The Love Agenda

  1. Aug 17

    Actionable Tips | How to Approach Women Without Being Weird (w/Eric)

    Rejection, real-life dating, and how normal guys can start conversations that actually lead somewhere. Rejection is the thing most guys fear,  my friend Eric - who coached men (yes, mostly engineers and attorneys) on style, approaching women, and starting conversations that get you a date.  We are gonna share the effective ways of approaching girls in public without any 'backlash', and how to get a girlfriend in the most regular places in daily life! We get specific about real-world approach settings. And, good news - you don’t need magic lines!  We talk through a practical mindset shift for dating in real life, and what it takes the edge off so the next approach feels 10x easier. We also unpack the reality that dating is a numbers game,  and how to make you come across more relaxed and emotionally fluent. If you are a man and want approachable, actionable dating advice on HOW TO GET A GIRL'S NUMBER BY TALKING TO THEM IN PUBLIC, or a girl who is interested in a clearer view of what guys experience when they approach, this one is for you.  📝 Take Relationship Assessments Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  2. Aug 4

    How to Handle Conflict & Find Love Without Settling (Even In Your Late 40s) w/Nancy D.

    Conflict doesn’t ruin most relationships, avoidance does. We sit down with Dr. Nancy Dome, best-selling author and communication expert, to get radically practical about how to handle hard conversations without shutting down, blowing up, or walking away the moment it gets uncomfortable.  If you’ve ever replayed an argument for days, swallowed your feelings, or regretted what you said in the heat of the moment, this one gives you a better way. We break down Nancy’s compassionate dialogue framework and the RIR protocol: recognize, interrupt, repair.  Recognize is about naming what you feel and noticing the “cost of silence” on your body, your mood, and your choices.  Interrupt is where you trade assumptions for clarity, using questions that reveal intent, impact, and meaning.  Repair is the part most people skip: rebuilding trust, setting a clean boundary, creating a new agreement, or admitting that letting go is the healthiest repair available. Nancy also shares her personal journey of being single most of her life and finding her husband at 48, plus what “not settling” looks like when you still want deep love and real partnership.  We talk authenticity during the honeymoon phase, deal breakers, self-love, aging, and the exact sentence you can use this week to start a hard conversation with more compassion and less defensiveness. Subscribe for more honest tools for modern love, share this with a friend who avoids conflict, and leave a review to help us bring more great content to you! 💌 Check out Nancy Dome Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  3. Jul 23

    The Unexpected Truth About Why Western Men Are Falling for Asian Women (w/Xiaoli)

    Tea sits down with veteran matchmaker Xiao Li (Shelly), who has spent more than a decade helping Asian and Western singles meet, date, and build marriages across the Bay Area, LA, and New York. Shelly breaks down the most common misconceptions Western men have about Asian women and the assumptions Asian women bring about Western men, especially around first-date physical boundaries, planning, and what “generous” is supposed to look like.  We talk about what modern Asian women want now, and get real about the hard stuff people avoid like commitment timing, ghosting, saving face with family, and money habits that can turn into long-term conflict if you never name them. If you’re dating outside your culture for the first time or you’re already in an intercultural relationship and want it to last, press play and take notes.  🧧 Meet Xiaoli Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  4. Jul 4

    A Former Dominatrix Reveals How To Open-up A Conversation About Kinks And Fantasies With Your Partner. (w/Amanda D.)

    The fastest way to kill intimacy isn’t “bad sex” it’s the silence around it. Tea sits down with Amanda, a certified sexologist, intimacy coach, and former professional dominatrix, to talk about the part of dating and relationships most people overthink and under-discuss: sexual communication. If you’ve ever wanted to ask for something new but worried it would sound awkward, risky, or “too much,” this conversation gives you a clear path forward. We get real about why sex is one of the hardest topics to talk about even in strong relationships, and how silence quietly grows into distance. With Amanda’s guidance, we share a practical way to bring up desires, handle boundaries, and protect trust while dating, married, or anywhere in between.  📋 Amanda's Worksheet ☎️ Book A Call With Amanda  Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  5. Jun 18

    The Truth and Facts About Dating Single Parents: Priorities, Challenges x 10 Essential Tips (With Pat H.)

