Not Crazy Just Menopause

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: Karen Roy merges leadership coaching, menopause wisdom, and cutting-edge wellness strategies to help women reclaim their power in midlife. Through expert interviews, real-life stories, and actionable tips, this podcast is for every woman who wants to thrive—not just survive—through menopause.

Episodes

  1. 1h ago

    Your Midlife Has Three Drivers - and a Brand New Map. The midlife identity shift nobody warned you about - meet Jance, Brince & Since

    When I was a little girl, I had three imaginary friends. Their names were Jance, Brince, and Since. Not Barb, not Wendy — Jance, Brince and Since. Years later I found the pages where I'd written out who they'd become as grown women, and it stopped me cold: they weren't imaginary friends at all. They were three parts of me. In this episode I introduce you to all three — the planner, the caregiver, and the dreamer — and the part nobody warns you about: in midlife, they stop politely taking turns and all start grabbing for the wheel at once. That's the rage, the 3 a.m. spiral, the "what's next?" restlessness. It isn't a breakdown. It's an identity shift — and there's a new map waiting on the other side of the chaos. It's funny, it's a little embarrassing (six-year-old me had imaginary friends with retirement plans), and it might be the most seen you've felt all week. What you'll take away Why midlife so often feels like three versions of you yelling at once — and why that chaos is a doorway, not a malfunction. The real reason a woman who was never anxious suddenly can't make a decision without three guarantees (hint: it's a hormone, not a personality flaw). Why "running on empty" shows up as the snap and the guilt that follows — and what to do with both. How to spot which "inner woman" is loudest on any given day, and how to start scheduling your life around your cycle instead of fighting it. The one question to sit with this week — and the honest answer that's allowed when it feels like nobody's driving. "The chaos isn't the thing going wrong. The chaos is the doorway." Subscribe + follow If this one made you laugh or feel a little too seen, follow the show so the next episode finds you — and send me a DM on Instagram telling me which one you are: Jance, Brince, or Since. Join us at Uncorked - September 25, 2026 Come spend a real day with women who get it — connection, wine, wellness, and the conversations you can't have anywhere else. Details + tickets: https://www.eventbrite.ca/e/uncorked-midlife-finally-out-loud-tickets-1991007710659 Get the tools Want more than the episode? Get on the list at www.notcrazyjustmenopause.com

    30 min
  2. Jan 31

    Sharpening Your Edge in Midlife - Hormones, Leadership & Menopause for High-Performing Women

    Sharpening Your Edge in Midlife  Hormones, Leadership & Menopause for High-Performing Women You're smart.  You're capable . You've built a career, a business, a life.  And then midlife hits and suddenly what used to work, doesn't. This podcast if for women who don't have time to guess. Sharpening Your Edge in Midlife is where hormones, leadership, and real life collide without fluff, fear-mongering or medical overwhelm. We talk about what's actually happening in your body, why midlife can feel like you've lost your edge, and how to use hormonal awareness as a strategic advantage instead of a setback. You'll learn:  why menopause and perimenopause impact focus, energy, confidence and leadership how hormones influence decision making, performance and burnout practical tools to adapt fast, without overhauling your entire life how to lead, work and live smarter by aligning with your biology why midlife isn't breaking you it's revealing a sharper, wiser version of you This is real talk for high performing women - leaders, entrepreneurs, professionals who want clarity, solutions, and direction, not another thing to fix. If you're ready to stop wondering what the hell is going on and start leading with confidence again, you're in the right place.   If this episode hit home, DM CLEAN on Instagram @notcrazyjustmenopause About the Host: Karen Roy si a spearker, author and the creator fo the CLEAN METHOD, a hormone aligned framework designed for high-performing women navigating perimenopause, menopause, and leadership. With a background in health and wellness, Pilates, Fasting and women's leadership, Karen helps women stop fighting their bodies and start working with them - without shame, restriction ro burnout.  Her work focuses on clarity, self-trust, and practical strategies that support both performance and well-being in midlife. Through education, coaching, and real conversations, Karen challenges the narrative that women are "breaking down" in midlife - and replaces it with one that honours biology, intelligence and lived experience.

    32 min
  3. Jan 4

    Should I Tell My Boss or HR About Menopause? How to Talk About Menopause at Work

    Should I Tell My Boss or HR About Menopause? How to Talk About Menopause at Work Many women going through perimenopause or menopause quietly ask the same question: Should I tell my boss or HR that menopause is affecting my work — or should I stay silent and push through? In this episode, menopause educator and leadership coach Karen Roy explores one of the most searched and emotionally complex topics around menopause at work. This honest, conversational discussion helps high-performing women understand when disclosure can be helpful, when it may not be necessary, and how to talk about menopause professionally without oversharing or risking career credibility. This episode is especially relevant for women in leadership roles, professional environments, or corporate settings who are experiencing symptoms like brain fog, fatigue, anxiety, or confidence changes at work. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why “should I tell my boss about menopause?” is such a common and difficult question How menopause symptoms can impact work performance and confidence The difference between talking to your manager vs HR about menopause When disclosing menopause at work may be supportive — and when it may not How to ask for workplace support or accommodations without sharing medical details What to say (and what not to say) when discussing menopause professionally Why hormonal awareness is an essential leadership skill for midlife women  Key Takeaway: You don’t have to disclose menopause at work to be supported. What matters is knowing what you need to do your job well — and advocating for yourself with clarity, confidence, and intention. Why This Conversation Matters: Menopause is a biological transition, not a personal weakness — yet many workplaces still lack understanding and support. Without the right language or strategy, women often suffer in silence, leading to burnout, disengagement, or self-doubt. This episode helps normalize menopause in the workplace while empowering women to protect both their well-being and their careers. Resources Mentioned: I’m Not Crazy, You’re Not Crazy, It’s Menopause by Karen Roy - available on Amazon The CLEAN Method — a hormone-aware framework for lifestyle, leadership, and menopause support  IG NotCrazyjust_Menopause www.notcrazyjustmenopause.com  Who This Episode Is For: Women navigating menopause at work Women in leadership or professional roles Employers and HR professionals seeking insight Anyone searching for guidance on how to talk to an employer about menopause   About the Host  Karen Roy is a menopause educator, speaker, health and wellness expert, and leadership mentor who helps high-performing midlife women understand their hormones so they can lead, work, and live with clarity, confidence, and calm. Through her work, Karen bridges the gap between menopause, leadership, and real life, translating complex hormonal changes into practical tools women can actually use — at work, at home, and in their relationships. She is the author of I’m Not Crazy, You’re Not Crazy, It’s Menopause: A Girlfriend’s Guide to Survive, co-author of Leadership It is Not Just for Leaders, and the creator of the CLEAN Method, a hormone-aware approach to menopause, lifestyle, and leadership. Karen is passionate about normalizing menopause in the workplace, empowering women to advocate for themselves, and helping organizations better support women through midlife transitions. Her approach is grounded, compassionate, and science-informed — without fear-based messaging or overwhelm. On this podcast, Karen brings honest conversations, practical guidance, and real talk for women who are done pushing through — and ready to lead differently.

    27 min

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: Karen Roy merges leadership coaching, menopause wisdom, and cutting-edge wellness strategies to help women reclaim their power in midlife. Through expert interviews, real-life stories, and actionable tips, this podcast is for every woman who wants to thrive—not just survive—through menopause.