Out Loud & Laughing

Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz
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Out Loud & Laughing is a hilarious and heartfelt podcast where queer cousins Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz share their unique perspectives on life, love, and everything in between. Through a comedic lens, they dive into hot topics, life lessons, and the highs and lows of growing up queer. With laughter as their compass, Bryan and Jon create a space where identity and humor intersect, fostering connection, self-expression, and unapologetic joy. Whether you're here for the laughs, the relatability, or a mix of both, this is the show that celebrates being your authentic self—out loud and laughing.

  1. Authenticity, Congeniality & the Crown with Sapphira Cristál

    2D AGO

    Authenticity, Congeniality & the Crown with Sapphira Cristál

    In this engaging conversation, Sapphira Cristál shares her journey from a talented performer to a stand-up comedian, discussing the challenges and triumphs she faced along the way. She reflects on her experiences in the drag community, the influence of her upbringing, and the importance of resilience in the face of rejection. Sapphira also delves into her creative process, the significance of personal branding, and the joy of connecting with her audience through humor. The discussion culminates in a fun rapid-fire segment, showcasing her personality and insights. Book tickets for her tour here: https://www.sapphiracristal.com/tour YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction to Sapphira Cristál06:42 The Joy of Performing Solo15:35 The Role of Family Support20:39 Rapid Fire Questions: This or That26:24 Closing Remarks and Upcoming Shows27:58 NEWCHAPTER —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9 Sapphira Cristál, Drag Race, stand-up comedy, resilience, performance, church influence, family support, personal branding, color symbolism, rapid fire questions Takeaways Sapphira finds joy in connecting with people through comedy.The journey to success often involves facing multiple rejections.Family support played a crucial role in Sapphira's career.Sapphira's experiences in church influenced her artistic journey.She emphasizes the importance of self-investment and growth.Sapphira's stand-up is a form of 'drag therapy' for herself and the audience.The significance of color symbolism in her branding is profound.Sapphira enjoys the freedom of performing solo compared to group tours.She believes in the power of resilience and hard work.Sapphira's unique style blends high fashion with comfort.

    28 min
  2. Miss Bouvèé: The Art of Drag and Activism

    4D AGO

    Miss Bouvèé: The Art of Drag and Activism

    In this engaging conversation, Miss Bouvèé (@missbouvee) shares her journey as a drag performer and activist, discussing the transformative power of drag, the importance of community support, and her latest art installation, 'Visibility Is the Protest.' She emphasizes the need for joy and connection through music and art while navigating the challenges of activism in today's political climate. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction to Miss Bouvèé 02:46 The Transformation of Eric to Miss Bouvèé 05:47 Art and Activism: A Year in Review 08:35 Visibility Is the Protest: Art Installation 11:38 The Power of Music and Connection 15:51 Finding Joy Amidst Activism 19:43 Claiming Space: Love and Respect 22:45 The Bouvier Beauty Edition: This or That —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9 Eric Swanson, drag, activism, art, music, LGBTQ+, community, visibility, protest, performance, Florida, Miss Bouvèé Takeaways Miss Bouvèé feels transformed when she puts on her eyelashes, marking the transition from Eric to her drag persona.The removal of rainbow crosswalks symbolizes a larger issue of visibility for the LGBTQ+ community.Art and activism are intertwined in Miss Bouvèé's work, showcasing the power of performance to command attention.The installation 'Visibility Is the Protest' aims to raise funds for Naples Pride and spark conversations about LGBTQ+ rights.Music serves as a powerful connector, evoking memories and emotions that resonate with audiences.Maintaining a light spirit amidst activism is crucial, supported by friends and loved ones.The drag community is vital in advocating for LGBTQ+ rights and visibility.Miss Bouvèé's performances aim to educate and inspire empathy among audiences.Respecting others' experiences is essential, even when disagreeing with their views.The essence of drag lies in its ability to challenge norms and create safe spaces for expression.

