Parents Who Think

Danusia Malina-Derben
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Parents Who Think

The Parents Who Think debate podcast interrupts our parenting status quo. Join Danusia Malina-Derben entrepreneur, author and mother of 10 for no-holds-barred debates between intelligent parents with diverse perspectives as they deliver raw and unfiltered opinions on crucial parenting dilemmas. Whether you see yourself as a mainstream parent or embrace ‘marginalized’ views, PWT injects clarity into the hard realities of parenthood. Agreement is not the goal in the show; it’s about finding your unique path in the messy, real-world chaos of raising kids. Flex your agency, think, and redefine modern parenthood with PWT, where debate is done different.

  1. 1 DAY AGO

    Joy After Trauma with Shoshana Garfield

    Join Host, Danusia Malina-Derben brings you a powerful conversation with Dr Shoshana Garfield, a survivor of childhood torture and sexual abuse. Shoshana shares her journey of healing and self-reclamation, highlighting the importance of forgiveness,  self-compassion, and relentless kindness.   This episode explores the long-term impacts of trauma and the process of overcoming adversity to create a life filled with freedom and joy. Shoshana also discusses her work as an expert in torture rehabilitation and the power of energy psychology in her own healing journey.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

    15 min

  2. FEB 15

    No Kids, No Apologies with Rachel Pesso

    In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia is in conversation with Rachel Pesso, brand designer and unapologetic truth-teller, about her choice to skip motherhood—despite the relentless pressure to conform. Rachel gets real about the fear of judgment, the selfish-woman stereotype, and those infuriating "you'll change your mind" conversations. Spoiler: she hasn’t.   Together, they blow up the outdated myth that motherhood is the only path to fulfillment. Rachel opens up about navigating anxiety, holding onto her ambitions, and the deeply ingrained expectations that make women feel like they have to disappear when they become mothers. This is a conversation that hits deep.   If you've ever questioned the script society wrote for you, this one’s for you. Tune in and let’s rewrite the rules.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

    14 min

  3. FEB 8

    Style Unleashed with Yvadney Davis

    Danusia is joined by Yvadney Davis to explore the magic of fashion as self-expression. Whether it’s metallic joggers, kaftans, or Katharine Hepburn-inspired classics, Yvadney serves up insights on owning your style unapologetically.   From experimenting with bold looks to raising kids who feel confident in their clothing choices, this episode is a celebration of individuality. Yvadney even shares how motherhood gave her the ultimate confidence boost: “If I can give birth in front of strangers, I can dress however I want.”   This is your reminder to have fun with fashion, embrace your unique slay, and never let trends define you.   Press play and prepare to feel inspired!   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

    14 min

  4. FEB 1

    Raising Consciousness About Race with Uju Asika

    Today, host Danusia Malina-Derben is joined by author Uju Asika. She shares her powerful story of navigating childhood racism, the lessons it taught her, and why hope is at the heart of her work. We talk about when kids start noticing race, why “colorblind” parenting doesn’t work, and how we can have honest, age-appropriate conversations about race. Uju also challenges us to lovingly examine our own lives and the unconscious messages we’re passing on. This is a conversation about healing, growth, and the power of the next generation to make change.   Don’t miss Uju’s book Bringing Up Race: How to Raise a Kind Child in a Prejudiced World. —it’s a game-changer.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

    14 min

  5. JAN 25

    Teen Mom to Netflix Star: Mary Bonnet’s Story of Grit and Glamour

    In this episode of Parents Who Think, Danusia interviews Selling Sunset star Mary Bonnet about her inspiring journey from being a teen mom to becoming a powerhouse in high-end real estate. Mary opens up about the challenges she faced raising her son at 15, the grit it took to thrive, and how she’s still raising the bar.   They discuss the work ethic Mary developed as a teen mom and how it shaped her success, overcoming societal expectations and the realities of juggling ambition and motherhood, and tackling double standards, from ageism to gender dynamics in business. Mary also shares her thoughts on having children in her 40s and how technology is redefining motherhood.   This candid conversation is packed with wisdom and inspiration for anyone looking to break barriers and chase their dreams.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

