20 episodes

Unfiltered, candid thoughts on pop culture, music, love, spirituality, healing, depression, grief + whatever else comes up. The voice? Multilingual maven of the mic, your favourite dyke's favourite dyke, Yvonne Onakeme Etaghene. Ijaw Urhobo Nigerian dyke poet, author of For Sizakele, performer, dancer, visual artist, bad gyal, fashion designer and creative director of Ankara Queen, cook, goddess and a real one. 

NIGERIAN DYKE REALNESS Yvonne Onakeme Etaghene

    • Arts
    • 5.0 • 3 Ratings

Unfiltered, candid thoughts on pop culture, music, love, spirituality, healing, depression, grief + whatever else comes up. The voice? Multilingual maven of the mic, your favourite dyke's favourite dyke, Yvonne Onakeme Etaghene. Ijaw Urhobo Nigerian dyke poet, author of For Sizakele, performer, dancer, visual artist, bad gyal, fashion designer and creative director of Ankara Queen, cook, goddess and a real one. 

    Black Sheep, Unicorns & Breaking Generational Curses

    Black Sheep, Unicorns & Breaking Generational Curses

    What does it mean to say no to abuse in an abusive family? Being the one to change a family dynamic or break toxic emotional patterns takes a lot of strength and courage. Sometimes the person with that courage becomes the black sheep, exiled from the family because of a refusal to go along with the toxicity. There can be a high price to pay for standing up for what you believe in, including losing people who embrace their dysfunction over being healthy relationships. What is the impact on the mental health and on the lives, of those who choose to walk away from their abusive families? What is the cost of being the person who walks away? 
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    • 53 min
    As Artists, What Happens When We Change?

    As Artists, What Happens When We Change?

    Do we make room for artists to change and explore who they are and what they most desire to create? Do we allow artists to create their own vibe/sound/aesthetic before calling them tired, over or overrated? Do artistic eras exist anymore? How has social media impacted the shelf life of work and our patience with artists' process? From discussing the pandemic's impact on the arts to talking about what it means to change/grow as an artist, listen up and let's chat. 
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    More about me: https://www.myloveisaverb.com

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    • 52 min
    Heartbreak Na Your Mate?!

    Heartbreak Na Your Mate?!

    Heartbreak comes in many forms. Whether from a romantic breakup, friendship breakup or as a result of trauma, grief or other life experiences. Heartbreak can come into our lives for a million reasons. How do you heal from it? How do we deal with it? Let's talk. Chat me up @NDRpodcast or @myloveisaverb on twitter. 
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    More about me: https://www.myloveisaverb.com

    More specifically about the podcast:
    www.twitter.com/NDRpodcast
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    Mixtape/Playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6R1SFz2YLwQM1WtnwFlCL3?si=bgQdNUGsTVaGk2lrzF7rpQ

    • 44 min
    Whose Standards Are You Actually Living By?

    Whose Standards Are You Actually Living By?

    Do you feel self-conscious about what you truly desire? Whose standards are you living your life by? Your own? Or your friends? Your parents? What's allowed in your space and what's not? Are you chasing your dreams? Or someone else's idea(l) of what your life "should" be? Take a listen, babes. 
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    • 15 min
    Your Energy Is Your Power & Thoughts On Forgiveness

    Your Energy Is Your Power & Thoughts On Forgiveness

    Is forgiveness necessary for your soul's growth and healing?  Some things are unforgivable. You deserve healing regardless of whether you choose to forgive. 

    Energy is food, is power. You feed and empower what you give energy to.  Especially as you heal: why bother to expend energy towards those who hurt you by feeding them with your energy? This episode explores pathways to freedom past pain and into a deep recognition of the power of your own energy. 
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    More about me: https://www.myloveisaverb.com

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    • 28 min
    Prayer Don Expire! & Calling Back Your Energy

    Prayer Don Expire! & Calling Back Your Energy

    Not everyone deserves your prayers. If they don't deserve that prayer, put an expiration date on it and direct that loving energy to someone who deserves it--YOU! 
    Support the show
    More about me: https://www.myloveisaverb.com

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    • 15 min

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