Why Are We Like This?

FisherCast
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Making sense of people who don’t make sense, Why Are We Like This? is a podcast about human nature, pop culture, and the wonderfully strange ways people behave. Hosted by a gay married couple with strong opinions and an endless curiosity about what makes people tick, Why Are We Like This? dives into movies, TV shows, celebrity moments, internet obsessions, social trends, and everyday quirks that shape our lives. Each week we break down the pop culture moments, questionable human behavior, and everyday oddities we can’t stop talking about—and the surprisingly relatable reasons behind them. Part cultural commentary, part relationship banter, and part armchair anthropology, Why Are We Like This? explores the question at the heart of absurd trends, awkward interactions, and the collective obsession that begs to ask, Why Are We Like This?

  1. 4d ago

    Why Do We Love James Wan?

    Why do we love James Wan? Jarrod and Robert dive deep into the James Wan horror universe, revisiting all five Insidious films in chronological order and exploring what makes these movies so much more than simple possession stories. From Lin Shaye's evolution into the emotional anchor of the Insidious franchise, to the terrifying logic of The Further, the Bride in Black, the ghosts that look almost too real, and the surprisingly complex character arcs woven throughout the series, we unpack why James Wan's horror stays with us long after the credits roll. We also venture into The Conjuring, Annabelle, The Nun, and Sinister—and debate what makes some horror genuinely effective, why the first Sinister may be one of the hardest watches of the entire bunch, and why sometimes the scariest place to watch a scary movie is… your own house. Plus: why we prefer streaming movies at home, the movies that are actually worth seeing in a theater, and our dream idea for a Twilight Zone-style series set inside the Warrens' haunted museum. Grab the popcorn, turn down the lights (or don't), and join us for a very spooky conversation about why we love being scared. 🎙️ Why Are We Like This? Send us a quick "Fan Voice Mail" with this link! Download this and future episodes of our podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pocketcasts, and anywhere else to find your favorite shows. You can search Why Are We Like This? and please be sure to subscribe, and/or write a review if possible to help build our show.  Have an idea for a future episode, or want to join us for a conversation? Send us a message with the link above!

  2. Aug 25

    Why Did Disneyland Lose Its Magic?

    “What Happened to the Magic of Disneyland?” Disneyland was once a place where you could escape the real world and immerse yourself in something magical. But on a recent visit, we found ourselves asking: what happened? From constant phone use and social media to endless monetization, intellectual property taking over the parks, and an experience that increasingly feels more transactional than magical, we explore how Disneyland has changed—and whether the magic really disappeared, or whether we simply grew up. Because maybe the real irony is this: we went to Disneyland to escape the modern world, only to find the modern world waiting for us inside. We talk nostalgia, technology, commercialization, and the strange experience of realizing that something you once loved may no longer exist in quite the same way. Was the magic lost—or did we just change? Send us a quick "Fan Voice Mail" with this link! Download this and future episodes of our podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pocketcasts, and anywhere else to find your favorite shows. You can search Why Are We Like This? and please be sure to subscribe, and/or write a review if possible to help build our show.  Have an idea for a future episode, or want to join us for a conversation? Send us a message with the link above!

  3. Aug 18

    Why The Shards?

    What happens when the dark, seductive world of Bret Easton Ellis meets the glossy, meticulously crafted universe of Ryan Murphy? In this episode of Why Are We Like This?, we dive into The Shards—a story of beautiful people, beautiful places, drugs, sex, violence and the loneliness hiding underneath the veneer. But our conversation quickly becomes about something much bigger: the loss of childhood, the consequences of growing up too soon, and what happens when young people are left to navigate the world without the guidance they need. We explore why we're often drawn to the very things that make us uncomfortable, whether disturbing art can expand our empathy, and how our own experiences create the “keyhole” through which we see the world. For Jarrod, Bret Easton Ellis's work also hits closer to home, opening a conversation about alienation, self-destructive choices, finding chosen family, and the difference between perpetuating our wounds and healing them. Because maybe the reason artists keep revisiting uncomfortable places isn't because they're stuck there. Maybe it's their process to process. And maybe that's why we stay curious. 🎙️ Send us a quick "Fan Voice Mail" with this link! Download this and future episodes of our podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pocketcasts, and anywhere else to find your favorite shows. You can search Why Are We Like This? and please be sure to subscribe, and/or write a review if possible to help build our show.  Have an idea for a future episode, or want to join us for a conversation? Send us a message with the link above!

  4. Aug 11

    Why Do We Have to Be Right?

    Why Do We Have to Be Right? Why is being wrong so uncomfortable? In this episode of Why Are We Like This?, Jarrod and Robert take a closer look at our need to be right—and what that need might actually be protecting. Is being wrong really a threat to our identity, our intelligence, or our sense of control? Or have we simply learned to confuse being wrong about something with being wrong as a person? The conversation explores vulnerability, ego, intellectual humility, and the ways our own experiences can limit how we see the world. Jarrod introduces the idea of our “keyhole perception”—the understanding that each of us sees only a portion of the larger picture—and Robert reflects on what happens when we become comfortable admitting that we don't have all the answers.  Along the way, they talk about changing our minds, why being open to new information is a strength rather than a weakness, and why sometimes the most liberating thing we can say is simply: “I don't know.” Because maybe being wrong isn't the problem. Maybe our need to never be wrong is. And perhaps the answer to life isn't having all the answers—but being willing to embrace the questions. Send us a quick "Fan Voice Mail" with this link! Download this and future episodes of our podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pocketcasts, and anywhere else to find your favorite shows. You can search Why Are We Like This? and please be sure to subscribe, and/or write a review if possible to help build our show.  Have an idea for a future episode, or want to join us for a conversation? Send us a message with the link above!

