In this episode Tina and I share notes on... Relocation magick (we're both moving to new countries because of mysterious feelings!)Time line hopping (like every witch should know about)Conscious kink (and how it combines psychology, bdsm, and personal development, what's not to love?)Neurodivergent manifestation (yes, it's weirder and cooler than regular manifestation) Dissolving old realities (as one does)__________________________________________________ About Tina: Tina Estrella is a certified Existential Kink coach, a bodywork and massage therapist and former professional dominatrix. Her work blends shadow work, nervous system management, and inner-parts-based psychology. She helps help self-aware people who are done with pop psychology and mindset hacks understand why they keep self-sabotaging what they consciously want — and how to turn those inner conflicting parts into allies. Before coaching, Tina worked professionally with power dynamics, consent, desire, and shadow in a very embodied, real-world way. Today, she translates those principles into her work using the Internal Family Systems approach, radical self-approval as baseline for change, and somatic awareness. Instead of trying to “fix” anxiety, procrastination or shutdown, Tina supports her clients in seeing how these patterns are strategies driven by subconscious parts — often aiming at love, safety, or belonging. As someone who found out rather late in life that she fits in the AuDHD spectrum, Tina finds these concepts extremely helpful for people with neurodiversity, as they add a lot of ease and nuance to the usual tools for spicy-brained folks. You can find more of Tina on her show No Safeword in Real Life and you can find more of me, Noelani, in my offerings: Alchemy Altar Personal Closure ceremony $50 This is a call that is bespoke, ceremonial, tender and great for releasing and entering a new chapter. It’s a mini version of Threshold Crossing 1:1 ritual consults (by donation) - come if you are at a crossroads in your life - come if you want to reorient yourself within the larger cycles of time - come if there is something big you want to let go of and something big you want to welcome - especially come if you’re into the connection between death, alchemy, and the goddess Threshold Crossing 5 week container for a big release and co-created ritual plus integration. $300, payment plan available includes: 3, 1hr zoom sessions, including an in-depth, bespoke tarot spread ongoing voxer support audio or pdf ritual guide About me I’m Noelani, I’m the head witch at The Scarlet Muse I help sensitive people have profound closure and grow their magick. I am a trauma-informed Death Witch with a bottomless lust for connecting to consciousness, hermetics, and the Mystery (Babalon). And I am devoted to creating tender and hardcore spaces for endings within a culture that tends to ignore them. My job as a Death Witch is to support you honouring and closing what has already been so that you can experience the return of your creative power and grow your magick I trust your Mystery, paradox, and strangeness, I want more of it visible in the world.
