OffAir Podcast

Tolu 'Toolz' Oniru Demuren & Gbemi Olateru-Olagbegi
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Find out all of the latest gossip happening in Nigeria and across the world on the Off Air Podcast with Gbemi and Toolz. Keep up to date with entertainment news, fashion news, relationship advice, inspirational and motivations topics and lots more. Plus, they do not keep it PG!!OffAir with Gbemi and Toolz promises to be exciting and fun.

  1. 6H AGO

    Inside a Throuple: How Does It Really Work?

    What happens when three people decide to build one relationship together? On this episode of OffAir with Gbemi and Toolz, we meet Precious, Jeffrey and Chidinma, known as the Feral Throuple, who say their relationship is built on love, honesty and communication. They share how their unusual relationship started, how they deal with jealousy, family reactions, and the biggest misconceptions people have about polyamorous relationships. From meeting at the Ice cream store to navigating love with two partners, this conversation is honest, surprising and sometimes hilarious. Is this the future of relationships or just something that works for them? Watch as the hosts ask the questions everyone is thinking. Episode Chapters:  0:00 Introduction  1:12 What is a polycule?  3:05 How Jeffrey met Chidinma  5:20 How Precious entered the relationship  8:45 When the relationship became a throuple  12:10 Are they all in love?  15:00 Do their families know?  18:20 “Did you use jazz?”  21:10 What is intimacy like in a throuple?  26:40 Jealousy and communication  30:30 Planning children and marriage  36:15 Public reactions and criticism  41:40 Rapid fire questions  45:20 MonieZone with Moniepoint  52:10 Spin the Weekend with Gordon’s

    41 min

  2. MAR 6

    Tyra Banks Documentary, Nigerian Streamer chaos, Simi backlash & More

    In this episode, Gbemi and Toolz break down the Tyra Banks and America’s Next Top Model documentary, old reality TV culture, Cardi B performing three months postpartum, why Nigerian concerts need to do better, the drama around Nigerian streamers, social media pile-ons, false accusations, and the backlash around Simi’s “stop raping women’’ tweet.  They also get into celebrity deaths that hit hard, the dangers around travel destinations like Mexico, Tonto Dikeh’s latest rebrand, relationship drama making the rounds online, and much more.  Plus, there’s Money Zone with Moneypoint and a fun Spin the Weekend moment with Gordon’s Gin. If you enjoyed this episode, like, comment and subscribe. Drop the stories you want us to cover next in the comments. 00:00 — Season 9 kickoff  02:05 — Promo shoot   04:10 — Plato food shout out  06:00 — Tyra Banks documentary  11:20 — Reality TV then vs now  15:40 — Extreme makeovers debate  18:30 — Big Brother fame pressure  21:00 — Cardi B postpartum tour  23:20 — Beyoncé concert standard  26:00 — Nigerian concerts discussion  29:10 — Celebrity deaths & healthcare costs  33:40 — Mexico cartel crisis  38:10 — World Cup travel concerns  41:20 — Nigerian streamers drama  45:50 — IShowSpeed’s Africa tour  49:20 — Looking like you don’t need money  52:10 — Mirabel assault story  56:40 — Simi tweets controversy  1:02:10 — Feminism & Twitter dragging  1:06:00 — Engagement bait & fake stories  1:09:20 — Cubana Chief Priest DNA saga  1:12:50 — Tonto Dikeh rebrand  1:15:30 — Money Zone By Moneypoint  1:20:40 — Nigeria, money & savings  1:25:10 — Business tools & POS tracking  1:28:30 — Street fight story  1:31:10 — OffAir Reacts:  Throuple discussion  1:33:30 — Celebrity crushes  1:35:40 — Gordon's Cocktail time  1:38:00 — Gordon's Spin the Weekend (Brunch & Gist)  1:40:20 — Episode wrap-up #OffAirPodcast #GbemiAndToolz #TyraBanks #Simi #NigerianStreamers #CelebrityDrama #PopCulturePodcast

