No Bras Required

Meghan Retseck & Patti Johnston
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No Bras Required is your permission slip to let it all hang out - literally and figuratively. Hosted by business owners, moms, and besties Patti and Meghan, this podcast is where business, family, and messy real life collide. From dance studio drama and parenting fails to those "I cannot believe that just happened" moments, nothing is off-limits. You'll get practical tips, hilarious stories, and the kind of honest conversation you'd have with your girlfriends over coffee… or tequila. So pour yourself a drink, toss your bra on the floor, and tune in every Friday for a big-sister style chat that reminds you you're not alone in the juggle.

  1. 5d ago

    48. I Don't Actually Need You To Like Me

    There comes a point where you realise something slightly uncomfortable... You don't actually need everyone to like you. And honestly? What a relief. In this episode of No Bras Required, Patti and Meghan get right into the messy middle of leadership, motherhood, boundaries, people pleasing and the pressure women feel to be agreeable, helpful and, above all, liked. They talk about what happens when you stop trying to make everyone comfortable and start making decisions based on your values instead. Because being kind doesn't mean saying yes to everything. Being supportive doesn't mean being available 24/7. And being a good leader definitely doesn't mean everyone gets to like you. There are plenty of laughs along the way, including stories about mansplaining menopause, children investigating bathroom activities, angry dance parents, Valentine's Day drama and the occasional "did I stutter?" parenting moment. But underneath all the laughs is a pretty powerful message: You don't need to be liked. You need to lead. In this episode, we chat about: Why women can get caught in the "likability trap", especially when they step into leadership. How we're taught from a young age that assertive boys are leaders while assertive girls can be labelled "bossy." The difference between being nice and being kind, and why kindness sometimes requires an uncomfortable conversation. Why boundaries aren't selfish, whether you're a mum, teacher, studio owner or business leader. How constantly bending the rules creates expectations you might eventually resent. Why your team needs to know what your non-negotiables are, while still being given room to make mistakes and learn. The difference between avoiding conflict and practising compassion. Why "being liked" should never be the KPI you're using to measure your leadership. How to approach difficult conversations as opportunities to practise your leadership skills. Why asking "Who does this serve?" can completely change the way you make decisions. This week's challenge We're giving you a slightly uncomfortable homework assignment. Have the conversation you've been avoiding. Think it through. Write down what you want to achieve. Consider how the other person might respond. Get clear on your boundaries and your desired outcome. Then have the conversation. It might not go perfectly. But avoiding it isn't making the problem disappear. And remember: "I don't need to be liked. I need to lead."

  2. Aug 7

    47. Uncomfortable Leadership Truths: Are You Asking Me…or Are You Asking Permission?

    Are You Asking Me… Or Asking for Permission? One little leadership question. Half a million views. Hundreds of angry comments. And one very important conversation. This week, Patti and Meghan unpack the viral reel that had the internet divided after Patti suggested asking employees one simple question: "Do you need information, or are you asking for permission?" Turns out, that struck a nerve. In this episode, they dig into why so many employees struggle to make decisions, how micromanagement quietly destroys confidence, and why leaders often become the biggest bottleneck in their own business without even realising it. Whether you're leading a dance studio, a school, or any small business, this conversation is all about building people who think for themselves instead of waiting to be told what to do. Along the way, Patti and Meghan share lessons they've learned the hard way, plenty of parenting parallels, and a few stories that prove leadership is never boring. In this episode, we chat about: Why the viral reel upset so many people, and what was actually meant by "go check your job description." The difference between asking for information and asking for permission. How micromanagement trains people to stop thinking for themselves. The hidden cost of becoming the bottleneck in your own business. Why empowering your team starts with better systems and better onboarding. What parenting teenagers has to teach us about leadership. Why confidence grows every time someone is trusted to make a decision. How to know whether your team needs more training, more clarity, or simply more trust. The importance of hiring people who align with your values instead of just impressive résumés. Why being liked isn't actually part of the leadership job description. This Week's Leadership Challenge The next time someone brings you a decision they've always asked you to make... Don't answer. Instead, ask: "What do you think?" You might be surprised by the confidence, ownership, and leadership you start building in your team. Favourite Quote "Confidence grows every time someone is trusted to make a decision." If this episode resonated... We'd love to hear from you. Have you ever realised you were the bottleneck in your business? Or have you worked for a boss who made you ask permission for everything? Come join the conversation and let us know. We genuinely love hearing your stories, your wins, and yes, even the respectful disagreements. And if this episode made you think of another studio owner, business owner, or leader who needs to hear it, send it their way. We'll be back next week as we continue our leadership series with another uncomfortable truth: Apparently, being liked isn't in the job description either. Coffee or tequila... we'll let you decide. ☕🍹

