Needed Conversations with Ryan and Viktoriya Cole

Ryan Cole, Viktoriya Cole
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Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

  1. 5月20日

    Helping Your Kids Choose Presence This Summer

    This Summer, Don’t Let Screens Raise Your Kids What if the “golden idol” in your home glows… and fits in your child’s hand? This week on Needed Conversations, Ryan & Viktoriya Cole unpack one of the most urgent topics facing families today: how to reclaim your kids from screen time and reset your home around God’s presence this summer. With school out and devices calling louder than ever, most parents feel stuck between survival mode and spiritual neglect. But this episode offers something different—a practical reset plan rooted in Scripture, presence, and peace. 💡 In this powerful episode: – What the golden calf in Exodus reveals about modern distraction – Why your kids need your face more than FaceTime – The surprising science behind overstimulation (and how to reverse it) – Screen swaps: Easy ways to replace digital chaos with soulful connection – How to reframe this summer as a season of spiritual renewal, not just survival 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Whether you’re a parent, grandparent, or mentor—your influence matters. Your kids are watching. And what they see in you becomes what they pursue. ✨ Make this a Summer of Presence, not just entertainment. Sign the Presence Pledge and join families who are choosing to rebuild altars, not idols. Join the Presence Pledge today and reclaim the first and last two hours of your day to center your marriage on what matters most. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge 00:00 Introduction to Needed Conversations 00:03 The Importance of Spiritual Renewal 00:20 Modeling Behavior for Children 01:34 The Presence Pledge Explained 02:33 Incorporating Kids into The Presence Pledge 03:52 Challenges and Strategies for Parents 10:41 Biblical Lessons on Presence 17:36 Practical Tips for Reducing Screen Time 27:30 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Support this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.org Then, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too. #PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals #screentime #kidsscreentime Follow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever 👉 Need help or to book a session? Text us at 864-428-7131 Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support. Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

    32 分钟

  2. 5月7日

    When In-Laws Cross The Line

    In this week’s powerful episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole tackle one of the most sensitive issues many couples face: setting healthy boundaries with extended family. Whether it’s in-laws overstepping, family drama leaking into your marriage, or blurred lines of emotional dependency, learning how to protect the spiritual atmosphere of your home is critical. With biblical examples and personal stories, Ryan and Viktoriya walk you through: ✅ Why "leave and cleave" still matters ✅ How to honor your parents without giving them unlimited access ✅ Creating a united front with your spouse ✅ What to do when family members don’t accept your boundaries ✅ How to protect your marriage from emotional outsourcing ✅ And how acceptance, not just confrontation, can bring peace Plus, they explore biblical case studies like Abraham & Hagar, Moses & Jethro, and even Jesus’ own family tensions to show how God uses boundaries to build healthy legacy. Join the Presence Pledge today and reclaim the first and last two hours of your day to center your marriage on what matters most. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge 00:00 Introduction to Healthy Boundaries 00:45 Navigating Boundaries with Extended Family 03:19 The Presence Pledge and Social Media Fast 04:29 When Family Crosses the Line 08:43 Practical Tips for Setting Boundaries 20:55 Biblical Examples of Boundaries 28:05 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Support this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.org Then, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too. #PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals Follow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever 👉 Need help or to book a session? Text us at 864-428-7131 Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.

    32 分钟

  3. 4月29日

    Fix Your Gaze: How Worship Can Reset Your Marriage

    On today’s episode of Needed Conversations, we dive deep into how worship can recalibrate your heart, your home, and your marriage. Too often, we allow distractions, busyness, and even our own pain to shift our focus. But Scripture reminds us that we become what we behold. If your eyes are constantly fixed on problems, comparison, or negativity, your spirit will grow weary — and your marriage will suffer. Worship shifts our gaze back to what’s true, restoring intimacy with God and softening our hearts toward our spouse. Today, we unpack: Why worship is more than a song — it’s a posture of lifeHow gratitude changes the atmosphere of your marriageHow true intimacy starts with vulnerability before GodWhy presence — with God and your spouse — is the foundation for lasting connection We also share practical ways you can invite worship into your daily rhythms and reconnect through stillness, gratitude, and spiritual intimacy. Join the Presence Pledge today and reclaim the first and last two hours of your day to center your marriage on what matters most. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge Then, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too. #PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals 00:00 Introduction to Needed Conversations 00:03 The Power of Gratitude and Worship 01:33 Welcome and Setting the Scene 02:01 The Presence Pledge and Worship 02:28 Understanding Worship in Marriage 04:24 Personal Reflections on Worship 17:16 Worship's Impact on Family and Marriage 26:56 Final Thoughts and Encouragement 31:54 Closing Remarks and Announcements Support this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.org Follow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever 👉 Need help or to book a session? Text us at 864-428-7131 Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support. Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

