Play Skillfully

Kathy Eggers

Welcome to Play Skillfully, a podcast from the author of the award-winning curriculum A Year of Playing Skillfully and parent favorite, The Homegrown Preschooler. Join Kathy Eggers as she shares the latest research on the role of play and provides practical ideas to assist you in cultivating wonder and connection with your children. Kathy is the author of A Year of Playing Skillfully, A Summer of Playing Skillfully, The Homegrown Preschooler and 101 Easy, Wacky, Crazy Activities for Young Children.

  1. قبل ٥ أيام

    Why Play, Flexibility, and “It’s Okay” Matter in Homeschooling

    Season seven opens with a recap of summer conference conversations with Kathy and Keri Vasek, centered on the emotional realities of homeschooling young children. The episode focuses on comparison, child-led learning, and how play-based learning becomes more meaningful when parents release the pressure to produce a specific outcome. Kathy and Keri share what they heard again and again from parents at conferences, from worries about being “behind” to the need for permission to trust children’s unique wiring. They also talk about the role of dads, grandparents, and the long-term value of play in the home. 00:00 - Season seven kickoff and conference recap 01:45 - How Keri V connected with families at the booth 03:39 - Why parents aren’t really asking about curriculum, but reassurance 05:23 - Reading early does not mean smarter 06:23 - The trap of comparing children and calling them “behind” 08:22 - Identifying your own strengths instead of only your weaknesses 10:13 - Why children should get the same grace adults want 11:29 - How the same activity looks different for each child 13:34 - What child-led learning actually means 15:05 - Turning the brown mixture into a win instead of a mistake 17:56 - Why discovery matters even when it is not the planned outcome 18:53 - The real fear behind wanting proof you are a good mom 20:47 - Why parents cry in the booth 22:04 - Why so many parents want to start even earlier 24:23 - Seeing more dads in the booth this summer 27:40 - Gentle parenting as boundaries plus love 29:00 - The moment with Tegan and the banana pancakes 30:43 - Grandparents showing up to help and find solutions 32:07 - The “is this a complete curriculum?” question 33:16 - Why repeating the same setup a year later works 35:12 - Watching play evolve into new learning on its own 37:41 - The real goal is the playing, not finishing the activity 39:36 - Using play-based activities just to survive the day 41:23 - How play becomes spontaneous and self-directed over time 42:52 - Play continuing into writing, journaling, and teen interests 45:25 - “It’s okay” and “good enough for today” as takeaways 47:22 - Conference plans for 2027 and beyond Stop measuring your child against other children and notice who they are instead.Choose one activity and watch how your child naturally uses it before adding more.Use play as a foundation, not a checklist.When frustration rises, remind yourself and your child: it’s okay.Try the phrase “good enough for today” when perfection pressure shows up.

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    BEFORE BIG: A guide to development, connection, and play in the first three years

    Before Big: A guide to development, connection, and play in the first three years. In this special edition of the PlaySkill podcast, host Ava Davis interviews child development specialist Kathy about her new book, Before Big. The conversation dives into the challenges parents face during the critical early years of childhood and how to navigate them with confidence and creativity. ## Understanding the Quiet Struggle of Parenting Kathy reveals that the period from birth to three years is often filled with stress and uncertainty for new parents. Many struggle to connect with their babies and feel overwhelmed by societal pressures to achieve early academic milestones. Kathy emphasizes that parents need guidance to make the most of these precious years, rather than viewing them as a burden. ## The Significance of the Phrase "Big Can Wait" The title of Kathy's book, Before Big signifies the importance of cherishing childhood before children grow up. Kathy insists that the early years should be about exploration, play, and allowing children to be curious, rather than rushing them into structured learning. This mindset fosters creativity and helps children develop a strong foundation for future learning. ## The Role of Play in Child Development Kathy discusses the critical role of play in a child's development. She argues that rigid schedules and early academic pressures can harm a child's brain development. Instead, allowing children to engage in open-ended play nurtures their cognitive, social, and emotional growth. Kathy highlights that play is the foundation for learning and can lead to better outcomes in areas like math and science later on. ## Transitioning from Manager to Observer Kathy encourages parents to shift their mindset from being managers of their child's play to being observers. By stepping back and allowing children to explore on their own, parents can gain valuable insights into their child's interests and needs. This observational approach helps parents support their children more effectively and fosters independence. ## Key Takeaways - Embrace the early years as a time for exploration and play, rather than rushing into academics. - Allow children to develop their creativity and curiosity. - Understand that play is essential for brain development and future learning. - Shift from managing play to observing, which provides insights into a child's needs and interests. Kathy's insights in this episode reveal that the journey of parenting is filled with challenges, but by focusing on the early years and understanding the significance of play, parents can nurture their children's development effectively. For more on this topic, check out Kathy's book, Before Big, and explore how you can make the most of these formative years. You can buy your copy of Before Big at kathyeggers.com/store or from your favorite book retailer. The Play Skillfully podcast will be back in August with a new season!

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Welcome to Play Skillfully, a podcast from the author of the award-winning curriculum A Year of Playing Skillfully and parent favorite, The Homegrown Preschooler. Join Kathy Eggers as she shares the latest research on the role of play and provides practical ideas to assist you in cultivating wonder and connection with your children. Kathy is the author of A Year of Playing Skillfully, A Summer of Playing Skillfully, The Homegrown Preschooler and 101 Easy, Wacky, Crazy Activities for Young Children.