More Than This Mess

Carole

Life is messy. But God! My goal is to point you to Jesus and His Word as well as to the evidence we have for the truth of Christianity so you can have true peace and joy, even through the biggest messes this life can bring. Jesus is the best part of life!

  1. God Doesn't Want You to Pretend You're Fine. Proof: The Psalms of Lament (Theology of Suffering Pt4)

    6D AGO

    God Doesn't Want You to Pretend You're Fine. Proof: The Psalms of Lament (Theology of Suffering Pt4)

    [Two corrections: at 4:50, it's Malachi instead of Micah. And at 45:20, it's Psalm 51, not Psalm 52. So close! ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™€๐Ÿ˜‚] You might be surprised to hear that God actually wants us to talk to Him about everything, including our hardest emotions. He doesn't keep us at arm's length until we feel better. In fact, He teaches us how to come to Him in our worst moments -- He shows us how to process our feelings with Him, how to bring Him all our questions and complaints and still honor Him as God. Join me to take a closer look at the Psalms of Lament, and take comfort in knowing that God cares about how we feel and has provided help for us hold onto Him when life is hard. โคโ€๐Ÿฉน 00:00 Intro & Welcome 01:41 About the Psalms of Lament 10:34 The pattern 12:31 Rescue for your heart 14:20 Poetry (it's not wooden) 17:44 Context matters! 19:34 Underlying principles apply to us 21:06 'Permission' to acknowledge hard feelings 22:20 Psalm 10 29:09 Psalm 31 37:26 Psalm 142 41:12 Psalm 143 44:56 Encouragement ๐Ÿ‘‰ Mike Winger's Teaching on Psalm 73: https://youtu.be/NqRYPAIsDQs?si=7zr3-hBA6FnPKbG4 ๐Ÿ‘‰ My Proverbs Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLADknl3H78jw10rbK-jyXkOok4uVa_muJ ๐Ÿ‘‰ My "Theology of Suffering" Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLADknl3H78jzZxFWsh_bJcbbuobMVUvEj ๐Ÿ‘‰ My blog: https://morethanthismess.com --------------------------- Scripture quotations are from The ESVยฎ Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Versionยฎ), ยฉ 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

    49 min
  2. The Tools God Gives Us to Deal with Suffering (The Theology of Suffering Pt 3)

    APR 24

    The Tools God Gives Us to Deal with Suffering (The Theology of Suffering Pt 3)

    We all suffer, but God doesn't leave us on our own to deal with our suffering in whatever way we can scrape together. He actually provides what we need in His Word -- and what He provides is better than what anyone else can offer! Let's look at 5 ways God equips us for the suffering we'll go through. 00:00 Intro & Recap 02:43 1. God reveals who He is and how He works 11:57 2. God teaches us the truth about suffering 20:21 What most people don't tell you about suffering 22:13 3. God tells us about the future 31:07 4. God shows us how to lament 33:41 Psalm 13 How long, Oh Lord? 35:27 Psalm 42 My tears have been my food both day and night 40:21 5. God gives us each other 48:17 Resources to dig deeper ๐Ÿ‘‰ On Getting All our Spiritual Info Only from Scripture: My video on what we learn from 2 Timothy 3: 15-16 and 2 Peter 1: 3 https://youtu.be/sCTi2X_JZDc My in-depth video on how God provides what we need in Scripture: https://youtu.be/C9WZU2-VRog My brief video on how God provides what we need in Scripture: https://youtu.be/vHHMtK_Of-U My brief blog post on how God provides what we need in Scripture: https://morethanthismess.com/2023/05/18/christian-be-on-your-guard/ ๐Ÿ‘‰ Mike Winger's Evidence for the Bible playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZ3iRMLYFlHuhA0RPKZFHVcjIMN_-F596 ๐Ÿ‘‰ Wes Huff's "Can We Trust the Bible?" Series Pt 1: https://youtu.be/QhVPBNBAGY0?si=8UnxYqB1n2VGutzK Pt 2: โ https://youtu.be/KkmLCWeORaQ?si=vNrsHNbsuZnjktAO Pt 3: โ https://youtu.be/lpsKNd8tqHI?si=R1OnuiEsfY5a9VSC ๐Ÿ‘‰ Heaven by Randy Alcorn https://a.co/d/0bXu5llH ๐Ÿ‘‰ Got Questions on the Psalms of Lament https://www.gotquestions.org/psalms-of-lament.html ๐Ÿ‘‰ Dark Clouds, Deep Mercy by Mark Vroegop https://a.co/d/04tVpUQR ๐Ÿ‘‰ Hinds' Feet on High Places Book: https://a.co/d/09ugWDyZ Description & Bible study on my blog: https://morethanthismess.com/2024/02/22/book-recommendation-and-bible-study-guide-hinds-feet-on-high-places/ ๐Ÿ‘‰ Life Is Hard. God Is Good. Let's Dance. by Brant Hansen https://a.co/d/07BVql1a ๐Ÿ‘‰ True Comfort Podcast with Teasi Cannon https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLNXm7SHidRI5rzHmDZjTHj8IkHEmUHAxr&si=icWny6326WM3LxRr ๐Ÿ‘‰ Resource Page on my blog: https://morethanthismess.com/favorite-resources/ --------------------------- Scripture quotations are from The ESVยฎ Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Versionยฎ), ยฉ 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

