NeuroDADverse

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The NeuroDADverse is more than just a podcast, it’s a weekly therapy session between two long-time friends reconnecting through the shared highs and lows of neurodivergent parenthood. Danny is raising a six-year-old, while Ben is navigating life with two teenagers. Between them, their lived experiences span early years and adolescence, offering valuable perspective for any parent on the neurodivergent journey. Their conversations blend lived wisdom, raw honesty, and light-hearted reflection, often with Danny just entering stages that Ben has already faced. This dynamic brings warmth, curiosity, and relatable storytelling that resonates across all ages and stages of parenting. At its heart, The NeuroDADverse exists because parenting neurodivergent children can feel incredibly isolating. Many of society’s norms simply don’t apply and it’s rare to find someone who truly hears you. This podcast was born from the need to find and grow that tribe. A space where parents can feel seen, heard, and appreciated. Whether you’re in the thick of meltdowns, laughing uncontrollably with them or even just wondering about diagnoses you’re not alone. Here, we speak with love, lead though our understanding and share with honesty. This is a space for ideas, laughter, and connection. Please remember: You are doing better than you think. You are enough. You are not alone. Welcome to the NeuroDADverse.“ Real talk from two dads raising neurodivergent kids with love, laughter, and plenty of chaos. Connect with us on Instagram, TikTok and watch us on Youtube @NeuroDadversepodcast Theme music by Hands Up! https://www.instagram.com/handsuppunk/?hl=en Show produced by Squid Shack Studios https://www.instagram.com/squidshackstudios/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. How Much Freedom Do You Give Neurodivergent Teens…? | NeuroDADverse Ep.47

    1D AGO

    How Much Freedom Do You Give Neurodivergent Teens…? | NeuroDADverse Ep.47

    How much freedom should you give neurodivergent teenagers and how do you know when to step back? In Episode 47 of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan reflect on one of the biggest parenting challenges yet: balancing protection, independence, boundaries, and trust as neurodivergent children become teenagers. This episode explores the emotional reality of letting kids make their own choices, from sleep routines and gaming boundaries to curfews, friendships, identity, and social independence. We also discuss: * Parenting neurodivergent teens through honesty and emotional feedback * Why “because I said so” doesn’t always work in ND households * Supporting children without over-controlling them * ADHD diagnosis conversations and medication reflections * Why happiness isn’t always the goal of parenting * Building confidence through music, creativity, and community * Celebrating small wins that would have once felt impossible Plus, Ben shares a huge family win involving his punk band, Mabel, performing live, and Oscar confidently embracing self-expression in public spaces. While Dan shares how Frankie's recent ADHD diagnosis brought fresh and slightly raw feelings, despite being happy with the outcome. This episode is honest, thoughtful, funny, and deeply relatable for parents navigating autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, and teenage independence. 🎙️ NeuroDADverse Podcast Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations — you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #neurodiversityuk Timecode chapters: 00:00 – Intro: Welcome to The NeuroDADverse 00:43 – Episode 47 Kick-Off 01:14 – Parenting Neurodivergent Kids at Different Ages 01:36 – Week in Three Words 03:03 – NeuroDADverse Merch Reveal 👕 03:52 – Challenges Begin 06:32 – Processing Diagnosis Emotions 08:07 – ADHD Diagnosis & What Comes Next 11:15 – Medication Conversations & Sleep Struggles 14:20 – Exhaustion in Early ND Parenting 15:32 – “Happy Kid” vs “Supported Kid” 17:19 – Parenting Isn’t About Constant Happiness 18:31 – Teen Independence & Big Parenting Decisions 19:33 – Sleep, Boundaries & Letting Teens Choose 20:40 – Learning Through Consequences 21:22 – Gaming, Online Friendships & Balance 22:20 – Curfews, Freedom & Teenage Trust 23:52 – Protecting vs Overprotecting 24:45 – Hearing Difficult Feedback From Your Child 26:28 – Radical Honesty & Neurodivergent Teens 27:34 – Why Punishment Doesn’t Always Work 28:44 – School Attendance & Communication Wins 29:25 – Break 29:49 – Wins Section Begins 31:07 – Frankie & The Spider Story 🕷️ 33:03 – “Smiling for Other Things” Breakthrough 35:00 – Ben’s Punk Band & Family Gig 36:12 – Kids Growing Up Around Creativity 37:04 – Children Joining the Performance 38:04 – Gaming as Connection & Communication 39:25 – Mabel Performing Live 🎤 40:06 – Oscar’s Confidence & Self-Expression 41:18 – Acceptance, Friendship & Community 42:06 – Why This Felt Like the Best Gig Yet 44:29 – Music, Parenting & Being Unapologetically Yourself 45:51 – Look Ahead to the Week Ahead 46:20 – Ben’s Birthday & Work-Life Chaos 49:13 – Dan’s Upcoming Film Grading Session 50:07 – Life Outside Parenting 50:33 – Huge Bath-Time Win 🛁 51:48 – Why We Keep Doing This Podcast 52:12 – Final Reflections & Community Message 52:43 – “You’re Doing Great” Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    53 min
  2. How do you support your child… When the world might not? | NeuroDADverse Ep.46