    Dating a single parent can feel like stepping into a world with invisible rules, until you realize the rules are just real life: kids, custody, work, and a limited amount of time. I’m joined by Pat Hankin, co-author of Field Guide for Single Parents, whose insights come from years of data and patterns gathered from a massive single parent community. We get honest about what makes dating a single mom or single dad different, and what “support” should actually look like when you’re not trying to become the savior of someone’s family system. We talk through the practical problems that derail promising connections,  and how to make dating work. We also dig into online dating safety and why some single mothers avoid dating.  If you’re considering a relationship with a single parent, you’ll leave with clearer boundaries, better questions to ask, and a calmer way to judge what’s actually a red flag versus normal parenting logistics.  📕The Field Guide for Single Parents by Pat Hankin 📘The Book of Beautiful Questions by Warren Berger Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  6. Jun 4

    The Surprisingly Simple Tips Fix and Save Your Communication Breakdowns (w/Sandy G.)

    Most relationship communication advice fixates on what to say, but the real breakthrough comes earlier than that: understanding what’s driving you. W I sit down with Sandy Gerber, emotional intelligence expert, to unpack why certain people feel effortless to connect with and why other conversations seem to go off the rails no matter how “careful” your words are. Sandy breaks down her model of successful communication,  and we talk about the fundamentals that shape everything from dating choices to everyday friction, and tips on how you can instantly reduce confusion, resentment, and mind reading. We also get into nonverbal communication and first impressions. Sandy shares “connection cues” like mirroring posture and tone, watching where someone’s feet point, and how to look more approachable when you’re nervous. Then we move into emotional regulation tools for high-stakes moments. We map out the necessary conversations and how to make conflict resolution cleaner and kinder. If you want healthier relationships, better communication skills, and more confident dating, this episode is for you. Find Sandy Gerber  Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  7. May 20

    Beyond the "Nice Guy": How To Build Authentic Confidence That Attracts (w/Jason L.)

    If you’ve ever wondered why “being a good guy” still isn’t leading to the relationship you want, this conversation puts language to the problem and a roadmap to the solution. I sit down with Jason Lange, a men’s embodiment coach and certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coach, to talk about the quiet ways men lose themselves in dating: people-pleasing, hiding desire, avoiding tension, and trying to earn love by staying “easy” instead of being real. We break down Nice Guy Syndrome, the “man box” pressure to be invulnerable, and why so many men live from the neck up, then feel confused when partners ask for emotional presence. You’ll hear the difference between domination and relational leadership, plus a surprisingly useful tango metaphor for what attunement actually looks like. We also get practical about modern dating dynamics: how clear planning builds trust, why emotional leadership matters (especially around defining the relationship), and how men’s groups create the brotherhood, accountability, and nervous system resilience that makes intimacy easier at home.  If you want a healthier form of masculinity that includes both strength and heart, this one is for you. It is also a great episode for women to understand the challenges men face in dating! Find Jason here Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  8. May 6

    The Intentional Alpha: From Financial Freedom to the Chaos of Modern Love (w/Ed)

    I sit down with Ed, a Berkeley and Stanford trained engineer who had a startup exit ($8 Billion project), retired early, and is now rebuilding love after a long marriage while staying on great terms with his ex-wife. He is thoughtful, active, and honest about what it is like to re-enter online dating in midlife with real intention. We get into the stuff people usually avoid: when chemistry turns physical fast, how sex boundaries can protect trust, and why rushing into sex often clouds judgment for both men and women. We also talk about the modern breakup problem, ghosting and ending relationships through text, and how conflict avoidance shows up as avoidant attachment behaviors. We discuss self-awareness, the perfect label, anxious attachment and communications. Ed also shares the most surprising tools he is using right now: an AI dating coach and an attachment-focused AI journaling app that helped him uncover deeper patterns through Internal Family Systems style prompts.  We close with practical relationship advice. If you want more clarity in dating after divorce, better communication, and stronger emotional intelligence, you will get a lot from this conversation. Resources: 📗 Eight Dates by John Gottman Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  9. Apr 22

    How A Great Matchmaker Sees Compatibility, Insights From Matching Thousands of Couples (w/Dara Rahill)

