Podcast Benomtad

Ben Lundy

Open, friendly, philosophical discussions about folktales, society, culture, and wisdom.  

  1. 5D AGO

    "Beauty and the Beast:" The Need for Beauty

    A rich merchant with three sons and three daughters– the eldest daughters hold out on marriage to a Duke or Earl, but the youngest, aptly-named Beauty, does so to stay with her father a few more years.  The merchant falls in his fortunes, and they have to move to the country.  The men apply themselves to husbandry and tillage, and Beauty to housework, but the eldest stay lazy.   One day, the merchant gets a letter about a ship arriving with effects of his and he sets off, asking his daughters what they would like.  The eldest ask for goods of luxury, but Beauty only for a simple rose.  When the merchant arrived at port, they went to law with him about the goods, and he left poor as before.   Glad, however, to return to his family, the merchant got lost in the woods as a storm brewed.  He spied a castle lit from top to bottom in the distance and took shelter there.  Strangely, the beautiful manor was unoccupied, although a large meal was set out.  He ate and eventually began to explore the house and its luxurious apartments.  Sleep overtook him in one of them.   In the morning he was delighted to see arbours outside, and went to them, dining on chocolate mysteriously set out for him on the way.  Remembering Beauty’s gift request, he took a rose, but then a ferocious beast appeared and set on him.  For his abuse of hospitality, he would die, but the merchant pleaded with the Beast, mentioning his daughters.  The Beast said to return with the daughter, who must willingly enter into marriage with him.  He was allowed to leave with a gold-laden chest.   Despondent, the merchant returned home.  The sisters blamed Beauty for her gift, and the brothers wanted to kill the beast.  However, the merchant knew they did not stand a chance, and Beauty would not hear of her father’s going back without her.   Beauty, despairing, was visited by a fine lady in her dreams the first night.  The lady said she was pleased with Beauty’s reasons for staying there, and that she would be rewarded.  Beauty lived at the castle, dining alone with beautiful music and books, and not seeing her suitor until he appeared at nine every night.  She was horrified by his appearance, but over time she began to have affection for  him, and to look forward to his visits.  She would not consent to his nuptial offer, however, and when she saw in a magic mirror that her father was sick with longing for her, she asked to return home for a week’s visit.  Beast consented, but warned her he might die of grief should she not return in time.  He gave her a ring to lay on her bedside before sleep.   Beauty woke up back at home, finding her sisters have been married off and her brothers gone to the army.  She is surprised at the trunk of clothes near her bed.  Her sisters came for a visit, but when the week was up they conspired and feigned tears to make her stay longer, thinking the beast would devour her in rage at her tardiness.  She consented, but worried after the Beast and one day dreamed of him sprawled out on the lawn.  After an additional week, she lay the ring at her bedside and was joyful to wake up in the palace.   She could not find the beast, however, and was despondent when she found him outside as in her dream.  She consented to marry him, and he became a handsome prince.  He’d been transformed by a fairy and was not allowed to tell the conditions of his liberation.  Beauty was overjoyed to find her family living in the castle, but her sisters were turned into stone for their envy and malice by the same lady who’d appeared to Beauty in her dreams.     Please join us as we read and discuss this English translation of Beaumont’s “Beauty and the Beast,” a story about virtue and vice, just desserts, and judgment, and the transformative power of beauty.   Lumsden’s “Beauty and the Beast:” https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Beauty_and_the_Beast_(Lumsden_and_Son) 00:00 Introduction 00:43 Brief Meditation 05:43 Reading of Lumsden’s 1820 version 39:28 Ideal Feminine Virtue 41:15 Class in this Story 42:30 The Youngest is Prettiest 44:18 Beauty is the Only Complete Person 46:15 Difference between this story and “Cupid and Psyche” 49:20 The Empty, Ugly Palace 57:14 Why are Beauty’s Sisters Transformed into Statues? 58:45 The Beast Lacks Wit 59:45 The Significance of the Rose 1:03:31 The Power of not Being Deceived by Appearances   The full video episode: https://youtu.be/G3AhWHN4Gyc?si=kJxXDtlQT7Q3rv0c   Audio episode: https://benomtad.podbean.com/e/a-fairy-tale-of-a-good-but-endangered-boy/   The Podcast Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMIlJwXEK2vqfEOVgfclRgZNXO4boyP3T   The Episode Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMIlJwXEK2vq-TnaienDlJJ1ZdTknAqVn   For more in this podcast, please go to: Podbean: https://benomtad.podbean.com Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/podcast-benomtad/id1748320863 YouTube: https://m.youtube.com/@scissorsandpaper/videos Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4kJPGlaJjGVyLa9AKhci6t?si=8XXrX9FUT3CU71reCfA5kQ X: https://x.com/Benomtad Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/benomtad   I plan to conduct more interviews with various guests, so please check back later for those.