    MAY 1

    How do you support your child… When the world might not? | NeuroDADverse Ep.46

    How do you support your child fully… when you’re worried about how the world might respond? In Episode 46 of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan reflect on a week of growth, identity, school pressure, and the emotional balancing act of parenting neurodivergent children. This episode explores the real tension between encouraging your child to be themselves and protecting them from a world that doesn’t always respond with understanding. We talk about: * Supporting gender expression and identity in school environments * The fear of judgment vs the importance of acceptance at home * Navigating teen exam stress and letting go as a parent * Building communication through social stories and small steps * Why consistency, patience, and presence matter more than perfection * Celebrating small but meaningful wins in connection and independence We also share moments of joy, from creative expression through music to sibling support and real-world progress that remind you why you keep going. 🎙️ NeuroDADverse Podcast Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations — you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK Chapters 00:00 – Intro: What Is NeuroDADverse? 00:43 – Episode 46 Kick-Off & Football Tangent ⚽ 01:27 – What This Podcast Is About 02:31 – Week in Three Words (Perform, Present, Prejudice) 03:39 – Challenges Begin 04:01 – Parenting Expectations vs Reality 05:27 – Reframing “Not Progressing” 07:33 – Communication Growth Through Social Stories 10:01 – Small Steps = Big Progress 11:01 – Creativity & Connection (Poetry / Expression) 11:29 – School Return Challenges Begin 11:59 – Mabel’s Mock Exams & Anxiety 12:49 – Letting Go as a Parent 13:39 – Teen Identity & Perception 14:25 – Helping Without Overstepping 15:14 – Defining “Success” Differently 16:09 – Choosing Not to Pressure 18:27 – Oscar’s Identity & Expression 18:57 – Gender Expression at School 19:51 – Navigating School Policies & Reality 20:34 – Fear of Judgment & Bullying 21:06 – Supporting Without Controlling 21:51 – The Shift Towards Acceptance 23:33 – Positive Shift by End of Week 24:29 – Parenting Philosophy: Walk Beside, Not Above 25:01 – Break 25:13 – Wins Section Begins 26:03 – Full Week School Attendance (Big Win) 26:24 – Confidence Building Through Expression 27:03 – Safe Spaces & Being Accepted 27:38 – Band Practice & Shared Joy 29:14 – Creativity & Family Connection 30:14 – Kids Feeling Comfortable in Parent Spaces 31:41 – No Embarrassment = Big Win 33:32 – Sibling Support Moments 33:58 – Encouragement Between Kids 34:35 – Building Family Connection 35:02 – Sports Day Win (Confidence & Participation) 36:19 – Social Confidence Growing 37:41 – Feeling Part of the Group 38:55 – School Support & Recognition 40:21 – Building Stories from Wins 41:42 – Reflection: Why This Matters 42:42 – Look Ahead to Next Week 44:02 – Band Gig Plans & Family Involvement 45:22 – Community & Gratitude 46:09 – Why We Keep Doing This Podcast 47:00 – Final Message: You’re Not Alone Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    48 min
  3. Weeks when you struggle for wins. Public challenges, No Sleep & Still Showing Up | NeuroDADverse 45