    1h 8m

  3. FEB 25

    Gen X vs Gen Z on Sex, Self-Pleasure & Partner Pleasure | Say It With Your Chest

    Welcome back to a special edition of The Off Air Show: Say It With Your Chest, in partnership with Durex. This episode gets real. We’re talking about self-pleasure vs partner pleasure, generational differences in sexuality, performance pressure, ego, communication in relationships, and whether monogamy is even natural. From Gen X to Millennials to Gen Z, our guests hold nothing back. We discuss: Discovering self-pleasure growing up Porn, performance myths & unrealistic expectations Is it insecurity if your partner self-pleasures? When does it become a problem in relationships? Feedback in the bedroom: How do you say what you want? Are younger generations more expressive or just more “loose”? The monogamy debate  We also spotlight Durex Performer, designed to help delay climax and support longer-lasting intimacy. This episode is funny, chaotic, uncomfortable and honest, just how we like it. 00:00 – Introduction: Say It With Your Chest 02:10 – Discovering Self Pleasure Growing Up 08:45 – Porn, Performance Pressure & Unrealistic Expectations 15:20 – Gen X vs Gen Z: Who Talks About Sex More? 22:30 – Walking in on Your Partner Self-Pleasuring 29:40 – Does Self Pleasure Mean You’re Unsatisfied? 36:15 – Communication, Ego & Giving Feedback 44:50 – Is Monogamy Natural? The Debate 53:10 – Sexual Exploration & Personal Boundaries 01:02:00 – When Does Self Pleasure Become a Problem? 01:10:15 – Final Thoughts & Audience Reactions

    50 min

  4. FEB 18

    Is Intimacy About Pleasure or Performance?

    In this episode of Say it with Your Chest, Gbemi and Toolz tackle the age old question: Is intimacy about pleasure or performance? They explore the pressure to perform in bed, how society influences our expectations, and why mutual pleasure should be the main focus. With a candid discussion about communication, intimacy, and even a few fun "This or That" questions from Instagram followers, this episode is an honest conversation about how to truly enjoy intimacy with your partner. Join Gbemi and Toolz as they break down the myths around performance anxiety and reveal how communication and connection are the real keys to a fulfilling intimate life. Plus, learn about Durex products designed to boost pleasure and confidence in the bedroom.  Tune in, #Sayitwithyourchest and let’s talk intimacy the right way! 00:00 - Intro 02:45 - Is Intimacy About Pleasure or Performance? 07:30 - Performance Pressure: The Societal Expectations 13:00 - Men vs. Women: Who Faces More Pressure? 17:45 - Fake It 'Til You Make It? 22:30 - Pressure vs. Pleasure 27:00 - This or That? Fun Listener Questions 32:15 - Durex Product Spotlight 36:00 - Closing Thoughts

    16 min

  5. FEB 11

    Taking Charge in the Bedroom: Dominance, Desire & Speaking Up ft. Slumflower

    In this special episode of Offair Air with Durex, Gbemi and Toolz are joined by the incredible Chidera aka Slumflower, a Sunday Times best-selling author, as they dive into the art of speaking your mind and owning your desires in relationships. With unfiltered honesty, they discuss how to confidently express your needs, especially when it comes to intimacy, and why it’s so important for both men and women to #SayItWithYourChest Slumflower takes us through her journey as a dominatrix, sharing valuable insights on power dynamics, and how she navigates dominance and submission in a healthy and consensual way. Plus, get the inside scoop on her experiences in relationships and how to communicate what turns you on without fear, shame, or hesitation. In partnership with Durex, this episode explores mutual pleasure, sexual confidence, and how both partners can truly understand each other’s needs in and out of the bedroom. 00:00 - Introduction: What Does It Mean to 'Say It With Your Chest'? 03:30 - Meet Slumflower: From Best-Selling Author to Dominatrix 07:00 - The Importance of Confidence in Communication 12:20 - Navigating Power Dynamics in Relationships 16:50 - Saying What You Want in Bed: How to Communicate Your Needs 22:00 - The Psychology of Men’s Submissive Tendencies 28:15 - Confidence, Consent, and Comfort: The Key to Great Sex 33:00 - Breaking Down Cultural Barriers: Owning Your Pleasure in Nigerian Society 39:30 - Sexual Exploration: How to 'Train' Your Partner (In a Fun Way) 44:00 - The Role of Praise: Why Men Love to Be Called 'Good Boy' 49:20 - Slumflower’s Take on Dominance, Submissiveness, and Consent 54:00 - A Conversation on Mutual Pleasure: Durex’s Role in Sexual Confidence 58:30 - Closing Thoughts: Speak Up, Own Your Desires, and Say It With Your Chest

    28 min

  6. FEB 4

    Who Sets The Rules In The Bedroom: Men or Women?

