“Labour isn’t the scary bit. The postnatal period and being a mother is the scary time, because labour finishes and it can only last so long. The postnatal period never ever finishes, and that is the scary bit.” This episode brings back a lot of happy memories, as I am talking with the person who was my number one during pregnancy and giving birth, my midwife Rene Bozier, who is an experienced Private Midwife and Homeopath, specialising in women’s health and family wellness. Some women look at this experience as “let’s just get this baby out of me”, but others want it to be meaningful. Many women think about hiring a midwife, to have someone there for them. And, as Rene has mentioned, these women have that secret seventh sense, which tells them what the other person needs exactly, even if it is just a cold cloth, or a hand on their shoulder. There is an option that seems easier: a C-section. This, obviously, has some disadvantages, but many women feel that it is not as scary as natural birth. However – a bit of a spoiler alert – I wasn’t one of them. Then there is another question: to give birth at home, or in a disinfectant-smelling hospital? They both have advantages and disadvantages, but giving birth at home brings a relaxed environment. However, this requires a very important person – a midwife who is experienced and actually knows what is happening, especially for your first child. Rene was there for me and for more than 200 women, to talk them through what could happen, answer all their questions, and make sure their fears did not overwhelm the joy of having a little heart beating under their breast. She chose to become an Independent Midwife because she loved the individualised care she could give to women and their families this way. She is a fully-insured Private Midwife, specialising in home births, and she takes so much joy in looking after women throughout their childbearing years. She provides the full continuity of care during this time, which research has proved, many times, gives better outcomes for both mother and baby. Rene’s statistics show a high level of normality even for those who are not necessarily low-risk women. The care includes regular antenatal appointments in your own home, early labour support, birth support and four-to-six weeks of postnatal care. Along the way, she has acquired many extra skills to aid the care she gives. She is also able to complete the Newborn Exam (NIPE),required within 72 hours of birth. Rene is also a fully-insured, licenced homeopath; she uses this alongside her midwifery, but also for the rest of the family – it can be really useful for children and fathers too. She also offers flower remedies, as required. Rene has four children, three stepchildren, 13 grandchildren and one great grandchild! Oh, and two dogs. She has also just written a chapter in a book that covers her journey to where she is now. It is called “When the Goddess Calls”, Volume 2. If she hadn’t been there for me, my journey of becoming a mother twice would not have been as easy as it has been, that is for sure. If you liked this episode, or have any questions, please do not hesitate to contact me via the comment section. Before we begin, please hit SUBSCRIBE to the podcast to be inspired and know you are NOT alone! I would also love to hear from you so please leave a comment to let me know what you think! Please enjoy! Connect with us: Twitter, Linkedin or Instagram