    33 分钟

  4. 4月22日

    From Hustle to Harmony

    What if the most spiritual thing you could do right now… is rest? In this week’s episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole unpack a revolutionary truth: you were never meant to live from hustle to exhaustion, from pressure to burnout. You were designed to work from rest—not for it. Before Adam received his assignment, God introduced him to the rhythm of rest. His very first full day was the Sabbath. In this episode, the Coles explore how our obsession with productivity has disrupted our marriages, diminished intimacy, and distanced us from God’s voice. They call couples back to a slower, more sacred pace—a Kingdom rhythm where rest becomes our posture, not our reward. If you’ve been chasing success but feel emptier than ever, this conversation is your reset. Join the Presence Pledge—a digital detox and rhythm reset for your marriage—and begin reclaiming the most important hours of your day. Sign up here: https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge Then, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too. #PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals 00:00 Introduction: The Impact of Opinions on Success 00:25 Embracing Kingdom Culture Over Hustle Culture 00:53 Understanding Purpose and Presence 01:16 The Principle of Rest Before Responsibility 02:28 Welcome Back: The Presence Pledge Series 02:35 Setting Margins and Boundaries in Marriage 03:42 The Digital Detox: The Presence Pledge Explained 07:59 Reclaiming Energy and Overcoming Digital Addiction 10:11 The Importance of Fasting and Health 11:24 The Power of Community and Connection 15:44 Building Margins for Work and Rest 16:09 The Biblical Foundation of Rest and Work 21:05 The Deception of Striving for Success 24:32 The Sabbath Lifestyle: Rest as a Daily Experience 25:44 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Support this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.org Follow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever 👉 Need help or to book a session? Text us at 864-428-7131 Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support. Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

    36 分钟

  5. 4月15日

    Desire, Distraction, & Preventing The Death Of Intimacy

    What does your social media algorithm say about the state of your soul—and the health of your marriage? In this week’s episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya take you deep into the quiet war being waged right in your pocket. It's not just about screens—it's about desires, distractions, and the subtle erosion of intimacy. You’ll explore: How your algorithm is discipling your desiresThe spiritual dangers of ambient noise and digital fatigueWhy stillness is where God speaks—and connection thrivesA powerful couples' challenge: swap phones and examine your explore feedsThe biblical roots of temptation and how sin begins with distorted desireThe connection between what you feed your soul and what flows from your heartHow to curate your feed and your environment to protect what matters most Sign the pledge today at ⁠https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge⁠ Then, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too. You don’t need more time. You need to be present with the time you already have. Let's walk this out together—one sacred moment at a time. #PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals 00:00 Introduction to the Presence Pledge 00:06 The Digital Dilemma in Marriages 01:56 Understanding the Presence Pledge Challenge 04:31 The Impact of Digital Overload 05:59 Defining Algorithms and Their Influence 10:43 Guarding Your Heart and Mind 15:38 Practical Steps for Digital Detox 19:08 Spiritual Insights and Final Thoughts 30:17 Join the Presence Pledge Support this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.org Follow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever 👉 Need help or to book a session? Text us at 864-428-7131 Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support. Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

    35 分钟

  6. 4月9日

    The Presence Pledge

    It's time to reset. Your marriage needs your presence—not constant distractions. Welcome to a brand new 8+ week series on Needed Conversations with Ryan & Viktoriya Cole — The Presence Pledge. In this first episode, we're laying the foundation for a relationship reset that prioritizes connection, restores rhythm, and realigns your heart with God and your spouse. In Episode 1: The Power of Presence, we’ll explore: What the Bible says about presence in the Garden (Genesis 3:8)How daily rhythms affect emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacyWhy two sacred windows—morning and evening—matter more than you thinkWhat neuroscience says about breaking habits and building lasting connections Join the challenge by signing The Presence Pledge: No phones 2 hours before bed and 2 hours after wakingKeep devices 5 feet away from your bedCreate intentional check-in moments with God and your spouseGive yourself permission to restart with grace when you fall off Sign the pledge today at ⁠https://marriage.ryancoleempowerment.com/presencepledge⁠ Then, share this episode with a friend or couple who needs this reset, too. You don’t need more time. You need to be present with the time you already have. Let's walk this out together—one sacred moment at a time. #PresencePledge #NeededConversations #ChristianMarriage #DigitalDetox #MarriagePodcast #FaithAndMarriage #MarriageGoals 00:00 Introduction to The Presence Pledge 00:42 Setting the Foundation for the Series 01:11 The Importance of Presence in Marriage 02:51 Details of The Presence Pledge 05:02 Challenges and Solutions for Digital Detox 13:00 Scientific and Biblical Foundations 18:35 Practical Tips for Implementing the Pledge 27:19 Encouragement and Final Thoughts Support this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.org Follow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever 👉 Need help or to book a session? Text us at 864-428-7131 Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support. Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

