Out Loud & Laughing

Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz
  • 5.0 (8)
  • Society & Culture
  • Updated Weekly

Out Loud & Laughing is a hilarious and heartfelt podcast where queer cousins Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz share their unique perspectives on life, love, and everything in between. Through a comedic lens, they dive into hot topics, life lessons, and the highs and lows of growing up queer. With laughter as their compass, Bryan and Jon create a space where identity and humor intersect, fostering connection, self-expression, and unapologetic joy. Whether you're here for the laughs, the relatability, or a mix of both, this is the show that celebrates being your authentic self—out loud and laughing.

  1. The Amazing Pace – Life, Love, and Navigating Roadblocks Together with Mark Romain & Brett Hamby

    4d ago

    The Amazing Pace – Life, Love, and Navigating Roadblocks Together with Mark Romain & Brett Hamby

    Most couples who meet in Vegas and take their love on a round-the-world race wouldn't necessarily turn their journey into a lesson in communication under pressure. But Mark Romain and Brett Hamby do exactly that—and blow expectations wide open. From ballet studio to reality TV, their story is a masterclass in resilience, humor, and how to win at life’s biggest challenges together.Imagine navigating the chaos of The Amazing Race, with all its unexpected setbacks—wrong taxis, out-of-control emotions, and late-night game nights—yet still managing to stay supportive and connected. Mark, a gravity-defying acrobat, and Brett, a powerhouse dancer, reveal how their careers, love story, and shared values have made them not just a team on TV but a true partnership that thrives under pressure. This episode is perfect for anyone craving real stories of love, resilience, and shared ambition—especially if you're navigating your own big challenges right now. Mark and Brett’s dynamic, playful energy and raw honesty will inspire you to face your hurdles with humor and heart.Whether you’re a fan of the race, a lover of performance, or curious about building authentic relationships in a city of glitter, this is your must-listen. Their journey proves that with support, communication, and a little bit of playful competition, any challenge can become an opportunity for growth—and love. Follow Mark: https://www.instagram.com/markromain/ Follow Brett: https://www.instagram.com/poquitoshwol/ Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@brettandmark YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 The Amazing Race, Mark Romain, Brett Hamby, Mark and Brett, Las Vegas, Magic Mike Live, cirque du soleil —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    37 min
  2. Midwest Grit, Heartfelt Grief, and the Soul Behind His Newest project: "Guess What? I Love You" with Mike Maimone

    6d ago

    Midwest Grit, Heartfelt Grief, and the Soul Behind His Newest project: "Guess What? I Love You" with Mike Maimone

    Most people think grief and heartbreak are just scars — but what if they could be the blueprint for a soulful rebirth? Mike Maimone shares how navigating loss transformed his music, revealing an unfiltered, intimate perspective on love, healing, and resilience. In this heartfelt conversation, he takes us beyond the stage and into the private moments that shaped his latest album and book, Guess What? I Love You — a tribute to his late husband, Howard Bragman. Discover how a near-death experience prompted Mike to leave behind a corporate career for the raw, unpredictable world of music. He talks Chicago’s gritty scene, the importance of community, and why embracing vulnerability became his greatest strength. You'll hear about the funny and profound stories that helped him process grief, from learning to laugh at life's darkest moments to finding the tender power in whispered songs. We break down: the role of humor in healing, the magic of holding love tightly while letting go of life’s serious stuff, and why grief never leaves us — only evolves. Mike’s journey reminds us that through art, pain becomes poetry, and loss can lead to a deeper understanding of what it truly means to live and love deeply. Perfect for anyone navigating heartbreak, facing loss, or craving honest stories of survival and growth, this episode will inspire you to cherish your love, embrace your scars, and find your rhythm in the storm. Whether you’re a music lover, a lover of life, or both, you’ll walk away with a new perspective on transforming pain into soulful power.Tune in and feel the healing. The stories, the laughter, the tears — they’re all part of your unique song. Catch Mike Maimone live, dive into his new album, and explore his inspiring journey of love, loss, and resilience. Website: https://www.mikemaimone.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/popular/mike-maimone/ YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Mike Maimone 00:55 The Journey from Sports to Music 03:26 The Chicago Music Scene and Its Influence 06:42 Personal Reflections on Love and Loss 10:21 The Legacy of Howard Bragman 12:23 The Healing Power of Music 17:02 Humor in Grief and Healing 19:00 Transformation and the Butterfly Metaphor 20:50 Fun and Games: This or That 25:11 Looking Ahead: Future Projects Music, Personal Growth, Grief, Love, Resilience, Howard Bragman, Album, Book, Chicago Music Scene, LGBTQ+, Mike Maimone —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    27 min
  3. Lead with Joy, Choreograph with Heart & Dancing Through Life! With Chip Abbott

