Out Loud & Laughing

Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz

Out Loud & Laughing is a hilarious and heartfelt podcast where queer cousins Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz share their unique perspectives on life, love, and everything in between. Through a comedic lens, they dive into hot topics, life lessons, and the highs and lows of growing up queer. With laughter as their compass, Bryan and Jon create a space where identity and humor intersect, fostering connection, self-expression, and unapologetic joy. Whether you're here for the laughs, the relatability, or a mix of both, this is the show that celebrates being your authentic self—out loud and laughing.

  1. 1d ago

    The Anatomy of Confidence – Shedding Small-Town Shame for NYC, Jockstraps, & 16-Hour Days with Zane Kazan

    Most people think of the adult entertainment industry as a realm where passion and ambition clash with shame and stereotypes. Zane Kazan, a trailblazing actor, content creator, and founder of Helio Menswear, shatters that misconception by unapologetically owning his sexuality while aiming for mainstream greatness. In this candid conversation, he reveals how he's balancing bold business ventures, a sex-positive brand, and the relentless pursuit of his dreams — all without sacrificing authenticity. You’ll discover how Zane built his empire while working 16-hour days launching his menswear line, overcoming marketing challenges with Meta’s strict policies, and using his extensive knowledge to rebrand and amplify his reach across nine platforms. He shares the secret to maintaining a positive attitude through setbacks, including tens of thousands lost and industry chaos, by reading voraciously and always aspiring to be the smartest person in the room. We also break down Zane’s unique approach to owning his identity: embracing his body, unlearning shame, and turning radical self-love into both his personal and professional power. His story isn’t just about success — it’s about redefining what it means to be unapologetically you in a world eager to box people in. Perfect for anyone craving motivation with real talk, this episode offers fierce inspiration and practical tactics to own your truth and level up on your terms. X: @ZaneKazan Instagram: @zane.kazan TikTok: @zane_kazan Instagram: @heliomenswearco Website: Helio Men’s Wear (heliomenswear.com) YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Zane Kazan 01:10 A Day in the Life of Zane 02:12 Early Influences and Entering the Industry 04:07 Balancing Ambition and Authenticity 06:00 Goals and Challenges in Business 07:25 The Importance of Continuous Learning 09:11 Embracing Sexuality and Body Positivity 11:02 Behind the Scenes of Adult Content Creation 12:27 Future Aspirations and Rebranding 14:29 This or That: Quickfire Questions 19:21 Closing Thoughts and Social Media Links Zane Kazan, adult entertainment, sex positivity, branding, entrepreneurship, social media, mental health, hustle, authenticity —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    The Anatomy of Confidence – Shedding Small-Town Shame for NYC, Jockstraps, & 16-Hour Days with Zane Kazan

  2. 6d ago

    Disney High Seas Tales From a Quadruple Threat Puppeteer with Conor Devoe

    Most theater kids dream of turning their childhood shyness into a dazzling career — and Connor DeVoe did just that, blending singing, dancing, acting, and even puppetry into a vibrant, multifaceted life. But it wasn’t always glamorous; he reveals how early stage fright almost kept him from singing “Tomorrow” at preschool and shares the gritty realities of moving to New York City with an unpaid internship in his pocket. In this episode, Connor pulls back the curtain on the unpredictable journey from shy kid to Broadway swing, dance captain on Disney cruises, and puppeteer for top-tier productions. You'll discover how he managed 36 tracks at once, navigated the heartbreak of being cut from roles due to equity status, and found resilience to keep going through the chaos of showbiz. We break down the surprising crossover between puppeteering and charisma, and why his secret weapon is charm over manipulation—plus, the hilarious way his puppet skills might just help him find love on the high seas. Get inspired by Connor’s blend of humor, hustle, and authenticity as he shares lessons about grit, reinvention, and staying true to your passion. Whether you’re an aspiring performer, a creative soul, or just someone chasing a dream in the face of adversity, this episode is your reminder that your quirkiest talents could be your greatest superpower. Instagram: @conordevoe TikTok: @conordevoe Website: conordevoe.com YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Connor DeVoe: A Quadruple Threat 02:58 The Journey to New York City: Grit and Growth 06:22 The Art of Performance: Balancing Multiple Roles 09:04 Puppetry and Personal Connections: A Unique Perspective 12:00 Dating and Relationships: Insights from the Stage 15:02 This or That: Fun Rapid-Fire Questions 18:55 Closing Thoughts and Future Endeavors theater, Broadway, Disney, puppetry, musical theater, cruise line, acting, singing, dancing, performer journey —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    Disney High Seas Tales From a Quadruple Threat Puppeteer with Conor Devoe

