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One thing about being a parent – there’s no shortage of personalities to be surrounded by. Our kids, our partners, our family, our friends. They keep us laughing, growing, loving, and crying. If only they understood us. Like the musician Van Morrison once sang “When people understand what I mean, mama said there will be days like this.” Adelaide Australia’s Kate Mason is an author, wife, and mother who has spent her career studying personality and relationships. In this podcast she looks at why relationships work, and why some don't. She also looks at how our personalities impact our relationships and examines what compels our children, husbands, wives and others to behave the way they do. This podcast is designed to help you understand those you love. A half hour listening on your own, will connect you with the ones you care about the most.

  1. Why Motherhood Feels So Lonely…and What You Can Do About It

    5D AGO

    Why Motherhood Feels So Lonely…and What You Can Do About It

    What if becoming a mother wasn’t just a role, but a complete identity shift?  Kate Mason sits down with journalist-turned-coach Amy Taylor-Kabbaz to dive deep into the transformation that women experience when they enter motherhood, a transformation called matrescence. Amy shares her personal story of burnout, identity loss, and the emotional upheaval that came with trying to be the woman she was before children.  From postpartum struggles to the silent pressure of “having it all,” Amy unpacks why mothers feel broken…and how understanding matrescence can help us heal, connect, and move forward with more compassion, especially toward ourselves and our partners.  This conversation is raw, validating, and will leave every parent feeling seen. Listen For :55 What are the unspoken changes that happen in your relationship after a baby? 3:11 Why did Amy’s identity as a journalist unravel after becoming a mother? 12:18 What is matrescence and why is it so important for new moms to understand? 20:04 How can we bring awareness of matrescence into hospitals and midwife training? 30:37 What are the early warning signs of burnout in motherhood? Leave a rating/review for this podcast with one click Connect with guest: Amy Taylor-Kabbaz Website | Facebook | Instagram Contact Kate: Email | Website | Kate’s Book on Amazon | LinkedIn | Facebook | X

    41 min
  2. How Our Childhood Christmases Shape the Way We Celebrate Today

    12/23/2025

    How Our Childhood Christmases Shape the Way We Celebrate Today

    Christmas can bring up deep emotions, powerful memories, and the challenge of balancing tradition with change. Kate Mason opens up a thoughtful and moving conversation about what the festive season really means to different people. Through a series of deeply personal stories from guests around the world, this episode explores how families celebrate, mourn, adapt, and create meaningful holiday moments.  From honoring loved ones who are no longer here, to letting go of pressure and finding peace in presence, each guest reflects on their own traditions, some old, some new and what truly matters most during this time of year.  Whether it’s finding comfort in shared meals, or welcoming a new baby into the family, this episode is a gentle reminder that love, connection, and intention are at the heart of every celebration.   Listen For 2:08 How do childhood traditions shape the way we celebrate Christmas today? 4:50 What quirky Christmas traditions do families carry through generations? 7:07 How can we hold space for grief and joy at the same time during the holidays? 13:58 What happens when the Christmas turkey catches fire—and becomes a favorite memory? 16:14 How can the smallest traditions, like eating grapefruit, become powerful ways to remember loved ones?   Leave a rating/review for this podcast with one click   Contact Kate: Email | Website | Kate’s Book on Amazon | LinkedIn | Facebook | X

    19 min
  3. The 4 Christmas Personalities You Already Know

    12/17/2025

    The 4 Christmas Personalities You Already Know

    What if your Christmas chaos was actually a personality clash in disguise?  Kate Mason unwraps the four classic temperaments, choleric, sanguine, melancholic, and phlegmatic, and how they dramatically show up around the Christmas table.  With warmth, humour, and heartfelt wisdom, she explores how each personality type contributes to both the magic and mayhem of the holidays.  From the bossy boots with a stopwatch to the sparkle-loving storyteller, and the detail-obsessed decorator to the quietly supportive peacekeeper, this episode is a guide to understanding not only your family, but yourself.  Listen For :10 What Makes Christmas Morning So Emotionally Charged?  3:15 Can You Really Change Christmas by Changing Yourself? 6:57 What Does a Choleric Personality Look Like on Christmas Day? 12:07 How Do You Handle a Sparkly, Scattered Sanguine at Christmas? 20:27 What Happens When Temperament Meets Vulnerability?   Leave a rating/review for this podcast with one click   Contact Kate: Email | Website | Kate’s Book on Amazon | LinkedIn | Facebook | X