    Today, I am joined by Dara Rahill, a former top-ranked premium matchmaker at the country's largest matchmaking platform, and now the founder of Dara Rae Matchmaking, to reveal what actually predicts a healthy long-term relationship when you look beyond photos, height filters, and perfect-on-paper stats.  We dig into the behind-the-scenes reality of modern dating:  “checklists”, dating profiles, and how dating app culture amplifies snap judgments.  Dara explains how real compatibility is assessed, plus the intuitive “art” a matchmaker develops after interviewing thousands of singles. We also unpack why even highly sought-after people sometimes choose high-end matchmaking services. One of the most eye-opening parts is who can be hardest to match and why. We also challenge the myth of instant chemistry, exploring how attraction can grow through repeated exposure. If you’re tired of guessing, lower-stakes clarity starts here. Great episode for both men and women. 🎀 Dara Rae Matchmaking 🫶 Dara Rae Instagram Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  10. Apr 7

    What Dating Bay Area Engineers Really Feels Like (w/Violina)

    Dating a Bay Area engineer can look perfect on paper… but feel unexpectedly lonely in real life. In this episode, we get brutally honest about what it’s actually like dating engineers in Silicon Valley—the parts that feel safe and stable, and the parts that quietly hurt. Violina is back, and we’re sharing real stories, unpacking patterns we kept running into, and reflecting on the moments that led to some big realizations. We also talk about the green flags—what draws so many people to engineers in the first place—and why those same traits can sometimes create disconnect in relationships. This is about understanding what works, what doesn’t, and what actually matters in the long run. If you’ve ever felt like you’re dating someone who tries to debug emotions instead of actually feeling them, this conversation will hit home. Whether you’re dating in the Bay Area, seeing a software engineer, or you are an engineer wanting to understand how this dynamic can land, this episode offers clarity—and some practical questions you’ll wish you had asked earlier. Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  11. Mar 15

    Bay Area Alert!! A Growing Number of Men Are Quietly Avoiding Dating Here - Why? (w/Mike)

    In this episode, we explore dating situations in the Bay Area, why some single men are not feeling great about it, and what happens when someone changes their dating “ecosystem.”  My guest Mike—a thoughtful, twice-divorced tech professional who took five years to reset after his marriages—shares how he approaches dating today. We talk about the reality of swiping, slow replies, and the quiet chase for the “top 1%,” and how these dynamics can make dating feel harder than it needs to be. Mike also shares an interesting experiment: changing his dating locations from San Francisco to places like Chicago and Southeast Asia. Along the way, we unpack what truly predicts compatibility beyond checklists.  This conversation invites both men and women to rethink their strategy: maybe the issue isn’t that good partners don’t exist, but that the environment—and how we approach it—needs a reset. Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  12. Mar 6

    Where Are the Good Men? Here’s What Real Masculinity Actually Looks Like (w/Mo)

    What does real masculinity actually look like today? In this episode, Tea sits down with her friend Mo to talk about the kind of strength that doesn’t need to be loud—quiet confidence, emotional steadiness, and showing up when it truly matters.  From caring for family to navigating modern dating, Mo shares what are some of the qualities matter far more than chemistry or grand gestures. We also unpack the idea of being a “provider,” beyond money—into planning, emotional presence, and responsibility.  In a culture that often rewards intensity and adrenaline, this conversation challenges your checklists and asks a simple question: Are the good men really missing, or are we overlooking the ones who are steady, calm, and consistent? This episode is worth listening to for both men and women.  Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  13. Feb 23

    High-Quality Beauty With a Grounded Checklist—The Type Of Girl You've Been Complaining That Doesn't Exisit Anymore (w/Violina)

    Men often complain that Bay Area women are “too much”—too picky, too hard to impress, too into billionaires. But this episode may just challenge that narrative. Meet Violina: a globally raised, Thai-born professional whose beauty, grace, clarity, and emotional maturity redefine what it means to be a high-quality woman in today’s dating world. In our conversation, she opens up about what actually matters in a partner—revealing the kind of love that lands, the underrated traits that outshine charm, and how empathy, faith, and integrity shape her dating choices. We explore: Non-negotiables that make relationships lastUnderrated green flags in men that women actually valueThe boundaries that women should set clearly in datingHow emotional intelligence > performative charmWhat most men get wrong on dating appsHow to communicate across cultures and love languagesHow stereotypes about Asian women—and “strong” women—need to evolveViolina’s perspective is honest, grounded, and refreshingly direct. This conversation offers practical insights for men who want to be more intentional and more successful in dating. From her candid take on race and sensitivity to her belief in high standards without ego, this is a masterclass in how to approach love from a place of purpose. Ready to raise your dating game—with more clarity, less guesswork, and real emotional fluency? This episode is your field guide. 💌 Interested in Violina? Apply to date her here. Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  14. Feb 13

