Divorce Dialogues

Katherine Miller
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Divorce Dialogues

Divorce Dialogues brings experts together to talk about what works (and what doesn't) to reach a better life on the other side of divorce.

  1. How a Well-Written Prenup Prevents Divorce—with Aaron Thomas

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    How a Well-Written Prenup Prevents Divorce—with Aaron Thomas

    Prenups get a bad rap. And if you broach the subject with a partner, they often think you’re planning for the marriage to fail. But what if a prenuptial agreement could help you get on the same page about money before you got married? What if a prenup could reduce tension in your marriage and even prevent divorce? Aaron Thomas has been named Atlanta's best divorce attorney three times, and he’s one of the nation's top experts in family law issues. Aaron is also the founder of Prenups.com, a platform that helps couples establish a solid financial foundation before they walk down the aisle, and author of The Prenup Prescription: Meet the Premarital Contract Designed to Save Your Marriage. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Aaron joins Katherine to explain how prenups help couples establish a good working relationship around money. Aaron discusses the parallels between business partnerships and marriage, challenging couples to structure their finances in a way that makes both parties feel secure. Listen in for Aaron’s advice on approaching your significant other about creating a prenup and learn how a well-written pre- or postnuptial agreement can make your marriage stronger! Topics Covered How a well-written prenup helps couples reduce tension in a marriage Why a prenup should address your finances before, during and after marriage Aaron’s insight on the One Paycheck Rule and why it’s important How prenups help couples establish a good working relationship around money The parallels between forming a business partnership and getting married Why extreme power imbalances in a marriage often lead to divorce Aaron’s advice on deciding what money is yours, mine and ours How to approach your significant other about creating a prenuptial agreement What the less-moneyed spouse can do to feel protected by a prenup The misconception that prenups are only a tool for the super-wealthy Connect with Aaron Thomas Prenups.com: https://prenups.com/ The Prenup Prescription by Aaron Thomas: https://prenups.com/book/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765

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  2. Conducting a Cost Benefit Analysis Before You Initiate Divorce—with Raiford Palmer

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    Conducting a Cost Benefit Analysis Before You Initiate Divorce—with Raiford Palmer

    If you’re considering divorce, it’s useful to do a cost-benefit analysis before you initiate the process. And think beyond the legal fees and division of property. How much time will it take to work through the process? What's the emotional cost to you, your spouse and your children? How might it impact your career? Raiford is CEO and Managing Partner of STG Divorce Law in Chicago and Fellow at the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers. Raiford is also the author of the award-winning divorce book, I Just Want This Done: How Smart, Successful People Get Divorced Without Losing Their Kids, Money, and Minds. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Raiford joins Katherine to explain why you should get educated before you jump into a divorce. Raiford describes how to reframe the experience of divorce as an opportunity for growth and discusses how his own divorce changed the way he approaches his work as a divorce lawyer. Listen in for Raiford’s insight on trying alternative dispute resolution in high-conflict cases and learn how to conduct a cost-benefit analysis before you move forward with a divorce. Topics Covered Raiford’s advice on getting educated before you jump into divorce Why Raiford suggests looking inward before you divorce and/or remarry How to leverage divorce as a personal growth experience What motivated Raiford to write the divorce book I Just Want This Done Raiford’s personal experience with feeling lost in the process of divorce How Raiford’s own divorce changed the way he approaches his work Why you should still try alternative dispute resolution if your partner is uncooperative How mediation can work better than litigation in high-conflict cases Conducting a cost-benefit analysis before you move forward with a divorce The first steps you should take to initiate the divorce process Connect with Raiford Palmer I Just Want This Done: https://www.ijustwantthisdone.com/ Raiford on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/raifordpalmer/ Raiford on X: https://x.com/raifordpalmer Raiford on TikTok: raifordpalmer STG Divorce Law: https://www.stglawfirm.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources I Just Want This Done: How Smart, Successful People Get Divorced Without Losing Their Kids, Money, and Minds by Raiford Palmer: https://www.amazon.com/Just-Want-This-Done-Successful/dp/1737208903 Unbreakable Husband Program: https://richinrelationship.com/ Dr. John Duffy: https://drjohnduffy.com/

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  3. Navigating Divorce as an Immigrant—with Neepa Padia

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    Navigating Divorce as an Immigrant—with Neepa Padia

