Nearly Mindful

Janet Fouts

Nearly Mindful is where I share simple ways to bring mindfulness into everyday life through short reflections and guided meditations. Small doses, real life, something you can actually use. www.microdosedmindfulness.com

  1. 1d ago

    Hope is not a wish

    When I was a little girl, I wanted a horse. What little girl doesn’t want something that will love her unconditionally in a challenging world? I wished. I pleaded. I begged, but none of that worked. One day a neighbor needed help caring for a horse, and I was willing to show up. That was the first of many lessons about this thing called hope. Hope is a lot more than wanting something badly enough to make it pop out of the ether. It isn’t blind optimism or a promise that everything will work out and our dreams will automatically materialize. Hope is a kind of trust. Trust that people will keep their word. That goodness will still show itself. That when something is wrong, someone will be brave enough to speak up and say so, and that someone else will be able to listen. That sense of trust maybe feels impossible to come by right now. Sometimes we’re feeling plain hopeless. That feeling carries so much weight, doesn’t it? It might also hold fear, grief, and the sense that nothing we do will make a difference. Pretending that weight isn’t there doesn’t help anything does it? Hope is a light we hold for one another until someone can see their own again. When hopelessness becomes the only thing we can see, it can feel like that’s all there is. Our attention tightens around it, grasping. We stop noticing the tiny signs that something else is still possible. This can be when we need to borrow hope from someone else.If we pause long enough to notice, there are people all around us carrying hope. People helping their neighbors, speaking up, keeping their promises, and caring about what happens beyond their own front door. Their hope reminds us that we belong to something larger than ourselves, and that we don’t have to find our way through this life alone. We can let that hope soak in and then we can share it with someone else who needs it too. Genuine hope creates a ripple effect. It moves from one person to another, becoming larger and stronger as it goes. Hope doesn’t demand we believe everything will be fine. It asks us to believe that no matter how small, what we do still matters. Even when things are ugly, people live that truth every day. That is where I find hope these days. Just one person carrying hope can create that ripple effect, and the ripple can impact far beyond what we ever thought possible. Get full access to Microdosed Mindfulness at www.microdosedmindfulness.com/subscribe

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Nearly Mindful is where I share simple ways to bring mindfulness into everyday life through short reflections and guided meditations. Small doses, real life, something you can actually use. www.microdosedmindfulness.com