Divorce Dialogues

Katherine Miller

Divorce Dialogues brings experts together to talk about what works (and what doesn't) to reach a better life on the other side of divorce.

  1. Fiduciaries and Beneficiaries: Ensuring Alignment with Divorce - with Laura Cowan, Esq.

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    Fiduciaries and Beneficiaries: Ensuring Alignment with Divorce - with Laura Cowan, Esq.

    "Blended families are always a little bit tricky just because you don't have that standard. Everything to the spouse and then down to the kids. And that's just the end of it." - Laura Cowan Laura Cowan, a distinguished attorney and CPA, brings her expertise in estate planning to the forefront, particularly in navigating the intricate transitions that follow a divorce. Having founded her own law firm after a successful career as a CPA, Laura emphasizes the critical need to reassess beneficiary designations post-divorce, as these can override other estate planning documents. She advises individuals to carefully review and update life insurance and retirement accounts to ensure they align with their current wishes, highlighting the necessity of collaborating with a team of professionals—including estate lawyers and financial advisors—to develop a comprehensive plan. Laura's perspective encourages those experiencing divorce to view it as an opportunity for reinvention, urging them to thoughtfully consider their future personal and professional paths to foster growth and fulfillment in this new chapter of life. Key Takeaways: ->Revisiting beneficiary designations is crucial to protecting one's financial legacy after a divorce. ->Updating estate planning documents post-divorce is crucial to ensure that beneficiaries and fiduciaries accurately reflect the individual's current circumstances. ->Consulting with an estate planning attorney before finalizing a divorce settlement is crucial. ->Estate planning can provide individuals with a sense of control and stability following significant life transitions like divorce. ->The integrative nature of divorce affects various aspects of life including estate planning, financial planning, and parenting plans. ->Attorneys can create a more fulfilling and effective approach to practicing law by prioritizing client needs over traditional metrics of success. Connect with Laura Cowan, Esq: https://www.2hourlifestylelawyer.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/thelauracowan/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/

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  2. Bonus: Avoiding Pitfalls: Family Home Financial Models - with Melissa Murphy Pavone

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    Bonus: Avoiding Pitfalls: Family Home Financial Models - with Melissa Murphy Pavone

    "You really want to know what your priorities are and then you want to know what your spouse's priorities are, because they might be different." - Melissa Murphy Pavone Melissa Murphy Pavone is a seasoned certified financial planner and divorce financial analyst, whose 18 years of experience in the field are deeply influenced by her personal experiences as a child of divorce. She founded Mindful Divorce Partners to guide clients through the intricate financial challenges of divorce with clarity and assurance. Melissa stresses the importance of proactive and holistic financial planning, focusing on understanding settlement options, tax implications, and the long-term effects of financial decisions, especially when children are involved. Her approach goes beyond mere numbers, helping clients design balanced and sustainable financial plans that align with their future goals and risk tolerance, while avoiding common pitfalls such as retaining the family home without considering its long-term financial impact. Key Takeaways: ->Working with a financial planner post-divorce is crucial for navigating the transition to saving for oneself, contributing to retirement, and bridging the financial gap left by alimony and child support. ->Understanding priorities in financial assets during divorce negotiations is key to ensuring a fair and balanced outcome, particularly when children are involved. ->Having a financial planner as a supportive ally can provide guidance tailored to risk tolerance and financial goals for a secure future post-divorce. ->Offering fee-for-service and assets under management advisory models allows financial advisors to tailor their services to best suit individual circumstances and goals, especially in divorce scenarios. ->Educating clients on the importance of having an emergency fund and considering tax implications is crucial in making informed decisions about the family residence in divorce settlements. Connect with Melissa Murphy Pavone: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissamurphypavone/ https://mindfulfinancialpartners.com/about/ https://mindfulfinancialpartners.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/

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  3. Harnessing the Unseen: Finding Clarity in Emotional Exploration - with Deborah Lukovich

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    Harnessing the Unseen: Finding Clarity in Emotional Exploration - with Deborah Lukovich