    1h 7m
  2. FEB 9

    A Fairy Tale of A Good but Endangered Boy

    VonSchönwerth’s “The Knight’s Sash” is a story about an intrepid son without a father, who continually does his duty, eventually wins love and devotion.  We summarize and then discuss the story. A hunter’s widow and her son, Hans, were always wandering around, but they espied a castle in the forest, and the giant living there eventually married his mother.  He loved hunting, and one day he saw a tree with no branches, and a knight’s sash at the top that he got.  Written on it was: “Whoever puts me on will have superhuman strength.”  He shot a deer and carried it home.  The giant and the mother started worrying about the boy’s strength, and the giant feigned illness and they told Hans the only cure was lioness's milk. Hans went to a lioness in a nearby cave, who was standing in a submissive gesture, and he threw away his weapons and embraced her.  She followed him home and his parents cooked up another mission.   Not far away, a giant’s castle supposedly had apples growing on its grounds that would cure his stepfather.  The giant was out robbing and looting, and Hans picked some apples, and then broke into the castle and found a princess tied up, stark naked.  He started a bonfire in the yard and that attracted soldiers from her country, who offered to take Hans with them, but he refused, for his father was sick. Hans’ mother noticed the sash, and she prepared a bath for him so he would take it off.  The giant poked out Hans’ eyes and threw him out of the castle.  Hans traveled with his lioness, and almost died of thirst, but the lioness jumped on the cart of a passing wine merchant and revived him with the wine.  The merchant took Hans to the city, and the princess noticed him from her window, and she ran down, embraced him, and took him to an oculist who made him artificial eyes.  Her father the king was happy to have a successor, but after the wedding, the people rioted, not wanting to be led by a blind man.   Hans and his wife wandered.  One day they came to a brook, and they witnessed two mice, one blind being led by the other, who washed the blind one’s eyes, and it regained its sight.  The princess did the same for Hans, and they returned joyfully to the town.  They lived happily until Hans died, whereupon the lioness lay down in his grave until she too died.   00:00 Introduction 00:43 Short Breathing Meditation 04:55 Summary of “The Knight’s Sash” 12:05 A Short Story Chock full of Information and Drama 14:07 A Giant Threatened by Hans 15:56 Hans, Son of a Hunter 18:05 Hans and His Mother Find a Castle in the Woods  25:00 Nonviolent Hans 25:54 A Giant and a Bad Father 27:50 A Bad Father Threatened by Hans 32:14 Maturing, Dutiful Hans, is Thrown Out 37:53 Hans, Guileless with His Parents, Gets a Lion  45:50 Why Aren’t the Princess and the Lioness Ever Seen Together? 47:56 The Marauding Giant and His Dead Father 51:13 The Tale’s Good Father & Hans’ Brokenness 52:45 Hans is Helped by his Wife 54:34 The Stark Naked Woman & Hans’ Bonfire 1:00:45 Hans Finally SEES at the Story’s End 1:03:30 Hans’ Power from Lowly Creatures   The full video episode: https://youtu.be/uwukpEQrSys   The Podcast Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMIlJwXEK2vqfEOVgfclRgZNXO4boyP3T   The Episode Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMIlJwXEK2vq-TnaienDlJJ1ZdTknAqVn   For more in this podcast, please go to: Podbean: https://benomtad.podbean.com Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/podcast-benomtad/id1748320863 YouTube: https://m.youtube.com/@scissorsandpaper/videos Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4kJPGlaJjGVyLa9AKhci6t?si=8XXrX9FUT3CU71reCfA5kQ X: https://x.com/Benomtad Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/benomtad   I plan to conduct more interviews with various guests, so please check back later for those.   Clip Intro Music “A Baroque Letter” - Aaron Kenny

