P31 Unfiltered

Dr. Tesha D. Colston

P31 Unfiltered is a podcast for faith-driven women who are building with wisdom, intention, and obedience. Hosted by Dr. Tesha D. Colston, the show brings together conversations on faith, finances, business, and technology through a biblical lens. Inspired by Proverbs 31:31, each episode equips listeners with clarity, strategy, and practical tools to steward their calling, grow in leadership, and build a legacy that speaks for itself.

  1. 4d ago

    Permission to Change Your Mind

    🎙️ Permission Granted | Chapter Six: Permission to Start Before You’re Ready What happens when the thing you prayed for, worked for, invested in, and told everybody you were going to do… doesn’t fit anymore? Maybe nothing went wrong.Maybe it was right for that season.Maybe you simply learned more, healed, grew, or became someone who wants something different.But now you’re stuck because you’ve already invested the time. You’ve already spent the money. People know you for this. And changing your mind feels a whole lot like admitting you failed. Sis, changing your mind does not automatically mean you failed. In Chapter Seven of the Permission Granted series, we’re talking about what it means to recognize when a season, goal, identity, or direction may no longer fit—and how to tell the difference between something that needs to be released and something that’s simply difficult. In this episode, we unpack: ✨ Why yesterday’s investment doesn’t have to determine tomorrow’s decision✨ How to recognize when you’ve outgrown an old version of yourself✨ Why something can be right for one season and not the next✨ The difference between discernment and running from discomfort✨ Why you don’t owe everyone a defense of your growth✨ Four questions to ask before making a major change And we’re asking one powerful question: If I weren’t considering everything I’ve already invested, would I choose this again today? Maybe the answer is yes. Maybe it needs to evolve. Or maybe it’s time to release it. Either way, you’re allowed to tell yourself the truth. You don’t have to disrespect your past to embrace your future. Permission to change your mind. 🔥 Permission granted.

    Permission to Change Your Mind
  2. Sep 8

    Permission to Start Before You’re Ready

    How long have you been saying, “I’m getting ready”? One more course. One more certification. One more revision. One more piece of equipment. One more confirmation. One more prayer. And somehow… you’re still preparing to start. Sis, what if “I’m getting ready” has become fear with a planner? 👀 In Chapter Six of the Permission Granted series, we’re talking about the difference between preparation and procrastination—and why you may never feel completely ready for the thing God is calling you to do. In this episode, we unpack: ✨ Why feeling uncertain doesn’t necessarily mean you’re unprepared✨ How God often develops us while we’re moving✨ The difference between excellence and perfectionism✨ How “I’m waiting on God” can sometimes become a hiding place✨ Why confidence often comes after you start—not before✨ The Ready-Enough Test to help you identify your next faithful step This isn’t permission to be reckless or skip necessary preparation. It’s permission to stop waiting for the magical moment when you have every answer, every resource, and absolutely no fear. Maybe you don’t need to see the entire staircase. Maybe you just need enough light for the next step. So this week, we’re moving something from: “I’m going to…” to: “I started.” Write the first page. Record the video. Send the email. Make the offer. Submit the application. Announce the date. Start small. Start nervous. Start with what you have. Because, Sis... You can be nervous and obedient at the same time. 🎧 Listen to Permission Granted | Chapter Six: Permission to Start Before You’re Ready on P31 Unfiltered. Permission to start. Permission granted.

  3. Sep 1

    Permission to Rest

    When was the last time you rested without feeling guilty about it? Not because everything was finished. Not because you had earned it. And not because you were so exhausted that your body finally forced you to stop. For many of us, being busy has become so connected to being valuable that slowing down feels wrong. If we aren't producing, building, helping, fixing, posting, or accomplishing something, that little voice starts whispering, “You should be doing something.” Sis, we need to talk about that. In Chapter Five of the Permission Granted series, we're confronting the belief that our worth is tied to our productivity and asking a deeper question: Do you trust God enough to stop? In this episode, we're talking about: ✨ Why your productivity is not your identity✨ The difference between fruitfulness and constant productivity✨ Why rest is biblical—not lazy✨ What Jesus modeled about stepping away even when there was still work to do✨ Why sometimes rest requires more faith than work✨ The different kinds of rest you may actually need Because there will always be another email. Another task. Another idea. Another person who needs something. Another thing you could be doing. But rest isn't a reward you earn after you've exhausted yourself. Sometimes rest is simply an act of faith that says: “God, I've done what I can do today. I trust You with the rest.” 🎧 Listen to Permission Granted | Chapter Five: Permission to Rest on P31 Unfiltered. And this week, give yourself permission to put it down for a minute. You are more than what you produce. You are more than what you accomplish. You are God's daughter. Permission to rest. Permission granted.