    Neepa Padia gave up her senior level career in India to get married and immigrate to the US. But her partner was abusive, and Neepa wanted out. Unfortunately, she was in the country on a dependent spouse visa and had no friends, no family and no job. How did Neepa navigate divorce as an immigrant? Neepa is the Certified Divorce Coach behind Holistic Divorce Journey, a platform that helps immigrants in divorce with logical steps and tools toward a brighter future. Neepa’s personal experience has shaped her into a compassionate and nonjudgmental coach, ensuring that her clients are not alone on this journey of getting divorced in a in a strange land. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Neepa joins Katherine to explain how her experiences as an immigrant going through a divorce inspired her to become a divorce coach. Neepa discusses the options available to people in the US on a dependent spouse visa, describing the resources available to immigrants dealing with the emotional and logistical challenges of divorce. Listen in for Neepa’s insight on finding culturally aligned support and learn how to leverage the holistic divorce journey to build the future you want! Topics Covered Neepa’s experience navigating divorce as an immigrant to the US What inspired Neepa to build Holistic Divorce Journey Options available to divorcing people in the US on a dependent spouse visa What resources Neepa leaned on when she was getting divorced Resources available to immigrants navigating divorce The emotional and logistical challenges of divorce as an immigrant How international assets impact equitable distribution of property in divorce Why it’s helpful for divorcing immigrants to find culturally aligned support Leveraging the holistic divorce journey to build the future you want Connect with Neepa Padia Holistic Divorce Journey: https://holisticdivorcejourney.com/ Neepa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/holisticdivorcejourney/ Neepa’s Divorce Support Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/969925950972235/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources Second Saturday: https://www.secondsaturday.com/ Divorce GPS: https://divorce-gps.com/

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  4. A Fair & Loving Approach to Prenups—with Laurie Israel

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    A Fair & Loving Approach to Prenups—with Laurie Israel

    You might assume that mediators who specialize in prenups recommend them for everyone. But Laurie Israel is actually against prenuptial agreements for most couples. So, when should you consider creating a prenup? And how do you write one in a fair and loving way that strengthens the new marriage? Laurie is a collaborative lawyer and mediator based in Massachusetts, where she concentrates her practice exclusively on prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. Laurie also writes extensively about the art of mediating prenups, and she is the author of The Generous Prenup: How to Support Your Marriage and Avoid the Pitfalls. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Laurie joins Katherine to explain when a prenup is a good idea and when it isn’t, discussing why it’s inappropriate to think of a marriage as a business deal. Laurie shares her thoughts on prenups for inheritances, second marriages, and business owners, describing what to look for in a mediator to negotiate your agreement. Listen in for Laurie’s insight on protecting both parties (not just the moneyed spouse) and learn how the right kind of prenup creates peace, certainty and fairness for all involved. Topics Covered Why Laurie is against prenuptial agreements for most couples When a prenup is a good idea and how it can create peace, certainty and fairness in those cases Why it’s inappropriate to think of a marriage as a business deal Laurie’s advice on what to look for in a mediator to negotiate your prenup Why Laurie suggests a prenup for second marriages and marriages involving children from previous relationships How Laurie thinks about building a prenup or postnup for business owners How fairness in a prenup is influenced by the laws in your particular state When it might be appropriate to draft a postnuptial agreement Laurie’s thoughts on the complexities of money and marriage Laurie’s loving approach to prenups that protect both people in a marriage (not just the moneyed spouse) How to address student loans and inheritances in a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement Providing for the surviving spouse when a marriage ends in death Connect with Laurie Israel Laurie Israel Law and Mediation: https://www.laurieisrael.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources The Generous Prenup by Laurie Israel: https://www.laurieisrael.com/book/ Ten Things I Hate About Prenuptial Agreements: https://www.laurieisrael.com/ten-things-i-hate-about-prenuptial-agreements/

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  5. Empowering Women in Divorce—with Heather Quick

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    Empowering Women in Divorce—with Heather Quick