    1h 8m
  3. FEB 4

    Acceptance of Folly & Death

    LL and I do a short breathing meditation, then a zoom out contemplation.  After checking in about recent challenges, we discuss Marcus Aurelius’s Meditations, Book 12, Entry 36, the last in the book, seemingly shortly before his own death, which discusses one’s place in the cosmos and the relation to death.     Man, thou hast been a citizen in this great state [the world];121 what difference does it make to thee whether for five years [or three]? for that which is conformable to the laws is just for all. Where is the hardship then, if no tyrant nor yet an unjust judge sends thee away from the state, but nature who brought thee into it? the same as if a prætor who has employed an actor dismisses him from the stage.122⁠—“But I have not finished the five acts, but only three of them.”⁠—Thou sayest well, but in life the three acts are the whole drama; for what shall be a complete drama is determined by him who was once the cause of its composition, and now of its dissolution: but thou art the cause of neither. Depart then satisfied, for he also who releases thee is satisfied.   Gratitude to Standard eBooks for the translation: https://standardebooks.org/ebooks/marcus-aurelius/meditations/george-long/text/single-page#book-12   00:00  Introduction 00:47 Invitation to do an Exercise Snack 01:23 Brief Breathing Meditation 08:07 Zoom Out Contemplation 16:02 Reflection on Zooming Out 18:10 Spirituality Without Dogma?  22:23 Daily Spirituality Despite Bad Decisions 33:20 Anger is Usually a Secondary Emotion 35:17 Magical Thinking in Difficult Situations 40:50 Marcus Aurelius’ “Meditations,” Last Entry: “The god who lets you go is at peace with you.” 48:27 Coming to Terms with Death & Chuang-Tzu’s Dialogue with a Skull 53:37 Near-Death Experiences (NDE) & Acceptance   The full video episode: https://youtu.be/Vz5ZMbFuMZ0   The Podcast Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMIlJwXEK2vqfEOVgfclRgZNXO4boyP3T   The Episode Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMIlJwXEK2vq-TnaienDlJJ1ZdTknAqVn   For more in this podcast, please go to: Podbean: https://benomtad.podbean.com Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/podcast-benomtad/id1748320863 YouTube: https://m.youtube.com/@scissorsandpaper/videos Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4kJPGlaJjGVyLa9AKhci6t?si=8XXrX9FUT3CU71reCfA5kQ X: https://x.com/Benomtad Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/benomtad   I plan to conduct more interviews with various guests, so please check back later for those.   Clip Intro Music “A Baroque Letter” - Aaron Kenny