  3. Aug 11

    Flipping the Script on Queer Gymnastics while Balancing the Creative Hustle with Andrew Chupp

    Uncover the inspiring journey of Andrew Chupp, a true embodiment of multi-talented excellence who’s redefining what it means to be a modern athlete and activist. From elite gymnastics and content creation to advocating for LGBTQ visibility on the global stage, Andrew’s story is a masterclass in balancing passion, purpose, and authenticity. When most of us are just trying to get out of bed, Andrew spends his days coaching youth, shooting real estate, creating viral gymnastic content, and preparing for the Gay Games in Valencia—an event that’s more than just a competition, but a milestone for LGBTQ athletes worldwide. In this episode, you’ll discover how Andrew's diverse talents fuel his mission to increase visibility and foster community in the queer space while breaking down the toxic stereotypes often associated with fitness culture. We break down Andrew’s secret to staying creative without burnout, the vital importance of mental health in athletic training, and his no-nonsense approach to body image and nutrition. He shares how authenticity and passion are the true metrics of success—and why his focus on confidence-building is transforming lives, one cartwheel at a time. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the toxic pressures of fitness or thought about stepping into the spotlight as a queer athlete, this episode is your call to action. Andrew’s story proves that you don’t have to choose between being strong and being true to yourself. His upcoming journey to the Gay Games isn’t just about medals but about representation, impact, and living fully out loud. Join us to learn from a trailblazer who’s not only flipping through routines but flipping the narrative around LGBTQ athletes worldwide. Instagram: @andrewchupp Facebook: facebook.com/andrew.chupp2/ YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UC_LyI4vGnxzML8Zsu-IhzTQ YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Andrew Chupp 02:35 Balancing Life as a Multi-Talented Individual 04:50 Coaching and Managing Chaos in Gymnastics 05:35 Creativity and Content Creation Journey 06:35 Competing at the Gay Games 08:28 Understanding the Gay Games 10:04 Qualifying for the Gay Games 11:01 The Intersection of Sports and Content Creation 12:32 The Work Behind Content Creation 14:03 Authenticity in Content Creation 15:31 Philosophy on Coaching and Mental Health 16:38 The Importance of Healthy Eating in Sports 17:33 Building Trust and Integrity in Coaching 18:32 Future Aspirations and Growth Beyond Gymnastics 19:41 The Hot Seat: Fun and Games 22:47 Listening to Your Body: Rest vs. Pushing Through 25:21 Coaching vs. Being a Student 26:08 Transforming Confidence Over Bodies 26:39 Being a Role Model vs. Competing Globally Andrew Chupp, queer gymnast, LGBTQ+ sports, Gay Games, content creation, athlete advocacy, visibility, mental health, community building —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    Flipping the Script on Queer Gymnastics while Balancing the Creative Hustle with Andrew Chupp

  4. Aug 6

    Algorithms vs. Allyship: How a Trans Comedian Won the Internet with Chris McAllister