    In the early days of her family law practice, Heather Quick noticed a troubling pattern among the women she represented. Women often undervalued what they brought to the marriage and failed to stand up for themselves in the divorce process. So, what can women do to change their mindset around divorce and fight for what they deserve? Heather Quick is Founder and CEO of Florida Women’s Law Group, the only divorce and family law firm in Northeast Florida that serves women exclusively. Consistent with her message of women's empowerment, Heather has published several books on divorce and business, including Women’s Guide to Divorce in Florida and Women’s Guide to Becoming a Successful Entrepreneur. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Heather joins Katherine to discuss the unique challenges facing women in divorce, from stay-at-home moms to female breadwinners. Heather explains how women compromise on finances to protect their children and why that’s a bad idea, challenging couples to stop using their children as a negotiating tool in divorce. Listen in to understand how entrepreneurship can help women own their financial destiny and learn how FWLG advocates for women before, during and after divorce. Topics Covered What inspired Heather to focus on helping women stand up for themselves in divorce Why women tend to undervalue what they bring to a marriage What issues affect women in particular during the divorce process How women compromise on finances in divorce to protect their children (and why they shouldn’t) The danger in using your children as a negotiating tool in divorce Common issues facing female breadwinners in divorce, e.g.: custody, alimony, etc. How Heather’s books educate and empower women before, during and after divorce Heather’s experience working with a team of all women at Florida Women’s Law Group How Heather benefits from having a divorce coach on her team What motivated Heather to expand her focus to helping women excel as entrepreneurs Connect with Heather Quick Florida Women’s Law Group: https://www.floridawomenslawgroup.com/ Women Winning Divorce Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/685277376560289 Women Winning Divorce Podcast: https://womenwinningdivorce.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources Women’s Guide to Divorce in Florida by Heather Brooke Quick, Esq.: https://www.amazon.com/Womens-Guide-Divorce-Florida-Advantage/dp/150323326X Is Divorce Right for You? by Heather B. Quick, Esq.: https://www.amazon.com/Divorce-Right-You-Guide-Determine-ebook/dp/B00NH2QK1G/ Women’s Guide to Becoming a Successful Entrepreneur by Heather B. Quick, Esq.: https://www.amazon.com/Womens-Guide-Becoming-Successful-Entrepreneur/dp/1511734655/ Julie Rountree on Divorce Dialogues: https://miller-law.com/podcast/the-missing-professional-from-a-divorce-litigation-team/ Changes to Florida’s Divorce Law: https://www.attorneylauraolson.com/an-overview-of-floridas-new-alimony-law-elimination-of-permanent-alimony/

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  6. Divorce Financial Planning with a Love Letter—with Jennifer Lee

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    Divorce Financial Planning with a Love Letter—with Jennifer Lee

    If you’re going through a divorce, writing a love letter is probably the last thing on your mind. But Jennifer Lee, AWMA, AIF, suggests that sharing your values and hopes for the future in a family love letter to your children is a good first step for financial planning in divorce. So, how does a love letter help you set meaningful financial goals and make better money decisions? Jennifer is the founder of Modern Wealth, a Sarasota-based financial firm with a focus on helping individuals in transition, and author of Squeeze the Juice: Live with Purpose, Then Leave a Legacy. Jennifer brings a fresh perspective on the financial planning process by digging deep to understand her clients’ values and helping them use money as a tool to accomplish their dreams. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Jennifer joins Katherine to share the personal experience that inspired her idea for a family love letter in the financial planning process. Jennifer explains why financial anxiety is such a common issue in the divorce process and challenges us to see money as a tool to reach our goals—not the goal itself. Listen in to understand how Jennifer supports the ‘non-moneyed’ spouse in settlement negotiations and learn how Squeeze the Juice can help you make informed financial decisions in divorce. Topics Covered Why Jennifer includes writing a family love letter in the financial planning process Thinking of money as a tool to accomplish our dreams vs. the goal itself What drove Jennifer’s father to communicate his values in a kind of family love letter Why anxiety around money is such a common issue in the divorce process How Jennifer helps the non-moneyed spouse in a divorce make financial decisions The danger in rushing through divorce negotiations because you want it to be done What experiences inspired Jennifer to write her book, Squeeze the Juice How your money story impacts the way you navigate financial decisions The 2 most important chapters in Squeeze the Juice for people going through divorce What it means to be the non-moneyed spouse in divorce (and what it doesn’t mean) Why there’s a power imbalance in divorce negotiations for the non-moneyed spouse Connect with Jennifer Lee Modern Wealth: https://modern-wealth.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources Squeeze the Juice by Jennifer Lee: https://squeezethejuicebook.com/

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  7. The Impact of Domestic Abuse in Divorce—with Beverly Price

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    The Impact of Domestic Abuse in Divorce—with Beverly Price