    What Kind of Woman Makes a Guy Feel Like He’s Hit the Jackpot? A Story About A Couple Played Zero Games From the Start! (w/Steve)

    Turns out, the strongest relationships are built in the small, everyday choices—calling back the same day, asking for the number with a shaking hand, raising the hard topics early, and repairing fully when it gets messy. Steve joins us to share how clear intentions, shared faith, and no-games honesty turned an easy spark into a marriage he’s proud to wake up and choose. He opens up about navigating an age difference, the childfree decision, values alignment, and his checklists. He shares how trust grew between his then-girlfriend and him.  He shares their “seven-hour talk” approach — a tool that helps them to slow down, validate each other, de-escalate conflict, and work through challenges as a team. He breaks down the habits that keep them close, and he also names the traps many fall into—overweighting looks, ignoring red flags, and dating for potential instead of alignment. If you want to hit a 'jackpot' like Steve does, this conversation is worth your attention! Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  15. Feb 2

    The ROI of Love: The Compounding Power of Choosing Each Other — 25 Years of Practical Wisdom (w/Pie)

    What if the biggest upgrade in love isn’t a grand gesture—but a brave sentence said at the right time? In this episode, we sit down with Pie—a nurse, a seasoned relationship wellness coach, mom of two, and partner of 25 years—to unpack the everyday choices that turn relationships from guesswork into something steady, grounded, and joyful. Blending professional insight with lived experience, Pie brings the kind of clarity that only comes from both studying relationships and practicing them over decades. From the very first phone call to the hard conversations after a fight, we explore how timing, tone, and kindness shape every stage of real connection. We start with the foundation: knowing yourself, naming your needs, and understanding how and when to communicate with your partner. Pie shares practical ways to stop emotional spirals, explains why tone matters just as much as words, and offers simple tips to instantly restore respect. For modern daters, we break down realistic ways to build real chemistry and intimacy. Attraction, we learn, grows from emotional safety, equality, and consistent effort. Inside long-term love, intimacy is maintenance—not magic. We get tactical about keeping the spark alive while juggling work and parenting. We also draw clear lines around non-negotiables when choosing a partner, what real repair requires when trust is broken, and why boundaries only work when they come with consequences. We even unpack the difference between support and illusion—touching on “fantasies” versus “ultimatums.” And if you’re thinking long-term, Pie shares what truly predicts durability: how your partner fights, repairs, and shows up for family. Patterns matter—because they repeat. If you’re ready to trade mind-reading for real conversation and build a love that can weather different seasons, this episode is for you. Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  16. Jan 23

    How To Date A Rockstar Without Getting Played By The Groupies (w/Randy)

    Dating gets easier when you stop pretending you’re not afraid and start telling the truth. We sit down with Randy, the magnetic frontman of a long-running Neil Diamond tribute band, to unpack what dating looks like for a self-aware, grounded man who’s not “on the hunt” yet remains genuinely open to connection. He’s divorced, fulfilled, and very clear on his boundaries—and that clarity becomes a compass for anyone navigating midlife love. Randy shares why he prefers women near his age, how shared culture and music deepen attraction, and the real reasons some men seek younger partners, from late fatherhood to legacy. He opens up about contentment after divorce, living alone without loneliness, and how a stable routine can actually make space for surprise. We talk about the tension between love bombing and playing it too cool, why delayed texting is often fear in disguise, and what real interest looks like: responsive messages, low-drama pacing, and planning the next date with intention. We also dive into values as a filter—kindness to service staff, a positive outlook, and the humility to go slow. Love languages come off the page and into real life as we explore quality time, gentle physical touch, and acts of service that feel human, not performative. If you’ve wondered whether emotionally available men still exist, or how to decode midlife dating without cynicism, Randy’s perspective offers both reassurance and a practical playbook. Listen for a thoughtful, honest conversation about autonomy, attraction, and building connection that lasts longer than chemistry. If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs some dating clarity, and leave a quick review to help more people find us. Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  17. Jan 23