    Most comedians say their first time on stage is terrifying, but Chris McAllister turned that fear into a powerhouse debut that kickstarted their stand-up career—and their journey of unapologetic authenticity. From a nerve-wracking open mic in Sydney to a sold-out show at Australia’s premier comedy festival, Chris proves that humor is the ultimate tool for connection, healing, and challenging societal norms. In this episode, Chris shares how comedy became their safe space to process their journey as a trans and non-binary person, transforming lived experience into pure punchlines. Discover how they navigated coming out in a public forum, turning audience reactions—both loving and hateful—into empowering acts of allyship and advocacy. Why does this episode matter? Because in a world full of division, Chris’s story reminds us that laughter is a revolutionary act. Whether you're a comedian, a queer voice, or anyone fighting to be seen, this episode offers a blueprint for using humor to heal, challenge, and unite. Instagram: @thetranscomedian Website: thetranscomedian.com YouTube: .youtube.com/channel/UCRCQ9T7CzvOGBCub9pY6t2A YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Chris McAllister 01:19 The Early Years: Growing Up in England 04:03 The First Stand-Up Experience 08:10 Vulnerability and Authenticity in Comedy 10:30 Navigating Gender Identity Through Comedy 13:49 Cultural Landscape of Queer Rights in Australia 19:28 Success at the Melbourne International Comedy Festival 23:39 Navigating Life with Humor 24:43 The Game of Preferences 25:41 Culinary Choices: Marmite vs Vegemite 26:34 The Art of Comedy Writing 28:49 Nostalgia in Animation: Toy Story Discussion 30:57 Showers vs Baths: Personal Preferences 32:57 Legacy in Comedy: Laughter vs Thoughtfulness comedy, LGBTQ+, trans, non-binary, Australia, mental health, resilience, authenticity, stand-up, diversity —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    Algorithms vs. Allyship: How a Trans Comedian Won the Internet with Chris McAllister

  5. Aug 4

    Spilling First Class Tea & Creating Content at 30,000 ft with @Whoisseanmac

    Most companies struggle to showcase the real, unglamorous truth behind their glamorous travel lifestyles — until now. @WhoIsSeanMac, a flight attendant and viral digital storyteller, flips the script on airline life with humor, honesty, and jaw-dropping stories from the cockpit. He reveals the surprising truths about safety training, handling emergency chaos, and what it’s really like to navigate the skies—and social scenes—around the world. You’ll discover: How flight attendants are trained in life-and-death moments that AI can’t replace, from delivering babies mid-flight to interacting with difficult passengers. The insider secrets to packing, organizing, and surviving long-haul flights without losing your mind or your passport. Plus, Sean shares hilarious passenger encounters, flirtations at 30,000 feet, and the truth about making friends—and enemies—among crew and passengers alike. This episode is essential for anyone obsessed with travel, curious about airline life, or seeking authentic, unfiltered stories from the skies. WhoIsSeanMac isn’t just a flight attendant—he’s the go-to authority for travel hacks, footwear tips, and the kind of humor that keeps us laughing through turbulence. Whether you’re a seasoned traveler or dreaming about your first trip, this conversation will open your eyes and elevate your understanding of life above the clouds. WhoIsSeanMac is a full-time flight attendant and viral content creator, known for his honest takes on flight life, travel essentials, and the hilarious chaos behind airline curtains. Featured in the New York Times and on the Today Show, he’s built a global community that appreciates truth, humor, and a little bit of airport glitz. Perfect for travel enthusiasts, aspiring creators, or anyone tired of the sanitized social media version of airline life—this episode gets real, raw, and ridiculously fun. Hit play to discover how one airline worker is changing the way we see the skies—and ourselves—when we travel. Instagram: @WhoIsSeanMac YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Sean Mack 01:22 The Journey to Becoming a Flight Attendant 03:47 The Reality of Flight Attendant Training 05:50 Life Lessons from the Skies 07:38 Transitioning to a Travel Authority 09:01 Friendship Dynamics in the Flight Attendant World 11:18 Flirting and Connections at 30,000 Feet 15:19 Future Aspirations and Career Goals 17:13 Authenticity in Content Creation 19:08 Rapid Fire: Layover Edition 19:52 Adulting: The Toddler Within Us 20:45 Travel Preferences: Room Service vs. Hotel Bar 21:44 Personal Preferences: Scruff and Physical Attraction 22:35 People Watching: The Flight Attendant's Perspective 23:37 Types: The Diversity of Attraction 24:07 First Class vs. Coach: Attitude and Comfort 25:32 Bathing Rituals: Showers vs. Baths 26:41 Pitching vs. Catching: A Playful Debate 27:40 Legacy: Hustle vs. Heart flight attendant, travel hacks, airline safety, travel community, airport life, travel tips, airline industry, travel influencer, travel stories, airport community —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    Spilling First Class Tea & Creating Content at 30,000 ft with @Whoisseanmac

  6. Jul 30

    The Visibility Superpower – Empowering Chosen Family From Flesh to Felt with Jen Capra