    May 21

    Lead with Joy, Choreograph with Heart & Dancing Through Life! With Chip Abbott

    Most companies kill their creativity and authenticity by enforcing outdated standards—Chip Abbott reveals how embracing heart over perfection can transform both your career and your life.In this inspiring chat, Chip, a sought-after casting director, choreographer, and passionate advocate for inclusivity, shares his journey from the stages of Broadway to shaping authentic talent in the industry today. Discover how his love for The Wizard of Oz fueled his creative fire and helped him navigate a vibrant career while staying true to his unique self.You'll learn: How embracing your true self unlocks new opportunities in dance and beyondThe shift toward body positivity and genuine representation on stage and in castingPractical ways to foster a judgment-free environment that cultivates creativity and confidenceThe importance of leading with your heart—both in your craft and in your life choicesChip's approach to creating safe, inclusive spaces where authenticity flourishes despite industry pressuresThe entertainment industry is only just beginning to let go of narrow beauty standards—this episode shows how you can be part of that change. Whether you're a dancer, artist, or curious soul, you'll gain insights to lead with love and unlock your full potential, both on stage and in life.Perfect for anyone feeling boxed in by conventions or seeking the courage to live out loud, this episode is a masterclass in authenticity, joy, and redefining success. Get ready to be inspired—and maybe even shed some tears of liberation along the way.Join us and discover why the most powerful talent comes straight from the heart. Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chipstergram/?hl=en YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Chip Abbott 01:15 Chip's Journey to Dance and Theater 03:41 The Wizard of Oz Influence 09:37 The Loss of Beloved Pets 14:08 Body Positivity in Casting 17:51 Creating a Safe Space in Dance 22:11 Fun and Games: This or That with Chip 28:43 Closing Thoughts and Where to Find Chip Broadway, dance, casting, inclusivity, The Wizard of Oz, theater, joy, body positivity, professional dance, storytelling, Chip Abbott —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    30 min
  4. Spilling the Tea From Non-Profit Boardrooms to Bravo Courtrooms with Matty Durkin

    May 19

    Spilling the Tea From Non-Profit Boardrooms to Bravo Courtrooms with Matty Durkin

    Matty Durkin proves that pop culture and nonprofit work aren't separate worlds. As the creator of Pop Corner and a fundraising director at Concern Worldwide, he blends celebrity analysis with humanitarian impact. This episode reveals how Matty stays authentic while juggling high-stakes entertainment and philanthropy, offering a secret sauce for building trust and community while navigating NYC life, marathon training, and sobriety. You’ll discover how to turn passions into platforms that prioritize people and why social trust is your most valuable asset. We break down common creator mistakes and explore how vulnerability and humor drive genuine engagement. Matty also shares his "secret weapons" for staying sane in the city—from fitness to style—proving you can manage a multifaceted life without losing your soul to the superficial hustle. If you’re tired of the "hustle" and want to combine your passions with purpose, this conversation is your blueprint. Matty’s journey from broadcasting fan to influential voice inspires a lifestyle that reflects who you truly are. Whether you're an aspiring podcaster or just looking to level up your social influence, learn how to lead with class, sass, and authenticity. Matty Durkin is a fundraising expert, podcast host, and storyteller with a knack for blending humor with real-world impact. His insights will motivate you to nurture your passions and embrace your own multifaceted journey. Tune in to hear how one of the most versatile voices in the city builds trust and creates a brand that truly makes a difference. If you’re ready to turn your cultural obsessions into a movement, this episode is perfect for you. Hit play and learn how to live boldly, give generously, and stay loud — just like Matty. Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mattydurkin/ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-pop-corner-with-matty-durkin/id1733899456 YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Matty Durkin: A Multi-Hyphenate Talent 02:45 The Pop Corner: From Fan to Podcaster 05:49 Navigating the Entertainment Industry: Lessons Learned 08:43 Balancing Personal Life and Professional Ambitions 11:52 Dating in New York City: The Search for Connection 14:27 Passions and Red Flags: What Matty Looks For 17:11 Marathon Running: A Journey of Discipline and Focus 19:46 Franchise Recommendations and Reality TV Insights 23:25 Pop Culture This or That Game 28:26 Closing Thoughts and Social Media Connections Pop Culture, Bravo, Marathon, Nonprofit, New York City, Podcast, Housewife, Philanthropy, Style, Dating, Matty Durkin —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    29 min
  5. Building a Bigger Table – Fathering the Movement to LGBTQIA Family Building, Parenthood, & Beyond with Brian Rosenberg

