Since I Became a Mother

Taylor Rae Roman
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Since I Became a Mother is a podcast about the things motherhood changes, the things no one warns you about, and where we figure out who we are becoming, together. Hosted by Taylor Rae Roman, the show creates an honest and supportive space for new mothers navigating the emotional, physical, and practical realities of early motherhood. Season One explores some of motherhood’s toughest and most consuming questions: baby sleep, feeding, caretaking, mental health, changing relationships, finding yourself, and building a community that understands what you are experiencing. "Before I was a mother, I barely noticed mothers, and now, they're all I see." I see you.

Episodes

  1. 06/02/2025

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E10: Postpartum Recovery: All That Happens to Your Body During Pregnancy & What Happens After Birth (#45)

    There’s so much focus on pregnancy and birth—but what about after? In this episode, I’m breaking down the physical changes that happen to your body during pregnancy, what actually happens immediately after birth, and the basics of postpartum healing. I’m also sharing key stats, what no one really tells you about recovery, and how to start preparing for postpartum beyond just the physical—because your emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being matter, too. In this episode, we talk about… Some info and stats on postpartum and postpartum depression Changes that happen to your body during pregnancy What happens to your body during pregnancy and immediately after The basics for postpartum physical healing What happens during postpartum, beyond the physicalResources: Follow me at @taylorraeroman, everywhere Full episode transcription and citations: https://taylorraeroman.com/on-the-outside-podcastKeep In Touch: Visit taylorraeroman.com Instagram @taylorraeroman TikTok @taylorraeroman YouTube @taylorraeroman ShopMy: https://shopmy.us/taylorraeroman Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/taylorraealmonte — includes my baby registry picks and postpartum favoritesDiscount Codes: Natural Cycles: Use code TAYLORRAE for 15% off an annual plan + free thermometer / natural-cycles.sjv.io/xLQLkx Tinyhood: Use code TAYLORR20 for 20% off up to 12 months of membership / https://tinyhood.sjv.io/c/2688864/957205/12776. Disclaimer: The information shared on On the Outside is for informational and educational purposes only. I am not a doctor, medical professional, or licensed healthcare provider. The content of this podcast is based on my personal experiences and research, but it should not be taken as medical advice. Always consult with your doctor or a qualified healthcare professional before making any decisions related to your pregnancy, health, or well-being. Every pregnancy is unique, and what works for one person may not be right for another.

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E10: Postpartum Recovery: All That Happens to Your Body During Pregnancy & What Happens After Birth (#45)

  2. 05/26/2025

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E9: The Ultimate Pregnancy Checklist: Organizing for Baby's Arrival (#44)

    Feeling overwhelmed by all the to-dos? In this episode, I’m sharing the top things to remember each trimester, how to stay organized, and the tools that have helped me manage all the tasks that come with preparing for parenthood. In this episode, we talk about… Top things to remember to do each trimester How to stay organized Tools for managing all of the tasks that come with becoming a parentResources: Follow me at @taylorraeroman, everywhere Full episode transcription and citations: https://taylorraeroman.com/on-the-outside-podcastKeep In Touch: Visit taylorraeroman.com Instagram @taylorraeroman TikTok @taylorraeroman YouTube @taylorraeroman ShopMy: https://shopmy.us/taylorraeroman Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/taylorraealmonte — includes my baby registry picks and postpartum favoritesDiscount Codes: Natural Cycles: Use code TAYLORRAE for 15% off an annual plan + free thermometer / natural-cycles.sjv.io/xLQLkx Tinyhood: Use code TAYLORR20 for 20% off up to 12 months of membership / https://tinyhood.sjv.io/c/2688864/957205/12776. Disclaimer: The information shared on On the Outside is for informational and educational purposes only. I am not a doctor, medical professional, or licensed healthcare provider. The content of this podcast is based on my personal experiences and research, but it should not be taken as medical advice. Always consult with your doctor or a qualified healthcare professional before making any decisions related to your pregnancy, health, or well-being. Every pregnancy is unique, and what works for one person may not be right for another.

