NIGERIAN DYKE REALNESS

Yvonne Onakeme Etaghene
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Unfiltered, candid thoughts on pop culture, music, love, spirituality, healing, depression, grief + whatever else comes up. The voice? Multilingual maven of the mic, your favorite dyke's favorite dyke, Yvonne Onakeme Etaghene. Ijaw Urhobo Nigerian dyke poet, performer, dancer, visual artist, bad gyal, fashion designer & creative director of OyinT. Designs, cook, tattoo enthusiast and a real one. She is the author of For Sizakele (fiction) & I DO METAPHORS (poetry).  www.myloveisaverb.com 

  1. 5D AGO

    Is It Procrastination? Or Self-Sabotage?

    I looked at procrastination different when I realized it can sometimes be self-sabotage in disguise. As an artist, sometimes we stay in the researching, planning and strategizing phase rather than diving in and embodying our work.  Wanna share your thoughts? Text me boo! Support the show More about me: https://www.myloveisaverb.com More specifically about the podcast: www.nigeriandykerealness.com  Mixtape/Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6R1SFz2YLwQM1WtnwFlCL3?si=bgQdNUGsTVaGk2lrzF7rpQ

    15 min

  2. APR 9

    Alchemize Your Spite & Rage Into Energy That Fuels Your Dreams

    You are a garden, a field, a farm. Compost their trash energy. Sew that compost and energy into the soil of your life and reap the harvest of your dreams. And that's on ALCHEMY, BABY!!!  Wanna share your thoughts? Text me boo! Support the show More about me: https://www.myloveisaverb.com More specifically about the podcast: www.nigeriandykerealness.com  Mixtape/Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6R1SFz2YLwQM1WtnwFlCL3?si=bgQdNUGsTVaGk2lrzF7rpQ

    6 min

  3. APR 8

    The Only Way To Beat A Narcissist

    The only way to beat a narcissist is to not engage in their BS. You cannot outsmart them and they don't react logically. Never underestimate how far a narc will take it. Remove their access to you. Your physical, emotional and mental safety are more important than confronting the person who abused you. Topics: mental health, spirituality, abuse, being a survivor Wanna share your thoughts? Text me boo! Support the show More about me: https://www.myloveisaverb.com More specifically about the podcast: www.nigeriandykerealness.com  Mixtape/Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6R1SFz2YLwQM1WtnwFlCL3?si=bgQdNUGsTVaGk2lrzF7rpQ

    10 min

  4. APR 7

    Vibrate Higher Than Narcissists Can Climb

    When people want to constantly pick at things that make you feel small, they have found a wound to exploit. Any wound is a portal to remain there bleeding in pain or evolve and heal. Vibrate higher than the wound so it no longer controls you. Topics include: Spirituality and mental health.  Wanna share your thoughts? Text me boo! Support the show More about me: https://www.myloveisaverb.com More specifically about the podcast: www.nigeriandykerealness.com  Mixtape/Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6R1SFz2YLwQM1WtnwFlCL3?si=bgQdNUGsTVaGk2lrzF7rpQ

    10 min

  5. APR 6

    Trash Talking + Spiritual Elevation

    Your win is guaranteed. This episode discusses the power of language as it relates to spirituality and mental health.  Wanna share your thoughts? Text me boo! Support the show More about me: https://www.myloveisaverb.com More specifically about the podcast: www.nigeriandykerealness.com  Mixtape/Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6R1SFz2YLwQM1WtnwFlCL3?si=bgQdNUGsTVaGk2lrzF7rpQ

    7 min

  6. APR 4

    Emotional Scammers Mistake Your Grace for Naïvité

    If you extended compassion to someone who did not deserve it, forgive yourself. Apply discernment moving forward. Not everyone deserves your sweetness.  Wanna share your thoughts? Text me boo! Support the show More about me: https://www.myloveisaverb.com More specifically about the podcast: www.nigeriandykerealness.com  Mixtape/Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6R1SFz2YLwQM1WtnwFlCL3?si=bgQdNUGsTVaGk2lrzF7rpQ

    6 min

  7. APR 1

    Your Intuition Is Evidence Enough

    Intuition is intelligence. Intuition is information. Intuition is communication. Your intuition is evidence enough.  Wanna share your thoughts? Text me boo! Support the show More about me: https://www.myloveisaverb.com More specifically about the podcast: www.nigeriandykerealness.com  Mixtape/Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6R1SFz2YLwQM1WtnwFlCL3?si=bgQdNUGsTVaGk2lrzF7rpQ

    8 min

  8. MAR 17

    Silent Treatment Is An Emotionally Abusive Weapon

    Wanna share your thoughts? Text me boo! Support the show More about me: https://www.myloveisaverb.com More specifically about the podcast: www.nigeriandykerealness.com  Mixtape/Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6R1SFz2YLwQM1WtnwFlCL3?si=bgQdNUGsTVaGk2lrzF7rpQ

    8 min
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About

Unfiltered, candid thoughts on pop culture, music, love, spirituality, healing, depression, grief + whatever else comes up. The voice? Multilingual maven of the mic, your favorite dyke's favorite dyke, Yvonne Onakeme Etaghene. Ijaw Urhobo Nigerian dyke poet, performer, dancer, visual artist, bad gyal, fashion designer & creative director of OyinT. Designs, cook, tattoo enthusiast and a real one. She is the author of For Sizakele (fiction) & I DO METAPHORS (poetry).  www.myloveisaverb.com 

Information

  • Creator
    Yvonne Onakeme Etaghene
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    48
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 NIGERIAN DYKE REALNESS
  • Show Website
    NIGERIAN DYKE REALNESS