    Most people wouldn't dare turn childhood nostalgia, Muppet magic, and raw Gen X existential crisis into a rallying cry for radical queer joy—Jen Capra does it with effortless wit and unapologetic authenticity. Her career doesn’t just entertain; it builds community. From wrangling iconic Muppets on Sesame Street to capturing viral chaos on TikTok, Jen proves that humor and heart are powerful weapons in shaping a more inclusive world. In this episode, you'll discover how a self-described 'weird, hyperlexic poor kid' from Boston transformed her love of storytelling into an Emmy-nominated career in children’s media and digital creation. Jen shares her wild journey through 90s NYC club culture, encounters with mobsters and Secret Service detail, and the circuitous path that brought her to the set of Sesame Street. We break down her work championing inclusive representation, her contribution to projects celebrating found family, and how she continues to fight for queer visibility on and off the screen. Jen discusses the importance of showing up as your authentic self during heavy times—revealing how humor, vulnerability, and aggressive joy fuel her creative work and community activism. You’ll hear hilarious behind-the-scenes moments (including Michelle Obama’s visit and 'Sheeprit Service' pins) alongside deep reflections on Gen X queer history, elderhood, and the power of found family. Her insights vividly illustrate how choosing joy in the face of adversity is the ultimate act of resistance. This episode matters because in a landscape actively trying to quiet our stories, courage isn’t just standing ground—it’s choosing to be unapologetically joyful anyway. Jen’s story is a hilarious and inspiring reminder for anyone fighting for visibility, connection, and love against all odds. Whether you're a creative, a Muppet enthusiast, or part of our chosen fam, this conversation will move, entertain, and inspire you. Tune in to be moved, challenged, and motivated—because the revolution starts with showing up, speaking out, and loving aggressively loud. TikTok: @jencapra Website: gencapra.com YouTube Channel: / @outloudandlaughing Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Jen Capra 01:19 Growing Up in Boston & 90s NYC Adventures 05:55 From Dog Sitting to Media Production 08:08 Finding the Path to Writing & Television 15:20 Defining Courage & Showing Up Authentically 18:54 Diversity & Inclusive Storytelling in Children’s Media 22:06 Found Family & The Legacy of 'Love Makes a Family' 25:07 Behind the Scenes at Sesame Street: Secret Service & Special Guests 32:20 Game Time: 'This or That' (Two Truths & A Lie Edition) 37:36 Art, Community, and Incoming Projects queer representation, Sesame Street, Muppets, children's media, Gen X, found family, activism, writing, TikTok, LGBTQ culture, storytelling —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF... Watch on YouTube: • Season 1 | Full Episodes

    The Visibility Superpower – Empowering Chosen Family From Flesh to Felt with Jen Capra

  7. Jul 28

    An Olympian’s Guide to the Glide: Finding Identity Past the Perfect Score With Randy Gardner

    Most champions hide a story that’s even more inspiring than their medals — a story of courage, vulnerability, and unwavering authenticity. Randy Gardner, five-time U.S. national and world champion figure skater and trailblazer in LGBTQ+ history, reveals the journey behind his glittering career, his private battles, and the powerful moment that changed everything: discovering he was adopted later in life. In this heartfelt conversation, Randy shares how he navigated decades of fame while concealing his true self, the emotional toll of maintaining a false front, and the courage it took to finally embrace his identity. You'll discover how he managed the mental strain of being a top athlete in an era when being openly queer could have ended his career — and why he believes real strength lies in vulnerability. We break down Randy’s early days in Los Angeles, the magical moment he first laced up skates, and how his pursuit of excellence on ice was also a quest for self-acceptance. He reflects on the profound impact of the AIDS crisis, the power of coming out later in life, and the importance of courage in today’s shifting social landscape. You’ll also hear his thoughts on what true bravery looks like and how moving through adversity can shape the kind of leader and ally the world desperately needs now. Randy’s story isn’t just about medals — it’s about the big heart behind the champion, and how living unapologetically can inspire others to do the same. This episode is perfect for anyone craving real stories of resilience, seeking motivation to live authentically, or looking for a blueprint for transforming fear into fearless action. Join us to celebrate a legacy of strength, honesty, and daring to be your true self. The lessons Randy shares will leave you with a new appreciation for courage — in sports, in life, and in love. Instagram: @gofiguredocumentary YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Randy Gardner 01:12 Early Days in Figure Skating 05:32 Discovering Identity and Adoption 14:10 Courage in the LGBTQ+ Community 18:05 The Mental Toll of Dual Identities 22:47 Fun and Games: Ice Cold Edition 23:42 Fearlessness in Skating 24:45 Classic Hollywood vs. Modern Fashion 26:38 The Role of Appearance in Figure Skating 27:35 Personal Preferences and Self-Care 28:41 Sports and Personal Identity 29:43 Legacy: Medals vs. Heart 30:46 Connecting with the Audience 31:45 Reflections on Life's Journey Randy Gardner, figure skating, LGBTQ+ courage, personal discovery, resilience, PBS documentary, identity, sports history, coming out, inspiration —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    An Olympian’s Guide to the Glide: Finding Identity Past the Perfect Score With Randy Gardner