    56 min
  3. Certain Hope: What God Does with Our Suffering (The Theology of Suffering Part 2)

    APR 16

    Certain Hope: What God Does with Our Suffering (The Theology of Suffering Part 2)

    How can we hold onto hope while we suffer? CAN we have hope in the middle of pain and sorrow? We need to find out the truth about suffering -- and to do that, we need to know what God tells us about what He does with it. 0:00 Intro & Review 01:53 What we need to know about suffering 02:33 God is not removed from suffering 03:26 Why we look to the Bible for answers 06:10 Romans 8.28 12:30 Examples in Scripture 14:16 Romans 5.1-5 -- HOPE 23:24 James 1.2-4 27:51 Philippians 1:29 -- Granted?? 35:20 2 Corinthians 11.23-28 39:48 Philippians 1.12-14 40:49 Philippians 3.7-11 43:04 Philippians 4.11-13 46:41 2 Corinthians 12.7 51:51 2 Corinthians 4.6-9, 16-18, 5.1 58:50 Comforting others -- 2 Corinthians 1:4 Mike Winger's Evidence for the Bible playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZ3iRMLYFlHuhA0RPKZFHVcjIMN_-F596 My video on Why You Should Want to Study the Bible: https://youtu.be/P7P6UVlThPU My video on Bible Translations: https://youtu.be/aG9ILQYuZ5A My video on 2 Corinthians 4:16-5:1 https://youtu.be/QR5s5P0VNCY How Should a Christian View Scripture? (Blog post with linked references) https://morethanthismess.com/2024/02/03/how-should-a-christian-view-scripture/ A Little About Bible Translations and Quotes (Blog post with linked references) https://morethanthismess.com/2024/02/05/a-little-about-bible-translations-and-quotes/ --------------------------- Scripture quotations are from The ESVยฎ Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Versionยฎ), ยฉ 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.

    1h 2m
  4. MAR 2

    What Every Christian Needs to Know About Suffering (and How to Deal With It)

    (My apologies for the sound quality! I did what I could. I hope it's tolerable...because I truly believe this will be helpful.) Life is messy. And "mess" is just a word we substitute for "suffering." We don't like talking about suffering, but we need to! In this video I give an overview of what God tells us about suffering and how to deal with it -- things we ALL need to know. If you find this helpful, please like, comment, and share. And be sure to subscribe. Timestamps: 00:00 Why do we need to talk about suffering? 02:34 Why we should expect suffering 05:48 What God does with our suffering 17:03 How God equips us to deal with suffering 34:05 Recommended resources ๐Ÿ‘‰ Find more encouragement & resources at my blog: ๐Ÿ‘‡ Free Bible Study Guide for "Hinds Feet on High Places": https://morethanthismess.com/2024/02/22/book-recommendation-and-bible-study-guide-hinds-feet-on-high-places/ Even If: A Reminder of Our Reality https://morethanthismess.com/2024/03/16/even-if-a-reminder-of-our-reality/ Anxiety: 12 Scriptures to Study & Pray Through When You're Feeling Anxious or Afraid https://morethanthismess.com/2024/06/14/12-scriptures-to-study-pray-through-when-youre-feeling-anxious-or-afraid/ Everything Bitter is Sweet: A Close Look at Proverbs 27:7 https://morethanthismess.com/2025/04/17/everything-bitter-is-sweet/ Even If (hope in trying times) https://morethanthismess.com/2020/05/04/even-if/ Some of my favorite resources: https://morethanthismess.com/favorite-resources/