    25 min
  4. What Every Parent Should Know About Porn’s Influence on Children

    12/09/2025

    What Every Parent Should Know About Porn’s Influence on Children

    Is your child's "sex education" secretly coming from free, violent online pornography?  Kate Mason and podcast producer Liz Keen, creator of The Reality Of podcast, joins us to uncover the shocking truth that children as young as eight, nine, and ten are accidentally, or intentionally, stumbling upon highly explicit content, citing the average age of first exposure in Australia as 13.  Liz reveals the most dangerous piece of content young people are consuming: the widespread depiction of acts like strangulation that is bleeding directly into real-life teenage sex, often without consent or knowledge of the severe, silent health risks, and argues that parents must overcome their discomfort to provide proactive, non-shaming education before the internet does.   Listen For 5:24 How common is it for young children to be viewing pornography 6:34 What shocking pornographic content are young people actually seeing 11:15 What is the average age that Australian kids are seeing explicit content 28:13 How can parents overcome the awkwardness of talking to their kids about sex and porn 35:48 Is my child seeing porn if I haven't mentioned it to them yet   Leave a rating/review for this podcast with one click    Connect with guest:Liz Keen, Podcast Strategy | Podcast Production | Media Consultant | SXSW Speaker LinkedIn | Website | YouTube | Instagram | Facebook Contact Kate:  Email | Website | Kate’s Book on Amazon | LinkedIn | Facebook | X

    45 min
  5. What’s the Right Way to Talk to a Teen Struggling With Mental Health?

    12/02/2025

    What’s the Right Way to Talk to a Teen Struggling With Mental Health?

    Content Warning: This episode discusses suicide, self-harm, and mental health. Please listen with care.    What if your teen’s big emotions weren’t the problem, but your response was?  Kate Mason sits down with licensed therapist and author Katie K. May, a leading expert in teen self-harm, DBT, and emotional regulation. Together, they explore the often-quiet struggles parents face when their teenager is overwhelmed by big, burning feelings, what Katie calls being “on fire.”  Drawing from her personal journey and professional experience, Katie explains why some kids feel more intensely, how parents unintentionally fuel the flames, and the radical shift needed to connect with and support teens through emotional storms.    Listen For 3:36 Why do teens self-harm and what does it achieve? 7:26 How did Katie K. May overcome self-harm and trauma? 12:57 What is radical acceptance in parenting? 20:32 Why does fixing your teen often backfire? 30:15 Can stable teens still engage in self-destructive behavior?   Leave a rating/review for this podcast with one click      Connect with guest: Katie K. May LinkedIn | TikTok | Instagram | Instagram | Facebook     Contact Kate:  Email | Website | Kate’s Book on Amazon | LinkedIn | Facebook | X

    1h 13m
  6. Why Your Baby’s First Foods Matter More Than You Think

    11/25/2025

    Why Your Baby’s First Foods Matter More Than You Think

    Is your baby really hungry—or just hooked on ultra-processed foods?  Kate Mason sits down with children’s nutritionist and author Mandy Sacher to unravel the tangled world of feeding babies and toddlers.  From decoding misleading food labels to tackling fussy eating head-on, Mandy shares her powerful journey, from developing childhood obesity programs with UK hospitals to launching Australia's first real food rating system.  She opens up about how her own child’s love of broccoli sparked a national movement for better children's nutrition.  Together, Kate and Mandy tackle the myths, the fears, and the everyday realities of starting solids, avoiding food-related anxiety, and raising resilient eaters in an ultra-processed world.    Listen For 3:02 Why did Mandy shift to kids' nutrition? 6:00 What’s wrong with food labels? 12:47 When should babies start solids? 19:10 How can parents stay calm at mealtimes? 34:34 When does picky eating start?   Leave a rating/review for this podcast with one click     Connect with guest: Mandy Sacher | Pediatric Nutritionist and Chief Nutrition Officer  Website | Instagram | Real Food Rating Instagram | Facebook | YouTube    Contact Kate:  Email | Website | Kate’s Book on Amazon | LinkedIn | Facebook | X