  4. Aug 25

    Permission Granted | Permission to Say No

    What if one of the most important things you can say in this season is simply... No. No to the opportunity that doesn't align. No to the request you don't have capacity for. No to constantly rescuing everybody. No to rearranging your priorities because someone else has an emergency. No to saying yes out of guilt while the assignment God gave you keeps getting pushed to the side. For many women, saying no isn't difficult because we don't know what we want. It's difficult because we don't want to disappoint people. We want to help. We want to serve. We want to be dependable. And somewhere along the way, we started believing that being a good Christian woman meant always being available. But here's the truth: Every yes costs you something. Your time. Your energy. Your attention. Your focus. Your emotional capacity. And sometimes saying yes to everybody else is exactly how you keep saying no to the assignment God gave you. In Chapter Four of the Permission Granted series, Dr. Tesha D. Colston is challenging us to rethink boundaries, availability, and what it really means to faithfully steward our time. In this episode, we're talking about: ✨ Why every good opportunity isn't necessarily your God assignment✨ What Jesus teaches us about allowing assignment—not demand—to determine our direction✨ The hidden cost behind every yes✨ Why Nehemiah's declaration, "I am doing a great work and I cannot come down," is a boundary lesson we still need today✨ Why someone else's disappointment doesn't automatically mean you've done something wrong✨ How to say no with grace without explaining yourself into exhaustion✨ The difference between sacrifice that comes from obedience and sacrifice driven by guilt✨ A practical Assignment Filter to help you decide what deserves your yes You'll also be challenged to ask yourself one important question: What am I currently saying yes to that is causing me to say no to something God told me was important? Because you don't have unlimited capacity. And God never asked you to. Sometimes protecting the great work God has placed in front of you requires the courage to say: "I can't do that in this season." No guilt. No apology tour. No five-paragraph explanation. Just wisdom, discernment, and obedience. If you're building a business and you're ready to stop carrying everything like it all depends on you, I want to invite you into The Solo CEO Lab. P31 Unfiltered is where we have the conversation.The Solo CEO Lab is where we do the work. Inside the Lab, we're learning how to simplify the work, use AI and practical systems, build visibility and authority, create income, and protect the capacity we need to actually lead what we're building. Visit TheSoloCEOLab.com to join us. You have permission to protect your time. You have permission to protect your energy. You have permission to decline good opportunities so you have capacity for God opportunities. You have permission to disappoint someone's expectation without abandoning your assignment. And you have permission to recognize that every need you encounter is not automatically yours to meet. Sis... Protect the yes God gave you. Permission to say no. Permission granted. God has already spoken. Now... walk in it.

    Permission Granted | Permission to Say No
  5. Aug 18

    Permission to Be Seen

    What if you're not waiting on God to reveal you? What if God is waiting on you to stop hiding? You prayed for the opportunity. You asked God to use your gifts. You want your business to grow, your ministry to reach people, your book to be read, your message to be heard, and your work to make an impact. But when it's time to actually show up? You shrink. You hesitate. You worry about what people will think. You tell yourself you're just being humble. Sis, we need to talk. In Chapter Three of the Permission Granted series, Dr. Tesha D. Colston tackles the fear of visibility and the beliefs that keep gifted, called women hiding behind the very assignments God has given them. Because humility does not require invisibility. And being visible isn't about chasing attention, followers, or applause. It's about becoming accessible to the people you're called to serve. In this episode, you'll discover: ✨ Why humility and invisibility are not the same thing✨ The difference between visibility for validation and visibility for assignment✨ Why the people you're called to impact need a way to find you✨ How fear of criticism, judgment, and being misunderstood keeps women hiding✨ Why you don't have to be visible to everybody—you need to be visible to the people you're assigned to serve✨ How to show up authentically without performing for people✨ Four practical steps to take your first—or next—visible act of obedience Jesus said, "You are the light of the world." Light was never meant to spend its life underneath a basket. Your voice wasn't given to you so fear could silence it. Your testimony wasn't redeemed so shame could bury it. And your assignment wasn't entrusted to you so you could spend your life waiting for everybody's approval. Maybe you don't need another sign. Maybe you need the courage to come out of hiding. This week, we're answering one powerful question: If I wasn't afraid of being seen, what would I do? Then we're taking one visible act of obedience. 🎧 Listen to Permission Granted | Chapter Three: Permission to Be Seen on P31 Unfiltered. If you're ready to stop hiding and start building what God placed inside of you, join me inside The Solo CEO Lab at www.thesoloceolab.com P31 Unfiltered is where we have the conversation.The Solo CEO Lab is where we do the work. Inside the Lab, we're turning purpose into practical action through visibility, authority, offers, AI, systems, and strategies designed to help you build and grow. Because your assignment needs more than inspiration. It needs implementation. 📜 THIS WEEK'S PERMISSION You have permission to use your voice. You have permission to tell people what you do. You have permission to take up the space your assignment requires. You have permission to let your light shine—not so people can glorify you, but so your Father can be glorified through you. Sis... It's time to come out of hiding. Permission to be seen. Permission granted. God has already spoken. Now... walk in it. 💕 Ready to Do the Work?