    May 14

    Building a Bigger Table – Fathering the Movement to LGBTQIA Family Building, Parenthood, & Beyond with Brian Rosenberg

    Join us for an inspiring episode with Brian Rosenberg, the visionary founder of Gays with Kids (GWK) and the GWK Academy. Brian shares his journey of creating a supportive platform for LGBTQ+ families, offering resources and guidance for those on the path to parenthood. Discover the evolution of GWK Academy, which now supports all family-building paths, including adoption, donor conception, and surrogacy. In this heartfelt conversation, Brian opens up about his personal experiences, the challenges and joys of raising a family, and the importance of community events like the LGBTQ family takeover in New York City. With warmth and humor, Brian's insights highlight the universal nature of love and parenting, reminding us of the commonalities shared by all families. Don't miss this engaging episode filled with candid reflections and a powerful message of inclusivity and support for LGBTQ+ families. Learn more: https://gwkacademy.org/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gays_with_kids/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gwkacademy/ YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Building a Legacy: The Vision of GWK Academy 03:03 Navigating Parenthood: Lessons from Experience 10:13 Empowering LGBTQ+ Families: The Role of GWK Academy 12:15 Community Connection: The Importance of Events 16:30 Celebrating Family: The Big Apple Family Takeover 19:11 Fun and Personality: The This or That Game LGBTQ+ family building, GWK Academy, parenthood, community, adoption, surrogacy, family support, LGBTQ+ parenting, family events, education, GWK, Gays with Kids, Brian Rosenberg —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    27 min
  6. Nauti by Nature – Dropping Anchor, Shedding Layers & Exposing It All with Captain Beau

    May 12

    Nauti by Nature – Dropping Anchor, Shedding Layers & Exposing It All with Captain Beau

    Most people think sailing trips are about luxury and lounging—but for Captain Bo Bruno, they're about genuine connection, embracing authenticity, and redefining what a vacation can be. On his boutique gay sailing adventures, nudity isn't just allowed—it’s the catalyst for breaking down barriers, building trust, and creating community at sea. Bo Bruno left the corporate world for a life on the water, transforming his passion for sailing into a movement that brings people together in safe, liberating spaces. Whether it’s shedding the swimsuit to deepen vulnerability or sharing stories of unexpected encounters, he’s redefining the gay escape. Did you know many couples have met their partners on his trips? Or that a naked swim with strangers can turn into lifelong friendships—or even love? This is more than just a trip—it’s a healing, humbling experience, one that cultivates confidence and authentic self-expression. You’ll discover how nudity fosters genuine bonds, the impact of curated intimate groups versus open signups, and the importance of safe, inclusive spaces in the gay community. Bo shares exclusive behind-the-scenes stories—including wild adventures and surprising moments of connection—plus his insight into why representation of gay captains matters in a traditionally hetero-dominated space. If you’re longing for a vacation that goes beyond the superficial and dives into transformative escape, this episode is your compass. Perfect for explorers craving deep connection, community builders, or anyone curious about living unabashedly authentic—Bo’s stories will inspire you to rethink what’s possible when you’re truly yourself. Get ready to set sail into a world where vulnerability meets adventure and everyone’s invited to drop their guard and find their tribe. Book Now: https://www.nautidaddysailing.co/ Follow: https://www.instagram.com/nautidaddysailingco/ YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Time Stamps: 0:01 - Introduction to Captain Bo Bruno and his unique sailing adventures. 1:23 - Bo discusses his preference for intimate, personalized trips over large cruises. 2:30 - Bo shares his career transition from corporate to sailing. 3:57 - Bo talks about growing up sailing on Lake Superior. 6:37 - Discussion on how clothing-optional trips change group dynamics. 10:30 - Explanation of private vs. mixed group trips. 14:30 - Success stories of connections made on Bo's trips. 15:43 - Bo shares a memorable story from his sailing adventures. 18:08 - How Bo ensures solo travelers feel comfortable. 23:32 - Where to find more information about Naughty Daddy Sailing Co. Sailing Adventures, Authentic Connection, Gay Community, Nudity, Trust Building, Inclusive Spaces, Community Building, Vulnerability, Transformation, Adventure, Safe Spaces, Self-Expression, Captain Beau, Nauti Daddy Sailing —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    23 min
  7. A Mothers Day Special: The Blueprint of Us with Mom Bea

