63 episodes

Janis and Carly Spindel are an all-star mother-daughter matchmaking team who devote their lives to bringing love to the world. This podcast will bring you inside the minds of men and teach you how to land (and keep) the relationship of your dreams.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com
Instagram: @janisandcarlyspindel

Mike McGregor Photography

Our Love Sphere Janis and Carly Spindel

    • Society & Culture
    • 3.7 • 9 Ratings

Janis and Carly Spindel are an all-star mother-daughter matchmaking team who devote their lives to bringing love to the world. This podcast will bring you inside the minds of men and teach you how to land (and keep) the relationship of your dreams.

Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com
Instagram: @janisandcarlyspindel

Mike McGregor Photography

    Date Yourself

    Date Yourself

    In this episode, we're flipping the script on traditional dating and diving into the empowering concept of dating yourself. In a world where romantic relationships often take center stage, it's easy to overlook the most important relationship of all: the one with ourselves.  We're here to shine a spotlight on the transformative power of self-love and self-discovery. We'll explore why it's crucial to prioritize nurturing your relationship with yourself, and how doing so can lead to greater happiness, fulfillment, and personal growth.



    Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com



    Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel



    Books:

    - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

    - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker



    Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography 

    • 11 min
    First Date Dialog

    First Date Dialog

    In this episode, we’ll discuss the Dos and Don'ts of what to talk about on a first date. Filtering what you discuss is important to create a positive impression, avoid controversy, maintain mystery, and focus on genuine connection. You don’t want to have what we call diarrhea of the mouth Whether you're a seasoned dater or stepping into the dating scene for the first time, these insights will help you navigate the conversation minefield with ease. 



    Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com



    Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel



    Books:

    - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

    - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker



    Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

    • 10 min
    Dating With a Crazy Travel Schedule

    Dating With a Crazy Travel Schedule

    In this episode, we’ll discuss balancing dating with a hectic travel schedule. Whether you're jetting for work, exploring new destinations, or simply leading a fast-paced life, finding time for budding romance can feel like a challenge. 

    From setting clear expectations to making the most of the time you have together, we’ll explore practical strategies and insights for navigating the early stages of dating with a crazy travel schedule or demanding commitments. If you're trying to find a meaningful connection, but often find yourself juggling a hectic schedule, we’ve got you covered!



    Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com



    Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel



    Books:

    - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

    - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker



    Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

    • 8 min
    Love Bombing

    Love Bombing

    Have you ever experienced an intense whirlwind of affection in the early stages of a relationship, only for it to fizzle out just as quickly? What lies beneath the surface of this intense affection? In today's episode, we'll discuss love bombing, which is a manipulative tactic used to gain control over another person in a relationship.  Love bombing involves showering the person with excessive affection, attention, and praise, creating an intense emotional bond that can be hard to break free from. But behind the grand gestures and constant communication lies a calculated strategy to exploit vulnerability and fulfill the love bomber's own needs for power and validation. In this episode, we'll dive into the signs of love bombing, its impact on victims, and how to establish healthy boundaries to protect yourself from manipulation and emotional abuse. 



    Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com



    Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel



    Books:

    - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

    - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker



    Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

    • 12 min
    Ex Encounters

    Ex Encounters

    In this episode, we’ll discuss a scenario that many of us have experienced or even feared: bumping into an ex. Whether it's at the grocery store, a social event, or even unexpectedly on the street, these encounters can stir up a whirlwind of emotions and leave us scrambling for the right response. We will explore the art of gracefully navigating these encounters with maturity and dignity and guide you through the maze of navigating unexpected run-ins with former partners. From maintaining composure and setting boundaries to post-encounter reflections, we've got you covered.



    Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com



    Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel



    Books:

    - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

    - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker



    Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

    • 10 min
    Mastering the Art of Texting

    Mastering the Art of Texting

    In this episode, we’ll discuss the dynamic world of texting, which is a crucial part of courtship and sets the tone for budding relationships. We'll unravel the intricacies of pre-date communication and post-date etiquette and help you master the art of texting. Whether you're a seasoned texter or new to the dating game, we’ve got you covered!



    Website: www.janisspindelmatchmaker.com



    Connect on Instagram/Facebook: @janisandcarlyspindel



    Books:

    - Get Serious About Getting Married: 365 Proven Ways to Find Love in Less Than a Year

    - How to Date Men: Dating Secrets from America's Top Matchmaker



    Photo credit: Mike McGregor Photography

    • 6 min

Customer Reviews

3.7 out of 5
9 Ratings

9 Ratings

CCharmed ,

Engaging and insightful

I love the mother and daughter approach to dating and relationships. They really get to the core of the issue and give you suggestions on how to move forward. A must guide for navigating the dating world today.

Jbr1111 ,

Shockingly patronizing

These ladies must either think their listeners come from Mars or have very low IQs. They claim to offer “insight into the minds of men” although it’s clear they have no clue whatsoever.

KarinKatherine Florida ,

Empowering

Fantastic podcast that really empowers women. Great advice and fun podcast to listen to. Janis is a storyteller and firecracker!

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