Planned-ish

Alexandra & Joe

Planned-ish is the parenting podcast for people who love a good plan… but also know life rarely follows one. Hosted by Alexandra (planner, mom of twins, hosting enthusiast) and her husband Joe (reluctant co-host, golf & football guy, hilarious dad), this show brings real talk, big laughs, and zero judgment to the beautiful chaos of modern parenting. Each week, we unpack the mess and magic of raising kids, managing relationships, navigating careers, and keeping your sanity somewhere in between. With recurring segments like The Debrief, Elite-ish 8, and In the Group Chat, we bring the kind of conversations you’re already having at home or late-night texts with your best friend. Expect guests who do cool things, actually helpful insights, and a podcast that’s fun, real, and never takes itself too seriously — because parenting isn’t perfect, and we’re not pretending it is. Let’s figure it out as we go — Planned-ish style.

  1. 28 - Valentine’s Day, Strawberry Picking, and a Sourdough That Runs Our House

    2D AGO

    28 - Valentine’s Day, Strawberry Picking, and a Sourdough That Runs Our House

    We’re debriefing the week exactly as it happened: twin potty training is still very much alive, we took the boys strawberry picking—where Brodie tapped out in 10 minutes and immediately found mud, obviously—plus quick Super Bowl thoughts and the snack situation. We also talk Valentine’s Day, because it’s coming whether we’re ready or not. We wrap with Elite-ish 8: Valentine’s Edition—our picks for date ideas that don’t feel forced, overdone, or like a rom-com from 2004. Think realistic, fun, and doable… even in the toddler trenches. Also: we did our Home Base Hosting Club theme “A Slice of Home” as a family pizza night and it was exactly the kind of “this feels special without being a whole production” moment we needed. Brody went rogue with the cheese. Tate turned potty time into a game. Balance. AND my sourdough starter has officially become the neediest member of our household. Apparently she requires warmth, distilled water, constant feeding, and emotional support (same). TBD if she rises or ruins my confidence. If you want the full pizza night plan + menu + timeline—whether you’re hosting people or just making a regular night feel fun—it’s live inside Home Base Hosting Club. 🔗 Follow along: @backtwohomebase ✨ Home Base Hosting Club: backtwohomebase.com/homebasehostingclub 🔗 Potty Training blog & items we used: https://www.backtwohomebase.com/elite-ish-edit/pottytrainingtwins planned-ish podcast | twin toddler life | potty training regression | potty training twins | strawberry picking with kids | mom life unfiltered | marriage + parenting | Super Bowl snacks | Valentine’s Day date ideas | realistic Valentine’s Day | Elite-ish 8 | family pizza night | make your own pizza night | hosting made easy | intentional family moments | sourdough starter | beginner sourdough | weekly debrief | Back Two Home Base | Home Base Hosting Club #PlannedishPodcast #TwinToddlerLife #ValentinesRealLife #MomLifeUnfiltered #HostingMadeEasy

    28 min
  2. 27 - Potty Training Twins: White on Rice

    FEB 4

    27 - Potty Training Twins: White on Rice

    Hello, you lovely, lovely planned-ish people. 😅 We just wrapped a three-day potty training bender with the twins — no spoilers yet, but we’ve never been more aware of everyone’s bathroom schedule in our lives. Before we dive into the chaos, we hit our classic weekly debrief: Dry-ish January is still alive, the to-do lists are list-ing, and we’re realizing we genuinely don’t have the time (or emotional capacity) to be hungover with toddlers. Also: Alexandra officially entered her “two-times-ever permanent hair color era”… and let’s just say the balayage math had us questioning career choices. Then we get into potty training weekend with Brodie & Tate — the surprises, the mental exhaustion, the tiny wins that feel like Super Bowl-level celebrations, and why twins make everything a two-person job. (We’re saving the deep dive for an upcoming guest episode, but we HAD to debrief the household chaos.) We wrap with this week’s Elite-ish 8: Things That Are Green — and it’s way funnier than it sounds. (Money, green lights, pickles, The Grinch… we’re unwell.) Go vote on Instagram and help us keep this season moving. 🔗 Follow along: @backtwohomebase ✨ Home Base Hosting Club: backtwohomebase.com/homebasehostingclub potty training twins | toddler potty training | twin mom life | parenting podcast | planned-ish podcast | dry January | sober-ish January | marriage and parenting | toddler routines | potty training tips | family routines | sleep deprived parents | mom life humor | Tampa mom | hosting at home | family dinners | home organization | Back Two Home Base | Home Base Hosting Club | Elite-ish 8 #PlannedishPodcast #TwinMomLife #PottyTrainingWeekend #DryJanuary #ParentingHumor