    Successful Tech Founder with Traditional Values Who Respects Modern Femininity — Would You Swipe Left? (w/Michael)

    What if the “cold Russian” stereotype is really just a different way of measuring trust? We sit down with Michael, a Russian-born, Israel-raised, Silicon Valley CEO and devoted dad, to unpack how culture, character, and presence shape modern dating. He brings the calm of healthy co-parenting, the thoughtfulness of real chivalry, and the focus of dating one person at a time—no performative games, no juggling six chats for weeks. The conversation starts with divorce done right: transparent communication, shared priorities, and seeing the family like a solar system where the child remains the center. Then we move into cultural nuance: in Russia, strangers start at neutral. Smiles mean something. Gestures like paying for early dates or opening doors come from respect, not control—and Michael adapts to each woman’s comfort, choosing autonomy over rigid roles. When he reenters the dating scene, he strips away the noise of apps: quick coffee in her favorite spot, safety forward, text theater minimized. And then there’s the story you’ll replay in your head: a third-date airport pickup with a limo costume, flowers, and a sign—bold, sweet, and fully intentional. The chemistry was instant, the romance real, and then the cracks appeared: sudden mood swings, trust inconsistencies, hot-cold communication. Michael pressed pause and distilled the lesson with precision: observe longer, define expectations, and don’t let the early rush cancel your logic. His deal breakers are clear—dishonesty, evasive communication, infidelity—while his green flag is beautifully simple: presence. Show up on time, phone down, eyes engaged. If you care about dating with clarity, emotional maturity, and cultural intelligence, this conversation will give you practical frameworks and a renewed sense of hope. Subscribe for more grounded stories, share it with a friend who needs a reframe, and leave a quick review to help more curious daters find us. Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  18. Episode 1

    About The Show

    Hosted by Tongalag Liu (aka Tea), The Dating Chit is a story-driven podcast that slows dating down—cutting through the chaos of swipes and mixed signals. Each episode dives deep into the emotional realities of dating today, featuring emotionally available singles and happy couples who share honest stories, unique archetypes, and meaningful relationship insights. Expect real talk, emotional fluency, and a new kind of clarity—so you can date with knowledge and confidence. Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media

  19. Jan 23

    Effort Over Ego in a Swipe Culture: A Grounded Gen Z Take on Modern Dating (w/Carter)

    Dating doesn’t have to feel like a numbers game or a performance review. Tea sits down with Carter, a grounded Gen Z with “golden retriever energy,” to unpack why connection is harder to find online, how speed dating actually feels from the inside, and what turns a first date into a second. His take is refreshingly grounded: show up in person, stay curious, build confidence through self-awareness, and let effort speak louder than ego. We dig into the gap between how men and women experience dating in their 20s. Carter shares what women tell him they want—more questions, better listening, fewer disappearing acts—and why some men struggle with strong, empowered partners. Instead of chasing control or playing it cool, he suggests a different script: do the inner work, value partnership over performance, and treat communication as the core of attraction. A simple reframe powers everything: ask what and how, not why. “What about that upset you?” invites context. “How did that make you feel?” opens trust. Add real listening, and you’ve got the foundation for a relationship that grows. We also talk love languages and the outsized impact of acts of service. Whether it’s planning a date, opening a door, or bringing a thoughtful surprise, small gestures create emotional safety and momentum. At the same time, boundaries matter—kindness should be offered, not mandated. Carter’s hard-won insight is a balm for daters on the edge of burnout: if the other person doesn’t want to make it work, it won’t. Believe them, let go with grace, and make space for a better fit. If you’re ready to move from isolation to connection, this conversation offers practical tools and a mindset shift you can use right away. 📚 Links to books:  “The Four Agreements” https://amzn.to/4sDFR4w “How To Die” https://amzn.to/4px3Mzy Share your thoughts, or send in questions📝 Support the show 💖 Meet the host - Tea 🎯 The mission and ecosystem of The Love Agenda ☀️Apply to be a guest 🙋🏻‍♀️ Send in your relationship questions ☕️Take me out for a virtual coffee  ✨Social Media