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E9: The Ultimate Pregnancy Checklist: Organizing for Baby's Arrival (#44)

  3. 05/19/2025

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E8: Doulas: Finding One and Why You Need One (#43)

    If you’ve ever wondered what a doula actually does—or whether you really need one—this episode is for you. I’m breaking down what doulas do, why having one can make a huge difference in your birth experience, and why Black women and other marginalized birthing people may especially benefit from this kind of support. Whether you’re already pregnant or just planning ahead, this is essential info for an empowered, supported birth. In this episode, we talk about… What is a doula, and what do they do Why you might want a doula, including  why Black women & marginalized folks might especially want one How to find a doula, including free & subsidized doula programs in the U.S. and the average cost of a doula My personal experience with my doulaResources: Follow me at @taylorraeroman, everywhere Full episode transcription and citations: https://taylorraeroman.com/on-the-outside-podcastKeep In Touch: Visit taylorraeroman.com Instagram @taylorraeroman TikTok @taylorraeroman YouTube @taylorraeroman ShopMy: https://shopmy.us/taylorraeroman Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/taylorraealmonte — includes my baby registry picks and postpartum favoritesDiscount Codes: Natural Cycles: Use code TAYLORRAE for 15% off an annual plan + free thermometer / natural-cycles.sjv.io/xLQLkx Tinyhood: Use code TAYLORR20 for 20% off up to 12 months of membership / https://tinyhood.sjv.io/c/2688864/957205/12776. Disclaimer: The information shared on On the Outside is for informational and educational purposes only. I am not a doctor, medical professional, or licensed healthcare provider. The content of this podcast is based on my personal experiences and research, but it should not be taken as medical advice. Always consult with your doctor or a qualified healthcare professional before making any decisions related to your pregnancy, health, or well-being. Every pregnancy is unique, and what works for one person may not be right for another.

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E8: Doulas: Finding One and Why You Need One (#43)

  4. 05/12/2025

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E7: Birth Prep & Delivery: Essential Tips for a Smooth Experience (#42)

    Let’s talk birth prep—because labor might be unpredictable, but preparing for it doesn’t have to be. In this episode, I’m sharing the products, tools, and practices that have been game-changers in my third trimester. From childbirth education to creating a birth plan that actually reflects your values, we’re covering it all. I also break down why pelvic floor strength, core stability, and mobility are key for labor. Whether you’re weeks away from delivery or just starting to plan, this episode is packed with practical tips to help you feel informed, empowered, and ready. In this episode, we talk about… Some products and tools I’ve loved using and recommend for birth preparation What preparation in terms of childbirth education might look like, including online courses, in-person courses and books I’ve learned a lot from Creating a birth plan Why Pelvic Floor, Core Strength & Mobility for Labor are important and how you can implement them into your routine And other useful tools to prepare for childbirthResources: Follow me at @taylorraeroman, everywhere Full episode transcription and citations: https://taylorraeroman.com/on-the-outside-podcastKeep In Touch: Visit taylorraeroman.com Instagram @taylorraeroman TikTok @taylorraeroman YouTube @taylorraeroman ShopMy: https://shopmy.us/taylorraeroman Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/taylorraealmonte — includes my baby registry picks and postpartum favoritesDiscount Codes: Natural Cycles: Use code TAYLORRAE for 15% off an annual plan + free thermometer / natural-cycles.sjv.io/xLQLkx Tinyhood: Use code TAYLORR20 for 20% off up to 12 months of membership / https://tinyhood.sjv.io/c/2688864/957205/12776. Disclaimer: The information shared on On the Outside is for informational and educational purposes only. I am not a doctor, medical professional, or licensed healthcare provider. The content of this podcast is based on my personal experiences and research, but it should not be taken as medical advice. Always consult with your doctor or a qualified healthcare professional before making any decisions related to your pregnancy, health, or well-being. Every pregnancy is unique, and what works for one person may not be right for another.

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E7: Birth Prep & Delivery: Essential Tips for a Smooth Experience (#42)

  5. 05/05/2025

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E6: My Pregnancy Update at 32 Weeks (#41)