    "Depth psychology is a more spiritual approach, a psychospiritual approach to understanding yourself more deeply." - Deborah Lukovich Dr. Deborah Lukovich is a renowned depth psychologist who offers a unique perspective on navigating the complexities of divorce by delving into the unconscious mind. With a belief that up to 90% of our actions and decisions are influenced by hidden forces, she emphasizes the importance of uncovering these unconscious patterns and behaviors that shape relationships. Through her book "Your Soul is Talking, Are You Listening?" and her engaging podcast and blog, Dr. Lukovich provides valuable insights into the unseen dynamics and hidden agendas that often go unnoticed during the tumultuous process of divorce. By guiding individuals to explore the depths of their psyche, Lukovich aims to foster a deeper understanding of personal and relational dynamics, ultimately aiding clients in transforming their relationship patterns and preventing past experiences from dictating future connections. Key Takeaways: ->Depth Psychology focuses on uncovering hidden aspects of the unconscious mind to promote personal growth and transformation. ->Anger during divorce can be connected to past experiences and emotions, influencing individuals' reactions and behaviors. ->Dr. Lukovich shares her personal journey through divorce and highlights the importance of understanding the unconscious mind in life transitions. ->Relationship complexes involve patterns of thinking and behaving that impact interactions, hinder personal growth, and can lead to misunderstandings. ->Effective communication in relationships requires honesty, vulnerability, and creating a safe space for open dialogue. ->Unconscious fears and thoughts often hinder honest communication, emphasizing the importance of tools like 'Start with Hearts' to manage emotions and promote authenticity. Connect with Deborah Lukovich: https://www.deborahlukovich.com/ https://www.facebook.com/dlukovich https://www.linkedin.com/in/deborah-lukovich-phd-5322953/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/

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  4. Redesigning Your Legacy: Estate Planning in Divorce - with Katya Sverdlov

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    Redesigning Your Legacy: Estate Planning in Divorce - with Katya Sverdlov

    "It will not get any easier if you're avoiding it. Now, don't think that in six months or a year the solution will be, in fact, it's going to get much harder." - Katya Sverdlov Katya Sverdlov is a distinguished attorney specializing in estate planning and elder law, with a robust background in finance as a chartered financial analyst. Driven by her own unsatisfactory experience with estate planning at a large law firm, she founded her own practice to ensure personalized client care and education. Sverdlov is passionate about empowering families to make informed decisions, emphasizing the critical importance of properly documenting estate planning wishes in writing, as verbal instructions or unsigned documents hold no legal weight. Her approach includes leveraging her financial expertise to help clients navigate complex family dynamics and asset considerations, highlighting strategies like irrevocable trusts for Medicaid planning, ensuring that her clients' wishes are legally binding and protected for the future. Key Takeaways: ->Proper documentation in estate planning is crucial to ensure individuals' wishes are legally binding and carried out as intended. ->Medicaid planning is essential for individuals with total assets of roughly 3 million and below to ensure coverage for long-term care. ->Irrevocable trusts allow individuals to protect assets, retain certain control, and potentially qualify for Medicaid coverage for long-term care expenses. ->Working with knowledgeable professionals is emphasized by Katya Sverdlov to properly execute and regularly update estate documents. ->Asset protection and ensuring desired outcomes for individuals and their families are key goals of estate planning. Connect with Katya: https://sverdlovlaw.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/katya-sverdlov-cfa-esq-3aab406/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/

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  5. Challenges of Nesting: Sharing Living Space Post-Divorce - with Lisa Herrick

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    Challenges of Nesting: Sharing Living Space Post-Divorce - with Lisa Herrick

    "Kids have large antenna on their heads that you can't see, but they're always scanning for information, and that is information that is picked up very easily." - Lisa Herrick Dr. Lisa Herrick, a renowned family therapist and collaborative divorce coach, has nearly twenty years of experience guiding families in the Washington, D.C. area through the complex transition period of separation and divorce. She emphasizes that this transition varies greatly among individuals, depending on their resilience and specific circumstances, and underscores the importance of allowing adequate time for adjustment, adaptation, and recovery. Dr. Herrick advocates for honest and respectful communication between co-parents, particularly when introducing new partners to children, to minimize confusion and build trust. Drawing from personal experience, she highlights the intricate dynamics involved in shared family activities post-divorce, such as spending holidays together, and the necessity of preparing new partners for their roles within a blended family to foster a healthy and harmonious environment. Key Takeaways: ->The period of time required for individuals and families to adjust, adapt, and recover from separation and divorce is crucial. ->Nesting during divorce involves sharing living space, household responsibilities, and potential implications for future relationships. ->It is important to go slow when introducing children to new romantic partners after divorce. Lisa Herrick emphasizes the importance of preparing new partners for interactions with children and ex-spouses in blended families. ->Lisa and Katherine emphasize the benefits of waiting for the right moment to introduce shared holidays and dinners in a blended family. Connect with Lisa Herrick: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisa-herrick-009a6128/ https://lisaherrick.com/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/

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  6. Bonus: The Benefits of Bird Nesting for Children's Stability - with Ann Gold Buscho Ph.D.

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    Bonus: The Benefits of Bird Nesting for Children's Stability - with Ann Gold Buscho Ph.D.