    APR 24

    Weeks when you struggle for wins. Public challenges, No Sleep & Still Showing Up | NeuroDADverse 45

    What do you do when a week feels like one long challenge? In Episode 45 of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan reflect on a week where progress felt hard to find, from sleep struggles and emotional overload to navigating public dysregulation and parenting under pressure.   This episode dives into the reality of those tougher weeks, the ones where routines fall apart, wins feel invisible, and you’re just trying to get through the day. We talk about: Handling public outbursts that can lead to meltdowns and staying calm under pressureThe anxiety of being judged as a parent in real-world situationsSleep disruption, routines, and device habitsCo-parent communication during high-stress momentsBuilding consistent boundaries as a teamFinding wins when they don’t feel obvious From Frankie initiating play and using communication tools, to small but powerful breakthroughs in connection, independence, and joy, this episode reminds you that even in the hardest weeks… progress is still happening. Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations, you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro: What Is NeuroDADverse? 00:43 – Welcome Back & Episode 45 Kick-Off 01:42 – Week in Three Words (Clocks, Knocks & Socks) 02:40 – Challenges Begin 03:15 – School Day Struggles & Emotional Regulation 05:05 – Following the Child’s Lead (Shoes Moment) 07:03 – Sensory Needs & Clothing Challenges 10:34 – Public Dysregulation Moment 12:19 – Managing Behaviour in Public Spaces 13:46 – Fear of Judgement from Others 15:10 – “Curiosity Not Judgement” Mindset 16:29 – Solo Parenting in Crisis Moments 18:42 – When to Communicate with Your Partner 20:21 – Balancing Support vs Escalation 21:44 – Setting Boundaries as a Team 22:16 – Sleep Struggles Begin 23:13 – Late Nights & Broken Routines 24:35 – The Reality of Teen Sleep Cycles 25:53 – Devices, Dopamine & Habit Formation 26:48 – Parenting Without Blame 27:36 – The Impact on Daily Life 27:54 – Break 28:09 – Wins Section Begins 28:36 – “No Wins This Week” Feeling 29:00 – Reframing the Week (Perspective Shift) 30:14 – Creating New Boundaries Together 31:17 – Co-Parent Alignment & Communication 33:26 – Frankie’s Wins Begin 33:44 – School Routine Success (Bus Wins) 34:17 – Speech & Language Progress 34:42 – Tidying Up Independently (Big Milestone) 35:18 – Social Play & Independence 35:41 – Initiating Play (Trampoline Game) 36:47 – Group Play & Shared Joy 37:09 – Using Visual Communication (Social Stories) 38:02 – Building Communication Tools 39:11 – Parent Reflection: Staying Calm in Crisis 40:23 – Supporting Without Escalating 41:10 – Recognising You’re Doing OK 42:22 – Communication Progress in Real Time 43:04 – Why This Podcast Matters 43:55 – Final Message: You’re Not Alone Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    45 min
  4. When Anxiety Takes Over… Do You Step In or Step Back? | NeuroDADverse Ep.44