    32 min
  3. Graham Gremore: Creating Queer Joy and Impact

    MAR 5

    Graham Gremore: Creating Queer Joy and Impact

    In this episode, Bryan and Jon welcome Graham Gremore, the editor-in-chief of Queerty, to discuss the evolving landscape of LGBTQIA media, the balance between celebrating queer joy and addressing community challenges, and the importance of inclusivity in storytelling. Graham shares insights on navigating local leadership in Minneapolis, the unique consumption of media within the queer community, and the exciting upcoming events like the Queerties. The conversation also touches on Graham's personal journey through various cities and the fun dynamics of working at Queerty. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Time Stamps: Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Queer Media and Community Engagement 02:47 Navigating Challenges and Celebrating Joy in the LGBTQIA Community 05:59 Local Journalism and Community Impact 08:59 Evolving Queerty: Amplifying Diverse Voices 11:46 Breaking Traditional Journalism Norms 14:57 The Fun Side of Queer Media 17:39 Looking Ahead: Future Plans for Queerty 23:41 Cultural Connections and New Orleans Magic 27:52 The Queer Experience: Games and Preferences 33:46 Supporting Queerty and Community Engagement —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9 Queerty, LGBTQIA, Graham Gremore, queer media, community challenges, inclusivity, journalism, Queerties, queer culture, Minneapolis Takeaways Graham emphasizes the importance of reading the room to gauge community sentiment.Queerty aims to balance serious news with celebrations of queer joy.Local leadership in Minneapolis is facing significant challenges but is doing their best.Graham has been intentional about amplifying diverse voices within the LGBTQIA community.The evolution of Queerty reflects a broader understanding of inclusivity beyond just gay men.Digital media requires breaking traditional journalism norms to engage audiences effectively.The queer community tends to be more skeptical of media, questioning narratives due to past experiences.Graham enjoys cultural commentary and engaging with readers through interactive content.The Queerties are a significant event for the community, celebrating queer achievements.Graham's personal experiences in various cities have shaped his perspective on queer culture.

    35 min
  4. Harnessing Advocacy with a Fellow Gator, Jonathan Lovitz (HRC)

    MAR 3

    Harnessing Advocacy with a Fellow Gator, Jonathan Lovitz (HRC)

    In this engaging conversation, Jonathan Lovitz shares his journey from a theater background to becoming a prominent advocate for LGBTQ rights. He discusses the importance of visibility, community engagement, and the role of local elections in shaping a better future. Lovitz reflects on his experiences in the Biden administration and emphasizes the need for hope and action in the face of adversity. He encourages listeners to find their passion and contribute to the fight for equality and justice. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction to Jonathan Lovitz 01:14 Early Life and Advocacy Journey 04:02 The Importance of Visibility 06:10 Theater Background and Political Engagement 09:17 Transition to the Biden Administration 12:50 Pride in Representation and Community 15:32 Motivating the Community 19:17 The Hard Truths of Activism 21:38 The Importance of Local Elections 25:39 Fun Segment: This or That 31:58 Legacy and Impact —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9 Jonathan Lovitz, advocacy, LGBTQ rights, Biden administration, community engagement, visibility, political activism, local elections, theater, representation

    35 min
  5. The Power of Chosen Family with Daniel Blevins, Founder of Stand In Pride

    FEB 26

    The Power of Chosen Family with Daniel Blevins, Founder of Stand In Pride

    In this episode, Bryan and Jon engage with Daniel Blevins, the founder of Standin' Pride, discussing the importance of chosen family, the journey of creating a supportive community for LGBTQ+ individuals, and the personal experiences that shaped Daniel's mission. They explore the evolution of Standin' Pride from a viral TikTok video to a nonprofit organization, the significance of emotional support in various life events, and the ongoing need for community involvement and resources. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Time Stamps: 00:00 The Power of Chosen Family 03:07 Standin' Pride: A New Beginning 05:58 Personal Journey and Parenting 08:56 Coming Out and Authenticity 12:12 Beyond Weddings: Expanding Support 14:46 Community Needs and Volunteerism 17:51 Balancing Life: Hobbies and Self-Care —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9 chosen family, Standin' Pride, LGBTQ+, community support, coming out, emotional support, nonprofit, parenting, technology, personal journey

