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The recent episode of "Not Well" offers a rich tapestry of discussions that traverse a wide array of experiences and reflections, encapsulating both the personal and the universal aspects of the gay experience. Early in the episode, a candid discourse emerges around the persistent fears of contracting HIV—a fear deeply ingrained from their youth, reflecting the enduring anxiety surrounding the disease despite advancements in medical understanding and treatment. This is juxtaposed with a lighter, though no less complex, exploration of bathhouse culture, where anonymity and adventure collide, offering a glimpse into the less-discussed corners of gay social life.

As the episode unfolds, the conversation pivots to relational dynamics, particularly the caution advised when younger gay men interact with significantly older men. This topic opens a broader discussion on the nuances of mentorship, exploitation, and companionship within the community. In a shift towards the personal, the hosts share a humorous yet telling incident from a family group chat that surprises everyone involved, revealing the unexpected ways in which modern technology can alter family interactions. This familial theme is tenderly expanded as they reminisce about the bonding experiences between grandparents and grandchildren, illustrating the threads of connection that span generations.

Midway through the episode, the dialogue takes a whimsical turn with discussions about living out a fantasy life with a hypothetical $10 million, and the comedic yet poignant mishaps during a karaoke session involving offensive language, highlighting the social sensitivities and the sometimes-blurred lines between humor and offense. The episode also delves into cultural trivia with a debate on what exactly corned beef is, proving that even the most mundane topics can spark engaging banter. As the hosts recount their adventures walking to a gay bar and the stark differences in perceived attractiveness standards in Columbus versus NYC, they unpack the complex interplay of beauty, body image, and self-esteem within the gay community.

Concluding the episode, discussions become introspective and critical as the hosts discuss vacation planning around sexual adventures, punctuality in social engagements, and the evolving dynamics on platforms like Grindr regarding gender identity and tucking. These conversations not only reflect personal growth and community changes but also challenge the listeners to think about acceptance, respect, and the diverse ways of being within the LGBTQ+ spectrum. The episode wraps up with plans for a trip to New York City in June, promising more stories, reflections, and undoubtedly, a few misadventures, cementing "Not Well" as a podcast that both entertains and enlightens its audience.
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In a particularly engaging episode of "Not Well," hosts Bobby and Jim delve into a rich tapestry of topics, highlighted by Bobby's recent escapades in New York City and Jim's distinct take on several universally relatable subjects. The episode is a vibrant mix of humor, personal stories, and societal observations that listeners have come to love and expect from the duo.


Bobby kicks things off with an enthralling recount of his New York City adventures, from the vibrant gay nightlife at the Eagle to an unexpected experience of an earthquake. His stories of freedom, sexual exploration, and candid social interactions in the city's bars provide a deep dive into personal liberation and the complexities of identity expression in such open environments.


Jim, not to be outdone, steers the conversation towards a lighter, yet equally thought-provoking direction, discussing the peculiar charm of candy cigarettes. This leads to a nostalgic journey back to childhood, questioning the impact of such products and the oddities of marketing strategies aimed at children.


Front porch parties come under Jim's scrutiny next, where he humorously contrasts them with their backyard counterparts, drawing on personal anecdotes to illustrate the unique social dynamics they foster. Jim's reflections are a humorous ode to community gatherings and the subtle societal cues that dictate our social interactions in these spaces.


The conversation takes another turn as Jim shares his musings on Shih Tzu dogs, adding a dose of humor to the episode. His comedic take on pet preferences and the personalities of different dog breeds elicits laughter while subtly questioning why we gravitate towards certain pets.


Throughout the episode, a hilarious incident involving the TSA and a personal item of Bobby's offers a moment of comic relief, highlighting the absurdities often encountered during travel. This story ties back to the overarching theme of the episode: navigating the unexpected with humor and grace.