  3. Jul 31

    46. CEO Summer Camp: Graduation & Leadership

    🎓 CEO Summer Camp Graduation Day Is Here! You made it. You survived recital season, registration, summer planning, and about 47,000 "quick questions" that definitely weren't quick. Now it's time to stop surviving your business and start leading it. In this final CEO Summer Camp episode, Patti and Meghan walk you through everything you've learned over the past month. From communication and systems to leadership, culture, delegation and mindset, this episode is your chance to reflect, celebrate your progress, and intentionally design the season ahead. You'll rate yourself as a CEO, uncover the one area that deserves your focus next, and learn why the most successful studio owners aren't necessarily the busiest ones. Because building a thriving studio isn't about doing more. It's about creating a business that supports your life instead of consuming it. So grab your notebook (and maybe another iced coffee), because graduation day comes with one last piece of homework that just might change the way you lead your studio this year. In this episode we chat about: Reflecting on your CEO growth over the summer. Why communication, systems and culture are the foundation of a healthy studio. The CEO scorecard that helps you identify your biggest opportunity for growth. What every successful leader chooses to eliminate before adding something new. How to recognise "gravity problems" and stop wasting energy fighting them. Why sustainability matters more than endless growth. Designing how you want your season to feel, not just how many students you want. A powerful future-self exercise to revisit during recital week. This week's challenge Write a letter to your future self. Seal it away and don't open it until recital week is over. Write about: The leader you want to become. What you want your staff and families to experience. The habits you're leaving behind. Three non-negotiables you'll protect all season. Future you will thank you. If this episode encouraged you, we'd love it if you'd subscribe, leave a review, and share it with your favourite studio owner friend. Remember... Run your business. Don't let your business run you.

  4. Jul 24

    45. CEO Summer Camp: Culture Is Not Pizza Parties

    Culture gets talked about a LOT in business. We all want a great culture. We want people to feel valued, supported, and part of something bigger. We want happy teams, happy families, happy dancers, and ideally, nobody sending spicy emails at 11pm. But here's the thing... Culture isn't your mission statement. It's not your matching team hoodies. It's not the pizza party. Culture is what happens when nobody's watching. In this episode of CEO Summer Camp, we're getting into the sometimes uncomfortable truth that your culture is what you tolerate. If you say accountability matters but nobody is ever held accountable, accountability isn't actually part of your culture. If you say teamwork matters but one person is constantly creating drama and nothing happens, you've made drama part of the culture. And if you keep avoiding those difficult conversations because you don't want to hurt someone's feelings, you might actually be creating a much bigger problem. Patti and Meghan chat about what culture really looks like inside a dance studio, how to set clear expectations, why difficult conversations are actually an act of kindness, and why the people you hire become the culture you create. Plus, there are some very honest hiring red flags, including the legendary phone book interview test. 😂 In this episode, we talk about: Why culture is built through repeated behaviours, not speeches or mission statements How to define what success, professionalism, and communication actually look, sound, and feel like Why clear expectations aren't harsh, they're kind How standards create consistency across your team Why avoiding difficult conversations can create resentment and bigger problems How your culture really shows up when things go wrong and everyone's under pressure Why "we're a family" might not always be the best language for your studio How to make your team feel valued through small, everyday acts of recognition Why your employees want growth, feedback, development, and to know their voice matters How hiring the wrong person can slowly change your culture Why you should hire slow and fire fast How exit surveys can reveal what's really happening inside your studio Why the standard you walk past is the standard you've accepted Your CEO Summer Camp homework This week's challenge is simple. Choose one team member and intentionally recognise them. Not because they saved the day. Not because it's Employee Appreciation Day. Not because they exceeded every expectation. Just because. Be specific. Tell them what they did, why it mattered, and how it impacted you or the team. Because culture isn't built during annual reviews. It's built in the everyday moments. And if there's a difficult conversation you've been avoiding? Yep. That one too. Go have it. Then order yourself a pizza afterwards. You deserve it. 🍕

  5. Jul 17

    44. CEO Summer Camp: Systems That Create Freedom

    CEO Summer Camp is back, and this week's lesson might just be the one that changes your business forever. Quick question... If you disappeared for two weeks tomorrow, what would break first? If your answer is "everything," you're definitely not alone. In this episode, Patti and Meghan dive into one of the biggest mindset shifts every studio owner has to make. Moving from being the person who does everything to becoming the CEO who builds systems that allow the business to run without them. Because here's the truth. Freedom doesn't come from working harder. It comes from creating systems that remove you as the bottleneck. They share the lessons they've learned through years of trial and error, from growing studios, hiring teams, making mistakes, fixing broken processes, and finally building businesses that don't depend on them being available 24/7. You'll also hear some hilarious "Hot Mess Express" moments, practical ideas you can implement immediately, and one simple leadership question that completely transformed Patti's team. If you've ever packed your laptop "just in case" for a holiday, answered staff texts at midnight, or felt guilty stepping away from your business, this episode is for you. In this episode we chat about: Why becoming the bottleneck is keeping your studio from growing. The difference between giving your team permission versus giving them information. Simple systems every dance studio should already have, including onboarding, staff training, registration, finances and parent communication. How to stop answering the same questions over and over again. Why your business should still run if you get "hit by a bus." Patti's story of growing from 47 students to more than 300, and the systems that made it possible. The hidden cost of decision fatigue and why leaders need to stop trying to be everything to everyone. This week's CEO Summer Camp homework Choose one task that steals your time every single week. Document it. Record yourself doing it. Turn it into a Standard Operating Procedure. Train someone else to own it. One system today creates more freedom tomorrow. Because your goal isn't to become better at doing everything. It's to build a business that doesn't need you for everything. We'll see you next week for another CEO Summer Camp lesson!

