Other Peoples Parenting

Schuyler Hurwitz and Karen Quinn
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'Other People's Parenting' is hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of early childhood education companies Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent). They read contemporary, classic, and controversial parenting books and give you the gist with a sense of humor, so you can implement the methods or just be able to discuss them at school functions.

Episodes

  1. Free Range Parenting - Could You Give Your Child This Much Freedom?

    1D AGO

    Free Range Parenting - Could You Give Your Child This Much Freedom?

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) - we cover Lenore Skenazy's influential work, "Free Range Kids," which presents a parenting philosophy that encourages independence in children. We delve into the author's critique of contemporary parenting fears, particularly the pervasive "worst first thinking" that often leads parents to overprotect their kids. Throughout the discussion, we reflect on the societal shift towards helicopter parenting and the implications it has for children's development. Schuyler shares her own experiences of navigating independence as a child, alongside Karens insights as an advocate for a more liberated approach to parenting. Ultimately, they emphasize the importance of allowing children to explore and learn from their surroundings, thereby fostering resilience and self-reliance. The conversation presented in this episode revolves around Lenore Skenazy's seminal work, 'Free Range Kids.' Skenazy's thesis posits that the pervasive culture of overprotectiveness undermines children's capacity to navigate the world autonomously. This episode serves as a compelling exploration of the balance between safeguarding children and allowing them the freedom to explore their surroundings, ultimately advocating for a more liberated approach to parenting that fosters competency and confidence in the next generation. Takeaways: In this episode, we elucidate the core tenets of Lenore Skenazy's philosophy on parenting, emphasizing the necessity of granting children greater autonomy in their daily lives.We explore the concept of 'worst first thinking', a psychological phenomenon that often leads parents to overestimate potential dangers their children might face.Skenazy advocates for the importance of allowing children to experience manageable risks, which fosters independence and resilience as they grow into adulthood.The podcast touches upon the contrasting parenting styles between generations, highlighting how societal perceptions of child safety have evolved dramatically over the years. Links referenced in this episode: lenoreskanazy.comhabitcoach.comtestingmom.comworldsworstmom.comletgrow.orga...

    55 min
  2. The Grown Ups Guide to Teenage Humans - Practical Advice For Raising Teens

    FEB 4

    The Grown Ups Guide to Teenage Humans - Practical Advice For Raising Teens

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) - we discuss "The Grown-Up's Guide to Teenage Humans" by Josh Shipp, a book about the complexities of parenting during the tumultuous teenage years. We dive into the challenges faced by both parents and adolescents, emphasizing the necessity for open communication and understanding. We explore ideas like the importance of establishing supportive relationships in a teenager's life, fostering resilience and growth. We address various traps that parents may fall into, including the comfort, approval, control, and performance traps, which can hinder effective parenting. We advocate for intentional engagement and the cultivation of trust, asserting that these approaches can significantly enhance the parent-teen dynamic and contribute to a more harmonious household. The episode underscores the critical role of parental involvement and the emotional complexities that accompany the transition from childhood to adulthood, as well as the importance of maintaining open lines of communication even when teenagers exhibit a desire for independence. Takeaways: The book 'The Grown Up's Guide to Teenage Humans' by Josh Shipp offers valuable insights into understanding the complexities of adolescence.It emphasizes the importance of parental presence and meaningful communication during the tumultuous teenage years.The podcast discusses the necessity for parents to adopt a coaching mindset rather than a controlling one as their children enter adolescence.Common challenges faced by teenagers, such as peer pressure and identity crises, are explored with practical strategies for parents to address them.The episode highlights the significance of building trust with teenagers to foster open communication about difficult topics.It also covers the critical role of supportive adults in a teenager's life, akin to the 'Rodney' concept introduced in the discussion. Links referenced in this episode: habitcoach.com Companies mentioned in this episode: Habit CoachTesting MomGrown Up's Guide to Teenage Humansa href="https://joshshipp.com/"...

    41 min
  3. The Anxious Generation - Is Social Media Melting Your Childs Brain?

    JAN 28

    The Anxious Generation - Is Social Media Melting Your Childs Brain?

