Navigating Two Worlds Without Code-Switching - Korina McElroy - Multiracialverse Podcast Season 2 Ep. 10

Send us a text In this conversation, Korina shares her journey of growing up as a mixed-race child in Tacoma, Washington. She discusses her family's origins, the cultural dynamics of her upbringing, and the challenges she faced in navigating her identity. Korina reflects on her experiences in school, the impact of her parents' backgrounds, and how she is raising her own children to embrace their multiracial heritage. In this conversation, Korina shares her experiences as a multiracial individual navigating identity, family dynamics, and societal expectations. She discusses the importance of diversity in education, the impact of therapy on personal growth, and the stigmas surrounding mental health in BIPOC communities. Korina emphasizes the need for authenticity in professional spaces and the role of allies in addressing racism. She reflects on her journey of self-acceptance and the importance of understanding and compassion in fostering a more inclusive society. takeaways Korina's parents faced challenges due to their mixed-race relationship in the 80s. Cultural acceptance was limited for Korina's family during her childhood. Korina experienced a diverse environment in Tacoma, which shaped her identity. Language assimilation affected Korina's ability to speak Spanish fluently. Family gatherings were significant in maintaining cultural ties. Korina's grandfather played a crucial role in family traditions and celebrations. Education was seen as a pathway to success by Korina's parents. Korina faced teasing for attending predominantly white schools. Navigating her mixed-race identity was complex and multifaceted. Korina emphasizes the importance of acknowledging both sides of her heritage. Children learn to categorize based on external appearances. Diversity in education can reshape identity perceptions. Family acceptance plays a crucial role in identity formation. Experiencing black excellence can redefine personal aspirations. Therapy can help unpack familial dysfunction and personal struggles. Stigmas around therapy can hinder mental health support in BIPOC communities. Finding a therapist who understands your background is essential. Code-switching is often necessary in corporate environments. Authenticity in the workplace is still a work in progress. Allies play a vital role in educating others about racial issues. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 03:01 Family Origins and Cultural Dynamics 06:09 Childhood Experiences in Tacoma 09:03 Cultural Identity and Family Traditions 12:02 Schooling and Social Dynamics 14:58 Navigating Mixed-Race Identity 17:59 Parenting and Raising Multiracial Children 27:48 Navigating Identity and Curiosity in Children 32:20 Exploring Black Excellence and Identity 34:17 The Impact of Therapy on Personal Growth 37:13 Stigmas Around Therapy in BIPOC Communities 39:10 Finding the Right Therapist 40:33 Code-Switching in the Corporate World 42:48 Authenticity in Professional Spaces 43:58 Becoming an Ally Through Multiracial Experiences 45:59 Confronting Racism and Empathy 49:14 The Role of Allies in Racial Conversations 50:38 Political Identity and Mixed-Race Representation 52:27 Empowerment in Multiracial Identity 55:33 Recipe for World Peace: Acceptance and Understanding