    27 min
  6. Transforming Lives: The Power of Authenticity with Eric Feltes

    FEB 24

    Transforming Lives: The Power of Authenticity with Eric Feltes

    In this engaging conversation, Bryan Ruiz and Eric Feltes explore the transformative journey of self-acceptance and authenticity, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community. Eric shares his personal experiences and the foundation of his life coaching practice, emphasizing the importance of community, self-love, and the process of unmasking one's true self. The discussion delves into overcoming the inner critic through compassionate curiosity, the significance of acknowledging emotions, and the value of finding beauty in messiness rather than striving for perfection. Eric highlights the breakthroughs he witnesses in his clients, illustrating the profound impact of coaching on personal growth and acceptance. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction to Life Coaching by Feltus 01:38 Eric's Journey and Transformation 04:20 Creating a Supportive Community 07:04 Unmasking and Authenticity 11:30 Compassionate Curiosity and Inner Critic 17:02 Breakthrough Moments in Coaching 19:16 Valuing Messiness Over Perfectionism 19:51 The Performance of Identity 22:11 Acknowledging and Embracing Emotions 24:16 Understanding Guilt vs. Shame 25:46 The Lightning Round: Quickfire Insights 30:54 Connecting with Eric Feltes: Resources and Programs —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9 Life Coaching, LGBTQ+, Self-Love, Authenticity, Community, Inner Critic, Transformation, Coaching Breakthroughs, Guilt vs Shame, Personal Growth

    34 min
  7. The Power of Queer Joy in Media with Rachel Shatto

    FEB 19

    The Power of Queer Joy in Media with Rachel Shatto

    In this engaging conversation, Rachel Shatto, editor-in-chief of Pride.com, discusses the balance of reporting on the hardships faced by the LGBTQIA community while celebrating their joys. She emphasizes the importance of authentic storytelling, the role of curiosity in her work, and the challenges of combating misinformation in media. Rachel also shares insights into her daily routine, the significance of taking breaks for mental health, and her collaborative approach to leadership. The episode concludes with a fun 'This or That' segment, showcasing Rachel's personality and interests. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction to Rachel Shatto and Her Work 01:11 Balancing Hard News with Queer Joy 03:49 The Role of Authentic Storytelling 07:30 Curiosity as a Driving Force 10:15 Leadership and Team Collaboration 12:26 A Day in the Life of an Editor 15:03 Combating Misinformation in Media 17:50 Protecting Personal Peace 21:12 Fun and Games: The Chateau Edition 22:30 Crafting the Perfect Headline 23:27 The NYC Rooftop vs. LA Poolside Debate 25:35 Cocktails, Beers, and the Social Scene 27:25 Reality Shows as Modern Documentaries 31:10 The Art of Interviewing vs. Being Interviewed —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9 Rachel Shatto, queer media, Pride.com, LGBTQIA, storytelling, authenticity, joy, mental health, media ethics, cultural commentary

    35 min
  8. Redefining Fatherhood: The Gaddies Journey with David Morgenstern

    FEB 17

    Redefining Fatherhood: The Gaddies Journey with David Morgenstern

    In this engaging conversation, David Morgenstern, the creative force behind Gaddies, shares insights into his journey as a queer dad and entrepreneur. He discusses the evolution of his brand, the importance of community engagement, and the challenges of balancing personal identity with business. David reflects on the significance of representation and celebration within the LGBTQ+ community, and how his experiences as a parent have shaped his approach to business. The conversation also touches on the fun and lighter side of parenting and personal style, culminating in a playful game segment. YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@OutLoudAndLaughing?sub_confirmation=1 Time Stamps: 00:00 Introduction to David Morgenstern and Gaddies 02:02 The Evolution of Gaddies and Community Impact 05:18 Consumer Feedback and Brand Adaptation 09:20 Balancing Personal Identity and Business 12:56 Parenting and Intentionality in Business 16:06 Navigating Vulnerability and Authenticity 18:30 Trusting Ideas and Building Confidence 19:24 Future Plans for Gaddies and Community Engagement —-- Visit us at www.OutLoudAndLaughing.com Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7obVHRF8knOr0WUMOZLJnM Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvTk63DP29cMR3QjT_xkkHygIX2MZi1c9 David Morgenstern, Gaddies, queer parenting, community building, brand identity, consumer insights, parenting, self-discovery, LGBTQ+ representation, family values

    27 min
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About

Out Loud & Laughing is a hilarious and heartfelt podcast where queer cousins Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz share their unique perspectives on life, love, and everything in between. Through a comedic lens, they dive into hot topics, life lessons, and the highs and lows of growing up queer. With laughter as their compass, Bryan and Jon create a space where identity and humor intersect, fostering connection, self-expression, and unapologetic joy. Whether you're here for the laughs, the relatability, or a mix of both, this is the show that celebrates being your authentic self—out loud and laughing.

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  • Creator
    Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    119
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2024
  • Show Website
    Out Loud & Laughing

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