    APR 17

    When Anxiety Takes Over… Do You Step In or Step Back? | NeuroDADverse Ep.44

    When your child is overwhelmed… do you step in, or step back? In Episode 44 of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan explore one of the toughest parts of parenting neurodivergent children, knowing when to support and when to let them work through it themselves.  This week’s episode dives into real life moments of anxiety, independence, sensory needs, and emotional regulation, including a powerful experience where anxiety nearly stopped everything… but didn’t. We talk about: • Supporting children through anxiety and overwhelm • The difference between reacting and responding as a parent • Letting go of control (without removing support) • Mabel’s football match and facing a triggering environment • Managing social burnout and emotional overload • Understanding stimming and sensory behaviours • Why “wins” often come from how you handle the hard moments This episode is about trust, trusting your child, trusting the process, and trusting yourself as a parent. If you’re navigating neurodivergent parenting, working in SEND, or just trying to understand, this episode will resonate deeply. 🎙️ NeuroDADverse Podcast Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. New episodes every Friday. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. Remember 💛 You’re doing great. You are enough. You are not alone. 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK ##SpecialNeedsParentig #RealParenting Chapters 00:00 – Intro: What Is NeuroDADverse? 00:43 – Welcome Back & Easter Break Check-In 01:31 – Week in Three Words (Healing, Hurrying, Hearing) 02:02 – Challenges Begin 03:27 – Independence vs Support (Toilet / Self-Care) 04:36 – Is It Behaviour or Independence? 05:58 – Regression vs Progress Explained 06:58 – Learning Through Experience 08:39 – Understanding Stimming & Sensory Needs 10:29 – Accepting Behaviour vs Fixing It 11:11 – Parenting Teens with More Patience 12:20 – Social Burnout & Half-Term Challenges 13:09 – Mabel’s Social Energy & Overwhelm 14:23 – The “I Need to Be Home Now” Moment 15:07 – When Plans Clash with Needs 16:02 – Responding Without Anger 16:43 – Avoiding Shame-Based Parenting 17:27 – Understanding Emotional Needs First 18:16 – Football Match Anxiety (Old School Trigger) 19:04 – Returning to a Difficult Place 20:11 – Panic Response in Real Time 21:27 – Letting the Moment Play Out 22:20 – Anxiety vs Physical Response 23:05 – Trusting the Coach & Environment 24:01 – The Turning Point (Half Time) 24:43 – Break 24:58 – Wins Section Begins 25:28 – Returning to the Pitch 26:07 – Playing Through Anxiety 27:01 – Why Structure Matters 27:46 – Trusting External Support Systems 28:16 – Big Emotional Win Reflection 28:44 – Gaming & Bonding with Oscar 29:41 – Family Cinema Trip (Mario Movie) 30:17 – Joy in Shared Experiences 31:01 – Parenting Flexibility & Reality 32:06 – Out → Home → Out (Routine Challenge) 33:39 – When Plans Don’t Stick 34:48 – Child-Led Moments 35:40 – When the Day Turns Around 36:51 – “Chronicle the Wins” Philosophy 38:22 – Why ND Parenting Surprises You 38:55 – Looking Ahead to the Week Ahead 40:11 – School Return & Exam Prep 41:05 – Supporting Without Overstepping 42:07 – Balancing Social & Structure 43:06 – Working From Home as a Parent 44:28 – The Emotional Weight of Teaching 45:28 – “Monetising Creativity” Reflection 46:55 – Final Thoughts Before School Return 47:30 – Why We Keep Doing This Podcast 48:38 – Final Message: You’re Not Alone Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    49 min
  5. How Do You Help When They Can’t Explain What’s Wrong? | NeuroDADverse Ep. 43