    "The key is that it keeps the children stable. It keeps their routines consistent. There's a lot less upheaval and chaos for the children. It's a very child centered approach to separation and divorce." - Ann Gold Buscho Ann Gold Buscho, a licensed clinical psychologist, is renowned for her expertise in family dynamics surrounding divorce, with a particular emphasis on child-centered solutions. As the author of "The Parents Guide to Bird Nesting: A Child-Centered Solution to Co-Parenting During Separation and Divorce," she advocates for bird nesting as a strategy to mitigate the negative impacts of divorce on children by ensuring stability and consistency in their environment. Buscho underscores the importance of prioritizing children's welfare by setting aside personal conflicts and fostering effective co-parenting through open communication and collaboration. Her work offers practical tools and guidance to help parents navigate the complexities of bird nesting, including addressing financial and logistical considerations, to create a harmonious and supportive arrangement for their children. Key Takeaways: • Bird nesting is a child-centered approach to divorce that provides stability and consistency for children. • Financial and logistical considerations are crucial when implementing a bird nesting arrangement. • Short-term nesting can have a positive impact on children by offering a stable transition during separation. • Having clear agreements in place for nesting arrangements is essential for co-parenting success. • Establishing a clear budget and separate accounts for nesting expenses is crucial for financial stability. Connect with Ann Gold Buscho, Ph.D.: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ann-buscho-ph-d-4110437/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/

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  7. Breaking Free from Societal Expectations: Redefining Self - with Jennifer Teplin

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    Breaking Free from Societal Expectations: Redefining Self - with Jennifer Teplin

    "I think whether someone wants to admit it or not, we have all been in that space multiple times in our life where we wonder who we want to be, who we should be, and who we are." - Jennifer Teplin Jennifer Teplin is a licensed clinical social worker and the founder of Manhattan Wellness, where she specializes in helping young professionals navigate significant life changes, including divorce. She advocates for personal transformation through challenging limiting patterns and embracing authenticity, believing that divorce, while difficult, is an opportunity for individuals to redefine themselves. Teplin's human-centered and collaborative approach is uniquely tailored to address the emotional complexities of divorce, providing a safe space for clients to explore and align with their true desires. By encouraging self-reflection and intentional decision-making, she empowers individuals to overcome societal expectations and build lives they genuinely love, viewing divorce as a pivotal moment for personal growth and new beginnings. Key Takeaways: ->Jennifer Teplin empowers clients to challenge limiting patterns, embrace authenticity, and create meaningful personal transformation. ->Divorce is now happening at younger ages as people are more willing to admit when they are unhappy in a relationship. ->Individuals need to envision a fulfilling life after divorce to have the motivation and courage needed for a new beginning. ->Fear of the unknown can cause individuals to prioritize familiarity over their own happiness in relationships. ->Negative emotions after a breakup can be a catalyst for personal growth and an opportunity for redirection. Connect with Jennifer Teplin: https://manhattanwellness.org/jennifer https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenniferteplin/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/

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  8. Embracing Spirituality: Finding Hope in Relationship Challenges - with Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin

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    Embracing Spirituality: Finding Hope in Relationship Challenges - with Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin

    "People need to feel safe to be a part of a team. People need to feel safe to be able to contribute." - Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin is a distinguished relationship expert who dedicates his work to helping couples achieve breakthroughs, regardless of their backgrounds or beliefs. He champions the idea that conflicts within relationships are not merely obstacles but opportunities for healing and growth, transforming potential breakdowns into significant breakthroughs. Through his engaging private two-day intensives and group workshops, Rabbi Slatkin provides couples at crossroads with the clarity and strategies needed to foster positive outcomes, grounded in a deep-rooted belief that every conflict holds the potential for constructive change. By advocating for relationship intelligence and understanding through faith, he inspires couples to approach challenges with hope, emphasizing that facing and resolving conflicts can ultimately deepen their commitment and connection. Key Takeaways: ->Conflicts in relationships can lead to deeper connections and personal development. ->Creating a safe environment is crucial in relationships to enable open communication and prevent defensiveness. ->Understanding and acknowledging the other person's perspective is key to fostering goodwill and productive communication. ->Breakdowns in relationships can lead to breakthroughs and personal growth. ->Imago therapy helps individuals understand the source of conflict in relationships and develop effective communication skills. ->Viewing conflicts as opportunities for healing and growth can strengthen relationships. Connect with Rabbi Shlomo Slatkin: https://themarriagerestorationproject.com/ https://www.imagorelationshipswork.com/user/slatkinm https://www.linkedin.com/in/themarriagerestorationproject/ Connect with Katherine Miller: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kemiller1/ https://miller-law.com/

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Divorce Dialogues brings experts together to talk about what works (and what doesn't) to reach a better life on the other side of divorce.

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