Peace Talk: Question Your Thoughts Change Your World with Grace Bell & Friends

Grace Bell, change coach + therapist

Peace Talk is hosted by Grace Bell, facilitator of The Work of Byron Katie. You'll hear folks from all walks of life dedicated to self-inquiry especially using The Work and IBSR (inquiry based stress reduction)...and the life of freedom and joy that can be led by having an open mind, and looking.

Episodes

  1. Peace Talk Episode 293: How to Question a Thought in Under 5 Minutes | The Work of Byron Katie

    12/15/2025

    Peace Talk Episode 293: How to Question a Thought in Under 5 Minutes | The Work of Byron Katie

    Today's Grace Note is about making inquiry accessible—because you don't need perfect conditions to question your thoughts. Someone once asked me: "How long does The Work take? I don't have time to journal for an hour every time I'm upset." Here's the truth: you can question a thought in under five minutes. In the car. While making coffee. While your kid is getting their shoes on. The point isn't to do it perfectly. The point is to do it. 🎁 FREE STARTER KIT: First Response Guide to Thought Storms Includes the 4 Questions laid out step-by-step for quick inquiry Download: https://workwithgrace.lpages.co/starter-kit-first-response-guide-to-thought-storms/ In this video: The 5-minute speed version of Byron Katie's inquiry process Why waiting for "perfect conditions" keeps you stuck Step-by-step breakdown: 6 steps in 5 minutes Byron Katie's Four Questions: Is it true? Can you absolutely know that it's true? How do you react when you believe that thought? Who would you be without that thought? Turn the thought to the opposite, to yourself, switch places with the other This week's practice: Set a timer for 5 minutes. Pick one recurring stressful thought. Question it using the steps in this video. This is part of my series: Grace Notes + The Work of Byron Katie. Grace Notes are excerpts from my newsletter (2011-present) where I documented my inquiry journey. At the end of each week I share one concept from a Grace Note and then dive into a practice from The Work. New to The Work? Visit thework.com for free resources and worksheets. New videos 3x/week: 📅 Mondays - How minds work, therapy insights, wisdom teachings 📅 Wednesdays - Inquiry for compulsive eating & addiction 📅 Fridays - The Work of Byron Katie + Grace Note readings CONNECT: 🌐 Website: workwithgrace.com 📧 Email: gracewithwork@gmail.com 💬 What's your biggest barrier to doing inquiry? Let me know in the comments.

    15 min
  2. 12/14/2025

    Peace Talk Episode 292 Questioning the thought: I cannot stop this behavior (eating, drinking, screening, etc)

    "I Can't Stop" - Is It True? | Client Story Using The Work "I can't stop eating." or I can't stop drinking or I can't stop thinking about my ex-boyfriend. If you've ever thought this and felt completely defeated by it, this video is for you. Today I'm sharing a common client story about what happens when we question this thought using Byron Katie's inquiry process.  🎁 FREE STARTER KIT: First Response Guide to Thought Storms Includes the 4 Questions framework for questioning any stressful thought Download: https://workwithgrace.lpages.co/start... In this video: Why "I can't stop" is not actually true The four questions that revealed what was really happening The difference between "I can't stop eating" and "I can't stop thinking about eating" and also "I can't stop feeling" Bring curiosity to your wonderful self--this is the peaceful path. Put your behavior out of a job more naturally, instead of applying aggression.  Key insight: The problem isn't the eating. It's thoughts about the eating that makes you feel powerless, and thoughts about life that make you feel powerless. This is part of my Wednesday series on inquiry for emotional eating and compulsive behaviors. While I focus on emotional eating, this questioning process works for any "I can't stop" thought—drinking, scrolling, worrying, people-pleasing. New videos 3x/week: 📅 Mondays - How minds work, therapy insights, wisdom teachings 📅 Wednesdays - Inquiry for compulsive eating & addiction 📅 Fridays - The Work of Byron Katie + Grace Note readings CONNECT: 🌐 Website: workwithgrace.com 📧 Email: gracewithwork@gmail.com 💬 What's one "I can't stop" thought you'd like to question? Drop it in the comments.

    9 min
4.8
out of 5
51 Ratings

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Peace Talk is hosted by Grace Bell, facilitator of The Work of Byron Katie. You'll hear folks from all walks of life dedicated to self-inquiry especially using The Work and IBSR (inquiry based stress reduction)...and the life of freedom and joy that can be led by having an open mind, and looking.

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