    APR 10

    How Do You Help When They Can’t Explain What’s Wrong? | NeuroDADverse Ep. 43

    What do you do when your child can’t always tell you what’s wrong? In Episode 43 of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan reflect on the emotional challenges of supporting neurodivergent children when communication, stress, and uncertainty collide.   This week’s episode dives into the reality of parenting through frustration, school pressure, food rigidity, and emotional overload, while also celebrating the small moments that remind you your child is growing in ways you didn’t expect. We talk about: •Supporting children through frustration when they can’t explain what’s wrong •Frankie’s communication challenges and understanding unmet needs •Letting teens learn from stress (without stepping in too soon) •Mabel’s mock exam anxiety and revision overwhelm •Oscar’s incredible pattern recognition and gaming strengths •Food rigidity, safe foods, and small sensory wins •Why small signs of empathy and kindness mean everything Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations, you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK 00:00 – Intro: What Is NeuroDADverse? 00:43 – Welcome Back & Easter Week Check-In 01:30 – Week in Three Words 02:27 – Challenges Begin 03:20 – Frankie’s Frustration & Communication Struggles 04:06 – When They Can’t Explain What’s Wrong 05:29 – Social Stories & Visual Support 06:21 – Finding Ways to Be Understood 08:02 – Processing Frustration & Dysregulation 10:18 – Frankie’s Needs vs Communication Barriers 11:41 – Mabel’s Mock Exam Anxiety 12:29 – Stress, Revision & Overwhelm 13:29 – Letting Teens Learn Through Stress 14:36 – ADHD Medication & School Support 15:12 – When to Step In (and When Not To) 16:02 – Parenting Through Worry 17:07 – Break 17:20 – Wins Section Begins 17:43 – Leisure Centre / Half-Term Wins 19:00 – Friendship & Inclusive Play 20:10 – Other Families “Getting It” 22:22 – Communication Progress in Social Spaces 24:13 – Frankie’s Joyful Moments 26:13 – Oscar’s Gaming Strengths 27:09 – Incredible Pattern Recognition 28:04 – Oscar’s Kindness with Nana 29:16 – Looking to the Future 29:41 – Food Rigidity & Safe Foods 30:29 – The White Strawberry Experiment 🍓 31:54 – Small Food Wins Matter 32:25 – Decision Fatigue Around Eating 33:51 – Parenting & Sensory Needs 35:20 – Looking Ahead to Easter Week 36:29 – Family Plans & Flexibility 37:37 – Zombies, Football & Friendship 38:19 – Final Reflections 39:05 – Closing Message: You’re Not Alone Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    40 min
  6. What Happens When You Forget the ADHD Medication…? (A Real Parenting Reality) | NeuroDADverse Ep.42

    APR 3

    What Happens When You Forget the ADHD Medication…? (A Real Parenting Reality) | NeuroDADverse Ep.42

    What happens when routine breaks and what does it reveal? In Episode 42 of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan unpack a week full of unexpected lessons, emotional challenges, and powerful insights into neurodivergent parenting.  From a forgotten ADHD medication moment that led to a completely different experience of the world, to navigating sensory challenges, school transitions, and the emotional weight of supporting your child in real time — this episode is honest, raw, and deeply relatable. We also explore: • What ADHD medication really supports (beyond “focus”) • How routines impact regulation and emotional well-being • Why “challenging moments” can still be meaningful experiences • Reframing parenting wins (even when things don’t go to plan) • The importance of experimentation in neurodivergent parenting This episode is about perspective and recognising that even when things feel difficult, progress is still happening. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re raising a neurodivergent child, working in SEND, or trying to understand, this conversation is for you. We share real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations, you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK 00:00 – Intro: What Is NeuroDADverse? 00:43 – Welcome Back & Episode 42 Kick-Off 01:10 – Week Context & School Holidays 03:01 – Week in Three Words (Experiment, Communicate, Collaborate) 03:31 – Biggest Challenges Begin 04:05 – Bath Time & Sensory Regulation Challenges 06:13 – Routine Adjustments & Sensory Strategies 07:05 – Stimming & Behaviour Observations 08:19 – Hotel Stay & School Trip Planning 09:32 – The Forgotten Bag (ADHD Medication Moment) 10:45 – Theatre Trip Without Medication 12:04 – Overstimulation & Behaviour Changes 13:21 – The Science vs Reality of ADHD Medication 14:33 – Reflecting on the Experience 16:00 – Emotional Challenge as a Parent 17:05 – Supporting vs Controlling 18:06 – Realisations About Medication Benefits 19:12 – Letting Go of Anxiety as a Parent 19:59 – Decision-Making & Independence 20:19 – Break 20:31 – Wins Section Begins 21:00 – Emotional Wins & Energy Shifts 23:15 – Parenting Reflection & Growth 25:01 – Reframing “Failed Days” as Learning 26:36 – Building Understanding Over Time 27:40 – Swimming Trip Progress 28:21 – When Plans Don’t Go to Plan 29:50 – Why Repetition Builds Confidence 31:10 – Public Perception vs Reality 32:16 – “It Can Turn Around Quickly” 33:20 – Sensory Environments & Cafés 33:59 – “Chronicling Joy” as a Strategy 34:34 – Independence & Communication Wins 35:14 – Gaming & Parent-Child Bonding 36:39 – Meeting Your Child Where They Are 37:54 – Structure & “When/Then” Parenting 39:18 – Teenage Independence & Communication 40:09 – Family Support & Sleepovers 41:18 – Looking Ahead (Easter Break) 42:48 – Navigating Busy Environments 44:16 – Preparing for Real-World Experiences 46:08 – School, Football & Routine 47:21 – Parenting & Cinema Rant 😅 48:33 – Final Reflections 49:15 – Closing Message: You’re Not Alone Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    50 min
  7. Are We Overthinking It… Or Is This Just Parenting Neurodivergent Kids? | NeuroDADverse Ep.41