  8. Jul 23

    The Art of Belonging & How Democracy Demands the Queer Existence with Gui Mohallem

    Most artists wouldn't dare turn their activism into a movement for democracy—Ghee Mohlim does it with stunning visuals and unapologetic courage. His work doesn’t just document; it demands action. From capturing the raw realities of queer kinship to fighting for representation in Brazil's political landscape, Ghee proves that art is a powerful weapon in shaping society’s future. In this episode, you'll discover how Ghee turned personal displacement into a global platform for change. He shares his journey from a small mountain town in Brazil to the world's stage, revealing how belonging, identity, and resistance intertwine through his art and activism. We break down his groundbreaking Vote LGBT project, which has elevated queer political participation from three to over three thousand candidates, and his powerful work advocating for intersectional inclusion in democracy. Ghee discusses the emotional and therapeutic role of art—how vulnerability fuels his creativity and activism. You’ll hear about his latest projects, including a poignant return to a rural queer sanctuary, and how his art transforms spaces of harm into sites of community and resistance. His insights on resilience vividly illustrate how, even in the face of global setbacks, the queer community’s collective strength and innovative spirit refuse to be silenced. This episode matters because in a world actively attempting to erase our safety and joy, courage isn’t the absence of fear—it’s doing the work regardless. Ghee’s story is a rallying cry for anyone fighting for visibility, democracy, and love against all odds. Whether you're an artist, activist, or simply passionate about social change, this conversation will inspire you to turn vulnerability into power. Perfect for creatives, organizers, and anyone committed to building a more inclusive, brave world. Tune in to be moved, challenged, and motivated—because the revolution starts with a single image, a single voice, and a heart open enough to love loudly. Instagram: @gui.mohallem Instagram: @votelgbt Website: guimohallem.com YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Ghee Mohallem 04:23 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Art 08:11 Themes of Belonging and Identity 11:44 Recognition and Activism in the Queer Community 14:30 Vote LGBTQ Project and Political Representation 18:55 Courage in the Face of Adversity 22:58 Art as a Sanctuary and Community Engagement 29:01 The Joy of Connection in Art 29:53 Natural Beauty Over Perfection 31:10 The Importance of Authentic Encounters 32:17 Creative Preferences: Light vs. Dark 33:23 Heart Over Art: The Legacy of Love 34:32 Art, Activism, and Community Engagement 35:20 Celebration of Courage awards and gala 2026_1080p.mp4 art, activism, LGBTQ, belonging, democracy, Brazil, queer rights, social change, visual art, political organizing —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    The Art of Belonging & How Democracy Demands the Queer Existence with Gui Mohallem
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Out Loud & Laughing is a hilarious and heartfelt podcast where queer cousins Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz share their unique perspectives on life, love, and everything in between. Through a comedic lens, they dive into hot topics, life lessons, and the highs and lows of growing up queer. With laughter as their compass, Bryan and Jon create a space where identity and humor intersect, fostering connection, self-expression, and unapologetic joy. Whether you're here for the laughs, the relatability, or a mix of both, this is the show that celebrates being your authentic self—out loud and laughing.

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  • Creator
    Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    164
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2024
  • Show Website
    Out Loud & Laughing

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