    In this solo episode, I’m sharing all the updates from week 32 of pregnancy—what’s feeling good, what’s feeling not so good, and how I’m mentally, physically, and emotionally preparing for birth. From baby kicks to birth plans to third-trimester cravings, come along as I keep it real about this wild, beautiful journey. Resources:Follow me at @taylorraeroman, everywhereFull episode transcription and citations: https://taylorraeroman.com/on-the-outside-podcast Keep In Touch:Visit taylorraeroman.comInstagram @taylorraeromanTikTok @taylorraeromanYouTube @taylorraeromanShopMy: https://shopmy.us/taylorraeromanAmazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/taylorraealmonte — includes my baby registry picks and postpartum favorites Discount Codes: Natural Cycles: Use code TAYLORRAE for 15% off an annual plan + free thermometer / natural-cycles.sjv.io/xLQLkx Tinyhood: Use code TAYLORR20 for 20% off up to 12 months of membership / https://tinyhood.sjv.io/c/2688864/957205/12776. Disclaimer: The information shared on On the Outside is for informational and educational purposes only. I am not a doctor, medical professional, or licensed healthcare provider. The content of this podcast is based on my personal experiences and research, but it should not be taken as medical advice. Always consult with your doctor or a qualified healthcare professional before making any decisions related to your pregnancy, health, or well-being. Every pregnancy is unique, and what works for one person may not be right for another.

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E6: My Pregnancy Update at 32 Weeks (#41)

  6. 04/28/2025

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E5: Doctor's Appointments, Tests & All About Interventions: What to Expect During Pregnancy (#40)

    From your first ultrasound to glucose tests and beyond, we’re breaking down what actually happens at prenatal appointments. Whether you're newly pregnant or getting close to delivery, this episode is your guide to feeling informed and empowered at every stage. Let’s get into medications, procedures and choices that YOU get to make. In this episode, we talk about… What to expect in terms of doctor's appointments during pregnancy What type of testing most commonly happens What medical interventions you might expect around labor and delivery Remember, this might be different state to state or country to country Resources: Follow me at @taylorraeroman, everywhere Full episode transcription and citations: https://taylorraeroman.com/on-the-outside-podcastKeep In Touch: Visit taylorraeroman.com Instagram @taylorraeroman TikTok @taylorraeroman YouTube @taylorraeroman ShopMy: https://shopmy.us/taylorraeroman Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/taylorraealmonte — includes my baby registry picks and postpartum favoritesDiscount Codes: Natural Cycles: Use code TAYLORRAE for 15% off an annual plan + free thermometer / natural-cycles.sjv.io/xLQLkx Tinyhood: Use code TAYLORR20 for 20% off up to 12 months of membership / https://tinyhood.sjv.io/c/2688864/957205/12776. Disclaimer: The information shared on On the Outside is for informational and educational purposes only. I am not a doctor, medical professional, or licensed healthcare provider. The content of this podcast is based on my personal experiences and research, but it should not be taken as medical advice. Always consult with your doctor or a qualified healthcare professional before making any decisions related to your pregnancy, health, or well-being. Every pregnancy is unique, and what works for one person may not be right for another.

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E5: Doctor's Appointments, Tests & All About Interventions: What to Expect During Pregnancy (#40)

  7. 04/21/2025

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E4: Prenatal Vitamins 101: What to Take, Why It Matters, and How to Choose Quality (#39)

    Pregnancy vitamins can be overwhelming, but I’ve got you covered. In this episode, we break down everything you need to know about prenatal vitamins—from the must-have nutrients to spotting quality brands and certifications that actually matter. In this episode, we talk about… The purpose of prenatal vitamins How prenatal vitamins differ and why there are so many different formulations How to find high-quality prenatal vitamins and why this is important When you should start (and stop) taking a prenatal vitamin The importance of folic acid above all other supplements Other prenatal vitamins that are recommendedResources: Follow me at @taylorraeroman, everywhere Full episode transcription and citations: https://taylorraeroman.com/on-the-outside-podcastKeep In Touch: Visit taylorraeroman.com Instagram @taylorraeroman TikTok @taylorraeroman YouTube @taylorraeroman ShopMy: https://shopmy.us/taylorraeroman Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/taylorraealmonte — includes my baby registry picks and postpartum favoritesDiscount Codes: Natural Cycles: Use code TAYLORRAE for 15% off an annual plan + free thermometer / natural-cycles.sjv.io/xLQLkx Tinyhood: Use code TAYLORR20 for 20% off up to 12 months of membership / https://tinyhood.sjv.io/c/2688864/957205/12776. Disclaimer: The information shared on On the Outside is for informational and educational purposes only. I am not a doctor, medical professional, or licensed healthcare provider. The content of this podcast is based on my personal experiences and research, but it should not be taken as medical advice. Always consult with your doctor or a qualified healthcare professional before making any decisions related to your pregnancy, health, or well-being. Every pregnancy is unique, and what works for one person may not be right for another.