    13 min

  6. JAN 18

    Asking for What You Want with Emer Brady

    Why is asking for what we want so hard? In this episode, host Danusia Malina-Derben gets into this question with guest Emer Brady, exploring the barriers many women face when advocating for themselves. From the subtleties of language to the power of body language, this conversation is packed with practical tips for anyone looking to show up stronger—especially in the workplace.   You'll hear why apologetic language holds us back, how to communicate assertively without losing authenticity, and the importance of preparation before asking for what you need. Plus, there’s a fascinating discussion on the role of cultural dynamics in how requests are received and why understanding your audience matters as much as knowing what you want.   One standout insight? Advocacy isn’t just about the ask—it’s about planting seeds, listening actively, and learning from those who’ve mastered the skill. With actionable tips like video-recording yourself to refine your delivery or observing how others successfully navigate workplace dynamics, this episode is a practical guide for turning self-doubt into self-confidence.   If you’ve ever hesitated to speak up or worried about being seen as “too much,” this episode will leave you with tools to start making your voice heard. A must-listen for anyone ready to reframe their mindset and take action.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

    14 min

  7. JAN 11

    Reframing Mother-Daughter Dynamics with Harriet Malina-Derben

    In this episode, Danusia is joined by her daughter, Harriet Malina-Derben, for a candid conversation about the complexities of mother-daughter relationships. Together, they unpack the generational patterns that can trap these bonds in negativity, from societal expectations that pit women against each other to the stereotyped idea of “tricky” mother-daughter dynamics.   This heartfelt exchange dives into the importance of recognizing mothers as fully human—flaws, history, and all—and explores how adult daughters can shift their perspective to foster a deeper, more mutual connection. Harriet offers insights on how viewing mothers through a lens of empathy can transform a relationship once riddled with misunderstandings into one of empowerment and growth.   The pair also reflect on breaking free from patriarchal narratives and embracing an ongoing exchange of wisdom between mothers and daughters. From the emotional rollercoaster of raising daughters to the intensity of female relationships, this conversation is full of practical takeaways for anyone seeking to build stronger bonds.   If you’ve ever struggled to navigate your relationship with your mother or daughter, this episode offers plenty of food for thought—and hope.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

    12 min

  8. 12/14/2024

    Good Enough Parenting with Dr Joanna Fortune

    Perfection is overrated—especially in parenting. In this thought-provoking episode, Danusia Malina-Derben sits down with Dr Joanna Fortune, child psychotherapist and author, to challenge the myths of perfect parenting and embrace being “good enough.”   Joanna shares about the concept of parental stamina—how to recharge your tank without guilt—and why your own self-care isn’t just essential but a powerful teaching tool for your kids. From playful strategies (hello, dance breaks!) to the importance of taking time-outs (for parents too!), you’ll discover practical ways to lighten the load without compromising connection.   And here’s the kicker: Joanna shares her bold take on why kids shouldn’t be the centre of the family universe. Spoiler alert: happy parents create a solid foundation for happy kids.   This episode? A guilt-free guide to doing your best, showing your kids it’s okay to make mistakes, and letting go of the pressure to be perfect. Permission to be good enough granted.   Discover more from us: • Join PWT community on Substack • Follow us on Instagram • Connect with Danusia • Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts • Advertising Inquiries here   Credits: • Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben • Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Marie Kruz • Cover art by Anthony Oram

    15 min
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The Parents Who Think debate podcast interrupts our parenting status quo. Join Danusia Malina-Derben entrepreneur, author and mother of 10 for no-holds-barred debates between intelligent parents with diverse perspectives as they deliver raw and unfiltered opinions on crucial parenting dilemmas. Whether you see yourself as a mainstream parent or embrace ‘marginalized’ views, PWT injects clarity into the hard realities of parenthood. Agreement is not the goal in the show; it’s about finding your unique path in the messy, real-world chaos of raising kids. Flex your agency, think, and redefine modern parenthood with PWT, where debate is done different.

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  • Creator
    Danusia Malina-Derben
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2025
  • Episodes
    299
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Parents Who Think formerly School for Mothers
  • Show Website
    Parents Who Think

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