    32 分钟

  7. 3月25日

    Cultivating Intimacy In The Garden of Marriage

    Can intimacy grow again after betrayal, distance, or seasons of silence? In this powerful episode of Needed Conversations, Ryan and Viktoriya Cole explore how intimacy in marriage—emotional, spiritual, and physical—is not just a moment, but something that must be cultivated like a garden. Drawing from the rich imagery of the Song of Solomon and personal stories, they invite couples to rethink intimacy as more than sex. It's about trust, pursuit, and the daily tending of your marriage soil. Whether your garden is blooming or buried under weeds, this episode will help you find hope, healing, and a fresh start. Learn how: Intimacy begins with emotional connection and intentionalitySeasons of marriage (like winter and spring) impact closenessBetrayal doesn’t have to be the end of your storyThe roles of cultivation (husband) and nurturing (wife) work together to create lasting loveGod uses the garden metaphor from Genesis to the Resurrection to show how relationships grow through care and time00:00 Introduction: Upcoming Episode Highlights 00:03 Understanding True Intimacy 00:29 A Testimony of Faith and Marriage 01:22 Gardening as a Metaphor for Marriage 02:32 Series Overview: When Love Gets Tough 02:50 Building Back Intimacy After Betrayal 03:19 Personal Stories and Reflections 04:58 The Evolution of Love and Intimacy 07:04 The Role of Trust and Understanding 10:33 Rebuilding After Betrayal 19:58 Gardening and Marriage: A Deeper Connection 22:23 Maintaining Your Garden: Vigilance and Care 23:19 Life's Unpredictability and Faith 25:31 The Role of Men and Women in Marriage 26:33 Lessons from the Song of Solomon 27:40 Balancing Passion and Intentionality 30:48 The Importance of Planning and Mission in Marriage 33:44 Seeking Help and Community Support 39:17 Concluding Thoughts and Encouragement Support this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever#NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #ChristianMarriage #MarriageHelp #ConflictResolution #MarriageAdvice #HowToFightFair #FaithBasedMarriage #BiblicalMarriage #healthycommunication 👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.#MarriageRestoration #InfidelityRecovery #RebuildingTrust #Boundaries #intimacy #intimacyadvice Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

    41 分钟

  8. 3月18日

    Boundaries, Betrayal & Building Back Trust

    In this powerful episode of Needed Conversations, we discuss one of the most difficult topics couples face—betrayal—and how to rebuild trust after it's been broken. Whether you're dealing with infidelity, financial mistrust, addiction, or emotional affairs, this episode offers hope and practical tools to help you navigate the road to restoration. We unpack the crucial difference between disclosure and discovery, and why voluntary confession is a key factor in a couple’s ability to reconcile after betrayal. You'll learn why healthy boundaries aren't punishment but safeguards that protect your marriage, and how both partners must engage in personal healing to truly rebuild. Is healing possible after betrayal? Yes! Research shows that 60-75% of couples recover when they seek help, set clear boundaries, and commit to doing the hard work. In this episode, we discuss: Why couples often wait too long to ask for help The difference between disclosure vs. discoverySetting boundaries & not viewing them as punishmentHow past trauma and rejection can impact your response to betrayalPractical steps for rebuilding trust and restoring intimacyEncouragement for both the betrayed and the betrayer You're not alone—whether you're currently facing betrayal or walking alongside someone who is, this episode is filled with truth, tools, and hope to guide you forward. 00:00 Introduction: Boundaries, Betrayal, and Trust 00:26 Disclosure vs. Discovery in Infidelity 01:11 Setting Boundaries and Overcommunication 01:36 Real Repentance and Personal Reflection 02:33 Series Recap: When Love Gets Tough 03:37 The Importance of Early Counseling 05:02 Rebuilding Trust: Individual and Couple's Work 06:29 The Role of Pastors and Professional Help 08:31 Different Forms of Betrayal 11:00 Disclosure as a Sign of Willingness to Change 20:17 Forgiveness vs. Trust Restoration 21:35 Understanding Boundaries in Marriage 22:41 Personal Boundaries and Safeguards 25:36 Accountability Measures 30:11 The Role of Forgiveness and Healing 32:09 Impact of Past Relationships 39:25 Encouragement and Hope for Couples 41:14 Conclusion and Upcoming Topics Support this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever#NeededConversations #marriagepodcast #ChristianMarriage #MarriageHelp #ConflictResolution #MarriageAdvice #HowToFightFair #FaithBasedMarriage #BiblicalMarriage #healthycommunication 👉 Need help or to book a session?Text us at 864-428-7131 Visit moremostforever.com for resources, blogs, and support.#MarriageRestoration #InfidelityRecovery #RebuildingTrust #Boundaries Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

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Your #1 source for marriage empowerment. In this podcast, we have the conversations that are sometimes the hardest to have but are the most needed in society today. Discussing everything from purpose, spiritual growth, marriage, and culture, we are not afraid to confront the hottest topics to bring a biblical response and help bring the body of Christ back to God's original design for marriage, family, and the church as a whole.

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