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E4: Prenatal Vitamins 101: What to Take, Why It Matters, and How to Choose Quality (#39)

  8. 04/14/2025

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E3: Future Dads, Listen Up: How Your Health Impacts Pregnancy, Mom, and Baby—Starting Before Conception (#38)

    Conception isn’t just about the person carrying the baby! Think it's all on mom? Think again—this episode breaks down how a future dad’s health, especially semen quality, can influence conception, pregnancy outcomes, maternal health, and even baby’s long-term well-being. In this episode, we talk about… How sperm health impacts fertility and baby’s long-term health How semen quality impacts mom Key factors affecting sperm health & fertility like nutrition and supplementation, sleep and stress, substance use, environmental toxins and lifestyle factors Timing and planning to implement these changes And my husband’s specific preconception protocolResources: Follow me at @taylorraeroman, everywhere Full episode transcription and citations: https://taylorraeroman.com/on-the-outside-podcastKeep In Touch: Visit taylorraeroman.com Instagram @taylorraeroman TikTok @taylorraeroman YouTube @taylorraeroman ShopMy: https://shopmy.us/taylorraeroman Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/taylorraealmonte — includes my baby registry picks and postpartum favoritesDiscount Codes: Natural Cycles: Use code TAYLORRAE for 15% off an annual plan + free thermometer / natural-cycles.sjv.io/xLQLkx Tinyhood: Use code TAYLORR20 for 20% off up to 12 months of membership / https://tinyhood.sjv.io/c/2688864/957205/12776. Disclaimer: The information shared on On the Outside is for informational and educational purposes only. I am not a doctor, medical professional, or licensed healthcare provider. The content of this podcast is based on my personal experiences and research, but it should not be taken as medical advice. Always consult with your doctor or a qualified healthcare professional before making any decisions related to your pregnancy, health, or well-being. Every pregnancy is unique, and what works for one person may not be right for another.

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E3: Future Dads, Listen Up: How Your Health Impacts Pregnancy, Mom, and Baby—Starting Before Conception (#38)

  9. 04/07/2025

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E2: My Preconception Protocol: What I Did to Prepare (#37)

    Trying to conceive isn’t just about timing—it’s about optimizing your body and mind. I’ll take you through my personal preconception plan, from supplementation and sobriety to mindset shifts, so you can feel empowered on your own journey. In this episode, we talk about… Everything I did starting 2 years before TTC and my specific, detailed personal protocol timeline We’ll cover lifestyle changes I made: Nutrition, hydration, stress management. sleep and limiting toxins Supplements and vitamins My mental health preparation, including how me and my husband prepared as a team Medical appointments I made before getting pregnant How cycle tracking worked for me And I’ll share the books and types of research I consulted if you want to learn more Remember, everyone’s journey is different. This is what worked for me and lead to a great pregnancy outcome, but there’s only so much we can control. For me, I knew doing as much as I possibly could would help me feel my best, knowing I tried my best and gave my best effort. I didn’t want to have any regrets or wish I had done things differently, so I gave myself peace of mind but locking into what the research says and giving it my best shot. I hope this episode helps demystify some of the information out there and helps you find a game plan for your preconception journey if that’s what you’re looking for!Resources: Follow me at @taylorraeroman, everywhere Full episode transcription and citations: https://taylorraeroman.com/on-the-outside-podcastKeep In Touch: Visit taylorraeroman.com Instagram @taylorraeroman TikTok @taylorraeroman YouTube @taylorraeroman ShopMy: https://shopmy.us/taylorraeroman Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/taylorraealmonte — includes my baby registry picks and postpartum favoritesDiscount Codes: Natural Cycles: Use code TAYLORRAE for 15% off an annual plan + free thermometer / natural-cycles.sjv.io/xLQLkx Tinyhood: Use code TAYLORR20 for 20% off up to 12 months of membership / https://tinyhood.sjv.io/c/2688864/957205/12776. Disclaimer: The information shared on On the Outside is for informational and educational purposes only. I am not a doctor, medical professional, or licensed healthcare provider. The content of this podcast is based on my personal experiences and research, but it should not be taken as medical advice. Always consult with your doctor or a qualified healthcare professional before making any decisions related to your pregnancy, health, or well-being. Every pregnancy is unique, and what works for one person may not be right for another.