  5. Aug 4

    Why Do We Want To Matter?

    Why do we want to matter? Is it survival? Ego? Legacy? Love? Or something even deeper? This week, Jarrod and Robert explore one of the most fundamental questions of the human experience. From childhood bullying and people-pleasing to celebrity culture, social media, and the pursuit of fame, they examine why so many of us look outward for validation—and whether the answer has been within us all along. Maybe mattering isn't about being remembered. Maybe it's about how we experience our own lives. Send us a quick "Fan Voice Mail" with this link! Download this and future episodes of our podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pocketcasts, and anywhere else to find your favorite shows. You can search Why Are We Like This? and please be sure to subscribe, and/or write a review if possible to help build our show.  Have an idea for a future episode, or want to join us for a conversation? Send us a message with the link above!

  6. Jul 28

    Why Don't I Like Musicals?

    What started as a conversation about why Jarrod doesn't enjoy musicals quickly became something much bigger. From Grease 2 and Book of Mormon to Death Becomes Her, drag, comedy, and storytelling, we explore why some art feels authentic while other art feels performative. Along the way we discuss nostalgia, originality, stereotypes, cancel culture, and why the best conversations aren't about changing minds—they're about expanding them. This isn't really an episode about musicals. It's an episode about honesty. Stay Curious. Send us a quick "Fan Voice Mail" with this link! Download this and future episodes of our podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pocketcasts, and anywhere else to find your favorite shows. You can search Why Are We Like This? and please be sure to subscribe, and/or write a review if possible to help build our show.  Have an idea for a future episode, or want to join us for a conversation? Send us a message with the link above!

  7. Jul 21

    Why Is Madonna Still So Relevant?

    Few artists have shaped popular culture the way Madonna has. For more than four decades, she's reinvented herself, challenged expectations, sparked conversations, and remained at the center of music, fashion, and entertainment. But what is it about Madonna that has allowed her to stay relevant while so many others have faded from the spotlight? In this episode, we explore the lasting appeal of the Queen of Pop—from her fearless creativity and business savvy to her willingness to evolve with the times while staying unapologetically herself. We'll look at the risks she's taken, the controversies she's embraced, and the influence she's had on generations of artists who followed in her footsteps. Whether you've been a fan since the '80s or you're discovering her impact for the first time, this conversation examines why Madonna continues to inspire, provoke, and captivate audiences around the world. Love her or question her, there's no denying that her legacy is one of the most remarkable in modern entertainment. Send us a quick "Fan Voice Mail" with this link! Download this and future episodes of our podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pocketcasts, and anywhere else to find your favorite shows. You can search Why Are We Like This? and please be sure to subscribe, and/or write a review if possible to help build our show.  Have an idea for a future episode, or want to join us for a conversation? Send us a message with the link above!

  8. Jul 14

    Why Is It So Hard To Put In The Effort?

    Success isn't always about talent, luck, or having the perfect plan—more often, it's about showing up and putting in the effort, day after day. In this episode, we explore why consistent effort matters in every area of life, from our careers and relationships to our health, personal growth, and everyday responsibilities. We'll discuss how small, intentional actions create lasting change, why persistence often outperforms natural ability, and how embracing the process can help you overcome setbacks and build resilience. Whether you're chasing a big goal or simply trying to become a better version of yourself, this conversation will remind you that effort is one of the few things always within your control. Join us as we unpack the mindset and habits that turn ordinary moments into extraordinary progress—because every meaningful achievement begins with the decision to keep showing up. Send us a quick "Fan Voice Mail" with this link! Download this and future episodes of our podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Pocketcasts, and anywhere else to find your favorite shows. You can search Why Are We Like This? and please be sure to subscribe, and/or write a review if possible to help build our show.  Have an idea for a future episode, or want to join us for a conversation? Send us a message with the link above!

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Making sense of people who don’t make sense, Why Are We Like This? is a podcast about human nature, pop culture, and the wonderfully strange ways people behave. Hosted by a gay married couple with strong opinions and an endless curiosity about what makes people tick, Why Are We Like This? dives into movies, TV shows, celebrity moments, internet obsessions, social trends, and everyday quirks that shape our lives. Each week we break down the pop culture moments, questionable human behavior, and everyday oddities we can’t stop talking about—and the surprisingly relatable reasons behind them. Part cultural commentary, part relationship banter, and part armchair anthropology, Why Are We Like This? explores the question at the heart of absurd trends, awkward interactions, and the collective obsession that begs to ask, Why Are We Like This?

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  • Creator
    FisherCast
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    87
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 FisherCast
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