Oops Parents

Oops Parents

For the international parents in Germany who have a hundred questions and don't know who to ask. A videocast and content series with expert voices and parent stories. Messy, honest, practical.

Episodes

  1. 1d ago

    S1 E06 - Part 1 I Nele I Your baby's first year in Germany: A pediatrician's practical advices

    In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Nela Marie Peters, a Berlin-based pediatrician with over 11 years of experience and mom of a toddler.If you're expecting a baby in Germany or recently became a parent, this conversation will save you hours of confusion and maybe a few sleepless nights. For real! Whether you're an international parent trying to understand Germany's healthcare system or simply looking for practical advice from a pediatrician, this episode is for you. In this episode we talk about:• How to find a pediatrician in Germany (and why you should do it before birth)• Your baby's first-year screening and vaccination schedule• What every parent should know before leaving the hospital• The biggest myths about fever and when you should actually worry• Is my baby eating enough? How pediatricians know• Weight gain, breastfeeding, formula, and common newborn concerns• The questions parents ask pediatricians most often• How Germany's pediatric healthcare system works for international familiesNele’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fragdrnele/Nele’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@fragdrneleTo connect with Nele (you can write in English): https://drnelemariepeters.simplybook.it/v2/Her book (in German): https://www.amazon.de/dp/B0C29783FY?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_dp_6P5CAQSPBS443WC8EE9B&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPOTM2NjE5NzQzMzkyNDU5AAGnhzDayyc5sdDhGEejfWCw7VJjRN3_zRbqRCWksvSsAoUlU03_9egntzrbGTE_aem_AVoQJStx-HwTs41ANy9Apw&utm_content=link_in_bio&utm_medium=social&utm_source=ig---Oops Parents is a videocast and content series for international parents navigating pregnancy and parenthood in Germany. Honest, practical, and a little chaotic in the best way.Join our newsletter: [www.oopsparents.com](http://www.oopsparents.com)Instagram: @oopsparentsSpotify: @oopsparentsApple Podcasts: @oopsparentsTikTok: @oopsparents

    S1 E06 - Part 1 I Nele I Your baby's first year in Germany: A pediatrician's practical advices
  2. Jul 14

    S1 E04 I Sari | Parenting between the cultures: Elterngeld & kita application as unmarried parent

    In this episode, we sat down with Sari Torbiörnsson. She is a music supervisor from Sweden, raising her daughter in Berlin with her partner from Croatia. Neither of them is German. Neither of them is married to the other. And both of them had to learn Germany's parenting bureaucracy from scratch starting with: Vaterschaftsanerkennung (paternity acknowledgment), before they even got to Elterngeld, Elternzeit, and the Kita application process. In this episode, Sari shares her honest, unfiltered experience of: • Vaterschaftsanerkennung as an unmarried couple: what it is, why it matters, and why doing it before birth saves months of stress • Elterngeld and Elternzeit: missed deadlines, delayed payments, and navigating a system that communicates only by post • The Kita application process and getting a Kitagutschein in Berlin, and why timing your Jugendamt application early matters • What actually helped: family centers (Familienzentrum), midwife (Hebamme) support, and the community of fellow international parents in Berlin • Her honest "Oops" moment as a new parentIf you're an immigrant or expat parent in Germany navigating pregnancy, birth, or early parenthood without family nearby, this episode is for you. You are not the only one. ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Oops Parents is a videocast and content series for international parents navigating pregnancy and parenthood in Germany. Honest, practical, and a little chaotic in the best way. Join our newsletter: www.oopsparents.com Instagram: @oopsparents TikTok: @oopsparents Apple Podcasts: @oopsparents

    S1 E04 I Sari | Parenting between the cultures: Elterngeld & kita application as unmarried parent
  3. Jun 23

    S1 E02 I Your midwife in Germany: Everything you need to know

    You want to give birth and just found out that you're pregnant in Germany. Congratulations! Now what? In this episode, we sit down with Jutta Wohlrab, a Berlin-based midwife with 40 years of experience working with international families. She breaks down everything you actually need to know: when to start looking for a midwife, what a midwife does that your Frauenarzt doesn't, and why postnatal midwife care in Germany is one of the best-kept secrets in the system. In this episode: - What to do the moment you find out you're pregnant in Germany - How to actually find a midwife (hint: it's not ChatGPT) - The different types of midwives and what each one covers - Home birth vs. birth center vs. hospital. what's really the difference - What insurance covers and what you'll likely pay out of pocket - Why your partner absolutely needs to be in that birth prep class - Hypnobirthing: What it is and why Jutta swears by it - Postnatal care: What a midwife does after birth, and for how long - Postnatal depression: Signs, support, and why silence is the real danger About Jutta Wohlrab:40 years experienced midwife. Public speaker. Jutta has spent her career supporting international families through pregnancy, birth, and the early weeks of parenthood in Berlin. She offers birth preparation courses, Hypnobirthing, and postnatal programs find everything at elementsofbirth.de, in her website or through social media accounts. 🌐 Website: https://elementsofbirth.de/ 📸 Instagram: @juttawohlrab 🎵 TikTok: @MidwifeJuttaWohlrab Check her book Happy Birthing Days (English version): https://www.amazon.de/Jutta-Wohlrab-ebook/dp/B01IX9CSEU?ref_=ast_author_mpb 📍 Useful resources mentioned in the episode: 1. hebamme.de — midwife directory 2. amily.de — midwife booking platform (Jutta has some reservations — she explains why in the episode) 3. Your insurance provider (AOK, DAK, TK or private) — call them for a local midwife list 4. Your gynecologist's office — can also give you a referral list. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Oops Parents is a videocast and content series for international parents navigating pregnancy and parenthood in Germany. Honest, practical, and a little chaotic in the best way. Join our newsletter: www.oopsparents.com Instagram: @oopsparents TikTok: @oopsparents Apple Podcasts: @oopsparents

    S1 E02 I Your midwife in Germany: Everything you need to know

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For the international parents in Germany who have a hundred questions and don't know who to ask. A videocast and content series with expert voices and parent stories. Messy, honest, practical.