00:00:00 - Introduction and playful banter about upcoming trip and bear parties
00:03:09 - Reaction to a voicemail about JVN's appearance and past
00:10:34 - Allure and societal implications of candy cigarettes
00:16:49 -  shih tzu and bacon.
00:19:57 - Reflections on front porch parties.
00:23:29 - Encounter with TSA over a personal item
00:23:51 - Coining the summer's hottest insult: "Creole banjee bitch."
00:39:29 - Exploration of sexual freedom and experiences at a gay bar in NYC.
00:45:33 - Earthquake experience in NYC, adding an unexpected twist to the trip.
00:52:00 - Delving into the vibrant food and culture scene in Brooklyn.
01:00:00 - The energy and excitement of attending a joc
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Hey there, our fabulous "Not Well" listeners! It's your favorite dynamic duo, Bobby and Jim, back at it again with another episode that's sure to have you laughing, thinking, and maybe even clutching your pearls a little bit.
So, let's dive right in, shall we? We couldn't resist starting off with the hot mess express that is the "plane lady" fiasco. I mean, come on, what kind of cocktail was she on? We're thinking a generous pour of Xanax, a splash of Ambien, and maybe even a sprinkle of meth for that extra oomph. But hey, we're not judging… okay, maybe a little.
Moving on to the queen herself, Lizzo. Girl, what is going on? Taking a break? We need to talk about this. And don't even get us started on her dance crew and the desperate need for a "glow up." We're here to spill the tea, and trust us, there's plenty to go around.
On a more personal note, yours truly just celebrated 12 years of living my best life in Columbus. Can you believe it? Leaving the nest and spreading my wings was the best decision ever. And speaking of leaving the nest, is it just us, or is it trippy to watch our siblings become parents? Like, suddenly they're all "mom" and "dad," and we're over here still trying to figure out how to adult.
Okay, let's talk about something that really grinds our gears: the pharmaceutical industry. Have you seen the prices of drugs like Ozempic? It's like they're trying to bankrupt us while lining their own pockets. It's time for a reality check, folks.
And finally, the solar eclipse. Are we excited? Meh. We've got mixed feelings. But you know what really eclipses our enthusiasm? When people in our community become parents and suddenly lose their spark. We said what we said.
Alright, that's a wrap for this episode of "Not Well." If you're new here, buckle up, buttercup. We're not holding back. And to our ride-or-die listeners, we love you more than a drag queen loves a good wig. Until next time, stay fabulous and stay "Not Well.
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Hey everyone, it's your hosts Bobby and Jim here with another wild ride of an episode of "Not Well." We've got a jam-packed show for you today, filled with everything from personal anecdotes to societal musings.
First off, we want to give a shout out to our sponsor, Dr. Scholl's Skin Tag Remover. If you're looking to get rid of those pesky skin tags, this might just be the solution for you.
In personal news, Bobby's been living it up and embracing his inner "show pony," while I've had a bizarre encounter with a fashion designer/music mogul at a local restaurant. We also discuss the complexities of dating and relationships, especially when it comes to navigating the gay scene.
We dive into some heavier topics as well, like the recent news surrounding P. Diddy and the implications of Cat Williams' explosive interview. It's a reminder that the entertainment industry has some dark corners that are often overlooked.
On a lighter note, we laugh about the absurdity of words like "extrajudicial" and the concept of "dickies" as a fashion statement. And in a moment of reflection, we ponder the very nature of money and debt, inspired by a parable about a traveler in a small town.
We wrap up with a candid discussion on body image and the challenges plus-size travelers face. It's a topic that's close to home for many, and we don't shy away from the tough questions.
So buckle up, grab your Bulge Band (don't forget to use our promo code for a discount), and get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions. Whether we're talking about our latest escapades or the state of the world, we're here to keep it real and maybe even change your name to Bobette if the mood strikes.
Until next time, stay "Not Well" and keep living your truth!
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[00:02:33] Play date with another couple.
[00:03:47] Midlife crisis unfolding.
[00:08:07] Losing weight makes me slutty.
[00:11:18] Tattoo discussions with Spencer.
[00:15:18] Meeting a mysterious fashion designer.
[00:20:02] Dickies fashion history.
[00:23:20] Kate Middleton's body double confusion.
[00:25:38] Dick pic pet peeves.
[00:30:14] Puff Daddy's name changes.
[00:34:27] Money and Debt Concept.
[00:37:51] Is there excuse for being fat?
[00:40:17] The mental aspect of overeating.
[00:44:29] Supportive friendships and disappointments.
[00:47:22] Exploring curiosity about body parts.
[00:49:33] Hammerhead cock.
[00:53:43] Group showers at bars concept.
[00:56:54] Risk reduction with Doxypep.
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"Grab Life by the Bulge: Unzipping the Secrets of Flaccid Confidence, Digital Flirting, and the Twists of Modern Gay Banter" embarks on an unabashed journey into the heart of contemporary gay dating, social dynamics, and self-empowerment. This episode doesn't just scratch the surface but dives deep into the fabric of what it means to find one's place and pride within the gay community today.
The conversation opens up with a candid exploration of confidence, or as we playfully dub it, "flaccid confidence." We dissect the challenges and triumphs of embodying confidence in a world that constantly shifts the goalposts of what it means to be self-assured. Our discussion navigates through personal anecdotes and listener stories, revealing the nuanced layers of building and projecting confidence in both public and intimate settings.
Transitioning to the digital realm, we pull back the curtain on the art of digital flirting through platforms like Grindr. The episode offers a humorous yet insightful critique of Grindr bios, highlighting the creativity, clichés, and sometimes cringe-worthy attempts at connection found within these digital hallways. We share tips and tales from the front lines of online dating, offering listeners a blend of advice, cautionary tales, and the undeniable humor found in seeking connection through screens.
"Reverse gaslighting" emerges as a focal point of discussion, where we unravel the complexities of modern gay banter. This segment sheds light on the ways communication within the community can be both empowering and perplexing, leading to moments of misunderstanding, revelation, and laughter. Through a mix of expert insights and real-life scenarios, we explore how these dynamics play out in friendships, romantic entanglements, and casual conversations, offering a fresh perspective on navigating social interactions with wit, wisdom, and a little wariness.
Throughout the episode, keywords like gay life, digital flirting, community connection, and self-expression serve as beacons guiding the narrative. They encapsulate the essence of the discussion, resonating with listeners' experiences and aspirations.
In essence, "Grab Life by the Bulge" is more than just an episode; it's a manifesto for embracing the full spectrum of gay identity with boldness and authenticity. It invites listeners to laugh, learn, and lean into the complexities of contemporary gay life, armed with a deeper understanding of themselves and the digital and real-world arenas they navigate.

