Our Other Stories

Madeleine Longoria Garcia

This is a podcast inspired by sonder*. Join your host, Madeleine Longoria Garcia, as she navigates deep-dive conversations that cut through the small talk and get into the stories that make us who we are. In an effort to re-humanize the strangers we pass every day and learn more than what is covered on resumes and social media, it's time to start sharing Our Other Stories. *Sonder is the feeling one has on realizing that every other individual one sees has a life as full and real as one's own. Coined in 2021 by John Koenig in The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows.

  1. Areli Barrera Grodski: Fumbling to Your Truth

    10/03/2025

    Areli Barrera Grodski: Fumbling to Your Truth

    Summary In this episode, I speak with Areli Barrera Grodzki, co-founder of Little Waves Coffee Roasters in a conversation that feels like a love letter to North Carolina and the places we call home. We discuss Areli's journey growing up in Cherokee, the challenges of leadership in the coffee industry, and the importance of storytelling and cultural identity. Areli shares her thoughts on embracing imperfection, the immigrant experience, and the significance of personal development in professional settings. Our conversation highlights the interconnectedness of personal and professional growth, as well as the value of community and cultural heritage. Areli and I explore themes of personal identity, cultural representation, and the importance of community. We talk about the impact of nature on our lives, the role of therapy in personal growth, and the journey towards self-love and acceptance. The episode emphasizes the significance of embracing one's roots and the power of voice in shaping narratives. Through our shared experiences, we highlight the beauty of vulnerability and the strength found in connection with others. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections 09:05 The Connection Between Places 17:26 Exploring North Carolina's Richness 38:53 The Impact of Place on Personal Growth 44:59 Fumbling Through Your Truth 01:02:39 Navigating Identity and Confidence 01:11:40 Cultural Perspectives and Language 01:22:18 The Power of Guidance in Therapy 01:31:06 Embracing the Messy Journey Keywords Areli Barrera Grodzki, Little Waves Coffee Roasters, cultural identity, immigrant experience, leadership, storytelling, coffee industry, personal development, community, entrepreneurship, personal growth, cultural identity, community, therapy, resilience, self-love, representation, nature, change, empowerment, North Carolina, Seattle, Gabriel Garcia Marquez

    1h 39m
  2. Helen Pelayo: Finding Our Way & Taking Risks

    09/25/2025

    Helen Pelayo: Finding Our Way & Taking Risks

    Summary In this episode, I speak with Helen Pelayo, founder of Lobos Gym in Portland. We explore the importance of community, cultural identity, and the journey of building a supportive community. Helen shares her personal experiences with loneliness, the impact of online communities, and the transformation of her business from a franchise to an independent gym. Our conversation highlights the significance of empowerment through movement and the role of fitness in overall well-being, emphasizing that gyms should be inclusive spaces for everyone. We cover so much ground in this conversation—the complexities of relationships, parenting, and cultural identity. Helen shares the challenges of long-distance parenting, especially within the Latino community, and the societal expectations placed on mothers. She also shares her personal journey of moving to Oregon and the impact it had on her family dynamics as we delve into the importance of community support, the significance of cultural labels, and the need for open conversations about identity. This episode emphasizes the importance of taking risks, embracing change, and using privilege to amplify voices in the Latine community. Chapters 00:00 Connecting Through Community 08:51 Building an Authentic Business 24:18 Building a Supportive Community 35:35 Embracing Change and New Opportunities 46:46 Feminist Matriarchy in Latino Culture 54:23 Identifying with Latino vs. Hispanic Terminology 01:08:31 Using Privilege to Speak Up Keywords community, cultural identity, fitness, empowerment, diversity, belonging, gym, health, Latina, entrepreneurship, parenting, relationships, cultural identity, Latina voices, gender roles, personal growth, community support, risk-taking, cultural diversity, long-distance parenting, Portland, Latine Heritage Month, Hispanic Heritage Month

    1h 10m
  3. Marisa “Ritzy” Estrada Rivera: Master of None & Honoring Names

    09/22/2025

    Marisa “Ritzy” Estrada Rivera: Master of None & Honoring Names

    Summary In this conversation, Ritzy and I sit down to explore what it means to be a change maker, the journey of self-identification, and the importance of community support. We discuss the nonlinear paths of our lives, the impact of neurodiversity, and the significance of reclaiming names and identities. Our conversation emphasizes the need for discernment in relationships and decision-making, the value of hard conversations, and the role of social media. Ritzy and I also explore the profound significance of names and identity and Ritzy shares the story of how she discovered that her name has been wrong on every legal document for years. We emphasize the need for self-acceptance and vulnerability, highlighting how storytelling can create safe spaces for authentic conversations. We reflect on the challenges faced by individuals of color in embracing our identities and the importance of amplifying diverse voices through media. A note that the place name I forgot in this episode is Wapato* as corrected in the video's captions. Chapters 00:00 The Journey of a Change Maker 08:32 Navigating Identity and Activism 16:54 Facing Hard Conversations and Growth 31:28 The Evolution of Identity: From Marisa to Ritzy 46:10 Reclaiming Identity: The Significance of Names 01:02:38 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Acceptance 01:12:04 The Importance of Storytelling and Connection Keywords change maker, identity, community, neurodiversity, personal growth, self-acceptance, empowerment, names, values, social media, identity, names, heritage, cultural significance, self-acceptance, storytelling, vulnerability, authenticity, Latina voices, personal journey, Word to Your Mama

    1h 21m

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This is a podcast inspired by sonder*. Join your host, Madeleine Longoria Garcia, as she navigates deep-dive conversations that cut through the small talk and get into the stories that make us who we are. In an effort to re-humanize the strangers we pass every day and learn more than what is covered on resumes and social media, it's time to start sharing Our Other Stories. *Sonder is the feeling one has on realizing that every other individual one sees has a life as full and real as one's own. Coined in 2021 by John Koenig in The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows.