Open up & Talk

Nichole Folino
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Open Up & Talk is where we stop pretending everything’s fine and actually talk about what being human feels like. Hosted by grief and relationship clarity coach Nichole Folino, each episode blends reflection, real stories, and a little humour about life’s hardest and weirdest moments. Open Up and Talk reminds you that being messy is part of being alive. Sometimes it’s deep. Sometimes it’s funny. Always, it’s honest. Welcome to Open Up and Talk, where honest conversations make a big impact. Remember, life is messy, but talking about it makes the mess okay.

  1. Sep 13

    Finding your way back-Parallel Relationship Series

    What happens when you realize your relationship has become disconnected but neither of you is ready to give up on it? In this episode of the Parallel Relationship Series, Nichole explores what it can look like to find your way back to each other after emotional distance has settled in. Reconnection isn’t necessarily about getting back to who you used to be. You’ve both changed. Life has happened. Instead, it may be about getting curious about who you are now and whether these versions of you can build something new together. Nichole talks about rebuilding friendship, communicating from curiosity instead of blame, creating small moments of connection, addressing unresolved hurt, and remembering that one person cannot rebuild a relationship alone. Sometimes you don't want a different partner. You want a different relationship with the partner you already have. And sometimes, despite love and effort, finding your way back may not be possible and that information matters too. This episode is about creating an opening for connection without pretending every relationship can or should be saved. Because finding your way back isn't about recreating the past. It's about discovering whether there's still something worth building together.

  2. Sep 6

    Grieving a relationship that still exists-Parallel Relationship Series

    What happens when your relationship hasn’t ended, but you find yourself grieving what it used to be? In this episode of the Parallel Relationship Series, Nichole explores the complicated grief that can exist inside a relationship that is still very much a part of your life. You may still share a home, raise a family, manage responsibilities, and move through everyday life together while quietly missing the closeness, affection, friendship, or version of yourselves that once existed. Nichole talks about grieving not only who you were as a couple, but the future you imagined, the person your partner once was to you, and even who you used to be within the relationship. She also explores how grief can sometimes show up as resentment, frustration, or emotional withdrawal rather than sadness. But grief can tell us something important: it often points toward what still matters to us. For some, recognizing what has been lost may open the door to honest conversations and rebuilding connection. For others, it may bring clarity that what they're grieving is something they no longer want to rebuild. This episode isn't about telling you to stay or telling you to leave. It's about giving yourself permission to acknowledge what has changed, understand what you're missing, and begin asking what you truly want moving forward. Because sometimes you can love someone and still be hurting. And sometimes the first step toward clarity is simply allowing yourself to admit that.

  3. Aug 16

    Is this what long term relationships become-Parallel Relationship Series

    Is emotional distance just part of being in a long-term relationship? Do all couples eventually lose some of the closeness they once had? Or is that quiet feeling that something is missing worth paying attention to? In this episode of the Parallel Relationship Series, Nichole explores the difference between a relationship naturally changing over time and a relationship becoming emotionally disconnected. Long-term relationships are supposed to evolve. Life gets busy, responsibilities change, routines settle in, and the way we connect may look very different than it did in the beginning. But feeling lonely, unseen, or disconnected from your partner doesn't have to simply become the new normal. This episode explores why we sometimes normalize unhappiness, what helps long-term couples maintain emotional connection, and why the question may not be “Is this normal?” but rather, “Is this the relationship I want to have?” There is hope here, too. Distance doesn't always mean the end of a relationship. Sometimes recognizing what's been missing is exactly where reconnection begins. And if you're realizing you may need clarity about whether this relationship is still right for you, there's space for that conversation too. If you've ever quietly wondered, “Is this just what relationships become?” — this episode is for you.

