not good Molly Jameson

Trigger warning: grief/loss, suicide loss.

This week, Molly has a new very special guest: you. Join her as she discusses her own experiences with grief and loss, what the stages of grief look like, and how we can find hope in times of mourning. At the end, as the guest, Molly asks you questions for reflection to answer as you process your own grief.

For helpful resources on grief & loss, visit Good Grief.

If you feel led, please make a memorial donation in memory of Luke Osterhaus through the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention here.



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Trigger warning: brief mention of suicidal thoughts

Jocelyn J. Jones is an author, speaker, and entrepreneur. She received her bachelor’s
degree from the University of Iowa in journalism. After receiving her B.A., Jocelyn accepted a position at channel 20, WYCC. She eventually left the television industry to work as the Violence Prevention Manager at the ARK of St. Sabina, a youth center on Chicago's south side.and was eventually promoted to be Executive Director of the agency. Jocelyn earned her master’s degree from the University of Chicago in social work. After accepting her call to ministry, she completed her master’s degree in theological studies from McCormick Theological Seminary. Jocelyn is an ordained minister and the founder of Faith on the Journey Counseling. She is the author of the book, Breaking the Power of the Mask, and a training facilitator with the Trauma Healing Institute.

Today, Molly has the honor of talking to Jocelyn about the work she is doing in training churches to become trauma-informed, and why this is so important in healing them from the inside out.

Jocelyn's Links:
Book: Breaking the Power of the Mask (also takes you to her personal website)
Podcast: Faith on the Journey: Conversations with Jocelyn
Christian Counseling: Faith On The Journey
Trauma Healing Institute Model/Registration
**FREE GIFT** : Trauma Resource Guide for Becoming a Trauma Healing Church

Social links:
Instagram: @jocelynjjones
Twitter: @jocelynjjones
Facebook: Connect With Jocelyn
YouTube: Faith On The Journey
LinkedIn: Jocelyn J. Jones
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Disclaimer: Like a therapeutic setting, this podcast is designed to be place where people can share their beliefs openly. The opinions of each guest may not align with those of the host.

Trigger warning: depression, suicidal thoughts/attempts.

This week's guest is Pastor Michael Scholtes, who is a pastor in the Evangelical Lutheran Church in America. He has also lived with clinical depression for most of his life. He writes and talks about the strange intersection of mental illness and faith, and has found that being open and transparent has been healing for him and for others. Scholtes lives in the Lehigh Valley of Pennsylvania with his wife and two children.

In today's episode, Pastor Michael reflects on his own experiences with depression, sharing them with his congregations, and battling "the dark voice" on the resilient journey of maintaining faith in God through difficult times.

You can hear more about Pastor Michael's story by reading his book, Darkwater: A Pastor's Memoir of Depression and Faith. You can also subscribe to his newsletter, Biblia Luna, on his website.

Social links:
Facebook: Darkwater Author
Twitter: @DarkwaterAuthor

Mentioned in this episode:
When Narcissism Comes to Church by Chuck DeGroat
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Disclaimer: Like a therapeutic setting, this podcast is designed to be place where people can share their beliefs openly. The opinions of each guest may not align with those of the host.

Molly kicks off the 3-part series, "When Church Is Not Good," with her good friend Jaclyn Looper. They discuss why millennials especially are leaving the church, their own experiences with spiritual hurt, and what spiritual trauma is. The two then explore their own healing journeys and talk about what forgiveness looks like.

Originally a Philly girl now living in sunny South Carolina, Jaclyn loves to write and talk about all things God, Bible, & Church. She is also a chemical engineer & coffee enthusiast. You can find her blog here at In Light of Grace (follow her on Instagram as well @inlightofgrace).

Mentioned in this episode:
Podcast - The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill; Bonus Episode: Healing and Resurrection After Spiritual Trauma
Rachel Held Evans quote - Searching for Sunday: Loving, Leaving, and Finding the Church (Molly's favorite book of 2022)
If you or a loved one is in need of immediate psychiatric assistance, please call the 24/7 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline at 988.

Please follow the not good podcast on Instagram and our website, and don't forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify!

Disclaimer: Like a therapeutic setting, this podcast is designed to be place where people can share their beliefs openly. The opinions of each guest may not align with those of the host.

Trigger warning: brief mention of suicide loss.

This week, Molly brings back her husband Garrett to discuss the importance of friendships and community both before and after marriage. The couple talks about traits they deem important in solid friendships, what it looks like to integrate them in marriage, and the significance of finding community as a couple for accountability and support. Through reminiscing on memories as well as a recent trip to South Carolina, Molly and Garrett highlight what sets apart the friendships that stand out to them most. Molly cries.
If you or a loved one is in need of immediate psychiatric assistance, please call the 24/7 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline at 988.

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Disclaimer: Like a therapeutic setting, this podcast is designed to be place where people can share their beliefs openly. The opinions of each guest may not align with those of the host.

Today's guest, Eric Wooten is a dynamic speaker, author and relationship expert. He uses his 15 years of experience as a pastor and licensed professional counselor to help singles develop healthy dating relationships and couples build strong, thriving marriages. Eric combines his transformative, yet easy to digest frameworks and quick wit to help couples of all ages and backgrounds enjoy the journey towards fulfilling relationships that go the distance.

He produces weekly content on his Youtube channel, Relationshots, and guides singles and couples through coaching, counseling, classes and weekend retreats. Eric has been married to his wife, Jill, for 28 years and they have 3 adult daughters.

Today, Eric sits down with Molly to discuss all things relationships and marriage: why they fail, how to better them, and why the advice we're getting today isn't helpful or effective.

Eric's Links:
Website: Altared Marriage
YouTube: RelationShots
Instagram: @eric_wooten_ // @altaredmarriage
Facebook: Altared Marriage
Book: The Magnetic Marriage: 8 Characteristics of Irresistible Marriages
If you or a loved one is in need of immediate psychiatric assistance, please call the 24/7 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline at 988.

Please follow the not good podcast on Instagram and our website, and don't forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple Podcasts and Spotify!

Disclaimer: Like a therapeutic setting, this podcast is designed to be place where people can share their beliefs openly. The opinions of each guest may not align with those of the host.