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) - we cover Jonathan Haidts popular and controversial book about the dangers of social media on the developing brain. The focus of this episode is "The Anxious Generation," which highlights the alarming rise in mental health issues among Gen Z. We explain the author's argument that this demographic's heightened anxiety can be attributed to two primary factors: the overprotectiveness of parents and the pervasive influence of smartphones that tether children to digital interactions, inhibiting their engagement in play-based childhood experiences. Throughout our discussion, we reflect on the detrimental impact of constant connectivity and social media on children's development, particularly in relation to their attention spans and emotional well-being. We explore practical recommendations for parents seeking to mitigate these challenges by fostering healthier environments for their children. We emphasize the necessity of encouraging real-world interactions and the cultivation of resilience in a rapidly evolving technological landscape. Outline: The Anxious Generation Overview – 4 partsHow childhood has changed and mental illness (depression, anxiety, self-harm) has risen because of 2 trends –Over-protection in the real world – kids used to play freely after school/weekends – learned to socialize, problem solve, make friendsUnder-protection in the virtual worldThe harms that have resulted from new phone-based childhoods (beginning in 1990) – kids getting smart phones with access to the internet, constant notifications, social media, online video gamingWhat to do to reverse the damageHow to work together to fix the problemPart 2 – the decline of play-based childhoodsIn-person play is critical to childhood development – without it, children will be socially, cognitively, emotionally impaired – need free play with kids of many ages where there is some physical risk teaches children to look after themselves, handle emotions, take turns, resolve conflicts, socialize. (“Play based childhood”)As language develops in the first 5 years of life, cultural/social learning develops at ages 9 – 15 and this learning window closes at puberty.If they get a smartphone at 10-11, they’re getting socialized into Instagram, tik tok, games instead of through real life friendships and experiences. They learn what’s desired / how to talk, behave, emote by posts that get...

    38 min

  4. JAN 21

    French Kids Eat Everything - The French Way to Cure Picky Eaters!

    On this episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) - we learn how the French teach their kids to enjoy, appreciate, and be adventurous about food! The primary focus of this podcast episode revolves around the examination of "French Kids Eat Everything," a parenting book authored by Karen Le Billon, which explains the French methods in instilling healthy eating habits in children from a young age. We delve into the cultural contrasts between French and North American approaches to food, particularly noting how French children are encouraged to embrace a varied diet without the fussiness commonly observed among their American counterparts. The discussion highlights the significance of structured meal times and the philosophical ideas that govern the French relationship with food, emphasizing the importance of teaching children to appreciate nourishment rather than using it as an emotional crutch. Throughout the episode, we share personal anecdotes and reflections on parenting practices, illustrating the challenges and triumphs experienced while attempting to foster healthier eating habits. Ultimately, we advocate for the principles outlined in the book as valuable insights for any parent seeking to cultivate a positive relationship between their children and food. 12:20 The comedian who said this was Ronnie Cheng. 26:20 The story about kids pecking food off the floor happened in this book- not Bringing Up Bèbè. Takeaways: In the podcast episode, we explore the principles outlined in the book 'French Kids Eat Everything,' which emphasizes teaching children to embrace a diverse range of food from an early age.The author discusses the contrasting approaches between American and French parenting regarding food, highlighting the belief that exposure to different foods fosters healthier eating habits.Central to the discussion is the idea that French children are encouraged to accept new foods through repeated exposure, often requiring as many as fifteen attempts before acceptance.The podcast delves into the cultural significance of meal times in France, where eating is regarded as a ceremonial event, fostering a deeper appreciation for food and social interaction.Listeners learn that French parents typically maintain structured meal times, which helps children develop a healthy relationship with food, reducing impulsive eating behaviors.The episode concludes with a recommendation for parents to adopt some of these French principles to cultivate healthier eating habits in their own children, emphasizing the importance of variety and exposure. Links referenced in this episode: testingmom.com Companies mentioned in this episode: span

    46 min

  5. JAN 14

    Bringing Up Bébé - How to raise your bébé like a Parisian!

    On the pilot episode of 'Other People's Parenting' hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent) - you can learn how to raise a chic, civilized and cosmopolitan bébé a la a Parisian! Show Notes: 12:24 'The ten thousand hour rule' is a reference to the Malcolm Gladwell book 'Outliers'. 26:43 *Correction : This story is actually told in the book 'French Kids Eat Everything'. 40:00 This book was published in 2012.

    51 min
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'Other People's Parenting' is hosted by mother daughter duo Karen Quinn (New York Times best selling author of The Ivy Chronicles , founder of early childhood education companies Habit Coach and Testing Mom) and Schuyler Hurwitz (amateur parent). They read contemporary, classic, and controversial parenting books and give you the gist with a sense of humor, so you can implement the methods or just be able to discuss them at school functions.

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