    37 min
  3. 26 - Football Energy, Overhyped Foods, Zero Chill

    JAN 28

    26 - Football Energy, Overhyped Foods, Zero Chill

    Welcome back, you wonderful planned-ish people. If you’ve ever tried to make dinner while your husband is yelling at the TV and your toddler is sprinting around chanting “GO PACK GO”… welcome home. 😅 We chat on: our painful recording fail (RIP to the lost episode thanks to an echo + two mics + zero headphones 🙃)sharing what “dry-ish January” has actually done for our energydebriefing Joe’s first-ever Traeger brisket (complete with the stall, the wrap, and the “we were hungry so we rushed the rest” moment). Then we dive into what you requested: football + sports in our household how we became a sports house (or more accurately… a “sports husband”)why football hits differenthow a win vs. loss shifts the vibewhat it’s like living with playoff-mode Joe. also talk kids + sports, screen time during football season (we’re fine with it), and why game day = food… but the goal is great meals with minimal kitchen destruction. And of course, we wrap with a heated Elite-ish 8: the most overrated foods (margs, Nutella, avocado toast, Eggs Benedict… we said what we said). Go vote on Instagram and help us break the season tie. Plus: if you missed our cleaner-swaps convo, I put the whole “starter kit” in my blog + you can grab my Reset Sheet in that post to make the switch without going full 180. 🔗 Follow along: @backtwohomebase | www.backtwohomebase.com ✨ Home Base Hosting Club: backtwohomebase.com/homebasehostingclub planned-ish podcast, football marriage, sports household, Packers fans, game day meals, hosting game day, dry January, Traeger brisket, toddler mom life, potty training weekend, clean reset, cleaner swaps, Branch Basics, family routines, Super Bowl food ideas #PlannedishPodcast #MomLifeUnfiltered #GameDayEats #FootballFamily #HostingMadeEasy

    47 min
  4. 25 - Real Life > Resolutions: Our 2026 Reset + Lifestyle-First Business (With Lindsey Wagnon)

    JAN 14

    25 - Real Life > Resolutions: Our 2026 Reset + Lifestyle-First Business (With Lindsey Wagnon)

