Over This Should

Pamela Meadows
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Welcome to Over This Should, the podcast where we ditch societal expectations, challenge the "shoulds" holding women back, and embrace life on your own terms. Hosted by Pamela Meadows, this empowering series features inspiring conversations, expert insights, and practical strategies to help you set boundaries, boost confidence, and live authentically. Designed for women ready to step into their power, Over This Should covers topics like self-love, emotional intelligence, navigating relationships, and achieving personal and professional growth. Whether you’re redefining success, balancing life’s demands, or seeking inspiration, this podcast provides the tools and support you need to create a fulfilling, unapologetic life. Join us every week for uplifting stories, actionable advice, and thought-provoking interviews that empower you to live boldly and authentically. Let’s redefine what it means to thrive—together!

  1. 6D AGO

    I Should Feel Confident By Now: The Real Root of Imposter Syndrome

    Send a text Have you ever looked around a room and thought: “Everyone here knows what they’re doing… except me.” Even though you’re qualified.  Even though you’ve earned your seat.  Even though people trust your leadership. That quiet voice saying “they’re going to find out” has a name: imposter syndrome. And if you’ve felt it, you are far from alone. Research suggests up to 70% of high-achieving professionals experience imposter feelings at some point in their careers. In this solo episode of Over This Should, Pamela breaks down the deeper truth behind imposter syndrome and why it shows up most often in capable, ambitious women. This conversation goes beyond surface-level advice. Pamela walks through a Five Whys analysis to uncover the real root cause of imposter syndrome and how it’s often tied to belonging, achievement conditioning, and the pressure to perform. You’ll learn: • Why imposter syndrome is most common among high performers • The hidden connection between achievement and belonging • How “gold star conditioning” follows women into leadership roles • The subtle ways imposter syndrome affects visibility, negotiation, and decision making • Five practical shifts to rebuild self-trust and leadership confidence If you’ve ever thought: “I should feel more confident by now.” This episode is for you. Because confidence isn’t a prerequisite for leadership.  Self-trust is. 🎧 Listen in and start dismantling the “should” that keeps so many brilliant women playing smaller than they deserve.

    11 min

  2. FEB 27

    The Invisible Moment You Started Abandoning Yourself

    Send a text There is a moment most high-achieving women can’t name. It doesn’t look dramatic.  It doesn’t look reckless.  It looks responsible. In this episode, Pamela explores the subtle, invisible pattern that quietly erodes confidence, fuels resentment, and leaves capable women feeling exhausted while still appearing wildly competent. We’re talking about self-abandonment. Not quitting your job.  Not blowing up your life.  But the micro-moments where you override your own needs to preserve peace, prove value, or avoid being “too much.” Inside this conversation, you’ll learn: • The research behind self-silencing and why women internalize stress  • How over-consenting disguises itself as leadership  • Why adaptability is both your superpower and your risk  • The early conditioning that trains high performers to disappear  • A simple awareness shift that rebuilds self-trust If you’ve ever said:  “I’m fine.”  “I can handle it.”  “It’s easier if I just do it.” …this episode will feel uncomfortably familiar in the best way. This is not about becoming someone new. It’s about noticing the moment you left yourself — and choosing differently. Welcome back to Over This Should.

    8 min

  3. 10/01/2025

    Breaking the Silence: This Survivor's Journey

    Send a text In this episode, Pamela Meadows discusses her personal experiences with sexual assault, the impact of societal narratives on victims, and the importance of empowering survivors. She addresses current media coverage, systemic issues in the justice system, and the pervasive culture of victim blaming. The conversation highlights the importance of accountability, support for survivors, and a call to action for listeners to take a stand for change. Takeaways This episode contains a trigger warning for sensitive topics.Pamela shares her personal story of sexual assault.The impact of societal narratives on victims is profound.Media coverage often perpetuates victim-blaming.Statistics reveal systemic issues in handling sexual assault cases.Victim blaming is reinforced through cultural narratives.Empowering survivors is crucial for healing and advocacy.Anger can be transformed into actionable strategies.Support for survivors should be prioritized in policies.We must challenge the narratives that silence victims.

    18 min

  4. 04/28/2025

    When Speaking Up Feels Like a Risk: Feminism, DEI, and Still Finding My Voice in 2025

    Send a text In today's episode, I'm getting real about something I've been wrestling with: how do you raise your voice for what’s right without alienating the people you want to reach? This episode is not a perfectly polished TED Talk. It's messy. It's real. It’s the tug-of-war between anger and hope. Between truth and fear. And if you’ve ever felt like your passion might make you "too much," this one’s for you. Key Topics We Cover: The truth behind the Arlington National Cemetery website changesThe 2025 crackdown on DEI language in federal grants and public universitiesWhy being “palatable” can sometimes be a trapHow to find your voice—and your power—when the world wants you quietBalancing righteous anger with the desire for connection and changeQuotes to Remember: “You can be kind and disruptive. You can love people and still hold them accountable. Truth doesn’t require you to whisper.”   Loved this episode? 🔥 Share it with someone who’s finding their voice right now. 🔥 Leave a review to help more women break free from the "shoulds." 🔥 Connect with me on Instagram at @thepamelameadows and tell me what part resonated most. Let’s keep showing up—loud, soft, messy, brilliant—and everything in between.