  6. Aug 11

    Permission to Charge

    Why do so many Christian women feel guilty about charging for the gifts God gave them? If you've ever discounted your services before anyone asked…Worked twice as hard to justify your prices…Or believed that serving God meant giving everything away… This episode is for you. In Chapter Two of the Permission Granted movement, Dr. Tesha D. Colston tackles one of the biggest mindset barriers holding women back from building sustainable businesses and walking confidently in their calling. Because this isn't really about pricing. It's about worth. It's about stewardship. And it's about breaking the false belief that being called by God means you have to apologize for creating value. In this episode, you'll discover: ✨ Why you don't have a pricing problem—you have a worth problem✨ How many Christian women unknowingly confuse ministry with martyrdom✨ What Scripture actually teaches about stewardship, generosity, and receiving compensation✨ Why creating transformation has value—and why it's okay to be paid for the work God has entrusted to you✨ Practical steps to help you move from guilt to confidence as you build your business and serve others This isn't a conversation about getting rich. It's a conversation about honoring God by faithfully stewarding your gifts, your calling, and the work He's placed in your hands. Because you can serve people with excellence… Build a profitable business… And remain completely aligned with God's heart. Those things are not in competition. They are part of faithful stewardship. 💜 This is Chapter Two of the Permission Granted movement. Each episode is designed to help you break free from the invisible beliefs that keep you from fully walking in your God-given purpose. Together, we're replacing fear with faith, guilt with grace, and hesitation with obedience. 🚀 Ready to stop wondering and start building? If today's episode challenged you, I'd love to invite you to join me inside The Solo CEO Lab—a community for visionary entrepreneurs and women of faith who are building businesses with clarity, confidence, and purpose. Inside the Lab, you'll learn how to: Build offers that create real transformationUse AI to save time and grow your businessDevelop systems that support your callingBuild with wisdom, excellence, and Kingdom purposeLearn more at TheSoloCEOLab.com. 📜 Permission Granted Reminder Your gifts are not something to apologize for. They are something to steward. God has already spoken. Now... walk in it.

    Permission to Charge
  7. Aug 4

    Permission Granted: Permission to Pivot

    What if the biggest thing standing between you and your next season… isn't fear? What if it's the belief that you need permission to change? Welcome to the very first episode of Permission Granted, a brand-new movement within P31 Unfiltered created for the woman who knows God is calling her forward but feels stuck between where she is and where she's meant to be. In this powerful kickoff episode, Dr. Tesha D. Colston tackles one of the hardest transitions many Christian women face: the decision to pivot. Whether it's a career, a business, a ministry, a dream, or even the version of yourself you've outgrown, pivoting can feel like failure—especially when you've invested years into what you've built. But what if your pivot isn't a sign that you've failed... What if it's a sign that you've grown? In this episode, you'll discover: ✨ Why God is a God of seasons—not stagnation✨ How to release the guilt of leaving an old season behind✨ Why your past was preparation, not your prison✨ How to navigate a pivot when the people around you don't understand it✨ Practical steps to discern your next move with wisdom, courage, and faith If you've been wrestling with whether it's time to let go, move forward, or embrace a new direction, this episode will remind you that God doesn't waste seasons—and He doesn't call you to stay where He has already called you from. Because sometimes the most faithful thing you can do... Is pivot. 💜 This is the beginning of the Permission Granted movement. Each episode is designed to help you break free from fear, guilt, comparison, and hesitation by reminding you of the permission God has already given you through His Word. Because you're not waiting for permission from people... You're learning to walk confidently in the permission God has already spoken over your life. I'd love to hear from you: What permission do you think you need right now? Leave a review, send me a message, or connect with me on social media. Your answer may inspire a future episode of P31 Unfiltered. 📜 Permission Granted Reminder:God has already spoken. Now... walk in it.

  8. Apr 28

    You’re Not Late — You’re Being Positioned

    Have you ever felt like you’re behind? Like everyone else is moving… building… launching… and you’re still trying to figure things out? In this episode of P31 Unfiltered, Dr. Tesha D. Colston speaks directly to the woman who knows she has more in her — more potential, more capacity, more she hasn’t tapped into yet — but hasn’t fully stepped into it. Because the truth is… You’re not late. You’re being positioned. This conversation breaks down the real reason many women feel stuck — not because they’re not called, but because they haven’t prepared for what they’re praying for. In this episode, you’ll learn: • Why God prepares you before He promotes you• Why prayer alone is not enough in this season — and what to do instead• The importance of developing new skills for new opportunities• Why potential without execution leads to frustration• How to stop sitting on what God gave you and start building with it If you’ve been waiting for the “right time,” this episode will challenge you to move, prepare, and position yourself for what’s next. Because the next level of your life won’t come from just praying about it… It will come from preparing for it. 🎯 Ready to build capacity and step into what’s next? Join Dr. Tesha D. Colston inside the🎓 Certified Prompt Engineering Professional™ Certification Cohort 1 kicks off this Saturday, and you can still secure your spot. 👉 instituteforaitraining.com

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P31 Unfiltered is a podcast for faith-driven women who are building with wisdom, intention, and obedience. Hosted by Dr. Tesha D. Colston, the show brings together conversations on faith, finances, business, and technology through a biblical lens. Inspired by Proverbs 31:31, each episode equips listeners with clarity, strategy, and practical tools to steward their calling, grow in leadership, and build a legacy that speaks for itself.