Placemarker 4 Perversion Podcast

Audry Lu Black
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Welcome to Placemarker4Perversion, hosted by Mistress Audry Lu Black. Join me as we leave behind the mundane and draw back the velvet curtain to learn new things and explore the philosophical depths of kink. This inclusive space dismantles rigid expectations, welcoming seasoned sensualists, the “just curious”, and tenderfoot trembling on the threshold. You'll find a sanctuary here. Even after 25 years of wielding the lash and enjoying sculpting consensual behavioral modification techniques, Mistress Audry Lu Black knows the pursuit of understanding is an unending dance—and her kink. What can want teach us? How are lust and longing powerful tools for self-actualization? From Plato to pegging, fisting to Freud. We’ll learn together from experts, philosophers, voices you have never heard, and guardians of ethical play. Join us to explore power, vulnerability, and consent, where the human mind meets ethical kink - one knot, one caress, one whispered word at a time.

  1. Love in a Time of Chronic Illness with Andrew Turner

    APR 1

    Love in a Time of Chronic Illness with Andrew Turner

    In this conversation, K. Andrew Turner and Mistress Audry Lu Black dissect the intersection of queerness, identity, and disability. They talk about navigating public spaces engineered for exclusion. Access and accommodation are not generosity; they are the minimum requirements for any community that claims to be inclusive. Their dialogue encompasses love, attraction, and the dynamics of relationships. They unpack informed consent, disclosure in dating, and the ways desire shifts alongside bodies, capacity, and circumstance. Grief is given its due—not as an ending, but as a teacher—and the conversation returns to honest communication. With humor and unflinching vulnerability, this discussion supposes that genuine connection is not accidental. It is built through openness, respect, and the courage to be fully seen. Content warning: Conversation around Grief, medical information, disability and consent Featured toy/resource: Andrew’s Book: Heart, Mind, Blood. You can find it at the link below: https://www.amazon.com/Heart-Mind-Blood-Andrew-Turner/dp/163534526X/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=heart+mind+blood+skin+turner&qid=1594525538&sr=8-1 K. Andrew Turner writes queer, literary and speculative fiction, poetry, and nonfiction in stolen weekday moments. In 2013, he founded East Jasmine Review—an electronic literary journal, with a focus on publishing diverse writers. He was a semifinalist for the 2016 Luminaire Award in poetry. His full-length poetry collection Heart, Mind, Blood, Skin is now available from Finishing Line Press. He also has a chapbook, “Gymlationship” from Arroyo Seco Press His work has also appeared in Chiron Review, LUMMOX, Carnival Literary, Sadie Girl Press, MUSE, Redshift, and other publications and anthologies. Find more at www.kandrewturner.com or follow him on X/Instagram/BlueSky @kandrewturner. Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

    1h 13m
  2. Ethical Bratting 101 with Sckratch

    MAR 15

    Ethical Bratting 101 with Sckratch

    In this conversation, Mistress AudryLu Black and Sckratch delve into the nuances of bratting within the BDSM community. They explore the various styles of bratting, emphasizing the importance of respectful interaction, understanding boundaries, and the intent behind teasing. They also explore the playful nature of bratting, contrasting it with petty behavior, and the importance of negotiation in establishing dynamics. The conversation highlights the multifaceted nature of kink, where humor, vulnerability, and emotional safety intertwine to create fulfilling experiences. Toy: NiceLeatherGear Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

    1h 15m
  3. Losing Power, Finding Self with Mistress Natalie

    MAR 1

    Losing Power, Finding Self with Mistress Natalie

    In this conversation, Mistress Audry Lu Black and Mistress Natalie delve into the complexities of power dynamics within BDSM relationships. They explore the balance between ego and submission and the human needs that underpin power exchanges. The discussion also highlights generational shifts in attitudes towards power and intimacy, advocating for a more holistic approach to self-care and emotional well-being in the context of BDSM. In this engaging conversation, Mistress Natalie and Audry Lu Black explore various aspects of BDSM, including role-switching, favorite toys, the importance of communication, and the definitions of dominance and submission. They emphasize the significance of negotiation and the ongoing nature of power exchange dynamics, highlighting the need for safety and mutual understanding in relationships. Today’s resources include: Square Peg Toys silicone bvtt plugs https://www.squarepegtoys.com/shop/ Rattan switch https://amzn.to/3M1anEH Ilan Lev method – gentle, hands-on bodywork and movement practice https://ilanlev.org/en/ MITPISA is a form developed to make any kind of scene negotiation easier and ensure that safety issues are addressed. We recommend using this form when negotiating pick up play, or before the execution of any scene, even one that was more thoroughly negotiated at some time earlier than the actual play date. https://kinkcollective.net/ Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

    1h 15m
  4. Wanna Learn More Network with Evey Winters

    FEB 16

    Wanna Learn More Network with Evey Winters

    In this conversation, Mistress Audry Lu BLack sits down with Evey Winters to explore what happens inside isolationist spaces—how the promise of belonging can quietly harden into rigid, black-and-white thinking. They unpack “red pill” ideology and the way it rejects nuance, demanding absolutes where real human experience lives in the gray. Together, they also turn toward survival and truth: why believing survivors matters, how sexual assault trauma reshapes lives, and the exhausting, often brutal obstacles survivors face when they try to seek justice. This is a conversation about listening without defensiveness, holding complexity without flinching, and choosing empathy over easy answers. Content warning: sexual assault, sexual abuse and death Today’s resources include: Have a Gay Day: https://haveagayday.org/ Wanna Learn More Network: http://www.wannalearnmore.com/ Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