    In this episode of Say It With Your Chest, an OffAir mini-series brought to you by Durex, we talk intimacy, communication, confidence, protection, and the unspoken rules shaped by culture and judgement. From women carrying condoms to awkward pharmacy moments, playlists, compliments, and why silence kills the vibe. Nothing is off-limits. Join the conversation in the comments 👇  #SayItWithYourChest Proudly powered by Durex. 00:00 – If I were president… more money, less traffic, better sex  02:08 – Who really sets the rules in the bedroom?  07:06 – Why society assumes men should lead sexually  11:46 – Silence, fear & the pressure on women  18:36 – Women carrying condoms: smart or scandalous?  24:19 – Pharmacy judgement, church leaflets & shame culture  32:14 – Should intimacy rules be discussed earlier?  40:18 – Compliments, playlists & setting the mood  53:44 – Final takeaways: comfort, confidence & consent

    28 min

  7. JAN 28

    Kinks & Fantasies in Nigerian Bedroom

    In this special episode of 'OffAir,' hosts Gbemi and Toolz, along with guest Yeside Olayinka Agboola, founder, Oloricoitus, delve into the intriguing world of kinks, fantasies, and sexuality in Nigeria. They define kinks and fantasies and discuss the contrasts between public conservatism and private liberalism in Nigerian attitudes towards sex. The episode highlights the booming industry of aphrodisiacs and sex enhancers, and the importance of communication, emotional security, and kindness in exploring sexual preferences with partners. Practical steps for safe exploration, such as testing and using condoms, are covered. The episode concludes with myth-busting statements about kinks and sexual communication and a detailed overview of Durex products designed to enhance sexual experiences. The hosts encourage viewers to explore their kinks and fantasies safely and communicate openly with their partners.  #SayItWithYourChest #OffAirXDurex 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview  00:35 Defining Kinks and Fantasies  03:26 Exploring Nigerian Attitudes Towards Sex  05:38 Communicating Desires and Overcoming Insecurities  11:13 Safe Sex Practices and Misconceptions  13:20 Encouraging Exploration and Emotional Security  19:09 Myth Busters and Product Recommendations  22:23 Final Thoughts and Closing Remarks

    23 min

  8. 12/12/2025

    Simplify Global Payments with Paga: Eliminating Financial Hurdles for Africans Abroad

    In this episode of FX Files an OffAir Specials brought to you by Paga, we address a significant concern for Nigerians and Africans when traveling abroad, the frustration of having cards from Nigerian banks declined due to network issues or suspected fraud.  Our hosts, Gbemi And Toolz discuss the challenges of making payments overseas and introduce Paga's innovative solution. Paga US now allows anyone with a US residential address to open a fully regulated US bank account, offering physical and virtual Visa cards, and seamlessly integrate with services like Apple Pay and Google Pay.  The highlight of this special episode is an insightful conversation with the CEO of Paga, Tayo Oviosu who explains how the new service removes the hassle of traditional banking processes, enabling users to manage multiple currencies, send and receive money effortlessly, and maintain a strong financial link back home.  Tune in to learn how Paga is transforming banking for the African diaspora, making global financial transactions smoother and more accessible.

    36 min
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Find out all of the latest gossip happening in Nigeria and across the world on the Off Air Podcast with Gbemi and Toolz. Keep up to date with entertainment news, fashion news, relationship advice, inspirational and motivations topics and lots more. Plus, they do not keep it PG!!OffAir with Gbemi and Toolz promises to be exciting and fun.

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  • Creator
    Tolu 'Toolz' Oniru Demuren & Gbemi Olateru-Olagbegi
  • Years Active
    2021 - 2026
  • Episodes
    26
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 OffAir Podcast
  • Show Website
    OffAir Podcast

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