    57 min
  4. JAN 21

    "The Gold Children," by the Brothers Grimm

    A fisherman catches a gold fish, which makes a deal with him: he’ll have a nice big house if he lets the fish go, on the condition he tell no one how he got the house.  The man objects: and what’ll I have to eat?  The fish says the cupboards will be full.   Back home, his wife, decked out in finery, itches with curiosity, and he eventually tells her, and their house disappears.  This happens once more, but on the third time, the fish has the man take the fish home, cut him up, and distribute him, making two gold children, horses, and lilies.     His gold children, itching to leave, are cautioned by their worried father.  “I must and will go!”     They come to an inn, where they are jeered at.  One returns home and the other goes on.  He comes to a forest, which is thick with thieves, and the people warn him.  “I must and will go on!”     Both horse and man clothed in bearskin, he ventures into the darkness.  Within, he hears voices on either side of a bush, debating whether to rob him, but they allow the seemingly worthless victim to go on.     Out of the forest now, he meets the most beautiful woman he has ever seen, and asks her to marry him.  She agrees, and they are betrothed.  But then her father returns, and seeing Gold Man’s rough accoutrement, he intends to kill him, but his daughter intercedes.  Still, he must peek behind the curtain, and the next morning sees a magnificent gold man beside discarded bearskins.     But the happy husband, following a dream, decides to hunt a stag.  His worried wife objects.  “I must and will go on!”     In the woods again, the stag just escapes his aim, but a curious cottage catches his attention.  At the door, a witch asks him what he is doing there so late, and her little dog yips at him incessantly.  He threatens it, and she touches him with her forefinger, turning him to stone.   Back home, the other gold man sees the gold lily droop, and he goes out to save his kin.  At the cottage, he threatens to shoot the witch, and she touches the statue with her forefinger, returning him to human form.  The long-lost brothers embrace and return to their respective homes, and live happily the rest of their lives.   The full video episode: https://youtu.be/_yr9eluzFtY   The Podcast Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMIlJwXEK2vqfEOVgfclRgZNXO4boyP3T   The Episode Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMIlJwXEK2vq-TnaienDlJJ1ZdTknAqVn   For more in this podcast, please go to: Podbean: https://benomtad.podbean.com Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/podcast-benomtad/id1748320863 YouTube: https://m.youtube.com/@scissorsandpaper/videos Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4kJPGlaJjGVyLa9AKhci6t?si=8XXrX9FUT3CU71reCfA5kQ X: https://x.com/Benomtad Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/benomtad   I plan to conduct more interviews with various guests, so please check back later for those. 00:00 Reading of the Grimm’s “The Gold Children” 11:00 The Wife’s Arrogant Restlessness 12:23 The Father-in-Law Doesn’t Kill the Golden Opportunity 13:49 The Gold Fish’s Sacrifice 15:45 The Fisherman, and Adam and Eve 17:30 Similarities and Differences to “The Fisherman and His Wife” 18:08 The Golden Tulips, Horses, & Children 19:23 The Golden Children Go out into the World 20:15 The Golden Brothers Separate 21:15 The Dangerous Journey 21:48 The Bearskin 28:58 The Father’s Proof 30:15 The Golden Fish is the Story’s Throughline 30:41 Losing the Thread 39:00 Dr. Goldchild and Mr. Goldchild 41:15 The Grimm’s Dreams & Immovable Stone 45:00 The Timid Brother’s Boldness

    47 min
  5. JAN 9

    Ignoring the Feminine and Dragged Down to the Depths (Clip)

    In the fairy tale time logic, the fisherman's son practically becomes a priest after he is born, and after he leaves the house he doesn't see his parents again.  But he is not done with the watery bargain he is doomed within from birth.   When he makes it to the castle, he is shown in royal garment, signalling he is ready to be the heir to the kingdom.  But he is still not united with the feminine--either of his wife, the princess, or the mermaid he is owed to.   Now when he goes out hunting, in spite of his wife's warnings, he is dragged underwater by the cthonic feminine mermaid.  (He also forgets his mother's warnings.)   And with that, the contract made by his father is fulfilled. A “like” and “subscribe” really helps us out!  Feed the playful beast with your comments!    For the full video episode: https://youtu.be/da9FBQpg8JI Audio episode: https://benomtad.podbean.com/e/von-schonwerth-s-the-red-silk-ribbon/   The Podcast Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMIlJwXEK2vqfEOVgfclRgZNXO4boyP3T The Episode Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMIlJwXEK2vq-TnaienDlJJ1ZdTknAqVn For more in this podcast, please go to: Podbean: https://benomtad.podbean.com Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/podcast-benomtad/id1748320863 YouTube: https://m.youtube.com/@scissorsandpaper/videos Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4kJPGlaJjGVyLa9AKhci6t?si=8XXrX9FUT3CU71reCfA5kQ X: https://x.com/Benomtad Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/benomtad About our guest: Ian Reclusado is currently off exploring the poetic wilds of psychology, neuroscience, and spirituality.  He also offers guidance services for those interested in delving into their own inner wilderness. You can find his weekly dispatches at www.thekindknife.com or follow him on Instagram: @ian_reclusado I plan to conduct more interviews with various guests, so please check back later for those.