    This week on Planned-ish, Joe and I kick off the first episode of the year with a brutally real debrief: toddler Christmas programs, the “not-the-4pm-flu” flu that took us OUT, and what it looks like to parent when you’re running on Zofran + vibes. We also talk New Year intentions that actually work in real life (not fantasy-land), plus our Elite-ish 8: things that instantly make the week better. Then I’m joined by Lindsey Wagnon — mom of two, former corporate marketing leader turned agency owner, recovering perfectionist, and marketing strategist who helps small businesses launch with smart messaging. We get into burnout, priorities, and building a business that fits your life (not the other way around). We talk: – The moment she knew corporate life wasn’t sustainable anymore (& what pushed her to leave) – Ditching the expectation that moms have to want the “standard path” – Recovering perfectionism + embracing the “B+ lifestyle” in motherhood – Why priorities come before business goals (lifestyle-first planning) – How to simplify an overloaded to-do list without guilt – Marketing strategy vs. brand storytelling (and what actually moves the needle) Plus: ✨ Debrief + New Year Reset with Joe: the holiday flu chaos, the post-holiday overstimulation crash, and our real-life 2026 intentions (communication + active listening, less guilt, less comparison, more realistic routines) 📝 Resolutions + Reflections: what we’re leaving in 2025, what we’re focusing on in 2026 (health, communication), and goals that are actually doable in the toddler trenches 🏆 Elite-ish 8: things that instantly improve your week (sleep, meal plan, clean sheets, a midweek treat, to-do lists, quality time with the kids, and more) ✨ Follow Lindsey: Instagram | www.lindseywagnon.com 🎧 Her podcast: Savvy Startup Marketer 🔗 Follow along: @backtwohomebase | www.backtwohomebase.com ✨ Home Base Hosting Club: backtwohomebase.com/homebasehostingclub 🔗 New Years Vision Canvas + Q1 Bingo Card: https://www.backtwohomebase.com/elite-ish-edit/newyearvisions mom podcast, parenting toddlers, mom burnout, marriage communication, realistic New Year goals, family routines, mental load, burnout recovery, working mom life, corporate to entrepreneur, mom business owner, lifestyle-first business, recovering perfectionist, mental load, priorities over perfection, time management for moms, productivity for moms, marketing strategy, messaging strategy, content strategy, small business marketing, agency owner, mom routines, realistic goal setting #mompreneur #momlifeunfiltered #parentingpodcast #marketingstrategy #toddlermomlife

    1h 15m
  5. 24 - Tinsel, Toddlers & Thriving in the Interruptions (With Sydney O’Brien)

    12/17/2025

    24 - Tinsel, Toddlers & Thriving in the Interruptions (With Sydney O’Brien)

    This week on Planned-ish, we’re sitting down with Sydney O’Brien — content & messaging strategist, military spouse, mom of three, and queen of building a business in the cracks of real life. From deployment seasons to school transitions and schedules that never look the same two days in a row, Sydney basically lives in the planned-ish trenches every day. We talk: – Starting a business during deployment with a 6-month-old, 2-year-old, and 4-year-old – How to build something meaningful when plans change every five minutes – Letting “good enough” actually be enough for the house, the business, and the to-do list – Mental load, invisible labor, and why communication with your partner + kids matters so much – Boundaries, expectations, and how to talk about what you need without burning out Plus: ✨ Debrief of the Week: Two and a half weeks of family in town, school Christmas programs, Mickey’s Once & Twice Upon a Christmas on repeat, and the great “treadmill” Christmas gift reveal 💩 Poopgate 2025: Twin diaper removals, mystery corner piles, Reddit-level research on potty training, and our very scientific January plan 🎄 Holiday Survival Vibes: Half-hearted workouts, nightly walks, Christmas Eve/Day pasta + burger traditions, and setting tiny, actually-doable New Year’s resolutions 🏆 Elite-ish 8: Top Christmas Movies — Christmas Vacation, The Santa Clause, Home Alone, The Grinch, Christmas with the Kranks, The Holiday, and more comfort-watch chaos Whether you’re hiding Amazon boxes, stepping over toys, debating if Instagram can wait, or just here for Christmas movie talk and twin potty-training solidarity — this one’s got it all, Planned-ish style. 💙 ______________________________________________________________ ✨ Follow Sydney on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sydneyobrien.co/ or visit her site https://sydneyobrien.com/ She helps mompreneurs create content that leads to clients, even with limited time. Check out her podcast too Mompreneur Mastery: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mompreneur-mastery/id1695196941 ______________________________________________________________ 🔗 Follow along: ✨ Follow https://www.instagram.com/backtwohomebase/ for lifestyle, hosting, and podcast updates ✨ Visit www.backtwohomebase.com for great family recipes, hosting kits, party planning vibes ✨Join the Home Base Hosting Club for monthly hosting inspo: https://www.backtwohomebase.com/homebasehostingclub ______________________________________________________________ 💸 Discount Codes: ✨Use code ALEXANDRA40 to get 20% off planners and productivity tools at https://hustlesanely.com?bg_ref=hy0sXI9E0v ✨ Use code: PLANNEDISH to get 10% off Brick at https://getbrick.app/ and take back your time!!