  4. Jun 28

    Manifesting & Conscious Creating with Andy Hoffer

    Manifestation, Mindset & Becoming a Conscious Creator with Andy Hoffer What if manifestation wasn't about wishing for a different life, but about intentionally creating one through small, meaningful steps? In this episode of Open Up and Talk, Nichole is joined by manifestation coach Andy Hoffer to explore what it really means to become a conscious creator of your life. Together, they unpack common misconceptions about manifestation, the importance of mindset, and how our thoughts, beliefs, and daily choices influence the direction we're moving in. Andy shares how holistic practices, self-awareness, and consistent small actions can help create meaningful change, while reminding us that manifestation isn't about perfection, it's about intention. Whether you're completely new to manifestation or curious about how to bring more purpose and possibility into your life, this conversation offers practical insights and gentle encouragement to help you take your first steps. Because sometimes the life you're hoping for doesn't begin with one giant leap, it begins with one small, intentional choice. You can find Andy on Linkedin at https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachandyhoffer/

  5. May 24

    Physical Intimacy & Connection-Parallel Relationship Series

    Where Did the Affection Go? Physical Intimacy and Connection In this episode of the Parallel Relationship Series, Nichole explores the quiet shifts that can happen in physical intimacy and affection within long-term relationships. As life becomes busier and emotional distance grows, many couples begin noticing changes in closeness, touch, and connection, often without fully understanding how or when things changed. Nichole talks about the link between emotional and physical intimacy, how stress, exhaustion, routine, and unspoken emotions can quietly impact connection, and why many people struggle to talk openly about this part of their relationship. This episode offers both honesty and hope, because sometimes these shifts are part of emotional disconnection that can be repaired, and sometimes they bring clarity about what’s no longer working. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering where the closeness went, or questioning whether what you’re experiencing is normal, this conversation will likely resonate deeply.

  6. May 10

    Designing spaces for healing & transformation with Annette Farha

    Grief doesn’t only change how we feel, it can change how we experience the spaces around us and how we see ourselves within them. In this episode of Open Up and Talk, Nichole sits down with intuitive designer, transformational coach, and author Annette Farha to explore the connection between grief, identity, and the environments we live in. Together, they talk about how our physical spaces can either hold us in who we were or gently support who we are becoming. Annette shares how intentional design can create a sense of safety, clarity, and alignment, helping us reconnect with ourselves during times of loss and transition. This conversation offers a unique and grounded perspective on healing, reminding us that transformation isn’t only internal, it can be reflected and supported in the spaces we move through every day. If you’re navigating change, grief, or feeling disconnected from yourself, this episode will invite you to look at your environment in a new way and consider what it might be asking of you next. You can connect with Annette at www.adesigndiscovery.com

  7. Apr 26

    Roommate Syndrome-Parallel relationship series

    From Partners to Roommates, Understanding Roommate Syndrome In this episode of the Parallel Relationship Series, Nichole explores a quiet but common experience in long-term relationships, roommate syndrome. It’s that feeling of sharing a home, responsibilities, and routines with your partner, but emotionally feeling more like roommates than romantic partners. When life gets busy with work, parenting, stress, and responsibilities, connection can slowly take a back seat. Conversations become logistical, affection fades, and many couples find themselves wondering when the closeness changed. Nichole talks about how roommate syndrome develops, why emotional intimacy and functional partnership are not the same thing, and how many couples quietly live in this space for years without realizing it. This episode offers both hope and honesty, because sometimes reconnection is possible, and sometimes clarity means recognizing the relationship may no longer be what you want it to be. If you’ve ever felt emotionally lonely inside your relationship, this conversation is for you.

  8. Apr 19

    When conversations go quiet-Parallel relationship series

    In this episode of the Parallel Relationship Series, Nichole explores what happens when communication in a relationship slowly shifts, not into conflict, but into silence. Many couples don’t stop talking altogether. Instead, conversations become shorter, more surface-level, and focused on managing life rather than sharing it. Over time, this can create emotional distance that’s hard to explain, even to yourself. Nichole walks through how communication patterns change, why emotional disconnection is more common than we think, and how busyness and differing communication styles can quietly shape a relationship. This episode offers both clarity and hope, a reminder that distance often develops gradually, and with awareness, connection can begin to rebuild in small, meaningful ways. If you’ve ever felt like you and your partner are talking, but not really connecting, this conversation will likely resonate.

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Open Up & Talk is where we stop pretending everything’s fine and actually talk about what being human feels like. Hosted by grief and relationship clarity coach Nichole Folino, each episode blends reflection, real stories, and a little humour about life’s hardest and weirdest moments. Open Up and Talk reminds you that being messy is part of being alive. Sometimes it’s deep. Sometimes it’s funny. Always, it’s honest. Welcome to Open Up and Talk, where honest conversations make a big impact. Remember, life is messy, but talking about it makes the mess okay.

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  • Creator
    Nichole Folino
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    21
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Nichole Folino
  • Show Website
    Open up & Talk