    6 min
  6. JAN 2

    The Brothers Grimm’s Little Red Riding Hood

    “Little Red Cap:” A little girl, beloved by her grandmother and known for her red cap, is sent by her mother to bring her grandmother a meal.  Little Cap assures her mother she’ll follow all directions, and goes off on the trail.     She is not afraid of the wolf when she sees him, and he peppers her with questions, learning of her destination, where he’ll get two victims.  They walk together and he points out the natural life around them she is not paying attention to.  She raises her eyes and runs after nosegay after nosegay off the path for her grandmother, and the wolf runs ahead of her.   At G-ma’s house, the wolf pretends he’s Cap, gaining entry into grandmother’s cottage, devours the old woman and disguises himself as her.  Little Cap, arms full of flowers, is surprised to see the door open, crying “good morning” as her mother had admonished, and walks in.  The famous dialogue proceeds, with the little girl noticing the wolf’s features, crescendoing into his devouring her.     Wolf, sated, snores loudly, drawing the attention of the Woodsman, who goes to check on grandmother.  He snips open the carnivore’s stomach and his meal pops out.  Little Cap fetches stones, and they fill the wolf’s belly with them and he falls dead.  Grandmother is revived with the cake and wine her granddaughter brought.   Another time, Cap took cakes to her grandmother and was approached by another wolf, and they shut the old Greybeard out after she arrived, and he lurked.  Grandmother got Red Cap to carry sausage water outside and pour it into the trough, and the wolf, smelling it, slipped off the roof and drowned in the trough.  And Little Red Cap was free of the wolf menace.   00:00 Introduction 01:05 Little Red Riding Hood Reading 08:59 Beloved Little Girl Goes Out to Visit Grandmother 10:23 Mother Sends Riding Hood Off 12:10 Naïve Hood 14:21 The Wolf’s Knowledge 16:04 Finally, Red Cap Feels Unease 17:33 Stories End with Her Being Eaten 20:02 Crafty Red Riding Hood 20:51 A Didactic Tale 22:20 Wolf vs Red Cap 22:52 Red Cap’s Innocence and the Wolf’s Lust 26:08 The Wolf’s Sinning 28:05 The Hunter vs. the Wolf 28:38 The Female Characters Weaknesses 30:01 This Tale Warned You 32:50 The Second Wolf & Sausages 34:30 The Black & White Contrasts of this Story Heighten its Drama   (A Clip from the Episode “The Red Silk Ribbon” by Franx Xavier Von Schönwerth)   A “like” and “subscribe” really helps us out!       For the full video episode: https://youtu.be/mAiR-CU4Qtw   The Podcast Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMIlJwXEK2vqfEOVgfclRgZNXO4boyP3T   The Episode Playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLMIlJwXEK2vq-TnaienDlJJ1ZdTknAqVn   For more in this podcast, please go to: Podbean: https://benomtad.podbean.com Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/podcast-benomtad/id1748320863 YouTube: https://m.youtube.com/@scissorsandpaper/videos Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4kJPGlaJjGVyLa9AKhci6t?si=8XXrX9FUT3CU71reCfA5kQ X: https://x.com/Benomtad Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/benomtad   I plan to conduct more interviews with various guests, so please check back later for those.

    35 min

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