    41 min
  5. Can we *understand* Proverbs 3:5-6? ๐Ÿค” Let's study it and find out! (Bible Study Basics Pt 7)

    FEB 18

    Can we *understand* Proverbs 3:5-6? ๐Ÿค” Let's study it and find out! (Bible Study Basics Pt 7)

    "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths." (Proverbs 3:5-6) Wait..."don't lean on your own understanding"? Then...how can we understand this verse, or anything in Scripture?? ๐Ÿ˜ตโ€๐Ÿ’ซ Let's do a Bible study and find out!! (Spoiler: there's a good and clear answer!! ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿค“) 00:00 Intro 01:24 Proverbs 3: 5-6 02:07 Why study this passage? (Can we *understand*? ๐Ÿค”) 05:23 Step 1: Prayer 6:27 Pre-loading info 7:30 About Proverbs in general 10:30 Context of our passage 12:40 Today's approach: words & phrases 13:18 Defining *trust* 20:39 ...in the LORD 25:40 with all your HEART 32:01 Lean not? 33:40 your OWN understanding 39:01 related passages in Proverbs (wider context!) 40:02 Proverbs 1: 1-7 41:42 Proverbs 2: 1-12 44:24 Verse 6 44:44 What do you think it means? ๐Ÿค” 47:34 In ALL your ways 48:28 Acknowledge Him? 51:30 He will make straight your paths? 59:55 Help from Proverbs 4 01:03:28 My paraphrase 01:05:37 Encouragement ๐Ÿ‘‰ Watch all the videos in this series here: Bible Study Basics Playlist https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLADknl3H78jzCMuK1o91xCBhDMI34-3Ix ๐Ÿ‘‰ My blog post on Proverbs 3: 5-6 https://morethanthismess.com/2024/03/20/proverbs-35-6-a-deep-dive-into-a-well-known-passage/ ๐Ÿ‘‰ How to Understand the Book of Proverbs Correctly https://youtu.be/din8-ZzaVhY ๐Ÿ‘‰ What is the meaning of Yahweh? (Got Questions Article) https://www.gotquestions.org/meaning-of-Yahweh.html ๐Ÿ‘‰ Mike Winger: Evidence for the Bible https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZ3iRMLYFlHuhA0RPKZFHVcjIMN_-F596 ๐Ÿ‘‰ Mike Winger: Evidence for the Resurrection https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZ3iRMLYFlHuhA0RPKZFHVcjIMN_-F596 ๐Ÿ‘‰ Hope & Faith are Choices, not Feelings https://youtu.be/ghZO38UL7cI ๐Ÿ‘‰ Bible Study Basics Series on my blog (free printable in Part 3): https://morethanthismess.com/2025/08/29/bible-study-basics-part-one/ https://morethanthismess.com/2025/09/01/bible-study-basics-part-two https://morethanthismess.com/2025/09/04/bible-study-basics-part-three/ ******************* Scripture quotations are from The ESVยฎ Bible (The Holy Bible, English Standard Versionยฎ), ยฉ 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved. Scripture quotations taken from The Holy Bible, New International Versionยฎ NIVยฎ Copyright ยฉ 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc. Used with permission. All rights reserved worldwide.

    1h 8m

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Life is messy. But God! My goal is to point you to Jesus and His Word as well as to the evidence we have for the truth of Christianity so you can have true peace and joy, even through the biggest messes this life can bring. Jesus is the best part of life!