    MAR 27

    Are We Overthinking It… Or Is This Just Parenting Neurodivergent Kids? | NeuroDADverse Ep.41

    What does progress actually look like when you’re raising neurodivergent children?In Episode 41 of the NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan unpack a week filled with emotional ups, small wins, and the ongoing challenge of navigating school, routines, and regulation. From managing transitions at the gym and dealing with school-related anxiety, to celebrating meaningful breakthroughs like independent conversations, shared dinners, and creative confidence. This episode is a reminder that progress isn’t always linear… but it is happening.We also talk about:Why transitions (even small ones) can trigger big reactionsSchool anxiety, attendance challenges, and building resilienceSupporting independence while staying emotionally connectedThe emotional rollercoaster of creative tasks and self-doubtWhy “small wins” often carry the biggest meaning🎧 Whether you’re a parent, carer, educator, or just trying to understand — this conversation is for you.Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations — you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK ⏱ YouTube Chapters (45 mins structured)00:00 – Intro: What Is NeuroDADverse? 00:44 – Welcome Back & Episode 41 Kick-Off 01:06 – Week in Three Words 02:49 – This Week’s Challenges Begin 03:10 – Haircut & Emotional Regulation 05:28 – Understanding Deregulation & Stimming 07:34 – Transitions & Leaving Activities (Gym Moment) 09:25 – Why Transitions Are So Difficult 11:29 – “This Is Normal Behaviour” Reframed 14:07 – School Anxiety & Attendance Challenges 16:14 – Avoiding Catastrophising as Parents 17:43 – When a Tough Week Turns Around 18:31 – Moving Into Wins 18:56 – Art Mock Exam: Anxiety to Pride 20:12 – Creative Confidence & Emotional Growth 21:55 – Social Pressure & Teenage Identity 22:58 – School Progress & Independence 24:08 – Gaming, Connection & Shared Time 25:25 – Unexpected Independence (Dinner Moment) 27:09 – Real Conversations & Emotional Connection 28:37 – Reflecting on Growth Over Time 31:25 – Haircut Progress & Sensory Wins 33:08 – “Chronicle the Wins” Mindset 36:13 – Looking Ahead to Next Week 37:16 – Upcoming Plans & Transitions 39:21 – Beach Story Callback (Humour Moment) 40:38 – Time Away & Parenting Logistics 41:41 – Managing Change & Travel Anxiety 43:18 – Final Reflections 44:56 – Closing Message: You Are Not Alone Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    45 min
  8. Progress, Pressure & Parenting: What This Week Really Looked Like | NeuroDADverse Ep. 40

