Join Angilyn and Nate Bagley as they capture the real-life stories of amazing LDS couples, and learn the principles and tools of how to have an incredible Eternal Marriage from LDS marriage experts. If you want a marriage that makes you look forward to eternity... this show should be in your feed!
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist #32
Join us for another awesome conversation with Jennifer Finlayson-Fife! In this episode we delve into questions about exploring what arouses you, dealing with conflicting desires, and frustrations around female orgasm.
We hope you enjoy the conversation!
E50 - Power of a Shared Dream with Kory & Heather
"The noblest aim in life is to strive to live to make lives better and happier. The most worthy calling in life is that in which man can serve best his fellow man." - David O. McKay
E49 - Continuing the Porn Conversation with Dr. Cam Staley
We need to have more compassion and understanding in our marriages - for ourselves and for our partner.
There are a lot of things that enter our relationships from our pasts. We need to realize that it is going to take some time to perfect this dance. Sometimes they’re going to step on your toes, and sometimes you will step on theirs. When we do that, let’s try to give each other some feedback and support.
It can quickly turn to blame and anger - ‘you stepped on me and that really hurt!’ Most often there is not malicious intent, yet people still get injured. We get hurt and our expectations get betrayed. There is a lot of emotion and discomfort and fear. It’s here that we need to start from a place of, ‘my partner is probably doing their best even though they aren’t a great dance partner yet. Maybe I’m not a great dance partner yet either! I thought I had all the moves and I don’t. How can we learn how to dance together?’
— Dr. Cameron Staley
Ask a Mormon Sex Therapist #31
"Seldom are we broken. There’s just something we haven’t yet learned that would allow us to be more free. The courage to pursue a truer view is rewarded with the joy of living in greater truth." - Jennifer Finlayson-Fife
E48 - Off Balance On Purpose | Learning to juggle all of life's roles with Rachel Nielson from the 3 in 30 Podcast
"I felt like the Lord was telling me, ‘I created you the way you are for a reason. You have these gifts and these desires and these skills because I put them there in you. It’s not wrong to follow those. In fact, it’s fulfilling the measure of your creation.’
I do believe that it is a parent’s (both a father’s and a mother’s) primary responsibility for the nurture of their children, and a huge part of that is finding nurturing opportunities for them. I’m the facilitator of the nurturing and the education that happens in my children’s life. I do not have to be the only one doing the nurturing."
— Rachel Nielson
E47 - "Our Way" Marriage Plan with Jonathan Sherman, LMFT | The vital importance of premarital and early marital counseling
"An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure" - Benjamin Franklin
"Why isn’t this something that more people do? They think they don’t need it. They say, 'Oh, we don’t have any problems.' It’s the stigma and mindset that counseling is only something you do when you’re screwed up.
You don’t need to have problems to go to premarital counseling any more than you need to be stupid to go to college. A prevention mindset says 'Hey, I’d like to know what it is I don’t know.'" - Jonathan Sherman, LMFT
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Love love love your podcast!! Thanks for helping me know I’m normal with some things I think and feel and it’s possible to have an amazing marriage with effort! I’ve been trying to find the 1% link. Where is it?
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I just want to say that after listening to Episode 11, Spare it a little longer, it would be impossible not to write a review. I am currently a 23 year old YSA trying to figure out the challenges of college, life, and the fun process of dating. I can’t put into words the gratitude that I have for Nate being willing to be vulnerable and share his struggles through the podcast. I myself have struggled with pornography, before and after my mission. It has made dating hard and it has taken a very large toll on my self-image and the way I value myself. Thanks to resources, like this podcast and that of Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, I no longer live in fear or shame of my past. To say thank you, Nate and Angilyn, does not do justice. Love your podcast and I love you guys!