  6. Jul 10

    43. CEO Summer Camp: Communication Fixes Everything

    Communication Clarity That Reduces Parent Confusion Ever feel like you spend 45 minutes writing the world's most detailed email, only to have someone ask the exact question you answered in the subject line? Yep. We've been there too. In this week's CEO Summer Camp episode, Patti and Meghan are tackling one of the least glamorous, but most important, skills every studio owner needs to master, communication. Because here's the truth. Most of the headaches we deal with aren't actually people problems. They're communication problems. From parent emails and staff conversations to expectations that live only in our own heads, we're unpacking the small changes that create much bigger clarity for everyone. If you've ever caught yourself thinking, "Why aren't they listening?" this episode might completely change the way you look at communication. In this episode we chat about: Why most studio frustrations start with unclear communication, not difficult people. The biggest mistake owners make when they assume everyone already knows the plan. Why parents often miss information, even when you've already sent it. How repetition actually builds trust instead of annoying people. The importance of communicating the "why", not just the "what". Why simple, clear messages almost always beat long, detailed explanations. How improving communication reduces stress for you, your staff, and your families. Practical ways to create systems that stop confusion before it starts. Communication isn't about saying something once. It's about making sure people actually understand it. Grab your coffee, or your tequila, and join us for another CEO Summer Camp lesson that could save you hours of answering the same questions over and over again.

  7. Jul 3

    42. CEO Summer Camp: Audit Before You Add

    Summer has a funny way of making us think we need to reinvent everything. New classes, new programs, new marketing ideas... sound familiar? This week we're kicking off our CEO Summer Camp series with a challenge that might surprise you. Instead of adding more to your already overflowing plate, we're asking you to hit pause and take a good look at what's already there. Because sometimes the biggest growth comes from letting go. In this episode, Patti and Meghan chat about why auditing your studio before making changes can save you time, energy and money. They share practical ways to simplify your business, reconnect with your values and make decisions that actually move your studio forward, instead of just keeping you busy. If you've ever felt like you're constantly spinning your wheels, this episode is your permission slip to stop, reflect and simplify. In this episode we chat about: • Why more isn't always better in business. • How to audit your studio with fresh eyes. • The difference between being busy and being productive. • Identifying the programs, systems and habits that are no longer serving you. • How your studio values should guide every business decision. • Why simplifying can actually help your studio grow faster. • This week's CEO Summer Camp homework, eliminate one thing that is draining your time, energy or money. Grab your notebook, pour yourself a coffee, or tequila, we won't judge, and join us for Lesson One of CEO Summer Camp. If this episode resonates with you, we'd love it if you shared it with another studio owner who needs to hear it. And don't forget to subscribe so you don't miss next week's lesson.

  8. Jun 26

    41. The Pressure To Fit In

    Helping Kids Cope With Fitting In Pressure Remember when peer pressure meant someone offering you a cigarette behind the bowling alley? Things have changed... a lot. This week Patti and Meghan dive into what it's really like raising kids in a world where social media never sleeps, friendships are constantly on display, and fitting in can feel like a full-time job. From Snapchat streaks to friendship drama, online comparison and the pressure to be someone you're not, this is an honest conversation about helping our kids navigate today's social world without losing themselves. It's not about blaming technology or wishing for "the good old days." It's about understanding what our kids are facing and learning how we can stay connected, supportive and present through it all. In this episode we chat about: Why peer pressure looks completely different today. How social media has changed childhood and friendships. Why comparison is becoming one of the biggest challenges for young people. The hidden impact of popularity culture on confidence and mental health. Practical ways parents can build resilience instead of perfection. Why connection at home matters more than having all the answers. Helping kids develop confidence that isn't based on other people's opinions. If today's conversation resonated with you, we'd love for you to share it with another parent who's navigating these same challenges. Sometimes just knowing you're not alone makes all the difference.

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No Bras Required is your permission slip to let it all hang out - literally and figuratively. Hosted by business owners, moms, and besties Patti and Meghan, this podcast is where business, family, and messy real life collide. From dance studio drama and parenting fails to those "I cannot believe that just happened" moments, nothing is off-limits. You'll get practical tips, hilarious stories, and the kind of honest conversation you'd have with your girlfriends over coffee… or tequila. So pour yourself a drink, toss your bra on the floor, and tune in every Friday for a big-sister style chat that reminds you you're not alone in the juggle.

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  • Creator
    Meghan Retseck & Patti Johnston
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    49
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025
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