    MAR 20

    Progress, Pressure & Parenting: What This Week Really Looked Like | NeuroDADverse Ep. 40

    What does a “good week” really look like in neurodivergent parenting? In Episode 40 of the NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan reflect on a week filled with small wins, emotional challenges, and the reality that progress doesn’t always feel easy, even when things are going well.  From navigating disrupted routines and sensory overload during everyday moments like bath time, to celebrating meaningful milestones like improved communication, school engagement, and emotional regulation, this episode captures the real balance of parenting neurodivergent children. We also talk about: •Why small wins can still come with heavy emotional weight •The hidden exhaustion behind everyday parenting tasks •Supporting your partner during high-stress moments •ADHD progress and what “closure” really feels like •Why reflecting on the week helps you see the wins you might otherwise miss Timestamps 00:00 – Intro: What Is NeuroDADverse? 00:44 – Welcome Back: Setting the Tone 01:10 – How’s Your Week Been? 03:02 – Week in Three Words 03:33 – This Week’s Challenges Begin 07:24 – Adapting to Disrupted Routines 10:18 – The Hidden Weight on Parents 12:04 – Sensory Overload & Hair/Body Care Struggles 14:33 – “15 Minute Fix” That Took Hours 16:33 – Emotional Impact on Parents 17:36 – Knowing When to Step In (Parent Tag Team) 18:42 – The “Shoulder Tap” Strategy Explained 21:08 – Learning to Support Each Other 23:08 – Moving Into Wins 24:17 – Mother’s Day Moment (Small but Big Win) 25:29 – ADHD Progress & Medical Update 27:12 – Why Check-Ups Can Be Difficult 28:26 – Reflecting on Small Wins 30:10 – Family Moments & Fun Wins 34:50 – Progress Over Time (Big Perspective Shift) 36:30 – Looking Ahead to Next Week 37:01 – School Anxiety & Upcoming Challenges 40:04 – Life Outside Parenting (Balance & Identity) 41:27 – Episode Reflection & Community Growth 42:42 – Final Message: You’re Not Alone This isn’t about perfect parenting — it’s about real parenting. 🎧 If you’re raising a neurodivergent child, working in SEND, or just trying to understand, this conversation is for you. 🎙️ NeuroDADverse Podcast Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations — you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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The NeuroDADverse is more than just a podcast, it’s a weekly therapy session between two long-time friends reconnecting through the shared highs and lows of neurodivergent parenthood. Danny is raising a six-year-old, while Ben is navigating life with two teenagers. Between them, their lived experiences span early years and adolescence, offering valuable perspective for any parent on the neurodivergent journey. Their conversations blend lived wisdom, raw honesty, and light-hearted reflection, often with Danny just entering stages that Ben has already faced. This dynamic brings warmth, curiosity, and relatable storytelling that resonates across all ages and stages of parenting. At its heart, The NeuroDADverse exists because parenting neurodivergent children can feel incredibly isolating. Many of society’s norms simply don’t apply and it’s rare to find someone who truly hears you. This podcast was born from the need to find and grow that tribe. A space where parents can feel seen, heard, and appreciated. Whether you’re in the thick of meltdowns, laughing uncontrollably with them or even just wondering about diagnoses you’re not alone. Here, we speak with love, lead though our understanding and share with honesty. This is a space for ideas, laughter, and connection. Please remember: You are doing better than you think. You are enough. You are not alone. Welcome to the NeuroDADverse.“ Real talk from two dads raising neurodivergent kids with love, laughter, and plenty of chaos. Connect with us on Instagram, TikTok and watch us on Youtube @NeuroDadversepodcast Theme music by Hands Up! https://www.instagram.com/handsuppunk/?hl=en Show produced by Squid Shack Studios https://www.instagram.com/squidshackstudios/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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  • Creator
    Danny Eycott - Ben Wisdom-Quieros
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    48
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Danny Eycott - Ben Wisdom-Quieros
  • Show Website
    NeuroDADverse