    Asking your partner for a divorce is challenging under any circumstances. But the conversation can be downright dangerous if you’re leaving an abusive spouse. In fact, upwards of 70% of women who leave an abusive spouse are murdered. So, what resources are available to victims of intimate partner violence? How do you mitigate the risks associated with divorcing an abuser? Beverly Price is the driving force behind Her Empowered Divorce, a coaching practice that has supported thousands of women facing the most challenging aspects of divorce. Beverly is also the visionary behind the Divorce Coalition, a network of divorce professionals and survivor advocates united to transform the landscape of domestic abuse. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Beverly joins Katherine to explore the impact of domestic abuse in divorce and explain why you shouldn’t leave an abuser without a safety plan. Beverly discusses the benefit of having a divorce coach, describing how she offers clients education and preparation around the process to reduce their anxiety. Listen in for Beverly’s insight into the many forms of abuse and learn how survivors of domestic partner violence can work through the divorce process safely and with adequate support. Topics Covered The benefit of divorce coaching that goes beyond emotional management How education and preparation for divorce reduces the anxiety associated with the process Why Beverly suggests hiring an attorney, financial professional and divorce coach How Beverly’s personal experiences inform her work as a divorce coach Divorce Coalition’s work to improve abuse survivors’ experiences in the court process The many forms of domestic abuse, i.e.: physical, financial, sexual, legal, emotional, etc. Why you shouldn’t leave an abuser until you have support and a safety plan How Beverly coaches people through the conversation of asking for a divorce The statistics re: the number of men and women who experience intimate partner violence Beverly’s advice on documenting abuse to prepare for divorce litigation Connect with Beverly Price Her Empowered Divorce: https://herempowereddivorce.com/ Her Empowered Divorce Podcast: https://herempowereddivorce.com/podcast Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/

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  8. Navigating Stress in Your Relationship—with Judy Herman

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    Navigating Stress in Your Relationship—with Judy Herman

    Is your relationship causing you a great deal of stress? Do you suspect that your partner has a diagnosable mental illness? In such a challenging situation, it’s human nature to blame the other person in the relationship. To label their behavior as wrong and ask, ‘Why won’t they change?’ But if their mental health is in question, they may not be able to change. And the better question is, ‘What is YOUR next right step?’ Judy Herman is a mental health professional and relationship wellness advocate dedicated to equipping high-achieving women in the helping professions go from trauma drama into vibrant karma. Judy is also the host of Better Relationships, Better Life: The Podcast and author of Beyond Messy Relationships and Relationships with Purpose. On this episode of Divorce Dialogues, Judy joins Katherine to explain how her personal experience as a twice-divorced relationship therapist inspired her to write Relationships with Purpose. Judy discusses what differentiates someone with self-centered characteristics from a diagnosable narcissist and shares questions to ask yourself if you’re married to someone with mental illness. Listen in for Judy’s insight on shifting your attitude toward your partner from judgement to curiosity and learn strategies for staying grounded during challenging interactions in any relationship. Topics Covered How Judy’s own challenging relationships inspired her to write her first book The identity crisis Judy faced as a twice-divorced relationship therapist What differentiates someone with self-centered characteristics from a diagnosable narcissist What questions to ask yourself if you’re married to someone with mental illness How to shift your attitude toward your partner from judgement to curiosity Judy’s strategies for staying grounded in challenging interactions with your partner Why Judy suggests getting professional help if you’re feeling shame around your relationship Judy’s deep breathing exercises for navigating intense interpersonal situations Connect with Judy Herman Judy’s Website: https://www.judycounselor.com/ Better Relationships, Better Life: The Podcast: https://www.judycounselor.com/podcast/ Connect with Katherine Miller The Center for Understanding Conflict: http://understandinginconflict.org/ Miller Law Group: https://miller-law.com/ Katherine on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kemiller1 The New Yorker’s Guide to Collaborative Divorce by Katherine Miller: https://www.amazon.com/New-Yorkers-Guide-Collaborative-Divorce/dp/0692496246 Email: katherine@miller-law.com  Call (914) 738-7765 Resources Beyond Messy Relationships by Judy K. Herman: https://www.judycounselor.com/product/premier-author-signed-single-book/ Relationships with Purpose by Judy K. Herman: https://www.judycounselor.com/relationships-with-purpose/ Brene Brown: https://brenebrown.com/ My Lovely Wife in the Psych Ward by Mark Lukach: https://www.marklukach.com/book Judy’s Relationship Stress Quiz: https://www.judycounselor.com/ Judy’s From Chaos to Calm Online Course: https://www.judycounselor.com/jumpstart-emotionally-safe-conversations/

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