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2E2: My Preconception Protocol: What I Did to Prepare (#37)

  10. 03/31/2025

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2 E1: Before the Bump: An Intro to Preconception Health and TTC (#36)

    Thinking about getting pregnant? In this episode, we break down the basics of preconception health, why it matters, and how you can set yourself up for a smooth journey into pregnancy. In this episode, we talk about… Why preconception health is important Some basic statistics on TTC Key areas to consider and adjust in your life if you’re trying to improve your preconception health Understanding your cycle and fertility Male partner’s role in preconception health Emotional and mental preparation for TTC This is the first of 10 episodes in this season, and I’ll be deep diving into several of these topics in their own episode, but this is an initial overview. There is SO much information out there, so my goal is to synthesize it as much as possible so you don't have to do all of the reading and research that I did! Next week, I’ll be deep-diving into my own personal preconception protocol that worked amazingly well for me, so look for that one. I came to this information through reading several books and a lot of peer-reviewed research published in medical and scientific journals. On the website, I’ve linked all of the sources for this episode as always. Resources: Follow me at @taylorraeroman, everywhere Full episode transcription and citations: https://taylorraeroman.com/on-the-outside-podcast Keep In Touch: Visit taylorraeroman.com Instagram @taylorraeroman TikTok @taylorraeroman YouTube @taylorraeroman ShopMy: https://shopmy.us/taylorraeroman Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/taylorraealmonte — includes my baby registry picks and postpartum favorites Discount Codes: Natural Cycles: Use code TAYLORRAE for 15% off an annual plan + free thermometer / natural-cycles.sjv.io/xLQLkx Tinyhood: Use code TAYLORR20 for 20% off up to 12 months of membership / https://tinyhood.sjv.io/c/2688864/957205/12776. Disclaimer: The information shared on On the Outside is for informational and educational purposes only. I am not a doctor, medical professional, or licensed healthcare provider. The content of this podcast is based on my personal experiences and research, but it should not be taken as medical advice. Always consult with your doctor or a qualified healthcare professional before making any decisions related to your pregnancy, health, or well-being. Every pregnancy is unique, and what works for one person may not be right for another.

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: S2 E1: Before the Bump: An Intro to Preconception Health and TTC (#36)

  11. Season 2 Trailer

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: Coming Soon: On the Outside, Season 2

    Pregnancy is a time of excitement, transformation, and, let’s be real, feeling completely on the outside of your own body. In this season, I’m bringing you the raw, unfiltered truth about growing a human—from preconception prep to postpartum recovery. Whether it’s navigating doctor’s appointments or dealing with all the wild changes no one warns you about, we’re talking about it. Because even in one of life’s most universal experiences, it’s easy to feel like an outsider—but you’re not alone. See you out there. Resources: Follow me at @taylorraeroman, everywhere Full episode transcription and citations: https://taylorraeroman.com/on-the-outside-podcastKeep In Touch: Visit taylorraeroman.com Instagram @taylorraeroman TikTok @taylorraeroman YouTube @taylorraeroman ShopMy: https://shopmy.us/taylorraeroman Amazon Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/taylorraealmonteThe content in this season of On the Outside is based on my personal experiences and research. I am not a medical professional, and nothing shared should be taken as medical advice. Always consult your doctor or a qualified healthcare provider before making any decisions related to pregnancy, preconception, or your health. Natural Cycles: Use code TAYLORRAE for 15% off an annual plan + free thermometer Tinyhood: Use code TAYLORR20 for 20% off up to 12 months of membership / https://tinyhood.sjv.io/c/2688864/957205/12776

    [FROM THE "ON THE OUTSIDE" ARCHIVES]: Coming Soon: On the Outside, Season 2

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Since I Became a Mother is a podcast about the things motherhood changes, the things no one warns you about, and where we figure out who we are becoming, together. Hosted by Taylor Rae Roman, the show creates an honest and supportive space for new mothers navigating the emotional, physical, and practical realities of early motherhood. Season One explores some of motherhood’s toughest and most consuming questions: baby sleep, feeding, caretaking, mental health, changing relationships, finding yourself, and building a community that understands what you are experiencing. "Before I was a mother, I barely noticed mothers, and now, they're all I see." I see you.

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  • Creator
    Taylor Rae Roman
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    11
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Since I Became a Mother, 2026
  • Show Website
    Since I Became a Mother

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