    47 min
  7. REPLAY - Adult Kids Moving Back Home: Is This the NEW NORMAL?

    11/18/2025

    REPLAY - Adult Kids Moving Back Home: Is This the NEW NORMAL?

    This is an episode originally published in November 2024. It is one of my most popular.  Are you tired of living with your adult kids? The phenomenon of adult children living at home with their parents has become increasingly common, leaving many to wonder: is this the new normal? Kate looks at the realities of adults living with their parents, whether due to economic challenges or shifting cultural norms.  Joined by life coach Jeanine Mouchawar, they discuss how to navigate this complex dynamic with grace and mutual respect.  From reshaping communication styles to setting boundaries and fostering independence, this episode is packed with practical advice for parents and adult children.   Listen For: 7:06 Parental expectations vs. economic realities 13:56 Resetting boundaries 17:51 Avoiding conflicts: Top communication strategies 22:32 Sitting in the hole: How to truly support your child Guest: Jeanine Mouchawar Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn | Website | Website | Contact Kate: Email | Website | Kate’s Book on Amazon | LinkedIn | Facebook | X

    29 min

  8. 11/11/2025

    How to Set Boundaries with Family During Christmas Chaos?

    Is Christmas your calm or your chaos?  Kate Mason welcomes returning couple therapists Helen and Shahn to unpack why the festive season so often becomes a pressure cooker and how couples can reclaim it with clarity and compassion.  They share their own blended-family reset, choosing Christmas morning at home to create sleep, sanity, and new traditions. From end-of-year exhaustion to old family roles that snap back under one roof, they explain how reactivity takes over and how to stay “untangled” by planning ahead, agreeing on boundaries, and responding by values.  You will hear practical scripts like saying “ouch, that is sharp,” advice for united communication with parents and in laws, and survival tips that include pre warning, lightening the alcohol, and offering grace when family of origin ghosts appear.  The result is a toolkit for couples who want a kinder, more intentional holiday season. Listen For 3:00 How do you create new Christmas traditions when old ones no longer work? 7:28 Why does Christmas bring back old family roles and tension? 11:00 What should you do if you're stuck with a toxic relative during dinner? 23:42 How can couples set boundaries with their families around Christmas? 30:13 What are the best survival strategies for a smoother festive season?   Leave a rating/review for this podcast with one click     Connect with guests:  Shahn Baker Sorekli, Director | Author | App Founder | Clinical Psychologist | Couples Therapist | Board Approved Supervisor Shahn's LinkedIn  Helen Robertson, Director | Clinical Psychologist | Author | Advanced Certified Schema Therapist | Schema Certified Supervisor | Board Approved Supervisor Helen's LinkedIn    The 8 Love Links Book | Website | Instagram |TikTok |Tiktok     Contact Kate:  Email | Website | Kate’s Book on Amazon | LinkedIn | Facebook | X

    41 min
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One thing about being a parent – there’s no shortage of personalities to be surrounded by. Our kids, our partners, our family, our friends. They keep us laughing, growing, loving, and crying. If only they understood us. Like the musician Van Morrison once sang “When people understand what I mean, mama said there will be days like this.” Adelaide Australia’s Kate Mason is an author, wife, and mother who has spent her career studying personality and relationships. In this podcast she looks at why relationships work, and why some don't. She also looks at how our personalities impact our relationships and examines what compels our children, husbands, wives and others to behave the way they do. This podcast is designed to help you understand those you love. A half hour listening on your own, will connect you with the ones you care about the most.

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