    1h 19m
  5. The Only Consultant, Taxes and T*****s with Katherine Studley

    FEB 1

    The Only Consultant, Taxes and T*****s with Katherine Studley

    In this conversation, Mistress AudryLu Black sits down with Katherine Studley—a tax consultant who works fluently in the spicy economy—to unravel the quiet complexities of filing taxes as a sex worker. They talk about the realities that rarely make it into polite financial advice: stigma, discretion, and the very real labor of keeping your livelihood protected in a world that isn’t always kind or fair. Katherine breaks down why treating your work like a business matter—how clean organization, separating personal and professional finances, and, in some cases, forming an LLC can be acts of both self-respect and self-defense. Along the way, she offers clear, practical guidance on staying compliant, avoiding common mistakes, and building financial systems that don’t rely on shame or secrecy. Most importantly, she models what so many in this industry need but rarely receive: a judgment-free space where questions are welcome, realities are acknowledged, and taking care of yourself is not only allowed but encouraged. Important links: www.IRS.gov https://stan.store/theonlyconsultant Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

    1 hr
  6. Big C**t Energy and the Orgasm Revolution

    JAN 15

    Big C**t Energy and the Orgasm Revolution

    In this layered exchange, Mistress Audrey Lu Black and Eve Hall approach intimacy with both curiosity and command—unpacking “Big C**t Energy” as a philosophy of confidence, communication, and embodied awareness rather than a slogan. They move through sexual health with clarity and care, touching on pelvic floor wellness, fantasy, and roleplay as tools for connection, not performance. The conversation widens to include nonverbal language, the difference between sex and intimacy, and the persistent orgasm gap—examined without shame, but with precision. Kink appears here as a framework for consent, boundaries, and deeper dialogue, while trauma is acknowledged as something that deserves patience and education, not silence. What emerges is an invitation to self-care, playfulness, and honest conversation—because fulfillment, like confidence, grows where attention is paid. Some truths linger in the body long after the conversation ends. Content warning: sexual trauma www.pleaseme.online On her website, you’ll find: An intimate toy store with a dedicated kink and BDSM-friendly sectionTrusted sexual wellness affiliates and product recommendationsContact information for sexual health coaching, intimacy coaching, and Physical Therapy servicesCredits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

    1h 13m
  7. Odyssey of Kink with Lady Sheba

    JAN 1

    Odyssey of Kink with Lady Sheba

    In this conversation, Lady Sheba moves with the kind of confidence that comes from lived knowledge—speaking as a dominatrix, educator, and artist who understands both the psychology and the poetry of her world. She traces the quiet power of makeup as ritual and signal, reflects on her stewardship at the Carter/Johnson Library, and honors leather not just as material, but as memory—stitched deeply into LGBTQ history and survival. Woven through it all are reflections on representation, mentorship, and how kink relationships continue to evolve with more intention, care, and community than ever before. Lady Sheba’s photographic installation will be on view at the Carter/Johnson Library & Collection in January 2026. Some legacies don’t just ask to be seen—they invite you to look closer. https://carterjohnsonlibrary.com/ https://cjlcleather.com/ Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower and Zinnia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger.

    58 min
  8. Intuitive Topping with Maeve McBride

    12/15/2025

    Intuitive Topping with Maeve McBride

    This conversation, between Mistress Audry Lu Black and Maeve McBride, delves into the intricate connections between sexuality, kink, and personal empowerment. They explore how societal norms shape our understanding of worth, the intersection of birth and kink, and the importance of education in fostering acceptance and safety in vulnerable experiences. They discuss the significance of boundaries in professional settings and the emotional labor involved in client relationships. The conversation also highlights community dynamics, representation, and the transformative impact of kink on personal growth. In this engaging conversation, Audry Lu Black and Maeve explore the importance of sexual education for future generations, the intersection of kink and societal norms, and the role of fashion in self-expression. They discuss the significance of community building and education within the kink world, highlighting events like KinkFest that celebrate diversity and learning. The conversation also delves into personal kinks and boundaries, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's desires and the nuances of consent. https://www.kinkfest.org/home.php Book: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk Credits: Producers Maypop, Siren, Sunflower, Zinnia and Dahlia; Sound Editor Primrose; Music Creators Nick Ruiz and Dawson Kroeger

    1h 12m
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Welcome to Placemarker4Perversion, hosted by Mistress Audry Lu Black. Join me as we leave behind the mundane and draw back the velvet curtain to learn new things and explore the philosophical depths of kink. This inclusive space dismantles rigid expectations, welcoming seasoned sensualists, the “just curious”, and tenderfoot trembling on the threshold. You'll find a sanctuary here. Even after 25 years of wielding the lash and enjoying sculpting consensual behavioral modification techniques, Mistress Audry Lu Black knows the pursuit of understanding is an unending dance—and her kink. What can want teach us? How are lust and longing powerful tools for self-actualization? From Plato to pegging, fisting to Freud. We’ll learn together from experts, philosophers, voices you have never heard, and guardians of ethical play. Join us to explore power, vulnerability, and consent, where the human mind meets ethical kink - one knot, one caress, one whispered word at a time.

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