    May 7

    A Mothers Day Special: The Blueprint of Us with Mom Bea

    Beyond the usual tales of parental sacrifice, this episode explores the extraordinary resilience of Bryan’s mother, Bea. A Cuban-born educator who fled her homeland in the 70s, Bea shares how she raised four children through economic hardship with unwavering faith and grace. Her journey is a masterclass in perseverance, proving that radical acceptance and doing "one thing at a time" can build a legacy of strength. You’ll learn how Bea balanced motherhood with self-growth, working through college with her children in tow while navigating societal rejection. We break down her insights on nurturing resilience in kids, the importance of family traditions, and the mindset of kindness that keeps her moving forward. These lessons offer a blueprint for anyone—not just parents—seeking to build a meaningful life rooted in grit and positivity. Bea’s story reminds us that true strength lies in relentless perseverance and the bonds we nurture. Her life proves that family is defined by the sacrifices we make and the love we pass on. Whether you are facing personal challenges or seeking a deeper connection to your values, Bea’s wisdom provides the courage to face life’s chaos with purpose. Tune in for an inspiring look at a woman who turned struggle into a transformative power. This episode isn’t just a story; it’s a guide to living with unshakeable faith in what is possible. Don’t miss this chance to learn from a woman whose life defines compassion and determination. Perseverance and faith in overcoming challengesThe journey of raising a family with love and acceptanceThe importance of family support and cultural heritageYouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to a Family Legacy 00:57 Perseverance and Grit: A Mother's Journey 06:46 Raising Unique Children: A Mother's Perspective 10:00 Navigating Fear and Acceptance 14:11 Cherished Memories and Laughter 16:19 Reflecting on Family Memories 17:49 The Importance of Family Bonds 18:58 Generational Values and Love 20:51 Rapid Fire with Mom: Fun Insights 26:22 Travel Tales and Family Adventures 27:26 Mom's Legacy: Determination vs Kindness family, resilience, perseverance, love, acceptance, motherhood, cultural heritage, personal growth, Mother's Day, tia —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    30 min
  8. Setting Out on a [Snowbound] Soul-Searching Journey Along the Pacific Crest Trail with Riley Riffel

    May 5

    Setting Out on a [Snowbound] Soul-Searching Journey Along the Pacific Crest Trail with Riley Riffel

    While most fled record-breaking snow, Riley Riffle trekked 2,650 miles through it on the Pacific Crest Trail. Facing historic snowpack, body dysmorphia, and grief, he discovered that true resilience stems from vulnerability. This episode explores Riley’s journey of healing, revealing how the trail’s raw beauty helps dismantle societal labels and invites us to embrace our most authentic selves. We discuss shedding the "performance" of being okay to find genuine courage. Riley challenges the myths of rugged masculinity and shares how solitude shifted his perspective from seeking admiration to being truly known. From overcoming body dysmorphia to navigating extreme elements, his story redefines what it means to be strong in a curated world. From Kilimanjaro to mountain lion encounters, Riley embodies the grit needed to face our deepest fears. This conversation is a call to find beauty in chaos and trailblaze your own path of identity and growth. Prepare to be inspired by a story that proves strength is found in authenticity, not just endurance. Follow Riley on Instagram @Riley_Riffel and find his Snowbound series on Amazon. Every sale supports the Pacific Crest Trail Association, preserving the wilderness for all. https://www.pcta.org/ Purchase Today: https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Snowbound+series+Riley+Riffel Follow Riley: https://www.instagram.com/riley_riffel/ YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Riley Riffel and His Journey 02:44 The Snowbound Series: A Deep Dive 05:35 Facing Internal Struggles on the Trail 08:47 The Impact of Upbringing and Identity 11:49 Redefining Masculinity and Vulnerability 14:44 Body Image and Acceptance 17:37 Finding Beauty in Adversity 20:14 Trail Wisdom and Life Lessons 23:31 Fun and Games: This or That with Riley 26:33 Closing Thoughts and Where to Find Riley —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9

    28 min
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About

Out Loud & Laughing is a hilarious and heartfelt podcast where queer cousins Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz share their unique perspectives on life, love, and everything in between. Through a comedic lens, they dive into hot topics, life lessons, and the highs and lows of growing up queer. With laughter as their compass, Bryan and Jon create a space where identity and humor intersect, fostering connection, self-expression, and unapologetic joy. Whether you're here for the laughs, the relatability, or a mix of both, this is the show that celebrates being your authentic self—out loud and laughing.

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  • Creator
    Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    141
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2024
  • Show Website
    Out Loud & Laughing

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