We have one final story to share with you this season. In this episode of Missed Connections, Lizzy presents a story to Beth that has an early childhood that felt like a dream,  a surprise goodbye that changes everything, and a lifelong search for that feeling of home. It’s a missed connection. Lizzy and Beth bring in Ludine Pierre to talk about the ways intergenerational relationships and trauma can impact connection as well as the journey we can go on to unpack and better understand it for ourselves.  Ludine Pierre, LPCC; LPC-MHSP is a licensed professional clinical counselor (CA #9688 and TN #4377); and clinical supervisor at Spaces Therapy. She enjoys helping individuals become more aligned with their values and deepen their sense of connection to self and others, specifically, when the past interrupts the present creating realities that might be difficult to deal with. Over the last decade, Ludine has worked in school settings and with families, in hospitals, substance use and disordered eating treatment centers, universities and private practice. She specializes in relational trauma as it relates to women’s issues and has extensive training in working with disordered eating, neurodiversity, and individuals working to understand their identities as adult children of immigrants navigating generational trauma. In addition to providing psychotherapy, Ludine believes in the power of community and creating spaces for collective healing. She is an advocate for utilizing other modalities to foster healing and provides surf therapy groups to a variety of communities in the LA area. Ludine’s hope for individuals is to be able to own their story with compassion and access the inner wisdom that already lies within. If you would like to learn more about Ludine and Spaces Therapy, visit spacestherapyla.com and reach out to the team at hello@spacestherapyla.com. She has some upcoming Surf Therapy groups and a support for neurodivergent folks, so keep an eye out for updates there. Missed Connections is produced by the Elizabeths. Listen and follow on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube. Have a Missed Connections story to share with us? Email us at elizabeths@missedconnectionspod.com. To keep up to date on all things Missed Connections follow us @missedconnectionspodcast on Instagram and TikTok. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    51 min
5
out of 5
23 Ratings

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Missed Connections is a podcast that explores our longing to connect and the circumstances that stand in our way. Each episode, we share a missed connection story and unpack it with the person who lived it. 

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