    46 min
  6. 23 - From Timeouts to 529s: Real Life, Real Money, Real Hosting (With Taylor Chaplin)

    11/26/2025

    23 - From Timeouts to 529s: Real Life, Real Money, Real Hosting (With Taylor Chaplin)

    This week on Planned-ish, we’re sitting down with Taylor — wealth advisor at UBS, women’s collective host, Friendsgiving queen, and yes… Alexandra’s sister. From helping families build real-life financial plans to creating spaces where women can talk honestly about money, Taylor is in the middle of where wealth, hosting, and community all meet. We talk: – The simplest money moves families can set up now (that future you will thank you for) – Why automatic savings + 529 plans are “gold standard” and how to actually start – How to make money talks with your partner feel like a check-in, not a fight – What women are really craving when they gather — and how her women’s collective started – How she hosted a gorgeous Friendsgiving using the Seasoned & Gathered kit Plus: ✨ Debrief of the Week: Our most productive week in months — spa afterglow, five at-home workouts, deep-cleaned baseboards, yard work, and celebrating 8 years in our house 🍗 Thanksgiving Chaos Report: 77 grocery-list line items, timeout culture with two-year-olds, twins becoming “restaurant kids,” and Joe’s plan to weigh himself before and after the holiday strictly for science 🏆 Elite-ish 8: Top Thanksgiving Foods (stuffing with sausage, rolls, mac & cheese, cobbler, and the very controversial broccoli casserole) 🍷 Hosting in Real Life: Potluck Friendsgiving, make-ahead menus, and why hosting doesn’t have to mean doing everything yourself Whether you’re trying to get your money life together, looking for hosting inspo, or just here for buttery, broccoli-casserole-level chaos — this one’s got it all, Planned-ish style. 💙 ______________________________________________________________ ✨ If you’re looking for personalized financial planning or need help getting your money systems in place, you can reach out to Taylor directly at: taylor.chaplin@ubs.com She truly is the best at making finances feel clear, doable, and aligned with real life. ______________________________________________________________ 🔗 Follow along: ✨ Follow https://www.instagram.com/backtwohomebase/ for lifestyle, hosting, and podcast updates ✨ Visit www.backtwohomebase.com for great family recipes, hosting kits, party planning vibes ✨Join the Home Base Hosting Club for monthly hosting inspo: https://www.backtwohomebase.com/homebasehostingclub ___________________________________________________________ 💸 Discount Codes: ✨Use code ALEXANDRA40 to get 20% off planners and productivity tools at https://hustlesanely.com?bg_ref=hy0sXI9E0v ✨ Use code: PLANNEDISH to get 10% off Brick at https://getbrick.app/ and take back your time!!

