Not So Parallel

Jessica
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hosted by Jessica, a space where faith isn’t about easy answers but real conversations. Each episode leans into honest stories, guest perspectives, and the kind of questions that challenge us to think deeper, grow stronger, and live out authentic faith. This isn’t a polished highlight reel it’s the in-between moments, the raw struggles, and the hope we find along the way.

  1. Apr 20

    We Finally Talked About It w/ Alex Henderson

    In this episode, Alex and I sit down and honestly just talk. Like really talk. About us, about where things have felt a little unclear, and how easy it is to let silence or assumptions start filling in the gaps without even realizing it. We get into our relationship, the “what are we” type of tension, and what it actually looks like when you stop avoiding certain conversations and just say things out loud. But it doesn’t stay in one place we also talk about career, direction, and what we’re both trying to figure out individually while still figuring out how that fits together. And faith is woven into all of it how it shapes the way we think, the way we handle timing, and how we try to make sense of what we’re stepping into right now. Thanks for chatting with us 3 Connect with me! Email: notsoparallelpod@gmail.com Instagram: @theycallmejess_ // @notsoparallelpod_ // @xandersonn

    1h 1m

  2. Apr 13

    Your Silence is Loud w/ Janice Ruiz

    DID YOU MISS US? Friendship isn’t about avoiding things to keep the peace. It’s about choosing honesty even when it’s uncomfortable. Thank you for choosing vulnerability with us 💕 BOOK US ON INSTAGRAM! @365celebrationsco LETS CONNECT! insta: @theycallmejess_ @notsoparallelpod_ EMAIL: notsoparallelpod@gmail.com

    54 min

  3. Apr 6

    Stop Being So Accessible

    Let's break down the high cost of emotional accessibility. We often mistake being "available" for being "kind," but without a perimeter, your peace is at the mercy of everyone else’s mess. Using the ancient leadership of Nehemiah, this episode provides a masterclass in rebuilding your life from the rubble of "yes." We’re diving deep into the psychology of Hyper-vigilance, the trap of the "Ono" distraction, and the "CEO Strategy" of the Sword and the Trowel. It’s time to stop building homes in cities with no walls. Pick up your bricks. Grab your sword. You are doing a great work, and you cannot come down. If this episode hit home, I want to hear from you. Let’s talk about your "Wall-Check" challenge this week. Instagram: @theycallmejess_ & @notsoparallelpod_ Email: notsoparallelpod@gmail.com

    26 min

  4. Mar 30

    God, Are You Even Listening?

    In this episode of Not So Parallel, we walk through one of the most honest prayers in the Bible, Psalm 13. Have you ever felt like God was silent? Like your prayers were going unanswered? Like you were stuck in the middle of a story that just won’t move forward? David did too. Together, we break down the emotional journey of this psalm from the plea, to the exhaustion, to the fear, and finally to a faith that doesn’t ignore the struggle… but holds it. This isn’t a surface-level devotional. This is a deep dive into what it actually looks like to talk to God when you’re tired, confused, and still waiting. If you’ve ever asked “How long, God?” this conversation is for you 📩 Contact / Connect I’d love to hear your thoughts, questions, or what this episode stirred up in you: Email: notsoparallelpod@gmail.com Instagram: @theycallmejess_ Podcast IG: @notsoparallelpod_

    43 min

  5. Jan 6

    Almost Isn't Safe Anymore

    Almost obedience, almost surrender, almost ready… but almost isn’t safe anymore. This episode unpacks what it really means to stop circling change and start stepping into it — with Scripture, reflection, and holy tension. CONNECT WITH ME: Email Me: notsoparallelpod@gmail.com Instagram: @ theycallmejess_ // @notsoparallelpod_ SEE YOU ON 2/9/26

    29 min

  6. 12/09/2025

    The Story You Tell Yourself

    Feeling stuck? You’re not alone. In this episode, we dive into the story of Moses the insecure, hiding Moses and uncover how fear, old patterns, and self-doubt keep us from moving forward. Learn how to: Spot the story you’ve been telling yourself Break patterns that keep you small Take real steps to move, grow, and believe again LETS CONNECT: INSTAGRAM: @theycallmejess_ & @notsoparallelpod_ Email me! notsoparallelpod@gmail.com Recommended Reads: Boundaries for Your Soul I Shouldn’t Feel This Way

    33 min

  7. 12/02/2025

    The Weight of Feeling Stuck

    Feeling stuck can get heavy fast. In today’s episode, we talk about the invisible weight we carry, why it lingers, and what it actually takes to move again. If you’re in a season of “I don’t know what’s next,” this one’s for you. 🎧 Jump to 7:50 to start the episode WATCH THE VIDEO VERSION: TikTok: @notsoparallel CONNECT WITH ME: Podcast IG: @notsoparallelpod_ Jess: @theycallmejess_ BOOKS THAT HELPED ME GET UNSTUCK: • Boundaries for Your Soul https://www.amazon.com/s?k=boundaries+for+your+soul&crid=WAJWAPHWHQ1U&sprefix=bound%2Caps%2C222&ref=nb_sb_ss_p13n-expert-pd-ops-ranker_4_5 • I Shouldn’t Feel This Way https://www.amazon.com/dp/1400234808/?bestFormat=true&k=i%20shouldn%27t%20feel%20this%20way&ref_=nb_sb_ss_w_scx-ent-bk-ww_k1_1_14_de&crid=2F2RFU90MFD0B&sprefix=i%20shouldnt%20fee

    37 min

  8. 11/18/2025

    They're Talking About Me.

    This week’s episode, “They’re Talking About Me,” dives into what happens when your name is being used in stories you didn’t write. Through John 8, we unpack how Jesus covers, heals, and restores you when people misunderstand or misrepresent you — and we end with real steps to move forward without losing your peace.

    28 min
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hosted by Jessica, a space where faith isn’t about easy answers but real conversations. Each episode leans into honest stories, guest perspectives, and the kind of questions that challenge us to think deeper, grow stronger, and live out authentic faith. This isn’t a polished highlight reel it’s the in-between moments, the raw struggles, and the hope we find along the way.

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  • Creator
    Jessica
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    55
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2024 Not So Parallel
  • Show Website
    Not So Parallel