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Where should we go on our next trip? Needs to be a direct flight from Columbus Ohio 



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We kicked things off with a discussion about a political video that's giving off some serious "Handmaid's Tale" vibes. The eerie music, the dramatic speeches, and the over-the-top patriotic sentiments had us drawing parallels to Gilead and questioning the state of our union.
From politics, we shifted to a more personal note, recounting our recent experiences and the aftermath of a wild night out. We reminisced about the good old days of partying and how age is starting to take its toll on our ability to recover from a night of debauchery.
We also discussed the strange state of affairs in New York City, where an increased police and National Guard presence in the subway system has us feeling like we're living in a dystopian novel. The deployment of troops and the requirement for bag searches without any clear threat has us questioning the motives behind these security measures.
In lighter news, we chatted about our recent vacation and how jumping back into work feels like we never left. We laughed about the absurdities of daily life and the never-ending cycle of work and brief holidays.
As we continued, we delved into the peculiar world of celebrity behavior, specifically focusing on Amanda Bynes and her recent announcement about wearing wigs. We pondered what happened to the former child star and expressed our desire for a documentary to uncover the truth behind her transformation.
Lastly, we wrapped up with a critique of bizarre fashion choices from the past, like the fox stole, and how these items are still somehow making a comeback. It's a mix of horror and humor as we try to make sense of why anyone would want to wear a dead animal around their neck.
Remember, you can always reach out to us at 614-721-5336 or visit our website at www.notwellpodcast.com. And don't forget, life is short, so we're living it up as much as we can before we hit the big 4-0. Thanks for tuning in, and we'll catch you on the next one!



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