    17 min

  5. 04/07/2025

    Invisible No More: Women Need to Be in All the Rooms

    Send a text In today’s powerful solo episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on the invisible forces shaping our world—and not in a good way. Inspired by the bestselling book Invisible Women by Caroline Criado Perez (plus a whole lot of mind-blowing research), we’re talking about the gender data gap and how it creates real-life consequences for women—from car crashes to medical misdiagnoses to tech that just won’t listen to our voices. We dive into: ✅ How crash test dummies and medical trials are failing women  ✅ The life-threatening consequences of biased data in health and safety  ✅ Why women’s unpaid labor is the invisible engine of the global economy  ✅ What happens when women’s voices are literally misunderstood by AI  ✅ Why inclusive data isn't “nice to have”—it's essential And most importantly, we explore the solution: getting more women in STEM, leadership, and policy creation. Because when women lead, everyone benefits. 💡 This episode is for you if… You’ve ever felt like the world wasn’t designed with you in mindYou care about inclusive innovation, safety, and representationYou’re raising, mentoring, or supporting future women leadersYou work in tech, policy, education, or leadership and want to do betterYou love a good mic-drop moment backed by data and sass

    9 min

  6. 04/01/2025

    Tall Poppy Syndrome: Why Women Get Cut Down for Standing Tall

    Send a text Have you ever felt the sting of being called “too much,” “too confident,” or “too ambitious”? Sis, you’re not imagining it—that’s Tall Poppy Syndrome at work, and this episode is here to slice it at the root. In this episode of Over This Should, we’re diving into why women are often criticized for their success—and how we can fight back with fierce self-awareness, mindset shifts, and community support. What You’ll Learn: What Tall Poppy Syndrome is (and how it shows up at work, home, and online)The real research behind why successful women face backlashHow to spot the signs (in yourself and others)Why this is a symptom of patriarchal programmingThe mindset and communication tools you need to own your brillianceFeaturing real-life stories, stats that’ll make your jaw drop, and action steps to reclaim your power. This episode is part pep talk, part data drop, and all about helping women rise—without guilt, shame, or apologies.

    9 min
  7. Unlocking Your Inner Wisdom: A Conversation with Meghan Gifford

    03/28/2025

    Unlocking Your Inner Wisdom: A Conversation with Meghan Gifford

    Send a text What happens when a high-achieving corporate executive trades spreadsheets and deadlines for breathwork and deep healing? In this transformative episode, Meghan Gifford opens up about her bold pivot from corporate success to becoming a breathwork facilitator and transformation coach. Meghan gets real about the burnout that led to her breakthrough—and how she found herself not in another promotion, but in the stillness of her own breath. We explore the power of embodiment, why women don’t have to pick just one passion, and how listening to your body is the most radical form of self-love. She breaks down how the female nervous system needs something different, how boundaries create freedom, and why external validation is a trap so many ambitious women fall into. If you’ve ever felt like you were made for more, this one will breathe new life into your journey. 💡 Key Takeaways Meghan’s journey from corporate success to inner transformation is a masterclass in self-reinvention.Breathwork helped her reconnect with her body, intuition, and purpose.Authenticity is found within—not in titles, accolades, or others’ approval.Women are multi-dimensional: you can honor all your passions.Boundaries aren't selfish—they're sacred.Awareness of your thoughts and emotions is the starting point of healing.The female nervous system deserves a unique approach to wellness and rest.Breathwork is a tool to access deeper emotional healing and intuitive clarity.Wellness isn’t rigid—it should be flexible and intuitive.Trusting yourself is the most powerful act of self-love you can choose.Learn more about Meghan here: ARRIVE - A free masterclass for high-achievers ready to trade hustle for heart. Happening on Zoom April 9 https://www.yourfrqncy.com/arrive TRUE NORTH - Join the waitlist for this 5-Week Group Coaching Program to help high-achievers break free from the chase and reclaim their inner truth https://frqncy.myflodesk.com/true-north-waitlist Work with Meghan 1:1 - https://www.yourfrqncy.com/for-you Connect with Meghan on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourfrqncy/

    46 min

  8. 03/24/2025

    Confidence—How to Show Up Like a Leader (Even When You Don’t Feel Like One)

    Send a text Confidence isn’t something you’re born with—it’s something you build. In this powerful episode of Over This Should, Pamela Meadows dives deep into what it really means to show up like a leader, even on the days you feel anything but confident. You’ll learn how to shift your mindset, take up space, and use science-backed strategies (like the Batman Effect) to own your power in any room. Whether you’re walking into a meeting, negotiating a raise, or just trying to silence that annoying inner critic—we’ve got you. Get ready for real talk, real stories, and real tools to help you lead like a badass—even when you’re shaking in your heels. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why confidence is more important than competence for leadership success (hello, Harvard Business Review!)How the Batman Effect can instantly boost your performance and presenceWhat Beyoncé, Kobe Bryant, and even Adele can teach you about stepping into a powerful alter egoHow to use body language, mindset, and self-distancing to combat imposter syndromeActionable ways to retrain your brain to lead with confidence—even if you don’t feel it (yet!)Ready to Level Up Your Confidence? Explore Pamela’s coaching programs and resources at www.pamelameadows.com Let’s build confidence that sticks, not just spikes.

    13 min
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Welcome to Over This Should, the podcast where we ditch societal expectations, challenge the "shoulds" holding women back, and embrace life on your own terms. Hosted by Pamela Meadows, this empowering series features inspiring conversations, expert insights, and practical strategies to help you set boundaries, boost confidence, and live authentically. Designed for women ready to step into their power, Over This Should covers topics like self-love, emotional intelligence, navigating relationships, and achieving personal and professional growth. Whether you’re redefining success, balancing life’s demands, or seeking inspiration, this podcast provides the tools and support you need to create a fulfilling, unapologetic life. Join us every week for uplifting stories, actionable advice, and thought-provoking interviews that empower you to live boldly and authentically. Let’s redefine what it means to thrive—together!

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  • Creator
    Pamela Meadows
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    45
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Over This Should
  • Show Website
    Over This Should