    45 min
  7. 22 - Christmas in November & Four Days of Solo Dad Life

    11/19/2025

    22 - Christmas in November & Four Days of Solo Dad Life

    This week on Planned-ish, we are back after a very on-brand three-week break — two tired parents, one crazy schedule, and Christmas decor already up before the turkey’s even in the oven. 🎄🦃 We’re talking about why waiting for life to “slow down” means you’d never see your people, how our house went from Halloween to full Christmas in seven days (with toddlers), and why attic ladders + decor boxes are Joe’s villain origin story. We also get into timeout culture with toddlers, what actually works for us (spoiler: consistency and very few rules), and Alexandra’s dreamy spa getaway at The Boca Raton… while Joe did a four-day solo dad marathon with school runs, sick twins, and very ambitious breakfast burritos. Plus, we break down this month’s Home Base Hosting Club drop — Seasoned & Gathered — a cozy, non-basic Thanksgiving hosting kit with fall-inspired recipes, an easy wine-tasting activity right at your table, and a kid craft that buys you 20 minutes of sanity. Then we wrap with our Elite-ish 8: Top Thanksgiving Week Activities, drafting everything from football and leftovers to loungewear and Hallmark-level Christmas movies. Plus: ✨ Debrief of the Week: Four days of solo parenting, Domino’s by the fire pit, and why timeouts are our current survival tool 🧖‍♀️ Girls’ Trip Recap: Alexandra’s spa weekend at The Boca Raton and why “health is wealth” is hitting different in our 30s 🍷 Seasoned & Gathered Deep Dive: The November Home Base Hosting Club kit — harvest salad, truffle mac, steak bites, DIY wine tasting, and a kid-friendly turkey craft 🏈 Elite-ish 8: Our draft of Top Thanksgiving Week Activities (football, leftovers, night-before-Thanksgiving bar runs, board games, Christmas movies, and more) If you’re juggling kids, careers, holidays, and a house that somehow has both Christmas lights and baby gates everywhere, this one’s for you. Cozy up in your loungewear, reheat some leftovers, and let’s do the holidays — Planned-ish style. 💙 _________________________________________________ 🔗 Follow along: ✨ Follow @backtwohomebase for lifestyle, hosting, and podcast updates ✨ Visit www.backtwohomebase.com for great family recipes, hosting kits, party planning vibes ✨Join the Home Base Hosting Club for monthly hosting inspo: https://www.backtwohomebase.com/homebasehostingclub _________________________________________________ 💸 Discount Codes: ✨Use code ALEXANDRA40 to get 20% off planners and productivity tools at https://hustlesanely.com?bg_ref=hy0sXI9E0v ✨ Use code: PLANNEDISH to get 10% off Brick at https://getbrick.app/ and take back your time!!

    45 min
  8. 21 - Pumpkin Patches, Candy Taxes & Halloween Chaos

    10/29/2025

    21 - Pumpkin Patches, Candy Taxes & Halloween Chaos

    This week on Planned-ish, we’re back with a full Halloween hangout — pumpkin patches, overpriced candy, and twins living their best spooky season lives. We’re talking about our fourth pumpkin patch of the year, Home Depot “decor” trips, and how long it takes before one kid cries at the animatronic skeleton. We also get into Halloween on a budget, the great “trick-or-treat tax” debate (parents deserve the Reese’s, right?), and reflect on hitting 21 episodes of this wild ride called Planned-ish. Plus: ✨ Our Debrief of the week — pumpkin patches and how after-dinner walks are the new date night ⚡️ Rapid Fire: “What’s Worse — Halloween Edition” (spoiler: it’s fake blood stains) 🏆 Our Elite-ish 8: Top Halloween Candy Grab your mini Snickers, cue up Hocus Pocus, and let’s do spooky season — Planned-ish style. 💙 ____________________________________________________________ 🔗 Follow along: ✨ Follow https://www.instagram.com/backtwohomebase/ for lifestyle, hosting, and podcast updates ✨ Visit www.backtwohomebase.com for great family recipes, hosting kits, party planning vibes ✨Join the Home Base Hosting Club for monthly hosting inspo: https://www.backtwohomebase.com/homebasehostingclub _____________________________________________________________ 💸 Discount Codes: ✨Use code ALEXANDRA40 to get 20% off planners and productivity tools at https://hustlesanely.com?bg_ref=hy0sXI9E0v ✨ Use code: PLANNEDISH to get 10% off Brick at https://getbrick.app/ and take back your time!!

    52 min
5
out of 5
9 Ratings

About

Planned-ish is the parenting podcast for people who love a good plan… but also know life rarely follows one. Hosted by Alexandra (planner, mom of twins, hosting enthusiast) and her husband Joe (reluctant co-host, golf & football guy, hilarious dad), this show brings real talk, big laughs, and zero judgment to the beautiful chaos of modern parenting. Each week, we unpack the mess and magic of raising kids, managing relationships, navigating careers, and keeping your sanity somewhere in between. With recurring segments like The Debrief, Elite-ish 8, and In the Group Chat, we bring the kind of conversations you’re already having at home or late-night texts with your best friend. Expect guests who do cool things, actually helpful insights, and a podcast that’s fun, real, and never takes itself too seriously — because parenting isn’t perfect, and we’re not pretending it is. Let’s figure it out as we go — Planned-ish style.